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Attractiveness of assholes vs female pussy
phillygwm replied to ktopper's topic in General Discussion
I'm a Gold Star gay but, of course, I've seen my share of pussy in videos etc. For me, it depends. As much as I enjoy fucking, I don't usually find assholes particularly attractive (asses, yes) and never really understood the extreme closeups you see on BBRT etc. Unless there is cum gushing out, of course 🙂 I actually find a vagina with small labia attractive. Beef curtains, not so much. -
It wouldn't be "too much." Most of us have seen locked guys. There will be some who aren't into you but if there are enough guys there, you should stay busy. PERSONALLY, I might choose to play with someone else. I just like playing with a guy's cock, especially if I'm fucking him from behind. I did a hotel room group a while back where the bottom didn't want to be touched, just quick pump and dumps. I couldn't stay hard because there was nothing arousing. I only saw the back of his head and, for me anyway, a hole is a hole. That said, I watched a number of guys unload in him so this is obviously a "me" issue. He probably could have gotten me off orally because I'm usually quicker to cum if a mouth is reasonably talented but that was off limits too.
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why married/straight men hook up with fags
phillygwm replied to constructionguy's topic in General Discussion
I think the answer is twofold: 1) Guys who would fuck another man are not straight. Maybe they're straight-leaning bi, at best. Perhaps a straight guy might be able to receive head. But hell, even I can't get up for just any guy and I've been topping for close to 50 years; 2) It's infinitely easier to find a gay guy to give them what they want, especially if they're decent looking and don't require a certain "type". It's unlikely you'd find a random woman online willing to lay there for a pump and dump, unless you're willing to pay. -
I was 10 the first time I tasted cum. It belonged to another 10 year old friend who matured early. I grew up before porn was so ubiquitous. We had mags, and adult theaters, but no home videos or Internet. Nothing particularly accessible to a 10 year old. From when I first heard about semen in a library book, I wanted to see someone shoot so badly. It's funny, I'm sure if I had today's tech back then it wouldn't have been a big deal. I didn't have a brother, I tried to spy on my father but never caught him, and while I had cousins who were older, I wasn't close enough to them to broach the subject. I needed someone I could have trusted enough not to tell others that I asked but alas, no.
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Well, I'm a bit older than 20 🙂 But you're absolutely right. When I went to bars alone (when I WAS in my 20's) I'd often used to wind up at an ABS. Saved me the trouble of small talk. Now, I usually do go with others but that tends to cock block me so I don't go with the intention of getting laid. In fact, in all my life, I think I only got laid from someone I met in a bar twice.
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I have moderate social anxiety and have often wondered if I'm mildly on the spectrum. I often just come across as awkward and/or aloof, especially alone in a bar setting. As a consequence, I don't hookup as often as I'd like and I'm not comfortable in certain situations (i.e. bathhouses.) I do OK on websites like BBRT. Apps are also good if I'm out of town. Otherwise, I live in a suburban area so there are a lot of regulars who are either not interested in me or vice versa. The longer term key is finding a long term FB. I've had a few over the years, though sadly none at the moment.
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What I'm saying is that OP asked his question to stir a conversation, even though he's not meeting guys while contageous. He got a pretty negative response for even bringing it up. However, we know there ARE people out there who have and will continue to hookup with guys when they know they have nasty bugs. Hopefully a small number but we're deluding ourselves by saying they don't exist. Asking someone anonymous guy is naive: If someone knows they're contagious and chooses to fuck/get fucked anyway, are they going to be truthful? This is apart from guys who got infected last week and don't know it, who are answering truthfully, as far as they're aware. So yes, we choose to accept those risks.
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But after he's cum is the best time to fuck him! 🤣 This is a surefire way not to get invited back. I'm a top and I hate rejection as much as anyone but if someone has made it clear that he isn't into me, I move on. Usually somebody will want my dick, even if we're not each others' first choice. Whether someone is a top or bottom is beside the point. Assholes are assholes.
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Who are we kidding? We can all clutch our pearls but there have always been Typhoid Marys since before, well, Typhoid Mary. People of a Certain Age (like me) have heard the stories of people who knowingly transmitted HIV, back when it was still a death sentence. Even though YOU are not going out with Chlamydia etc., we can safely assume that some people are. Everything in life is a calculated risk.
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At a very minimum, you disclose beforehand. There are people who are chasing so it might not be an issue for them in a one on one setting. Personally, in a gang bang setting, I expect that people aren't knowingly transmitting any bugs. Sure, some people will be likely poz and undetectable or carrying something (i.e. Herpes but not in an outbreak) but they're not contagious at that moment. And yes, someone may have recently contracted something and is contagious but asymptomatic; that's just an occupational risk of being/using a cumdump.
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I was 10. I was friends with a kid, same age, who started puberty before I did. I thought I'd never get hair but turned out I was normal; he was early. Started out showing each other, then he jerked off for me. I grew up before videos or the Internet so it was the first time I saw cum. I knew what it was from reading about it, just never saw someone shoot. I always envisioned it to have the consistency of toothpaste or silly string so was a bit surprised. Anyway, over a few months, I sucked him, then I "fucked" him. I never enjoyed him sucking me, though. So why the quotes? I was still a 10-11 year old kid. I had a few wisps of hair and could cum by that point but I wasn't big. So I got on top of him and put my dick in his crack. I thought I penetrated him but in retrospect I might have just been dry humping.
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I'll partially agree. Rape is, by definition, non-consensual. Someone can be a sex worker and be raped if they were forced to do something against their will. Likewise, if you were beaten and choked within an inch of your life but you requested it, it isn't. I'd personally define CNC as a situation where one consents broadly but is out of control when it comes to the specifics. Maybe they're unconscious or severely impaired. They knew they were going to be used but didn't negotiate limits so they didn't know they were going to be (for instance) fisted or shat on. Maybe they wouldn't have consented to those specifics but they're not in a position to object.
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Show us the last loads you took in your hole
phillygwm replied to transferal's topic in General Discussion
Nice. And if things get much worse here in the US, I'm looking at Malta. I probably should visit first 🙂 -
Show us the last loads you took in your hole
phillygwm replied to transferal's topic in General Discussion
You deserve as many loads as you can take. It would be hot to plug you after you had 4-5 guys trying to fertilize you. I would have piggy'd your comment but I hit my limit 🙂 -
Show us the last loads you took in your hole
phillygwm replied to transferal's topic in General Discussion
Yeah, I definitely like a used hole. But it's hot knowing that someone's boys are up there, swimming in circles looking for your ovum 🤣 -
I know this is an inherently political issue but please let's try to put that aside for purposes of this discussion. I'm not seriously considering anything at the moment but there are increasing discussions about people (i.e. American citizens) leaving the country for political reasons. I know people also move because of the cheaper cost of living in certain places but that's not my primary concern; I'll just increase my standard of living to match my budget. 🙂 Primary concerns are: Being able to legally live somewhere. I know Spain, Portugal, and other places offer what are essentially retirement visas. Other countries have higher barriers to long term residency The ability to communicate primarily in English; I'd try to pick up the native language but old dog, new tricks, etc. Safety/Standard of Living -- This encompasses both gay friendly but also are the streets safe, reasonably clean, etc. Affordability -- This ties back to point 2. There are a lot of affordable places but English may not be widely spoken outside the big cities, which are usually more expensive. Reasonably close to the US -- I don't expect that I'd never return so Asia/Australia is too far. Europe is probably the farthest I'd want to go. Any thoughts or experiences?? Thanks!
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Show us the last loads you took in your hole
phillygwm replied to transferal's topic in General Discussion
So a question for the bottoms: I know the pics look hot with cum dripping out of a hole but, when you're not posing for the camera, do you try to retain it or do you push it out? I understand if there are multiple loads in you, it will get sloppy and gravity will ultimately do its thing if you're vertical, especially as the load liquifies. -
I'm not as sexually active as I'd like so usually do 2-1-1. Took 2 today, for instance, because I'm trolling for sex 🙂 Hopefully, I'll need the 1-1. I do notice some diarrhea, which is OK with me because my weight loss med (Contrave, not a GLP-1) makes me irregular. Nothing where I'd have an accident but noticeable.
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This. I've rarely been with a super big guy who could get fully hard. Orally, I'll take a guy with a micropenis if I'm otherwise attracted to him; I'm more concerned with his load. In fact, it's a lot easier to get a small guy off, generally.
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I had a FB who had a rape fantasy. What he really meant was he wanted to roleplay: Put your hand over his mouth, use spit as lube, and fuck hard. When he kept asking for it I got bored so I switched it up a bit. I started by getting him off. THEN I fucked him as above. Did he enjoy it? No, he was begging me to finish. Did I rape him? Also no. He could have freed himself or even told me to stop but didn't. He knew I wasn't going to unalive him or otherwise harm him. He was not happy in the moment but he told me how he kept jerking off thinking about it. As for me, I never really considered myself a dom but if someone tells me they're sub, that's how I gauge whether they really are. All this is very different from someone unexpectedly putting a knife to your throat while another guy punch fisted you (assuming you're not a fisting bottom.) You probably wouldn't enjoy it much, nor would likely jerk off thinking about it.
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Serving the one that Serves - an encounter with a soldier
phillygwm replied to Cutedelicategay's topic in Your Last Load...
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Not speaking as a bottom but, orally at least, I can take a small guy balls deep. He's more likely to blow down my throat, which is what it's all about. Someone huge is hot to look at but harder to get off.
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Rereading the thread, it reminded me of a situation about 15 years ago. I'd been dx'd with prostate cancer and, being in my 40s, I was looking into alternatives to a radical. I visited one radiation oncologist for a consult. Super friendly, we seemed to hit it off, talking about baseball etc. Then he asks me about banking sperm, my wife, etc. I told him I was gay and it took him aback. He wasn't hostile by any means but he was...different. I ruled him out before I got back to my car. Unless you're talking about a world class surgeon and a complex issue, there's no reason to feel uncomfortable around your doc. If you do, you need a different doc or at least a candid conversation.
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I love my doc. She's not gay and it isn't a gay practice but they're very good. Previously, I had a doc that liked to lecture (not about sex but weight etc.) It got to the point where I'd reschedule appointments if I'd gained a couple pounds. When she left the practice, even though she was otherwise very good, I didn't follow her. There are more gay practices in the city but going there is a bit of a hassle. If I thought the care would be substantially better I would, but I'm happy as things are.
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Guilty! If I happen across a profile for someone who is just breathtaking, I'll send an Oink or maybe a form message that basically says "Hey, I find you incredibly hot. I'm far away but sometimes I travel for business/pleasure. Or if you find yourself in my area, keep me in mind." Similarly, I find myself in different parts of the state or perhaps they might. So I'll always email a guy and we might buddy list each other for future reference.
