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I'm wondering whether any of you are attracted to guys who have some disability (broadly speaking.) I never really thought about it. Once, many years ago, I met a guy who had a progressive condition which left him in a wheelchair. Things still worked down there. That didn't turn me on or off, per se, but I knew he didn't see a lot of action and knowing that I was the only guy who would get him off DID turn me on. Not least because he blew like Mount Vesuvius whenever I sucked him off. Don't get me wrong, it wasn't a pity fuck; I enjoyed it as he did. It never really went anywhere because he was living in a long term care environment and it kind of weirded me out. I thought people knew about us and I was semi-closeted at the time (late teens/early 20s.) Call it paranoia. More recently, I was talking to a guy in a similar situation and found myself oddly turned on. Again, not because of the wheelchair but because I assume he doesn't have any sexual outlet. In this case, it's possible he can't even jerk off (I didn't ask.) But even non-physical issues, like guys on the spectrum etc. would turn me on, not least because I consider myself to have a number of the same characteristics and I know how difficult it can be to get to know guys. I'm still very much into able-bodied guys but maybe I have a hero complex or something...coming to the "rescue" of guys who have no other outlet. Anyone else share this?
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Whether it's nature or nurture, I think most guys strongly prefer pussy. I doubt straight men could make themselves gay any more than vice versa. Under certain circumstances (prison, deserted island, etc.) you might take what you can get but only until women are available again. And, of course, most of us are bi to one degree or another. Would I fuck a woman under the proper conditions, such as a hot guy in the bed? Maybe.... But yes, there are a lot of bi guys who hide that part of their sexuality. My best friend from HS was one. Whenever we played, I got him off in under a minute. I can't even get hard if I'm not attracted to someone.
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Back in the day, a gay Catholic kid could avoid the "When are you getting married" question by entering the priesthood. When being gay became more socially acceptable, "vocations" dried up. I used to work on election days at my local polling place and the 2 parish priests came in together. One was flaming, though my gaydar went off on the other as well. Turns out, the flaming one wound up on the pedo naughty list. The other was moved to another parish though I think he kept it legal, or at least nobody came forward on him.
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Just the opposite of me: Younger, smaller/thinner. Ideally cleanshaven face (body optional.) I don't get into tatts or piercings but I can deal with a couple, as long as the guy isn't a walking billboard. I'm OK with any race, though I do love a non-American accent 🙂
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For me, when I unload in someone's ass, I want to get every millimeter inside so my cum gets up there. Orally, too many guys would gag if you tried that. Plus, it doesn't matter as much as long as it goes in his mouth. He's going to swallow it anyway.
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I'd like someone unconscious (or mostly so.) Maybe buy someone a fix as long as I can use them while they're out of it.
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Technically, I've been twice: The first time I was with someone but we didn't have a place. We got a room, did our thing, and left so that hardly counts. Second time was in Dublin, close to 30 years ago. I don't remember whether I got a room. I went too early so it was dead. Managed to get a young ginger guy off orally. But I have self esteem issues in that kind of environment so I haven't gone since. I'm sort of worried about unwittingly breaching "etiquette" but reading stories on here, I'm kind of tempted to try, once I build up the nerve.
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Socks only 🙂
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Is Wearing a Butt Plug a Signal That I Want To Be Fucked
phillygwm replied to Webster9's topic in General Discussion
I dunno, I guess I'm pickier than many of you. If the vibe -- including physical attraction -- isn't right, I can't perform. It just happened at a BBRT party last week. I barely got hard enough to get inside and couldn't keep it going. Even watching other guys make their deposits didn't help. I thought it was because of a new Rx I'm on but then I went home and jerked off with no problem. But yeah, if I saw something in a guy's hole I'd assume he's a bottom. Whether I thought he was looking for now or for me, since I often think guys aren't into me when they are, is a different question. -
Eh, after I'm done, the last thing on my mind would be blowing the crew 🙂 They're there because they're being paid.
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Pics of you with a hard cock in your ass
phillygwm replied to HotLatinoAss's topic in General Discussion
I've gotta say, I really like the body and cock on the bottom. -
Do you still cum in a bottom who asks you to pull out?
phillygwm replied to blktone67's topic in General Discussion
As a top, communication is key. I'm usually telling a guy exactly what I'm going to do as part of the pickup process. If he's hesitant, depending on how much I want him, I'd tell him I want head rather than pulling out. Or if I'm on the fence, maybe I'd just cut bait. -
Hot. Did you tell #2 that you had cum in there? If not, did he notice?
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Attraction vs Fetishism: Racial Preference
phillygwm replied to KindaBasic's topic in General Discussion
A fetish is objectifying. if you were ONLY interested in someone because of [whatever] to the exclusion of other traits, including personality, for instance. They're not a person, they're a giant black dildo, in the case you describe. And you might have a whole unique "scene" built around those guys, like race play in this case. Personally, I tend toward Latino guys but I can be attracted to others (and obviously I find some Latino guys unattractive.) I don't consider that a fetish. But if I sought out uncut guys solely because they were uncut, that IS a fetish. But ultimately, it's semantics. I know "fetish" has negative connotations but if you're with someone consensually and you both enjoy it, does it really matter? -
I'm torn by this one. Obviously, I wouldn't use the term "clean" but I question the value of asking the question, however it's phrased. Of course, some people are ethical and will disclose they have whatever bug, but others will say "Yeah, I'm clean, let's fuck." So the question becomes how trustworthy the anonymous guy in that dark room is. Just like picking up a twink. He can tell you he's legal but at least there you can use some judgement (gee, he looks 12 to me). Hard to tell a guy has syphillis by looking at him. If you're going raw, there are some risks that come with the territory. Some can be mitigated (i.e. HIV/PrEP) but others you just need to choose whether it's worth it.
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I'm "average." Maybe a bit on the thick side but if there's one thing guys like, it's my balls. If someone is a size queen, they aren't going to seek me out but guys can feel me when I'm inside 🙂 From a standpoint of giving oral, too big isn't great for me (or, I suspect, most people.) I mean, it's nice to look at and play with but I'm not going to take it all. Someone smaller will get throated and will generally enjoy themselves more than someone with 10". But maybe I'm unusual: I lack the patience for a long head session. I'd prefer a guy I can get off quickly and easily. Especially if he stays enough in the mood to get me off after,
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Do You Discuss HIV Status Before Barebacking?
phillygwm replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
I'm not very sexually active and, for me, sex (or potential sex) usually involves some planning. I went away last weekend and thought sex would be a possibility, so I started back up on PrEP. If I thought I'd be getting laid more consistently, I'd be on it regularly. So HIV isn't really my primary concern. If someone wants to know my status -- and trusts me enough when I tell them -- we can discuss it. I don't bother asking because, aside from PrEP, why would I trust some random to be truthful about it in the first place? Even before PrEP, I know I've fucked poz guys for decades. Nobody ever disclosed to me beforehand; I found out later (or, I'm sure in some cases, never have learned their status.) -
As others have already said, you're a good uncle. But even though you're supportive and generous, you really should come out to him. He needs more than an ally right now. Yes, that might alienate you to your sister and others in your family, so it would be a courageous move. But your nephew needs you more than they do...and hey, if the smart, successful guy in the family turns out gay, maybe some will reconsider their opinions on the subject.
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There's a middle ground. If you tell me I'm so big I'm hurting you, I'll slow down or stop. Just tell me you like what I'm doing (assuming you do.) Gay men tend to have seen a few penises over the years; we know whether it's big, small, or in between. Why be patronizing?
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Damn, I love when I start making out with a guy and slide my hand down his shorts and realize he's uncut. I was almost 20 by the time I saw my first one in person (I'd seen pics). I still feel sorry for my first guy; I pretty much did everything you're NOT supposed to do to a guy with a foreskin 🤣 Like directly rubbing his head. I tell guys that now and you can see them going into a fetal position. But I promise I've gotten better. Of course, one could always use more practice.
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I was one of multiple (3-4) tops with one twink bottom, whom I was really attracted to. I was in my 20's and the other tops were probably 50+ So I came several times in both holes over (for me) the course of an hour or so. They kept going after I left. I've always had to stop immediately after I cum but my refractory period was short back then so when I got hard again, the older guys gave way to let me have another go. They were trying to last, probably knowing they wouldn't be going multiple rounds. As someone in that age range now, I can now understand that perspective!
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That's the thing. If you could set the wayback machine to before the gangbang, it probably would have been better to make sure they both knew about the other's attraction and let them do what they will with that information. Maybe it would have led to a discrete, ongoing thing. At this point, I'm not sure it ends well. Uncle is on a guilt trip and probably paranoid that others in the family will find out. Nobody knows how nephew will react if he ever finds out but you can probably surmise that he would have wanted to know up front that his uncle was going to fuck him.
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A long time ago, I read an article that opined that most people have a natural "ick factor" with people they grew up with. Maybe it's just one of those things that's been conditioned over tens of thousands of years to reduce inbreeding. But obviously, incest has always been a thing with some people. I've always fantasized about being with two brothers or maybe a father and son, as long as son was legal and dad wasn't too old. I always thought, if I had a brother, he would have been a natural playmate, at least while we were hormonal teens. But how would it have played out in reality? I dunno... I do enjoy twin porn, though most of the time they're not interacting with each other.
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Everyone has a plan until he gets his cock in a hole
phillygwm replied to yoursinmine's topic in General Discussion
If a guy is a talented cocksucker, I'd prefer to cum in his mouth. I'll communicate that to a guy, because some people don't care how it happens, they just want my babies. But if he has his heart set on getting fucked, I'll fuck him. That's in the context of a "date" or at least an arranged hookup. Obviously, in an anon situation, it's different; if there isn't communication to the contrary, it's shooter's choice. I understand if you're with someone inexperienced who couldn't help himself but most of us have been around the block and "I couldn't help it" is a poor excuse.
