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  1. phillygwm
    I've always been reluctant to do drugs. There was a lot of compulsive behavior in my family - smoking, alcohol, gambling - and I don't need to fall into that. I enjoy sex, even without the "enhancements." I don't mean to sound judgmental; I'll still fuck you! And I'm sure I've fucked people who were spun or high though I wasn't there when they were actually doing it. My fantasy (which I haven't fulfilled yet) is to fuck someone while they're unconscious. Consensually, in that they'd agree to it ahead of time, but someone who has essentially "left the building" and is just a vessel for me. 🙂
  2. phillygwm
    Did he know it was you or was it too dark? If so, have you messed around since?
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    I'm a top and I'm also naturally introverted. People never believe me when I say that because I have an extrovert's job, but I can feel uncomfortable at times. Sexually, an anon situation is one thing. But an arranged thing is something else; I feel sort of obligated to cuddle/talk after. I often wish I didn't have to. With a regular, that's fine but with a hookup it's just awkward.
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    I'm sure it's gone on for thousands of years. I can imagine a victorious army (ancient Greece, perhaps?) would demonstrate their dominance that way though I haven't seen any historical record on the subject. I must have been absent the day they covered fisting in History class. 🙂
  5. phillygwm
    So physical attraction shouldn't be relevant? Sure, if you're in a darkroom or hooded. And yeah, that can be hot occasionally. But if I'm not attracted to someone, it's difficult at best for me to perform. And I speak as someone who's been rejected many times in my life, and even moreso now that I'm older.
  6. phillygwm
    Just like taste, it's a function of the inputs: food, drugs, etc. I'm sure there are probably some physiological conditions as well. I rarely notice an individual's cum smell, though I immediately recognize the smell wherever a lot of guys have left their DNA behind.
  7. phillygwm
    Even the best bottoms sometimes have issues. If it's an infrequent occurrence with a regular bud, I'll laugh it off (the bottom is usually mortified and I want to put him at ease.) There's always next time. But the last time I fucked someone for the first time, he was dirty. The smell hits you before you even pull out. So I called a time out, cleaned up, and he finished me in his mouth. When we got together again, I didn't entirely trust him so it was just oral, which is actually fine by me because he was talented enough to get me off that way and he enjoyed the reward down his throat.
  8. phillygwm
    From the bottom's perspective, I don't see the point. Even if the top respected your wishes -- and why would you trust some anonymous guy to do that? -- guys precum. If I were a negative bottom looking to stay that way and wanted to take a raw load, I'd be on PrEP. So the bottom presumably needs some education, though I'm not explaining things in between thrusts. If there was a conversation beforehand, I probably would tell him that. That said, if a guy asked, I'd ask him to suck me off (and spit it out) instead. I could jerk off at home.
  9. phillygwm
    Yeah, I used to enjoy Adonis but hadn't been there in years. They're building apartments on every desirable lot so the owner probably got an offer he couldn't refuse. I can't imagine they were making much $$ there. Fantasy Island was hit or (usually) miss. There are also a couple places in South Jersey (Red Barn on 130 and Berlin News Agency on 73). Haven't been to BNA in many years. Stopped in RB about a year ago but it was an off-peak time so wasn't busy. There's also one in Montgomeryville which I haven't been to in probably 20 years. I've gone from the young guy who complained about all the old men to one of the old men myself 🙂
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    There's a bookstore in NE Philly (Fantasy Island, made famous for being next door to the Rudy Giuliani presser at Four Seasons Landscaping.) I used to go there when I lived nearby. And I think there are one or two in SW Philly. But the 2 on 13th St. are long gone, as is the Adonis on Sansom. The bathhouse is still in the Gayborhood but I've never been in there.
  11. phillygwm
    I've never done BarebackRT, I'll have to take a look. Sniffles was a bunch of games. Scruff is OK if I'm out of town but the people near me are pretty well picked over. Either they've rejected me or vice versa. And Grindr, which used to be OK, is now largely pros or people looking to parTy. I miss having a bookstore or movie theater nearby. Not that I was always successful there but my batting average was much better.
  12. phillygwm
    I love watching a guy take a piss enema. I've never been able to give one, either I'm too hard to piss or too soft to penetrate, I did watch a guy empty into a bottom whom I subsequently fucked, while the piss stayed in. When I finished, the bottom made a beeline for the bathroom because he couldn't hold it anymore. I was surprised he didn't leak much.
  13. phillygwm
    I like to see the top's asshole twitching/prostate moving as he's dumping his load deep. Or the shaft pulsing, though that's an indication that he isn't in far enough 🙂 Also, seeing the bottom's cock dripping from the prostate stimulation (i.e. hands free)
  14. phillygwm
    Yeah, I can see why your mom might have been...peeved by her sister doing you 🙂 So did you finish or were you interrupted (or both....awkward!)
  15. phillygwm
    OK, gotta ask: Was your aunt your mom's sister? Your dad's? Or by marriage? And was she as good as advertised?
  16. phillygwm
    The dark side of me (which seems to come out on here) is kind of happy. Maybe bottoming shouldn't be enjoyable. Shouldn't the top's pleasure justify any pain? Most of my sex has been reciprocal...getting my bottom off. But when I know that the bottom's satisfaction is solely derived from MY pleasure, it brings out the animal in me. But I'm admittedly speaking as a top. 🙂
  17. phillygwm
    Many years ago, I hooped up with a guy who had a sling. Slings are great for someone who's just there to be a receptacle but for someone I want to have passionate sex with, I prefer the old fashioned bed.
  18. phillygwm
    Depends on the guy. I could personally live without anal but he'd better give good head. But I have friends who only bottom so that would be a dealbreaker for them. Likewise, if I AM fucking, I'd prefer not to use a condom but I might, if I was really into a guy and those were the rules. I usually love swallowing cum but some guys taste nasty, for various reasons so I'll pull up at the end. And there was one guy whom I swear I was allergic to. I had a huge crush on him but everytime I swallowed him I had violent diarrhea not long after. I know that sounds crazy and maybe it was a coincidence (we didn't last long so sample size was limited.) Had we lasted, I would have kept swallowing him but would have planned not to venture too far those evenings 🙂
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    So I have to ask: Did your surgeon know you were a bottom? Did you discuss your future as a bottom before your surgery? I had prostate cancer a number of years ago, in my mid-40's. 99% of people have it removed but I wasn't some 80 year old who was done with my equipment, so I opted for radiation instead in the hopes that I'd preserve function. Even the radiation oncologist told me he would have chosen removal for the certainty of it -- early stage if it's removed while contained, you're cured -- though he thought I'd have a good outcome either way. Sure enough, I'm fine today and can even ejaculate a little bit.
  20. phillygwm
    This is visible to everyone. Go for it!
  21. phillygwm
    I've thought about this. I was raised Catholic: Grade school, high school, and university (the last was a bit accidental. Long story.) Obviously, the Catholic church wasn't/isn't the most welcoming so I fell away and now consider myself agnostic. In my not-very-gay suburban town, there are two churches (one UCC, one Unitarian) which are openly gay welcoming. The UCC even flies the rainbow flag (but not the US flag) on its flagpole. I've thought about going but haven't thus far. Part of that is that I'd feel hypocritical at the UCC since I'm not a Christian. Unitarians are squishier when it comes to beliefs so that might not be as bad. But old habits die hard; my idea of a religious service is "smells and bells." Watching a livestream, I just didn't get into someone reading an excerpt from Winnie the Pooh. That said, I'm single and have a handful of gay friends (none sexual.) My social anxiety has kind of held me back from trying but, if I ever decide to go, it would strictly be for the purpose of expanding my social -- and ideally sexual -- circle.
  22. phillygwm
    Taking things a step or two further, beyond cock in ass, how many bottoms here would be interested in more than being fucked while blindfolded? Sucking? Maybe WS? Something else? As a top, I'm intrigued by the possibility of walking in a room, choosing which hole I want and what I want to do with it, knowing that the bottom has no say in the matter.
  23. phillygwm
    I grew up in the 80's in an all white neighborhood and when I was with a black guy back in the day it was kind of exciting and different. I hadn't even seen a black cock until I was ~18 in a shower. So yeah, sheltered life 🙂 It's 2025 and while I'm not suggesting racism isn't a thing in our society, for me, a black guy is just a guy. I have my "type" and if a guy falls into that, I'm interested. If he doesn't, I'm probably not. It isn't a function of race. I find some black guys incredibly attractive and others not so much...not too different than my take on other white guys.
  24. phillygwm
    If your bf was interested in sex previously, it might be something medical, Low T being only one possibility. So maybe a trip to the doctor is warranted first. If it isn't physiological, maybe a counselor instead. There might be issues to unpack. Assuming it really is game over, sex wise, it's unfair for him to expect you to not play with others. Monogamy is one thing, celibacy is quite another. You need to have an uncomfortable conversation.
  25. phillygwm
    It's a noble goal to educate people who are misinformed but, 40 years in, I'd dare say that most people on Grindr know the basics around how HIV gets transmitted. Then there are the trolls, which abound in an anonymous venue like a sex app. You're not going to convince them of anything, you just choose to feed them or not. I try to be respectful of others' opinions, even if I disagree. But someone who's just trying to get a reaction out of me doesn't deserve respect, they deserve an immediate block.

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