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phillygwm

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  1. I was one of multiple (3-4) tops with one twink bottom, whom I was really attracted to. I was in my 20's and the other tops were probably 50+ So I came several times in both holes over (for me) the course of an hour or so. They kept going after I left. I've always had to stop immediately after I cum but my refractory period was short back then so when I got hard again, the older guys gave way to let me have another go. They were trying to last, probably knowing they wouldn't be going multiple rounds. As someone in that age range now, I can now understand that perspective!
  2. That's the thing. If you could set the wayback machine to before the gangbang, it probably would have been better to make sure they both knew about the other's attraction and let them do what they will with that information. Maybe it would have led to a discrete, ongoing thing. At this point, I'm not sure it ends well. Uncle is on a guilt trip and probably paranoid that others in the family will find out. Nobody knows how nephew will react if he ever finds out but you can probably surmise that he would have wanted to know up front that his uncle was going to fuck him.
  3. A long time ago, I read an article that opined that most people have a natural "ick factor" with people they grew up with. Maybe it's just one of those things that's been conditioned over tens of thousands of years to reduce inbreeding. But obviously, incest has always been a thing with some people. I've always fantasized about being with two brothers or maybe a father and son, as long as son was legal and dad wasn't too old. I always thought, if I had a brother, he would have been a natural playmate, at least while we were hormonal teens. But how would it have played out in reality? I dunno... I do enjoy twin porn, though most of the time they're not interacting with each other.
  4. If a guy is a talented cocksucker, I'd prefer to cum in his mouth. I'll communicate that to a guy, because some people don't care how it happens, they just want my babies. But if he has his heart set on getting fucked, I'll fuck him. That's in the context of a "date" or at least an arranged hookup. Obviously, in an anon situation, it's different; if there isn't communication to the contrary, it's shooter's choice. I understand if you're with someone inexperienced who couldn't help himself but most of us have been around the block and "I couldn't help it" is a poor excuse.
  5. If your body count is in the hundreds or thousands, it's inevitable that you've had disappointing encounters. Probably many. I've had guys who were paranoid the entire time we were together. One guy came out of excitement before I even touched him, then it was game over. Others weren't clean (not just a little mess, which is an occupational hazard, but they didn't even try,) still more with whom I was sexually incompatible, and many who were just selfish. On the whole (hole?) I've have many more good experiences than bad but a certain percentage of guys are going to be duds, for various reasons.
  6. Damn, I love seeing a dick that's fully covered even when totally hard.
  7. I'm naturally cynical so I don't fall for the scammers. I probably rule out some well meaning guys because something strikes me as strange. I put my cards on the table and prefer others do the same: Let's talk for a bit, then meet (and yes, sex), then wherever things go from there. I rule out guys who are impractical. You might be my dream guy but if you're 5000 miles away, it simply won't work. For a serious relationship, anything more than an hour's drive probably isn't sustainable long term for me. That isn't to say we can't be FBs, or that situations could change, but if I'm in Philly and you're in Boston, logistics are a problem...and it gets expensive! I also lose interest in guys where there's a prolonged online exchange. If we correspond for a month, I'm idealizing you more with each email. There's no way someone can live up to that. So I don't want to plan things more than a week out, for the most part.
  8. I personally don't care to compare myself to others that way. Most of the guys posting on here are a lot more wild than I am. AFAIK, I'm more wild than most friends of mine. Ultimately, it's whatever gets you off (or doesn't get you off, if you're into that) 🙂
  9. I've always been reluctant to do drugs. There was a lot of compulsive behavior in my family - smoking, alcohol, gambling - and I don't need to fall into that. I enjoy sex, even without the "enhancements." I don't mean to sound judgmental; I'll still fuck you! And I'm sure I've fucked people who were spun or high though I wasn't there when they were actually doing it. My fantasy (which I haven't fulfilled yet) is to fuck someone while they're unconscious. Consensually, in that they'd agree to it ahead of time, but someone who has essentially "left the building" and is just a vessel for me. 🙂
  10. Did he know it was you or was it too dark? If so, have you messed around since?
  11. I'm a top and I'm also naturally introverted. People never believe me when I say that because I have an extrovert's job, but I can feel uncomfortable at times. Sexually, an anon situation is one thing. But an arranged thing is something else; I feel sort of obligated to cuddle/talk after. I often wish I didn't have to. With a regular, that's fine but with a hookup it's just awkward.
  12. I'm sure it's gone on for thousands of years. I can imagine a victorious army (ancient Greece, perhaps?) would demonstrate their dominance that way though I haven't seen any historical record on the subject. I must have been absent the day they covered fisting in History class. 🙂
  13. So physical attraction shouldn't be relevant? Sure, if you're in a darkroom or hooded. And yeah, that can be hot occasionally. But if I'm not attracted to someone, it's difficult at best for me to perform. And I speak as someone who's been rejected many times in my life, and even moreso now that I'm older.
  14. Just like taste, it's a function of the inputs: food, drugs, etc. I'm sure there are probably some physiological conditions as well. I rarely notice an individual's cum smell, though I immediately recognize the smell wherever a lot of guys have left their DNA behind.
  15. Even the best bottoms sometimes have issues. If it's an infrequent occurrence with a regular bud, I'll laugh it off (the bottom is usually mortified and I want to put him at ease.) There's always next time. But the last time I fucked someone for the first time, he was dirty. The smell hits you before you even pull out. So I called a time out, cleaned up, and he finished me in his mouth. When we got together again, I didn't entirely trust him so it was just oral, which is actually fine by me because he was talented enough to get me off that way and he enjoyed the reward down his throat.
  16. From the bottom's perspective, I don't see the point. Even if the top respected your wishes -- and why would you trust some anonymous guy to do that? -- guys precum. If I were a negative bottom looking to stay that way and wanted to take a raw load, I'd be on PrEP. So the bottom presumably needs some education, though I'm not explaining things in between thrusts. If there was a conversation beforehand, I probably would tell him that. That said, if a guy asked, I'd ask him to suck me off (and spit it out) instead. I could jerk off at home.
  17. Yeah, I used to enjoy Adonis but hadn't been there in years. They're building apartments on every desirable lot so the owner probably got an offer he couldn't refuse. I can't imagine they were making much $$ there. Fantasy Island was hit or (usually) miss. There are also a couple places in South Jersey (Red Barn on 130 and Berlin News Agency on 73). Haven't been to BNA in many years. Stopped in RB about a year ago but it was an off-peak time so wasn't busy. There's also one in Montgomeryville which I haven't been to in probably 20 years. I've gone from the young guy who complained about all the old men to one of the old men myself 🙂
  18. There's a bookstore in NE Philly (Fantasy Island, made famous for being next door to the Rudy Giuliani presser at Four Seasons Landscaping.) I used to go there when I lived nearby. And I think there are one or two in SW Philly. But the 2 on 13th St. are long gone, as is the Adonis on Sansom. The bathhouse is still in the Gayborhood but I've never been in there.
  19. I've never done BarebackRT, I'll have to take a look. Sniffles was a bunch of games. Scruff is OK if I'm out of town but the people near me are pretty well picked over. Either they've rejected me or vice versa. And Grindr, which used to be OK, is now largely pros or people looking to parTy. I miss having a bookstore or movie theater nearby. Not that I was always successful there but my batting average was much better.
  20. I love watching a guy take a piss enema. I've never been able to give one, either I'm too hard to piss or too soft to penetrate, I did watch a guy empty into a bottom whom I subsequently fucked, while the piss stayed in. When I finished, the bottom made a beeline for the bathroom because he couldn't hold it anymore. I was surprised he didn't leak much.
  21. I like to see the top's asshole twitching/prostate moving as he's dumping his load deep. Or the shaft pulsing, though that's an indication that he isn't in far enough 🙂 Also, seeing the bottom's cock dripping from the prostate stimulation (i.e. hands free)
  22. Yeah, I can see why your mom might have been...peeved by her sister doing you 🙂 So did you finish or were you interrupted (or both....awkward!)
  23. OK, gotta ask: Was your aunt your mom's sister? Your dad's? Or by marriage? And was she as good as advertised?
  24. The dark side of me (which seems to come out on here) is kind of happy. Maybe bottoming shouldn't be enjoyable. Shouldn't the top's pleasure justify any pain? Most of my sex has been reciprocal...getting my bottom off. But when I know that the bottom's satisfaction is solely derived from MY pleasure, it brings out the animal in me. But I'm admittedly speaking as a top. 🙂
  25. Many years ago, I hooped up with a guy who had a sling. Slings are great for someone who's just there to be a receptacle but for someone I want to have passionate sex with, I prefer the old fashioned bed.
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