phillygwm
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The problem (for some, anyway) is that gay rape is usually gonna be messy unless the rapist is carrying an enema kit with him 🤣 Obviously, if it's something planned that becomes non-consensual etc. that's different.
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Would you be into watching someone else rape him? Maybe someone who will stuff one too many fingers in there until he begs you to make it stop. But you're too busy gooning to his pain...
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I've mentioned before, I've had some medical issues over the years. I take Viagra but, even so, certain situations just don't work for me. I suspect this is because I'm not aroused and, if I'm gonna get hard, I need to be aroused more now than say 40 years ago 🙂 All this is to say I used to wear a condom, if the bottom insisted on it. I wouldn't volunteer. Now, I don't think I could maintain an erection in a condom. So if someone is going to be insistent, they'll have to settle for oral (which I actually prefer anyway) or I'll just leave.
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It depends on how one defines "whore." I've met some cumdumps who basically wanted to be a human fleshlight and limited what they'd allow the top to do. That works for some tops but it often isn't enough to arouse me, even with Viagra. Conversely, I've met some guys who view their job as satisfying their top -- and usually themselves -- whatever it took. I've had some really good times with those guys. No expectations of a LTR or even an extended play session. Their body count per session is a lot lower but I've always left drained,
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I agree with this, up to a point. When it's literally life and death, the government should provide a safety net. Especially in the US, where costs of meds aren't as regulated as elsewhere. PrEP, for instance, used to cost me about $200-300/month. I can afford that but a lot of people can't. HIV would spread much faster than it does now if people had to go without, which is clearly not in the public interest. In terms of HIV but also many other diseases, where this really hits home is research, which is largely funded by NIH and other orgs. That's been decimated. With HIV, some meds (admittedly, not the cutting edge stuff) are relatively inexpensive especially when produced overseas for those markets. Even so, lots of people in the Third World can't afford it. The foreign aid that the US recently cut will be a death sentence for a lot of those people unless other funders step in. All of this predates the government shutdown and will continue well after it's resolved.
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My circumstances have changed over the years. About 15 years ago, I was diagnosed with prostate cancer. Consequently, I don't shoot appreciable amounts anymore (though I have the sensation.) When I WAS shooting normally, I largely agree with OP. It isn't that I'd NEVER agree to wear a condom but I wouldn't volunteer to. I enjoyed sowing my seed, as it were. And I sometimes loved blasting it where people would find it. Back then, fucking was my favorite way of getting off. Since my radiation, sowing seed is off the table. And whether because of my treatment or just the fact that I'm getting older, I don't get as hard as I used to. Hard enough to get off? Yes. Hard enough to penetrate an ass until completion? Sometimes. So my new favorite thing is being sucked off. Not that I didn't enjoy that before (and I always wanted to finish in a guy's mouth) but there's something more primal to anal: I'm in control, for the most part. If I wanted to last 5 minutes, I could. If I wanted to go longer, I could. With oral, when and if I get off is a function of the blower's talent, how he edges me, etc.
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This is a huge turn on for me. I just love using a guy after he's "game over". So yeah, I've used bottoms cum as lube, or sometimes I'll feed it to them, which is even hotter.
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I'd suppose it would depend on context. If you're looking for advice (i.e. "I'm not chasing but how can I find out his status before we hookup?") this might be the appropriate place. But if you ARE talking about chasing, Backroom would make more sense.
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Ten lessons from my first pump and dump
phillygwm replied to NJRawDaddy's topic in General Discussion
I think this is ALWAYS a good idea but especially so if you want to be impaired. Fucking someone who is unconscious or so out of it they're barely aware where they are is a bucket list thing for me. But having someone there who can make sure the bottom is safe and handle any situations would be a must. -
Ten lessons from my first pump and dump
phillygwm replied to NJRawDaddy's topic in General Discussion
Exactly. There are no load refused bottoms as well as tops who can fuck anything that provides a bit of friction. I can't. I think the face down ass up guy would have been able to get me off orally; feeling his mouth on me would have gotten me hard. But touching anything but his hole was off limits. He was basically a human fleshlight. It's like the guys who post pics of their holes. I don't find that arousing in the least. ASSES can be sexy but if you're going to zoom in that tight, just post a video from your colonoscopy. 🙂 -
Ten lessons from my first pump and dump
phillygwm replied to NJRawDaddy's topic in General Discussion
Judging from your post, we're roughly the same age. I'm a top. And yeah, I have the same body dysmorphia issues as so many others. A few months back, I went to my first pump and dump. I thought I'd enjoy it, instead, I couldn't perform, even with Viagra. I thought it was a new med I was on, so I eventually gave up and went home...then I jerked off with no problem. I came to realize that face down, ass up, and in a jock didn't do anything for me. I never even saw his face; he was nothing more than a hole and I was nothing more than a cock. I suppose when I was in my 20's I could get hard when I felt a slight breeze but in my late 50's I need some attraction/interaction. I later went to another one where the bottom was getting spit roasted while others watched and waited their turn. He was totally nude, didn't mind you diddling with him (though he never came himself.) Basically, it was much more interactive and I found it was super hot. Not that one scene was "right" and the other "wrong" but if I might offer a suggestion to those wanting to host, setting expectations for the attendees would be helpful. -
As in the above comment, it could be a physical inability to perform for any number of reasons. In that instance, there are people who specialize in that (there's a Japanese video where they're referred to as "angels.") In the context I was referring to, I purposely used quotes because pretty much anyone able to perform can get laid, if their standards are low enough 🙂 Just as there are no load refused bottoms, there are tops who will fuck any hole. Personally, I have to have an attraction to someone, otherwise I can't get hard. That obviously makes things more difficult. Depending on the situation (it's all in the details!) if I knew someone was trustworthy and would be willing to keep me drained, I'd be perfectly happy to pay or conceivably even provide a place to stay.
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Well said. We're conditioned from an early age that sex is supposed to happen within a loving relationship. I think most of the people on here realize that isn't necessarily true. I just spent a couple hours looking at the apps in the hopes I could find someone but it didn't work out. If I had a "regular", whether someone living with me or something that is more short term, I'd be perfectly OK with that.
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I think it's a matter of shame for some people because they "can't" get laid without paying for it. For most of us, it isn't that. I can get laid by guys my age, but not usually by the type of guys I like. So I wouldn't be opposed to paying for it, though it isn't something I seek out.
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I never have but I would offer a place to a guy I found hot, as long as he was there when I wanted him and maybe handled some jobs around the house. The concern is trust. I wouldn't rush into that kind of situation unless I knew there was no problem with drugs etc. I just don't need my stuff to start disappearing.
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The less the better. Totally naked, if possible. Grey sweatpants with no underwear is also nice...
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I'm a negative top. I don't even bother to ask because I'm not inclined to trust some anonymous guy in a bookstore. Most poz guys were converted by someone they thought was neg, whether because they didn't ask, the guy didn't know he was poz, or he lied. I'm responsible for myself. I know U=U and most guys who know they're poz are on meds and undetectible. I also know that if playing with someone is a possibility, I'll go on 2-1-1 PrEP. Hopefully, I wind up with a regular bud where it makes sense to be on it every day.
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Pretty straightforward. If you're sucking me, I may or may not be in the mood to fuck. At a gh, I usually prefer oral. But if you turn around and put your ass against the hole, I've been known to invite a guy into my booth (when possible) if I really want to fuck. I just like holding on to a guy while I thrust, plus, I can get deeper inside.
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Wow. So I have to ask: Does it look different (a bend etc.) now?
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Has anyone been seriously injured while having sex? Could be something consensual or not. I'm not talking about a rough fuck that hurts but something that actually did damage. I remember many years ago I was with a tiny Asian guy. I'm a fairly tall white guy and I was in the high 200 lb range at the time (~130kg). He was having trouble taking me and when I finally got in I tried to start slow but when I was close I was really railing him. When I pulled out, he was bleeding. Not profusely, so it wasn't truly serious, but I felt alternately guilty and like a stud because I thought I ripped him apart 🙂
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When I was a teen, I could occasionally touch the head of my cock with my tongue. It was nothing pleasurable because I was so contorted and just barely made the slightest contact. Didn't stop me from trying 🙂
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For me, it isn't necessarily a dom/sub thing. Sure, if my partner wants to submit, I can dominate but it isn't a must have. I've shared my "sub test" here previously: If a guy can get himself off, then submit to me, he's a real sub (and I'm wildly turned on.) Too many guys are submissive until they shoot their load, then it's game over. Personally, I'm a top because I simply have never enjoyed bottoming. But I'm more than happy to reciprocate orally and I'll almost always swallow.
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I haven't in a while but I'm not averse to giving a guy a few bucks if he's taking good care of me. But for me, being a sugar daddy is another matter. Maybe he could live in your place without other financial arrangements; that would keep your costs to a minimum and you could get fucked every day and twice on Sunday 🙂 But the comment above is well taken: You'd need to know him well enough and trust him before letting him stay under your roof. You don't need someone stealing or dealing.
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Nothing wrong with curiosity. I grew up in a very homogenous neighborhood. No black friends or classmates, even in a HS student body of 1600. Even Asians/Latinos were pretty unusual. I was in some organizations out of HS with more diverse membership, one required showering together. I always positioned myself close enough to see who I wanted to see. I have a funny story re: my first uncut guy (well, funny for me, in retrospect. Not so much for him.) Thankfully, there are many guys of different races who are into white guys as well. It didn't take me too long to be with guys of most races, except for Native American. When I finally met a native Alaskan, I believe I checked off the last box. 🙂
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I voted for Biden even though I was (and am) convinced he's in the early stages of dementia. I'm not convinced Trump isn't demented either. But I'd trust the technocrats under Biden more than the sycophants under Trump. A lot of people felt the economy was better under Trump. As a 50-something white guy with a 6 figure salary, I won't pretend to speak for people who are living paycheck to paycheck. I think both parties are mismanaging the economy with deficit spending and they're hypocritical because it only seems to be a problem when the other guys are in power. Of course, nobody wants to raise taxes and nobody wants to be seen as cutting popular spending programs. People just want to keep cutting waste (Waste, of course, being defined as any program which doesn't benefit them directly.)
