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Different strokes, literally. The biggest benefit to being with someone is I don't have to jerk off at the end. I want you to take it deep: if a guy is talented, I actually prefer his throat but obviously ass is always a good option. When I used to shoot a big load (medical issues, not so much now) there would be rare occasions when I'd blow it on his face. It happened most often with my ex when we were doing something spontaneous (he couldn't clean out and he couldn't get me off orally.) He always had perfect hair and I made sure I gave him extra "product". Accidentally, of course 🙂
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The second ring. What does it feel like to the top?
phillygwm replied to neg4charge's topic in General Discussion
When I was younger and more sexually active, I frequently hit guys second ring. I don't know that I'd describe it as wildly stimulating but it was hot knowing I was going that deep into a guy. I always tried to shoot in there. As I've gotten older and had some medical issues, I don't get as hard (and I swear I'm not as "big".) I also don't fuck as much as I used to. I've consequently not gotten past a guy's ring in a while. But when I'm with someone who is "fun sized" it seems to be a bit easier. Yet another reason I like guys smaller than I am 🙂 -
Touching myself? I can't remember a time when I didn't! Even before I knew what sex was, even before it produced a pleasurable sensation, I just liked diddling with myself. I always found my cock fascinating. I didn't know what circumcision was or that anyone looked drastically different than I did (except a couple adults, who were just bigger) but I was cut pretty loose so I liked pulling what was left of my foreskin over my head. I remember as a small child my grandmother telling me to stop playing with myself. Maybe 4-5? It's one of my earlier memories. Probably around 8-9 I found out about sex. First orgasm at 10, I believe. Haven't stopped since 🙂
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Why do I like being watched and shared?
phillygwm replied to Watch-me-share-me's topic in General Discussion
To clarify, it's usually not an entirely anonymous situation. I can see where that might be unwelcome 🙂 I don't do baths or sex clubs often. If it IS among a group where I don't know anyone, which frankly doesn't happen as often at this point in my life, I might talk to the guy but I wouldn't say I'm exactly giving orders/direction. -
Why do I like being watched and shared?
phillygwm replied to Watch-me-share-me's topic in General Discussion
I don't mind being watched but I LOVE watching. Especially if I'm speaking to/directing/coaching the top while he's fucking. Love seeing them as they blow balls deep but want to see them squeeze that last drop out when they've pulled out. I also like a bottom who effectively has no say in the matter -- nothing more than a breathing fleshlight -- especially if he's been forced to cum before he's penetrated. Maybe they're blindfolded or at least face down ass up so they don't know what I look like, or broadly what I might do to them (obviously fuck, but might I slide some fingers or have them arouse me orally first?) -
Seeing his load leaking out of your ass was probably the giveaway. 🤣
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With a real biological dad, with his kids in the next room where you can hear them playing (no, they wouldn't hear us.) Years ago, I had a chance with a guy who had an infant and he had to babysit. He wanted me to fuck him in the room (the kid was way too young to know what was going on and obviously wasn't involved in any way.) I chickened out, which I regret to this day. Just swallowing the sperm that made that baby would have been hot as hell.
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Creampie - some advice on making a good one
phillygwm replied to Eagerindayton's topic in General Discussion
This is why I don't love porn. I want to see a guy (or woman) get bred deep. Why would a bottom want cum leaking out? I mean, gravity is going to do what gravity does, especially as the load liquifies after a while. But I want a bottom who is going to try to retain it as long as they can. My ex couldn't stand that leaking feeling so he'd run to the bathroom as soon as I finished which I found disappointing. I wouldn't go as far as "insulted" but when I empty in a guy, it's like I'm marking my territory. If I ever produced straight porn, it would be pregnancy bingo: 100 guys on one girl (ovulating, no birth control, maybe high as a kite), only sliding in to her pussy when they're at the point of no return. No more than 10 thrusts until his balls are empty. See who has the most potent sperm 🙂 -
Why do I like being watched and shared?
phillygwm replied to Watch-me-share-me's topic in General Discussion
Why psychoanalyze it? If it's something you enjoy, then enjoy it. Be sure to put your videos out there 🙂 I do think religion, or a conservative upbringing in general, has a lot to do with it. I had a friend who was an ordained minister. He worked for a religious organization which wasn't gay friendly. His specific role wasn't ministerial and he didn't try to hide things. But he had a thing for guys who were religious (Ultra Orthodox Jews, otherwise observant Muslims, Mormon missionaries, etc.) Obviously, it was tough for him to meet guys in those rather insular circles but I think that was part of the appeal for him. Yeah, a shrink would have had a field day with him but what does it matter? -
OK, so I'm not missing anything 🤣 I definitely feel the ring and, as I mentioned, if I'm fingering a guy I can feel the prostate. In my experience -- and maybe I'm doing it wrong -- most guys aren't super into being fingered. They don't HATE it but it doesn't get a big reaction either way so I quickly move on to something that does. I suppose that makes sense; my finger isn't as filling as my cock -- or fist, for that matter.
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So here's a question for my fellow tops: Can you feel the prostate when fucking? I know I can't. Sure, if I'm fingering a guy I know where it is but it's not prominent enough that my cock would notice. If I could, and I knew it turned him on, I'd probably make it a habit to shoot there
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This is the conundrum: The concept of incest generally turns me on. Twins porn? Gets me off every time. But I had zero interest toward my father and I never had brothers, though I've fantasized about my imaginary ones 🙂 I had a crush on a cousin when I was a kid but we weren't close so the opportunity never presented itself. He isn't hot anymore but I'd still swallow him. But yeah, if I had the opportunity for a threesome with a biological father/son, I'd totally do it. Probably would suck dad off then kiss son so he can taste the seed that made him. Two brothers would be hot as well...
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What is the best position to get seeded as deep as possible?
phillygwm replied to Pampix's topic in General Discussion
I love it when a guy is riding my cock and when I'm ready to blow, he kicks out his legs and puts all his weight on my crotch. Can't get deeper than that 🙂 -
You're doing God's work 🤣 I miss having a FB who was just there to please me. My last regular (who got a monogamous bf) used to have two holes that seemed to be molded for my cock but his mouth especially. I'd warn him beforehand so he could prepare if I wanted to fuck but he was someone who could get me off with no hands so that was usually difficult to resist. Occasionally, if I was feeling especially primal, I'd paint his intestines but 90% of the time I went down his throat. I actually asked him which he preferred once and he told me he loved both equally. It didn't really matter; if I wanted his ass he'd give it to me but I felt a bit less guilty about making him do all the work 🙂 Last time we got together he was starting to have ED issues but he usually didn't want to get off anyway. So who am I to argue? I'd diddle with his foreskin (which he didn't exactly love but he knew how much it turned me on) and his balls (possibly the biggest I've seen) while he blew me.
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Hard no. My nips are supersensitive, not in a good way. I'll play with yours if you want, just stay away from mine.
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I've known a few guys who "turned" gay. In each case, they were always gay but closeted. They got married anyway usually owing to religion or family pressures. Then they'd find a nice glory hole and do their thing. To this day, one of my friends tells me "There used to be a great bookstore here" when we're driving through some town, referring to when he was married in the late 1970s. In each case, the marriages broke up and the guys are either married (to a man) or in a relationship. They all had kids, whom they're proud of so regret isn't the best word to describe their time in the "bush" league. But the wives were profoundly hurt by the situation.
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Without getting into the specific sexual acts of ancient Greeks and Romans, For the most part, I doubt it were the younger ones using their older slaves or prostitutes. And unquestionably, there would be a power imbalance between a slave and whomever was having sex with him. I'm sure some 13 year olds are mature enough (physically and emotionally) to handle it. But think about when you were that age: There was a lot (non-sexual) I thought I could handle in the moment that, in retrospect, I probably couldn't. I was absolutely a horny and precocious kid and I could handle what I was doing...with other kids. But I also knew I was gay at the time. Thinking of the scandals with Scout leaders or priests, a lot of kids were f'd up and some got addicted or offed themselves as a result. But again, that's probably more an issue of power imbalance than a couple kids messing around in the basement.
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General fuck club norms clash with local custom at PNW bathhouse
phillygwm replied to NWUSHorny's topic in Your Last Load...
That's what I was thinking. Usually, when I slide into a guy, I'll finish in him so it isn't an issue (though hopefully the bottom was clean.) Would I tell a guy to douche out the 4 loads he was holding inside before I fucked him? Fuck no, here's number 5! Sure, if I was obviously brown when I pulled out (that wasn't the shade I were born) I'd want to clean up first...but that's my ick. Otherwise I wouldn't bother. If someone called me on it, I'd point out that his hole, clean though it may be, isn't exactly a sterile environment in the first place. Would that kill the mood too much? 🙂 -
Talk about doing God's work 🙂
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What's the longest you've gone without cumming?
phillygwm replied to Tiboer's topic in General Discussion
It would have been relatively recently. My sex drive just dried up and my testosterone level was low. Still is, but my drive has rebounded. I usually don't jerk off multiple times a day, as I once did, but probably closer to a cadence that "most people" (i.e. not on here!) would consider normal. -
Where did you get (or give) your last load?
phillygwm replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
I always wondered whether that was possible 🙂 I've only fisted a couple times of which one was about 2/3 to my elbow. They enjoyed it but weren't hard. I love feeling an ass clamping me when the bottom cums and wondered how it would be with my fist/arm in there. -
I've paid for BBRT. It was great at first but as time progressed, like any hookup site, it works better while travelling versus seeing the same old guys from the vicinity. So I'll usually resubscribe when I know I'll be travelling.
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Wet dreams. When was your first and do you still have them
phillygwm replied to ffabbian's topic in General Discussion
Nope, never had one. Though I had lots of sexy dreams, I jerked off consciously all the time, so I don't think a big load ever had an opportunity to build up. -
I've been with bottom guys who don't want me to diddle with them, so they'll wear a jock or something similar. I find that a big turnoff; last time I met someone (face down, ass up, in a jock, no touching) I couldn't even get it up. The biggest turnon for me is if a guy meets me at the door (assuming I'm travelling to him) naked. If they're visiting me, then as little as practical. Definitely commando, ideally hard, maybe in grey sweatpants so strangers can see what he's working with 🙂 Biker shorts can work from an exhibition standpoint, but those can be difficult to get off.
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I'd love to get you off first, then load him up in front of you.
