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Even if you are the hottest thing on earth it is rare to find a stream of guys who will give up the load. Many want to save it. There can be a crowd effect though. I don't take loads in the ass but my record orally is 12 down my throat and 2 facials in less than two hours. That was the Saturday Night of Pride weekend so I can understand why everyone would be slutty, but not why they chose to give me their loads that quickly. I have had some occasions where I got 5 or 6 in quick succession when kneeling in a darkroom at the baths just from that crowd effect. As soon as one pulled away another one jumped in. About a year ago I did have a lineup of three guys in succession walk into the glory hole booth I was at and fuck me with a condom. As each left, he told the guy outside it was worth it, so it was like getting reviews on the fly

There is very little professional porn that holds any appeal to me precisely because of the bullshit formula. I don't mind if a guy is pounding away and pulls out for one second as he starts to shoot and then drives it back in to pump the rest of the load deep. That way you tend to get a creamy frothy cum churning action. But my preference is to just see the top tense up, his ballsac contract and start thrusting and dumping inside with cum eventually leaking out around his pumping cock. And I love the moment when the top pulls out and his cock is followed by a ******* of cum pouring out a gaping asshole. Even better if the bottom then turns around and takes the dirty cum and ass juice covered cock in his mouth for a cleaning. (Honestly when I have barebacked a little bit it has mainly been so I could do ass to mouth). What I hate hate hate is after a period of fucking if the top pulls out and jacks off for 2 minutes eventually dribbling a load on the legs or stomach or back of the bottom. Who needs that? If the bottom's ass wasn't hot enough to get the top off from fucking why would it get me off watching?

This strikes home a bit. I live in Toronto and Steamworks is my favourite place to have sex. I am familiar with the fuckbench described. I am a Neg Bi Bottom who uses condoms. I can't say I am 100% condom as I have taken bare cock on a few occasions either through stealth or lust, but I don't make a habit of it. I have never taken a load anally. I find bareback incredibly hot (which is why I am here) but I can't take the risks myself. I have rarely been fucked on that fuckbench precisely because I am not a "no dicks refused" bottom, and so it would be inappropriate fro me to hog the bench, ass up and then start issuing all sorts of qualifications of my actual preferences. "I am lubed, douched and prone in the middle of a public space but please be over 8 inches, uncut and I want to suck you first" would be a ludicrous position to take. But I don't think someone taking a simple stance "You must use a condom to fuck me" is in any way unreasonable. From my observations bareback sex at places like this in Toronto is much more common than it used to be. That being said I would say that the fucking I observe on that bench is majority with condom. It is not some bizarre outlier. I have seen a lot of bottoms take a guy with a condom who pulls out and is replaced by a guy going in bare with no complaints from anyone so I concede that not all bottoms being fucked with condoms are insisting on condoms. But it is a common scenario. The only times I have been fucked on that bench was when it was not busy, and either resulted from a guy I was playing with nearby leading me to the empty bench to be fucked, or when I hooked up with a top who was hanging out alone in the room with the fuckbench waiting for a bottom to cum by. The latter scenario led to my only broken condom experience. It started with me walking into that room to find a black guy with 8.5 uncut inches sitting on the bench reaching out for me. After he got an Extra Large condom, he bent me over and fucked me hard for about 15 minutes. A crowd gathered to watch and the excitement and gasps when he pulled out revealing a tattered ring of rubber at his base and the rest of the condom disappeared in shreds was an incredible moment. I can understand the collective excitement of seeing that. It scared the hell out of me but I found it incredibly hot. I didn't attribute it to stealthing, but I suppose somebody could have "helped" by adding some oil based lube at some point. That would piss me off, and it should be unacceptable. He only fucked me for about a minute after the point (i realized retrospectively) that the condom broke, and he didn't cum in my ass, so I really had no issues with him. And if I had been watching I would have found it incredibly hot. But anybody thinking that intentionally stealthing a bottom is just giving him what he deserves is kinda fucked up. I am also not averse to someone trying to re-negotiate condom use. Whether it stays fantasy or becomes a challenge to the risks I will take, I have no problem with a guy who is fucking me with a condom trying to convince me to take it bare. But trying to slip off a condom secretly and go in bare, or tampering with a condom to make it fail are just not cool.

I love uncut cock but it has to be clean. One of the reasons I like the baths. However I understand if a guy is stopping off at a glory hole after a hard day of work and will clean that up with my mouth. I have eaten a lot of pussy that has not been washed for a couple of days. No big deal. Nothing compared to the funk that an uncut dick on a sweaty man could develop

Not a pity fuck exactly but my first actual man to man contact could probably be described as a pity handjob. I was in my early 20s and buying bisexual porn in a convenience store. As I left a man followed me out and approached me with some comically inept request for directions or something. He was about forty, a bit of a paunch and just a really generic suburban dad look. It did nothing for me but you could just see the combination of fear and confusion and lust and panic. I had been approached by similar men in similar circumstances and not considered hooking up. Middle aged men driving station wagons slowly through deserted parking lots at night asking me if I was on the wrestling team, that sort of thing. But this was not creepy. It was immediately apparent that he had mustered up all of his courage to approach me and I did not feel like just walking away. We went to his car. Mini van actually (of course) filled with kid stuff and the amenities of someone travelling on business. We talked a bit. Everything I said was a lie, I expect him as well. He started rubbing his cock through his pants and then reached over to mine. I pushed his hand away and slid my hand over to his crotch. I was surprised at the heat I felt coming from his pants. I struggled to unzip his pants (something I am still terrible at to this day) but freed his cock. It was small, maybe four inches and while I had never actually held another man's cock in my hand I already knew I was a size queen. But it was uncut, which I like. I started stroking and he gasped. He was oozing copious pre-cum and it slicked up my hand and his shaft. I really got off on playing with his skin and wanted to lick it. I started to bend over but he stopped me saying he was afraid of diseases. It was the early 1990s when we still being bombarded with messages to use dental dams when eating pussy lest we risk the 100% chance of getting HIV from a straight college girl so there is context. The rest of it is a bit of a depressing blur except for the moment where he knew I was going to make him cum and he warned me in a panic that he was going to cum and a simply told him "Cum all over me". It was a big load and the scent of cum immediately filled the humid confines of the car. So the the palpable air of guilt. Hey I am a guy, I know that post cum shame. I just cheerfully wrapped things up and left. Handjobs in general bore the hell out of me. Really didn't do much for me, and I only did it because he took the chance.

Wow. My first new thread start ever and I get the first two responses from one of my favourite Tops (RawTop) and my favourite Bottoms (TigerMilner) on the site. And a specific helpful suggestion from JizzDumpWi. Thanks! I already have a >$1000 camera and an Android smartphone with an 8MP camera (and all my personal mail, data, etc). Both are more than good enough cameras (but on the Android Phone I can't take a photo without logging in like on the iPhone). Neither are appropriate for handing off to an anonymous stranger about to fuck my ass. I see people complaining about being ripped off at baths for $20 or a half filled bottle of poppers, so am apprehensive about putting something valuable in someone's hands. That is why I mentioned the $50 price point. I just figured that there must be something out there at that price point that equals the functionality of a phone camera from 2 or 3 years ago (realizing that the phone cost more than $50 but most of that money is not for the camera portion) . Also I understand Tiger's point that most pics like this look the same. Agreed, but this would be my ass, and I have never seen it fucked. I am also the kind of bottom who doesn't like to cum while being fucked (or even play with my cock). I like it all to be about the Top's cock(s) and then I go home and jerk off thinking about it. Would be a nice addition to have a pic. Oh yeah, and Advertising! I don't have a lot of really great pics for my profile to encourage Tops to hit me up.

Guys, I am looking for input. I would really like to get some pictures of me getting fucked. I was looking for something cheap enough that if it got broken or stolen it would be no big deal. Simple, capable of stills and video, storage on an SD card and some ability for relatively low light performance would be factors. Overall high end image quality and features not needed. Most of my sex is at the baths, usually in public areas/darkrooms. But i would like the option of asking a guy if he wants to come back to my room where I can get some pictures of his cock i my ass. If he is shy then we can just keep on doing our thing in public. My goal is not to record people without their knowledge. The camera on my cell phone is probably good enough quality, i just don't feel like handing it over, unlocked to anyone. I have tried one of those Car cameras people put on their dashboards but the quality was either grainy or very weird colours maybe due to the low light/ IR features. Just something point and shoot i could give to a willing top to record his dick in my ass. While the baths I frequent do have individual lighting control in rooms, it would still likely be low light in photgraphic terms. It strikes me that something equal to the camera on a phone ought to be available for $50 but I have not found it yet. Suggestions? Experience?

I have a preference for black guys. While generalizations are only that - general - I find that a higher than average percentage of black guys I meet are: uncut over 8 inches Tops which are all good things to me. I have parted amicably from encounters with guys when it became apparent that they were more interested in me fucking them, but that probably doesn't count. I can think of two occasions where I did turn down black guys, each with about 9.5 uncut inches. Both wanted to bareback me. As a rule I don't bareback, but nothing is more likely to tempt me to give in than a big black uncut cock. But one had a particularly bad case of warts. The other was pressuring me to go bareback, pulled off his condom and went back in me. I told him I was neg and needed to stay that way and asked his status. He got all flustered and acted offended and hemmed and hawed and eventually said he was neg too. But it wasn't too convincing. I expected either a matter of fact answer of Poz or Neg, or even just a confident lie, but the fact that he couldn't come clean (so to speak) was enough for me to call it a day. I don't discriminate against poz guys and will suck and swallow their cum, but if barebacking comes up I try to make it clear that I am neg and this limits what I will do fucking wise.

Pozzing is irreversible so if in doubt,be conservative and play safe for now.You can always change your mind for later. It sounds as though you are mainly interested in a relationship (although maybe one with some extras on the side) which could be an advantage. I get off on anonymous sex soit is much harder to succumb to BB and feel even slightly "safe". With your move to London you should have an opprtunity to meet lots of new people. Maybe you will find one who is neg or on meds and undetectable and settle into a relationship where you feel comfortable barebacking. But until then I would play safe. I know it isn't as hot. I know it isn't as comfortable. I would love to not experience condom burn and get my ass filled and clean dicks with nasty ass to mouth abandon, but I am playing at the baths with a lot of guys who are poz and I cannot afford to poz. But I have no interest in settling down. I want a stream of strange cock. So I have to play safe. Sounds like you may have an opportunity for a different kind of compromise. Until then keep your options open.

Barracks closed about 10 years ago. It was a great place. Swallowed my first load there back in the mid 1990s. Not sure about the ToolBox. Was it just a bar, not a bath? Cellar is still open, They don't have a web presence but Wednesday is their busy day. I used to hit it for lunchtime special occasionally but have not been much in recent years. It is smaller so can be hit and miss and I prefer a place that has douche facilities. Which means the aforementioned Spa Excess or Steamworks, which exists in the same location as the previous Spa on Maitland, which closed about 8 or 9 years ago.

One of the reasons I like the baths is that am not there to kiss or cuddle. Some guys are. That is fine. I am there to get fucked by big cocks and swallow cum down my deep throat. But if we want different things we can be honest and part ways and 5 minutes later each hook up with someone suitable.

I cant even bring myself to write the word, let alone say it. it just seems toxic However I have had black guys who liked to ask "you want to get fucked by this n____ dick" which i could answer with a hearty "yes!"

In general I prefer thick loads and love the feeling of it just gushing out over my tongue but i also really like feeling explosive shots blast down my throat, especially if he has a really big cock and just buries it. also really love tonguing the extra cum out from under a foreskin

like many others it seems like an odd question. as a bottom i have no desire to cum while being fucked. i usually don't even get hard. i love going home and jacking off to the memories. i have only been close to cumming twice. first when i lost my cherry splayed face down with his thrusts rubbing m cock against the mattress. and another time of multiple firsts, It was only abot the fourth time I was fuckedand was also the first tine I was fucked standing up which was also the first time I was fucked i front of a room of people and the first time I was fucked while sucking cock. the rhytym of being fucked swung my dick back and forth andwhen i got a mouthful of cum i almost lost it. Then the top pushed my head down and slammed into me so that my cock swung forward and strands of my own pre-cum splashed me in the face

Just goes to show you how individual our desires are. For me, I don't know how this is even a question. Two ten inchers? Where and when?

I am a dilettante here, a bottom who would love to to get barebacked and take loads but can't accept the risk of pozzing. So i read your experiences and experience vicariously. I can say that in my limited bareback experience the specific act that a top did to drive me crazy was to go ass to mouth. Almost every time a cock went in my ass bare it was a surprise to me in a darkroom. But almost every time when it withdrew from my ass it went straight into my mouth. On two occasions I was playing with a couple,sucking the bottom while his top bare fucked him. Each time the top came in the bottom's ass, causing the bottom to shoot in my mouth. Then the top shoved his dripping dirty cock in my mouth for a cleaning. Finally the bottom turned and pressed his cummy hole to my mouth for a proper felching. I want a top to degrade me by pulling a cock straight from an ass and shove it in my mouth.

No. I think bareback porn is great. I have zero interest in condom porn. If they are going to fuck with condoms I would rather just see them suck bare cock. Internal cumshots and/or shooting into open asses/mouths/pussies is where it is at. I love to see cum running out of an overflowing ass, or getting stirred into a foamy froth by a cumming pumping cock. But for me it serves as a bit of a substitute for taking anal loads myself rather than an instigator. I use condoms when I bottom not because I want to but because I don't want to poz. But in porn, satisfying my fantasy I need it to be bare. It has very little fantasy value to me if rubbered. edit - I should have added that very little pro porn holds my interest. I really prefer amateur stuff. Either pure amateur - two guys recording their natural fucking, or semi-amateur stuff that might be professionally produced but not with any bullshit plots or sets and featuring guys who aren't really part of a professional porn industry. Generally bareback stuff also tends to be from these categories.

At a very basic level I want a cock that can give me long strokes that I can feel all the way, and preferably thick enough for me to feel stretched. In contrast to what others said I do not prefer a rock hard cock, rather I like a cock so big that it remains a bit spongey. I love that feeling when sucking and it makes it easier to cram a really big one down my throat or up my ass. I don't care about looks or age or body type within reason. I am not as picky about cock size when I am sucking, but I really prefer to suck uncut cocks. To each his own I guess.

Jesus! Don't try to puncture it or put salicylic acid, or freezing shit. That could make it worse. Honestly if you open that up and then get a bacterial infection in a location like that it can be a bitch. It looks like a hemorrhoid. It actually looks like a really really minor one. Lots of them can look like blood blisters and be purple and puffy and painful. I would suggest seeing a doctor to be sure, but this looks pretty straightforward. Also as a bi guy who is not exactly all that keen with discussing my cock gobbling activities with my family doctor I can understand the reluctance. The two times that I had similar worries keeping me up nights I went to the clinic in town that specializes in sexual health services for the LGBT community here. They are non-judgmental, have seen it all and here will treat anonymously. The last part may be the thing you want/need to validate with local providers. It may be from the fucking. I have twice had a hemorrhoid show up a day or so after being fucked. I am still not that experienced in bottoming, but it happened when I tensed up with his initial penetration. It wasn't a lack of lube, but the fact that as soon as he started in I clamped down. I now try to pre-lube my hole and spend some time inserting two fingers to loosen up. You can try some over the counter hemorrhoid cream but honestly most of those don't even have a medically established mechanism of action. A doctor may give you a topical steroid, but those things can suppress immune response so would exacerbate any possible infection. Apart from the other advice I would add a couple of things. Don't strain when taking a dump. Don't try to push it out. That will make it worse. Don't spend a lot of time sitting on the toilet, even innocently. Don't read on the toilet. I am being serious here. There actually has been a demonstrated linkage between time spent sitting on a toilet and hemorrhoids. The subtle pressure on the anus just from the ring of the toilet can be a factor. Apparently hemorrhoids are less common in societies where they just shit in a hole. Some of this must be related to diet. Which then brings up the whole diet thing. If you have inconsistent bowel movements, too hard, too soft, too infrequent then if you can't change your diet at least add some psyllium fiber laxative. I don't mean whatever laxative is at the Duane Reade although they certainly will have something appropriate. The objective is not to take something that makes you shit, it is to take something that affects the quality of your shit and makes it less likely to damage your hole.

I am at the opposite end of the spectrum, as I love cum, but it is more the idea than the actual taste. I have found a real range of tastes from sweet to bitter and all over the map. I probably get off more on the smell of cum than the taste. Interesting that several guys mention they like other guys' cum but not their own. I am in this group. At least one guy has the reverse opinion. All to show that this is not a straightforward issue. There are lots of variables. While I agree with those who posted that you should not do anything you don't want to sexually, I will offer one piece of advice. For people who don't like the taste of cum, spitting may actually be worse than swallowing. I am bi and gave this advice to a woman who said she hated the taste of cum. I pointed out to her that holding the cum in her mouth so she could spit it out just covered her taste buds in the sticky stuff. If she just took the cock deep and let it shoot, much of it would go down her throat without really getting on the parts of the tongue with the taste receptors. This is also a good way to encourage reluctant cocksuckers to deepthroat. It actually is a fave of mine to have a guy drill it deep and blast a load off the back of my throat that I just gulp down. I mainly "taste" it from the scent filling my head (which also gets into the whole "how much taste is really smell" issue). Then I actually get a real up close taste when I milk the last drops onto my tongue. Best of all worlds.

I am a neg bottom who (with a few slips) doesn't bareback or take loads in the ass. Obviously BB turns me on which is why I am here to hear people's real experiences. BB porn -preferably amateur- is the only kind I can watch. The few times I have had a bare cock in my ass have been so much better than any rubbered fuck that I can understand why you all embrace bareback. I respect other's choices but personally cannot take the risk. While outright bug chasing is not something I can understand, I do get that some guys feel a relief when they convert, because an element of fear associated with sex is then gone. In my own experience one of the biggest dampers on enjoyment is the fear of condoms breaking. Psychologically it can really interfere, and gets worse the longer a fuck goes on. And because I really like being fucked by big cocks I worry even more about the condom's ability to contain monster dicks. This seems to be an area that the safe sex community never really engages on. What to do, How frequently it happens, whether the range of condom sizes really contain the range of cock sizes etc. Since most of the group here used condoms at some point I wanted to ask. How frequently have you found condoms break? Are there any patterns to this? Amount or type of lube? Duration of the fuck? Size of the cock? Type of condom? When does breakage occur? Thanks for your thoughts.

I don't know if this counts as stealthed, but I was at the baths, and i wandered into the room with the fuckbench. There was a muscular 30 something black guy sitting there. I had noticed him earlier but did not think he was into me. He smiled and asked me "are you having fun?" I replied "Yes but I could have some more" He laughed and reached out to me. I slid down to the floor and he took off his towel revealing a very thick 8 inch uncut cock. I took him into my mouth and slid his entire length into my throat and then came back up to pay special attention to his head. Rolling back his foreskin he was a little musky. Not a big smegma deal, just that he had not done a full retraction cleaning in the shower. It kind of excited me because his cock clearly had not been worked over by other sluts leading me to think i could get his first big load. He seemed to enjoy my service and a lot of face fucking and dirty talk followed. We drew a bit of a crowd to watch, but after about 20 minutes it became clear that he was not yet ready to give up his load. He stood me up, thanked me and embraced me pressing together. As he moved away I lingered near the bench. He started to pass and gave my ass a light slap. I moaned and pushed back. He stopped and pressed his heavy cock against my ass cheeks and slid hi fingers down. Finding my hole douched and pre lubed with Silicone lube he steeredme back to the bench and bent me over. As he slid his fingers inside me I handed him a condom. After he put it on he positioned my knees on the bench and got behind me, putting his fat cockhead against my ass. He pushed forward and I tried to relax but it hurt like hell taking his entire thickness. He knew I was struggling and while he buried the full length he did so gently. After about 30 seconds I loosened up. I reached back between my legs to feel the rubbered cock entering me and then pushed back on it taking him balls deep. This was the signal he needed to start fucking in earnest. The next minutes were a blur of hard fucking and the sounds of the dozen or so guys who were gathered watching jacking off. I know at one point he pulled all the way out, pointed out my gaping hole to a spectator then spat into my hole for extra lube and shoved his dick back in. When he re-entered I again felt his cock for the rubber. After about 7 or 8 minutes of hard fucking i felt something almost like a pop but he kept on fucking. He pulled out again briefly and slammed in again. This time I did not check. He fucked harder and harder and I thought he was going to cumas he pounded me relentlessly, buied it and then pulled out. He let out a laugh and I heard others gasp. I turned and reached out and felt his cock. It was bare and slick with the distinctive feel of the silicone lube from my ass. I was stunned. I didnt even do what would have been my normal reaction to take his cockass to mouth both for the dirty dirty slutty feeling and to check if he had cumin my ass bare, but I was paralysed. I thought he had bred me for sure. His cock was starting to soften a bit but he there was no cum leaking even when I milked it. And he was not at all extra sentive in that poet cum way. I stroked the head of his cock and slid backhis foreskin. Damn I wish I had sucked him. He empatically said "I will definitley see you again later" and left the room. I felt me ass. No cum. I stood up. Nothing dripped down my leg. But he was pretty big I guess he could have buried it deep. I went to the bathroom and shoved two fingers up my ass. Nothing. Not the slightest wetness. just the slick silicone lubed walls of my hole. I squatted down and tried to squeeze anything out. Nothing ever came out , then or later. So unless he shot the smallest load possible as deep as possible and happens to have no sensitive refractory period,I don't think he seeded me. But still

I wonder if there area few guys voting who don't really take raw cock or loads but read this site and participate because the idea of raw sex is so compelling. It seems bizarre that guys would think that they could effectively sero-sort with anonymous hookups. Although I did overhear a strange conversation at the baths about six months ago. Two 20-something guys retired to the room next to me and began a conversation that clearly indicated these guys had just met. It eventually led to sounds of sucking and then fucking. As the slamming and moaning approached climax I heard the top say "Gonna cum in your ass", followed by a voice (not sure which) asking "are you Neg?" which received an affirmative response and the reply "me too". So I suppose those guys would vote that they think they will stay Neg because they ask a total stranger who is 10 seconds away from shooting in their ass if he is Neg. On the other hand I think this forum has its share of vicarious thrill seekers like me. I don't generally bareback. I have had fewer than 10 cocks in me bare and all but 2 of them were just for a few seconds. Guys who entered me bare without discussion while I was sucking cock at at bath. While I broke off each of these quickly (and took their cocks into my mouth - a huge turn on to get an opportunity to do ass to mouth) it did strike me how easily their cocks slid into me without the friction of rubber. It did lead me to play a bit with fire. I let two guys fuck me bare for a while. One for about 10 minutes and one for about 3 or 4 minutes. Neither came in my ass although the second guy really wanted to. Both had huge 10+ inch uncut cocks, which was a major motivator for me. Yes I am a size queen. Could not believe how easily I took those all the way. And not just some gentle half-assed fucking. The first guy had me upside-down, piledriving my ass hard with full balls deep strokes. And I had barely ever been fucked before, even safely. The first was almost a year ago and the second was about 8 months ago. I have tested neg twice since, most recently this month. But I was very apprehensive, and that (logical) fear will prevent me from barebacking as I want to stay neg. I am not as much about the loads, although I love cum. But I would be happy to take all loads in my mouth. Love ass to mouth anyway. For me the feeling - and psychology - of taking bare cock is the bigger turn on. But I can't take the risk. It is still hot to read and dream.

Totally the cock

i don't moan a lot while getting fucked but i do like to tell the top i am digging it and he can fuck me harder