tallslenderguy

Brilliant!!

Just left... hard not to adore Him. i'm going to San Diego tomorrow to see a friend and He told me at the beginning of the week He'd have to breed me a lot since i was going to be gone, so He's been here everyday. i feel like He just fucked me 15 times, i don't know how He does it He has so much stamina, and He plows hard. my hole is totally wrecked, feels so opened, marked... like He put His signature all over me. i feel awesome.

i've received 1000's of cocks in my life, and only once have i ever had an issue... and it was very minor. To me, the best strategy is a healthy diet with lots of whole food fiber and a shower shot. i have a FB Who texts me several times a week and wants to breed with little notice (He's gotten better about that in the last year lol), but it often only takes me about five minutes to get very clean with a shower nozzle. i switched nozzles awhile back to one with holes on the side vs one on the tip, and that has made a really big difference using a shower douche. Read enough of other guys experiences, and it becomes clear that getting water past the sigmoid is the cause of a lot of issues, but even that with some understanding and practice can be eliminated as an issue with proper technique and post douche checks. To me, the A ball sounds like a rectal gerbil hospital visit waiting to happen. Especially if the bottom is taking random Cocks and cannot monitor size/length. It could get pushed up into the Sigmoid (aka "the second hole") i suspect research has demonstrated that it will not harm the bottom, because of how it's made, it will likely eventually pass. But, anatomically, it would no longer be effective as a 'plug' once dislocated. It will also inhibit penetration, and shorten the area that can be penetrated. Also could be a source of pain for the bottom because it's when the Top gets past the Sigmoid curve when 'second hole' penetration becomes .... amazing. This will be a sort of condom that will prevent deeper penetration and deeper breeding. As a bottom, i want my Tops seed past the sigmoid because i can absorb all of it there, the rectal breeding is not as effective,.

To me? partly. i have a fairly complex view of the Top/bottom dynamic. To me, a Top has two cocks, His physical cock and an internal cock that drives the external, physical cock. i don't think i've ever met a Top Who wore a condom because He loves the way it feels, He does it to protect Himself against potentially catching an STD, or maybe He has cleanliness concerns. Either way, He is sacrificing part of His total desire to penetrate, fuck, orgasm, inseminate, breed. As i see it, all of those involve His physical cock and His internal cock. With a condom, he is sacrificing the element of skin on skin, To me, He's literally avoiding/sacrificing that component of Topping, even if He's the one Who ultimately empties the condom into His bottom. Two parts of bottoming i desire/need (crave lol) is receiving all of those parts i listed. While i perceive orgasm and insemination as closely tied together, i also see them as distinct. So, even if He ultimately empties the condom into me and seeds me, He disconnected it from His skin on skin orgasm inside of me. He not only sacrificed His physical skin on skin breeding of me, He also sacrificed some of the pleasure of His orgasm. i am impregnated and bond to both., and that's missing with a condom.

lol. Feeling stupid is their own damned fault for saying "crap."

my FB came by after the gym, fucked me long and hard, totally naked. It was sweet and awesome. i'm full of cum.

Yesterday... and He contacted me again today after His work... He likes to breed me after work usually, but i was out today on an appointment, so i texted Him back letting Him know i didn't know when i'd be home and He texted back: "after you get home then." Hell yeah!! i was hoping so. He's started to drift back into being a Total Top. He likes when i wear lingerie, says He likes to "bitch" me, and the last couple of months He does this thing when He's fucking me (i'm always lying on my stomach) and He reaches under and hold my chest like i have breasts... and damn, i do feel bitched, so i got a lace bra and some silicone breasts that trans people wear, and surprised Him a couple of fucks back. He came as soon as He reached under the first time, so i figured it really turned Him on, and He even told me He likes it...and He's a Man of few words, so i latch onto everything He says. It feels weird and awkward, i'm not fem and don't pass at all, but He gets so turned on and i love that. Also, i'm not fem, but i love that He loves to emasculate me, it doesn't feel mean or forceful at all, it just feels like extreme opposites attracting and bonding. i texted him, He's at the gym and said it would probably be a couple of hours... im prepped and ready.

You wrote: "extremism is for sure, both on the conservative side and liberal/progressive side. In that, both are increasing as responses to each other. It's only when we choose to take non-extreme positions that things settle down." That seems a "nebulous construct" to me. my question was quoting your assertion that "non-extreme positions" will settle things down. i see trump and his administration as extreme, i do not see how choosing non-extreme positions in response will settle things down.

For anyone who is interested, a google search will produce numerous examples of trump being called out for violating the constitution. i'll quote and link one source below. Without a doubt, trump and his supporters will disagree. Of course, none of "we," left, right or in between get to decide those things, they are being considered in our court system. And, no doubt, there will always be disagreements with court rulings. Where "we" do get a say in how our constitution and laws are interpreted by our government, is at the ballot box. One recent example where the supreme court ruled: "... the Supreme Court ruled on February 20 that many of his tariffs—those that invoked the International Emergency Economic Powers Act (IEEPA)—were unconstitutional." [think before following links] https://factually.co/fact-checks/justice/times-trump-violated-constitution-ce6ac3

What "non extreme positions" will "settle down" trumps extremism?

I know it's a long video/essay and not all will watch. The first 40 minutes are really setting forth the origination of fascism and how it came to be named. After the 40 minute mark, Johnny Harris interviews several scholars and experts on fascism... and, they do not all agree either, but they do come up with a list of things that typically goes along with fascism. i'm also concerned with the response to__________________. (whatever one calls the current group in charge). Out of curiosity, i asked Artificial Intelligence what it 'thought': "Did Europe initially take a moderate approach to hitler?" (i probably could have included mussolini in that). Here's the response: "Yes, Europe initially took a moderate approach to Hitler's rise. In the early years of Hitler's regime, many European leaders underestimated his ambitions, believing he would moderate his aggressive policies. This cautious response was characterized by several key factors: Policy of Appeasement Britain and France adopted a policy of appeasement, hoping to maintain peace by conceding to some of Hitler's demands, such as the annexation of Austria and the Sudetenland. This approach was largely influenced by the desire to avoid another devastating conflict after World War I. Economic Priorities Many European nations, particularly Britain, were focused on recovering from the Great Depression, which led to a lack of urgency regarding the threat posed by Nazi Germany. Initial Legitimization Early diplomatic efforts, such as the Four-Power Pact, conferred a degree of legitimacy on the Nazi regime, reflecting a reluctance to confront Hitler directly."

lol, this topic comes up pretty frequently. i've responded to it a few times, but not everyone reads the older posts. The "second ring" is the sigmoid curve. It's different in everyone, some people have a shorter rectum, some longer, some a shorter cock, some a longer. What the bottom is feeling (and can be painful for some) is when the cock is trying to get through that curve. It's flexible, and a hard cock can sorta straighten it out and get through the other side, and if the Top stays deep with shorter thrusts, he can stay past that point and be fucking you deeper. If He pulls out of the sigmoid, each time He hits it, He is sort of re unbending and getting through, though i suspect what happens after a few thrusts is the curve becomes less severe and it can start to feel very good. Pics below

Johnny Harris analyzes the origins of "fascism" as in the 20th century, then fast forwards to today (around the 40 mark) and identifies several countries where he questions if they are heading towards fascism or are fascist from a list of qualifiers. Then proposes a different term "illiberal democracy" to consider. I'm still watching i'm at about the 45 mark.

i've watched some of the televised cabinet meetings the White House put out, kinda creepy how everyone around the table seems to take turns fawning on Trump.

Some interesting discussion/opinion about what goes on in the current White House.

As a bottom, i love the intent when a Top goes balls deep to breed, There are so many ways a Top can communicate while He is fucking, and my favorite is when He obviously is fucking to open and breed. i love it when a Top tells me He is breeding me too. to me it adds another layer, but balls deep plants His seed past the "second hole" which ensures i can absorb every bit of Him, which i love. I work to hold all His seed in, i have if i lose any of Him after. So, i'm grateful for an intentional breeder ❤️

Seems that way to me too. i haven't tried the BHouses in Pdx since before covid, and even then, it was getting progressively slower when it comes to fucking. There's a couple of ABS where i live, and when i'd go to them, i could get 4-6 horny guys fucking me in a short period of time, no one hour drive. If i want more, i go to Palm Springs or Lauderdale, and agree, much easier to find guys who wanna fuck in both those places. i'm in a small town, so i feel really fortunate to have a FB who seems to want to breed almost daily. He even calls me when i'm at work, so i we seem to be in a symbiotic situation, which helps keep me from being desperate lol

i live in Oregon (11 years), about an hour south of Portland (Pdx) and i've not encountered what @NWUSHorny has. i've even had a few Guys Who drove from Pdx to breed me. I haven't been to the bath houses in Pdx since before Covid, and then only to Hawks. my results were always mixed, i get a lot more cock at a local ABS than a BH. my experience has been an ABS is one of the few left overs of gay cruising irl. i've never really experienced the quantity of fuckers in Pdx that would make the hour trip worth it to me, so i may have experienced what @NWUSHornydescribes about Pdx inadvertently. If i want more, i do a sexcation at a gay resort in Palm Springs or Mexico. The last 6 years, i've been lucky to have a local FB Who breeds me 3-4x a week, so i am not desperate lol. i do view this as social evolution, which is never clean, easy or concise. i see society moving to more individual sensitivity and commerce is ever playing catch up. It's a lot more profitable to have a once size fits all venue than create a gazillion different venues to try and accommodate every individual. i think it comes down to the consumer to clarify what they are looking for and do their best in the current culture to find it. i'm painfully blunt about who i am and what i am looking for on any apps/profiles, though i occasionally still get the guy who doesn't read the profile before contacting me. Given @NWUSHornyexperience, i don't see myself driving North any time soon... at least, not for sex.

There is still a big stigma attached to gay sex that runs through society. We learned a few years ago that a person can get sick and die, just going to a restaurant or the grocery store (covid). But people still went to the grocery store. Humans can catch all sorts of diseases from each other while in close proximity that happens with sex. No one asks a potential fuck mate if they have a cold or the flu. Those are sicknesses too, but they are not stigmatized, even though they can make you feel like hell, even kill you, with much worse symptoms than most STD's. And just like many STD's a person can be contagious without even knowing they are sick. No one asks for test results that prove they are flu negative before having sex. Or: "how often do you get tested for the flu virus." Some of us get flu shots, or take PrEP or make sure we are undetectable. All practical stuff that can be done to combat the realities of pathogens.

Aggressive and assertive are not the same thing. i understand some like aggressive, force, bullying, being treated like meat, etc., etc.. But that is an individual choice, We're all individuals and there is no standard Top, bottom or versatile, those are just labels we use to identify, we only learn each others individual interpretations of those labels through communication and experiencing each other. i have a gym sculpted, solid muscled FB Who's been breeding me 3-4x a week for six years. He's big and strong and pounds me hard when He fucks, but he is not aggressive, He's assertive. He's sensitive and affectionate in an assertive way. He has told me that He loves to "bitch" me. The way He touches and holds me while He is fucking me is very controlling, but not in an aggressive way. He is not mean or forceful, not a bully. i identify as bottom with a fair amount of sub. There are a lot of tops/doms who would disagree, and there are tops/doms who have loved and wanted me, and would reject the guy who just wants to be meat or trash. Again, we're all different. To me, the 22 year old you describe is an immature, selfish, clueless kid. Personally, i would not give him the time of day. Bottoming for me is not solely about the physical act, it's about connecting with another guy who wants to penetrate, fuck and breed me as much as i want Him to penetrate, fuck and breed me. It's the exercise of mutual need/want. my perception of a top/dom who has to force or bully is they are weak and insecure, trying to prove something to their self. This is only my take, i'm not turning it into a universal standard. This is why i won't have sex with this kind of guy, we are not compatible and i will not submit to him because sex with him would not be connection with him, and that is a big part of sex for me.

Just left... fucking awesome. Totally pregnant now.

Not yet, but in another hour my sweet FB is coming over. i'm a bit amazed at how i feel about Him coming over to fuck me after 6 years of 2-4x a week breeding. It just never gets old with Him. It's totally just a FB thing, we don't really have anything else in common, but damn the fuck chemistry we have blows me away. It may just be me lol. i'm easy, convenient. He's Bi but i don't think He's had a GF for a couple of years now. i got pretty freaky with Him yesterday, not sure what He thinks or feels about what i wrote about yesterday, but He seemed to like it. i find myself connecting with Him in unexpected ways. It's really good.

i need to look back and read your posts so i can learn from your examples of how to "consider "us" for a change."

About 15 minutes ago., my FB. For six years now, always leave my back door open for Him and am waiting for Him naked and ass up. The last year or so, we start with Him standing at the edge of my bed and me feasting on His awesome cock. Then He likes to suck me, and He's gotten really good at it. It's not something i usually do, but He's into it and i love His pleasure, so i end up getting hard... and lately He ends up presenting his "booty" for me to eat and fuck. i think He likes having His ass eaten as much as He likes getting fucked. i don't breed Him, i want to stay very horny for His orgasm. It's a psychological thing with me i guess, i love having one orgasm between us (His) and to receive His orgasm into me is like His orgasm becomes my orgasm. He's bred me close to 1000 times now and i do not feel any want for my own orgasm, i love the bond of sharing His orgasm. He's not very vocal, well, very expressive when i'm sucking or fucking Him, but in terms of talking about sex in between having it, He's very shy. Every once in a while He let's His thoughts slip though, and i've mentioned before that He told me once that He "loves to bitch me." He has this gentle way of Man handling me that makes me feel very possessed, controlled.... "bitched" i guess? He'll hold my waist in a way, and lately He reaches under and holds my chest as though i have breasts. He's Bi, so idk, He might have some sort of fantasy going on in His head? He got me some lacy things to wear, and really likes that, though i'm far from fem lol (well, some of the sounds i make when getting fucked may be? it's involuntary). Then i've gotten a few things, and He gets pretty primal when He comes in and sees me wearing the stuff, and hell, i love His primal lust. So i got an idea and bought a bra and some silicon breasts that i think is made for Trans people? idk, but i put them on today and some lingerie over it and then was lying on my stomach when He came in today. The idea was to surprise Him. Without getting up, i asked Him if He would just fuck me and He was totally game. About a third of the way He reached under to hold my chest like He usually does and got two good hands full lol. He said: "Oh Wow!, and started pounding me and kissing my neck. i think He liked it.

This morning. A surprise, He had an appointment before work and it finished early, so He called and asked if i wanted to "have some fun?" Before and after He fucks, He is the definition of casual and easy... while He is fucking, He is anything but. I wonder if He saves all of His focus and intensity for sex? Which automatically surfaces my own intensity and lust. a decided dance where connect and blend. He is a very cummer, sometimes lets out the smallest of sighs. i've learned to listen for it. i've also developed the ability to feel when His seed leaves His body and enters mine, something i never had before. because i am usually so sensually overwhelmed. But the longevity of this FB, probably close to 1000 breeds now, has resulted in a more detailed experience and knowing. He shyly smiles as He leaves and comments: "now you get to have Me in you the rest of the day."