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You might want to specify what vaccine you're referring to. People will probably assume it's Covid-19, but there are several other vaccines that are pretty relevant for sexually active gay men.

Any relationship is about negotiating a balance between your needs and the other person/people's. Communication is key.

You know what happens when you ASSUME. And that goes for what you assume about your partner(s), what you assume about others, and what others assume about you.

No one else has a right to tell you what to do. Rules (societal and otherwise) are there for a reason, which may be important, but you are the only one who gets to decide whether you follow them.

I'm thinking I'll try and get there for CumUnion that Friday. Not sure I'll have the wherewithal.

I will suggest the possibility that the pictures are accurate (within the limitations of camera angle and lighting), and your perception of size is not.

My dick is pretty damn big according to the perceptions of my partners. A large proportion of them comment on it. In photos it looks reasonably large but by no means giant. A tape measure says a little under 8 inches. 

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On 3/10/2022 at 7:29 PM, NLbear said:

I have read about bathhouses where you can also book (paid) time with a masseur. There are no bathhouses around where I live but I always wondered if those are 'real' massages or if it is their job to get to a Happy Ending as quickly as possible. 

The ones I used to get at a sex club in SF were straight ahead therapeutic. in fact, that was how I met the masseur who is the best I've ever encountered. still miss his work 20 years later. 

I unexpectedly had this happen about a year ago when I hired a masseur because my back pain was flaring up. I was rather disappointed, because the sex was OK but the massage part was very very lame. And I had specifically asked if he did deep tissue work, and it wasn't intended as a euphemism.

I'm with @BBArchangel on this one. I'm much more interested in bodywork as physical therapy.

9 hours ago, WhOregon said:

Since Admin forbid so many users from messaging each other

Sending private messages on the site is a privilege. This is so that random trolls and adbots can't sign up and immediately send people junk messages.

It is easy to earn the privilege. You just need to post actual forum content. By posting content that gets positive reactions from other users you will earn it even faster.

33 minutes ago, Bymike said:

The site should allow members to contact each other here

It does. You are a Junior Member now, so you should already have the privilege.

On 9/29/2021 at 1:44 PM, ErosWired said:

An 8” cock is somewhere around the 90th percentile. So if a man’s cunt is so loose he can no longer feel a cunt smaller than 8”, he’s basically supersized himself out of being able to enjoy 9 out of any 10 cocks he encounters.

The handy chart I found puts 8" at more like 99+ percentile. No sex for him!

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"As shown, 95% of erect penises fall within the range of 9.8 cm (3.86 in) to 16.44 cm (6.47 in)" from [think before following links] https://www.realclearscience.com/journal_club/2015/03/03/is_your_penis_normal_theres_a_chart_for_that_109106.html

Really like the latest chapter, and was pleasantly surprised by the ending (I probably wouldn't have been but for your disclaimer - I was imagining far less positive outcomes). Technically speaking Mateo ought to get PEP, since his chances of exposure with what they did are significant (if small). But maybe the clinic people will tell him that...

It is allowed to post your email address on the forum. Be advised that you are posting it on a public web page, so it is very likely to be picked up by address scrapers and used to feed spam engines. Don't use an email you're not willing to have slammed with a lot of junk.

If you're selecting conversations to delete (I find I can only select entire conversations, not individual messages within them), there is a floating delete button that appears in the horizontal center of the full browser window (not just the conversation pane) near the bottom. It will work on one or many. It's in a rather non-intuitive location.

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Not a bathhouse, but I dated a guy I met in a T-room once. Tall, and a scientist (like myself), had a scent that drove me wild, and could suck my dick while he fucked me (heavenly). I fell for him and got all gooey-eyed.

Only trouble was he was totally inexperienced with men, got cold feet, and went back to his girlfriend. Then six months later I ran into him in the local video store where he was together with some totally unsuitable guy who had no chin. Ticked me off.

Conclusion: You'd be better off dating someone from the bathhouse; they're less likely to be in denial about their sexuality.

Only if I get to keep my dick and balls. Only trouble with that is that things down there would be crowded and probably messy.

When I'm having GOOD sex, I don't think at all - I'm just in the moment. When I'm having mediocre sex, I'm usually thinking about how to get it to be good sex. When I'm having bad sex, I'm thinking "beige... I'll paint the ceiling beige."

No means no, even in a bathhouse. That said, in such an environment you may have to be explicit about where the boundary is. In this case you were in a "I was riding the most beautiful guy's dick and trying to get him close while a crowd watched..." headspace - trying to get him close implies you don't want other participants, period. So maybe a firm statement like "Watching only right now!" would be more effective. Just because you're bottoming for someone doesn't mean you can't be definite or even a bit aggressive toward bystanders who queer the pitch (pun intended).

9 hours ago, BBVB said:

How do I successfully decouple and compartmentalize emotion vs. sex?  Be a sex-bot for meaningless hookups but come home to my partner and a warm loving relationship?  Seems like living two separate lives.  

Maybe you don't. Everyone's emotional and sexual response is different. It's quite possible that for you, sex and love are strongly connected and it's hard to have one without the other. That's fine! There are plenty of men out there to choose from, and many won't find that trait objectionable - some may even prefer it. Hence the need for communication.

On 6/27/2018 at 2:00 PM, chi4loads said:

the guys kept sipping the tequila and drinking the coffee

OK, chacun a son goût, I guess. That sounds really nasty to me.

I've seen this in porn videos and it always strikes me as kind of weird.

All over my belly, chest, shoulder, face, or the floor behind my chair. Depending on how long I've been edging that day. If I'm feeling lazy about cleaning up after it, I'll grab a towel or tee shirt out of the laundry and throw it over my front like a haircut cape.

On 12/26/2021 at 5:23 AM, subpig00 said:

Thanks, I'll reconsider psyllium. But really I shit all day long, 5-6 times. So don't know what amount of psyllium can help hah

With my bowels, I find that there's a significant difference between powdered psyllium (Metamucil et al) and whole psyllium husks (Now brand is what I use, available at Trader Joe's). The whole ones are much better at accreting into a solid mass and sticking everything else in there together with them.

Not being nor feeling particularly feminine, I prefer "ass" or "hole", or "deep in my guts/belly". If you're doing a good job of filling it, I'm not super picky. But if you call it something that makes me giggle, it may spoil the mood.

There is not. This isn't really a hook-up site - to be honest, the population here is too small and spread too thinly for it to be much use that way except in the largest cities. There *are* connection threads for specific geographical areas. A lot of members here also have accounts at various hook-up sites, particularly BBRT and Recon, and you can post your handle in those sites in your profile here so people can find you.

I don't think there's a way to sort on number of votes. You can vote on number of views or on number of replies, which usually correlate pretty well.