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  1. One that I know of for sure, and I wouldn't be surprised if there were a few others at public venues (sex clubs mostly) over the years... in San Francisco and Denver mainly, but many other places from time to time. And if you ever do meet me out there and recognize me (the face pic is reasonably accurate) please do say something! It would definitely give the connection an added thrill.
  2. It looks to me like this is your point of conflict. You want to wear it... and by extension, you want to have a man fuck you bare and cum in you. But you don't want her to see that shirt. Ask yourself: Why not? You don't know what she would think, or how she would feel - she hasn't seen it yet! And yet she asked you to get tested. The implication of that is that she believes it is likely that you already have had a man fuck you bare and cum in you (or at least encountered that much risk of HIV exposure). And, from your observation, she's not freaked out by that, she's supportive. My advice (worth its weight in gold, remember!) is to get your hungry ass on PrEP and fulfill your needs... with your wife's blessing. And rejoice and be thankful that you are in such a wonderfully healthy relationship! And if you want that blessing explicitly ahead of time - there's only one way to get it (ask her). Just remember, neither you nor she knows for sure ahead of time how you will feel about it. You can guess, but the proof of the pudding is only in the eating.
  3. I wouldn't even have thought to ask the question, let alone be so shockingly rude as to tell the host (before or after the event) that I wasn't attending or had issues with the other attendees because (to put it bluntly) I was racist. For a one-on-one encounter (or even a pre-planned small group), it seems reasonable to me that one's personal tastes or hot-buttons as far as sexual attractiveness would (and even should) be considered - no one wants to show up and have their trick go limp because they happen to be green, or have three eyes instead of two 😉 But at a group/party affair, it's unreasonable and inappropriate to expect that some attendees won't be your idea of the perfect man. After all, there are other people there who may well find those same people to be their cup of tea. I'm pretty sure this is not rocket science.
  4. Until you delete them. There is a space limit, so eventually you may have to, but it's a pretty big limit.
  5. For what it's worth, this site isn't great for hookups, though it has more members in London than in most places. Not sure what hookup apps and sites are good over there across the pond. Here in the states, BBRT is good for bare, and Grindr and Sniffies seem to be fairly good generally. There's a topic in the General Discussion forum about what hookup apps people prefer.
  6. As a follow-up, here's a handy article about the subject: [think before following links] https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/32666897/ And here's a nice chart (from this article: [think before following links] https://www.realclearscience.com/journal_club/2015/03/03/is_your_penis_normal_theres_a_chart_for_that_109106.html ) which tells us that over 99% of penises are 7 inches or smaller:
  7. Average is actually a bit under 6, from the reading I've done. There's more than a little inflation and rounding up.
  8. Well, as a true versatile, I have to say neither one feels better for me - they are simply different. I wind up topping more often than not, because tops are more in demand and because my endowment assures that it will be asked of me (why I don't know, big is good, but small is perfectly fun if the guy has a modicum of skill). Do what you enjoy! But being versatile doubles your chances of having a trick on a given night 🙂
  9. I'm gonna agree... but I'd rate it "mildly confusing" as UI glitches go. You simply click on "General Discussion" in the dropdown list. Yes, it's a header, but it's also a forum in its own right. That said, it's no doubt a feature of the (off-the-shelf) forum software and not of BZ in particular. Sadly, @rawTOP doesn't have control over these things. Happily, he's working on a new and better site! Before clicking (note how "General" is grayed out but "General Discussion" is not) After clicking
  10. Woof! Very sexy pics.

  11. Wow, so hot! Just finished chapter 5 and it is quite delightful so far!
  12. Tell me if you find it. Definitely wanna read. I believe you're referring to "The Dark Room". It was removed when the new policy about harm to the community was added.
  13. Where is this club that has such large and luxurious towels?!? The ones I get always seem to be barely big enough to cover my genitals, if held up by suspenders!
  14. Years ago there was a fun sci-fi essay/story on exactly this topic: "Man of Steel, Woman of Kleenex" (I think the author was Larry Niven)
  15. It seems to me you are a free thinker about sex and relationships in most respects, so why not as regards monogamy/exclusivity? I was in a platonic relationship with a woman for nearly 3 decades, while at the same time I had relationships of varying duration and emotional intensity with a variety of men. She found a straight husband part way through, and the three of us lived together (they married with my blessing and facilitation). I'd still be there if I hadn't come to the realization that she was emotionally abusive and was slowly destroying me. In my experience, this sort of thing can work just fine as long as people are forthright and honest about it.
  16. Thanks for the follow!

    1. CumAddict

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      You’re welcome sexy

  17. I've never been a smoker. The smell of stale smoke (especially cigarettes) used to bother me, but I lost most of my sense of smell to a sinus infection about 10 years ago, and now it's no problem.
  18. If they were really sharing the same bloodstream that would be impossible, of course. But they don't.
  19. Firstly, there is no wrong way to be human! Secondly, pleasure is something that happens in the mind, not in the body. If you prefer and enjoy being used mercilessly, then by definition that is what gives you pleasure... even if the sensation of it is one we ordinarily would call pain. As anyone who enjoys S/M play will be happy to tell you (that's not me, but I have very close friends who do). Whether that means you are "damaged" is a different question - obviously the "pain" sensation evolved to help us learn what to avoid (hot stoves are the classic example), but human beings are proficient at learning alternate interpretations for sensations. Bitterness is a great example - it means what you're eating is likely to contain toxins. But some people seek out bitter foods, or enjoy it in combination with other flavors - and that is learned behavior (children rarely do this). So I would only say you're "damaged" if that association is maladaptive for you or causes you psychological problems. And IMO you are one of the sanest people on this site, so I'd say nope, you're not damaged!
  20. Yes, of course you can. There's nothing different about re-starting PrEP and starting it the first time, so taking it daily for seven days will work fine. I suspect your provider was trying to make sure you would be protected sooner if you were impatient about starting to have sex... Not that anyone on this site would ever be impatient about sex... No, never! 😉
  21. I'll ditto that; in fact, I just merged three poppers discussion topics in Sex with Enhancements, so they're near the top of the page for now.
  22. These statements are not true, or at least greatly overstated. Firstly, none of these are true at all for poz people whose infections are well-controlled (i.e. undetectable or nearly so). Secondly, even if one or both poz partner (on meds) does have a significant viral load: Both partners' meds will work just as effectively Having unprotected sex will not make the meds stop working If the other partner's strain is resistant to all of the meds they are on, it is possible for them to catch it (superinfection) but because the meds are combinations, this resistance is unlikely. Edited this to remove statement regarding likelihood of superinfection - the data are not consistent, but superinfection is a significant phenomenon, see this article: [think before following links] https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3752600/ That said, the cautionary statements in the first paragraph are well-stated and worth listening to! Though @BootmanLA was talking about overall probabilities, and his statements about those are correct.
  23. One would have hoped that... but it didn't turn out that way. In fact, quite the contrary. Apparently because people avoided going to the doctor during the pandemic. See this article in the Washington Post: [think before following links] https://www.washingtonpost.com/health/2022/04/12/std-cases-increase-pandemic/?utm_campaign=wp_evening_edition&utm_medium=email&utm_source=newsletter&wpisrc=nl_evening&carta-url=https%3A%2F%2Fs2.washingtonpost.com%2Fcar-ln-tr%2F369063b%2F6255e87d64253a7f342d0934%2F5a5bbbecae7e8a0f03325814%2F43%2F53%2F6255e87d64253a7f342d0934
  24. Very hot! Though I'm not sure I believe Danny would have lasted 20 minutes during that first blowjob. I doubt I would have in his shoes! Stu must be very skilled.
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