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An oldie By: RydenCoxwell https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/the-young-buck-returns-18901352 THE YOUNG BUCK RETURNS met this stud about a month ago, made sure we sent him to work with a smile. He text'd my bf (OrangeTango) out of the blue the other night and this is what happened...

True. But sometimes I am surprised by the acting skills. OK, it's not an Oscar winning performance but not worse than some acting you see in a soap opera. Some porn performers do a better job. And if the acting is bad there are always the sex scenes that make up for it ;-)

Having lived in Playa del Ingles I agree with Gran Canaria. I didn't suggest it because it's not really a big city and it's quite a haul it you travel from the US with a stopover in either Mardid or Barcelona. But yes, you can find sex 24/7 there if you like. And the weather helps getting in the mood ;-)

By: DeltaTangoFoxtrot https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/83-breeding-our-west-coast-pup-in-vegas-full-video-33589162 83. BREEDING OUR WEST COAST PUP IN VEGAS : FULL VIDEO During our Vegas trip one of our favorite b0ys flew out to see us, he landed and stayed only an hour and a half before flying back (that's commitment). I bred him 4 times and my hubby twice. He took 6 loads in an hour and a half and we fucked him all over our hotel room overlooking the Vegas strip. He loves having his ass eaten so I made sure to make love to it a bit before splitting him open. He makes eye contact the entire time I am fucking him (except when he has a cock in his mouth).

By: Fuckery30 https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/breeding-cum-hungry-college-stud-33546192 BREEDING CUM HUNGRY COLLEGE STUD This dude and I went at it all night. One of the most perfect holes I’ve ever used. We edged fucked around all night before I busted on his hole and pounded my cum in deep. Beautiful creampie followed. Came in him multiples more times after. More videos to follow with this stud. https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/bareback-fucking-college-student-33566052 BAREBACK FUCKING COLLEGE STUDENT Having some fun with one of my regular fuck bubs.... I love hearing him moan with pleasure while he’s taking a pounding like a champ. https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/breeding-a-man-slut-33573482 BREEDING A MAN SLUT What can I say about this dude... he’s hot as hell, knows how to fuck and loves taking my loads. True love right there?❤️

Never had it done to me. But once at Basement Studios in Gran Canaria (sex oriented resort) I saw a guy at the pool who had "fuck" on one cheek and "slut" written on the other. Worked for him. I saw him getting banged every time I entered the maze. Helped he had a very tasty bubble butt so he probably would have been lucky without it.

Good points @bbzh

I get what both of you are saying. Believe me, I rather be with a partner with whom I "click" with on every level, including sex. And I agree that sex is an important part of a relationship. But those (the total package) seem hard to find and it's not everything. At this point in my life I think I'd rather be with a soulmate without the sex (and both get that somewhere else) than be with someone who satisfies every single sexual need I may have but get into arguments and feel annoyed about (and him about me) because we don't click on other levels. Irritation is a killer. Maybe I feel this way because I'm older now and I have been a slut since I was 17? I have been whoring around for so many years that maybe I am looking for something more at home if I wouldn't be single? And if that means having a partner who I can have everything with I want/need, except sex, I would be more inclined to accept that? Sex is great and I'm addicted to it, I readily admit that. But sex can be found somewhere else. And also there you need to be on the same level. I have been in only in one relationship, when I was 27. My ex-bf had it all: goodlooking, rich (well, a lot richer than me, I just graduated and just started my first job), great job, well connected socially, and a big 9" dick. I ignored the fact that he could be obnoxious and look down on people who weren't on the same social level. Thought that would change or didn't even recognise that at the time. Only realised after I moved in and were living together that it irrtated the hell out of me. Among other things I hadn't noticed before, e.g. domestic stuff, certain views I didn't realised he had). And he turned into a cold fish in bed with a sex drive way below mine. From then on it only lasted a year before we broke up. I had given up everything when I moved in and had to start from scratch when it was over. Had cold feet getting involved with someone ever since. This experience probably has probably ruined me for a long time when it comes to relationships. It was a mistake from the beginning but you only realise that later. So, having a relationship with a sexually incompatible but loving partner and soulmate and having fuckbuddies on the side for sex doesn't seem like a bad idea to me even though the total package is to be preferred. As for the "shopping list" (although I know you didn't mean it that way tallslenderguy) I thought about that. Still have to be attracted to him physically (face, body) even though we do not connect sexually. Comfortable together (even though you may not belong to the same social circles). Be on a similar level intellectually, views on life, similar interests, leave each other free to do things on your own (don't smother each other), be independent, be best buddies. Maybe too much to ask...?

I agree with @CumBustion that it's easier in big cities. I noticed when I moved from the big city (if you can call any city in NL big) to the smaller town I now live. But then again, you only need a few regulars to keep your hole happy ;-)

"The Pizza Boy: He Delivers". A William Higgins classic that started a whole range of pizza boys movies. Steve Henson and Chad 12" Johnson. A must see, even if it's dated! There's a remastered DVD version from 2012 with additional scenes.

I'd love to go to Berlin some time as well. Last time I was there the wall was still standing! But there is also something to say for southern European cities. Especially if you go in spring time. It's already warm then there and what's better then roaming the city in shorts (commando I would say, for easy access, hehe!) and a T-shirt or tank top? Barcelona has the added advantage of having Sitges with its gay beaches (nude outside the town or clothed in front of the hotels at the boulevard) a short train ride away. I wouldn't rule that out.

Great responses and views. Thanks guys. @tallslenderguy "Have you formulated a list of what you are looking for in a relationship?" No I haven't. But I think you can recognise a soulmate or best friend (as @FelchingPisser says) when you meet him? It would just feel good and if it's mutual it could very well work, apart from the sexual issue. Until now I have been avoiding getting into a relationship. I have been single for so long and love my independence. I can do whatever I want whenever I want. It would be hard to suddenly start taking someone else into account. I have great sex (still) but I do miss someone special to share the non-sexual things in life. Sexually it's obvious we would have an open relationship. I know some say two bottoms can have a good time together but that's not my thing and I prefer the real thing. He hopefully too. When I was much younger I would likely be jealous as hell (even though I would also likely be the one to cheat). I think I could handle both a "don't ask don't tell" situation and a "Do kiss and tell" situation now. The latter sounds more like me at this stage in my life. I don't know if we would compete for the same top guys. Maybe sometimes without knowing? Sharing a top indeed sounds unlikely and we may have a different taste in that anyway. But I would love to see him getting fucked. He can be as slutty as he wants in that aspect (I am too) or not at all and be a vanilla homebody, as long he respects that I am and doesn't care I am. Maybe the "hard work" would be not to let our sexual side and exploits affect the other aspects of the relationship. Maybe I am describing an unreal ideal situation. As @ramithome says, you can't make someone into what you want him to be.

I saw the same ads. Didn't click on them as I never do with ads for porn (trying to avoid spam). I thought the one with the butt plug was a job interview where the butt plug was remotely activated on the job applicant surprising the interviewer? The few seconds I saw were over the top but the idea is funny. The other one with the straight roommate plays into the fantasy of many to seduce and turn a straight guy. And who better to seduce than your hot straight roomie? ;-) I am probably in the minority but I do like porn with a storyline for a change now and then. The acting is not good most of the times but sometimes it's actually not bad at all surprisingly, considering these are porn models and not actors. I mean, carrying a story with actual lines is something different than just moaning "oh yeah, fuck my hole". Or grunting "Do you want my load boy"? Most porn with a storyline is not bareback unfortunately. There are some but the majority isn't. At least, the ones I saw. I do like some companies who produce porn like this. I have always liked Men At Play because I have a thing for hot suited guys and office sex. Their models and productions are top notch in that area. And the acting is OK. Some of their earlier productions were BB if I recall correctly (with performers who were real life partners?). Similarly I like UKNakedMen for their stories and settings (Gardener, Police Officer, Tradies and such). Situations you are unlikely to bump into but fantasize about. Stag Homme with their smoldering Latin studs. I am a big fan of Eric Videos which obviously are all bareback. I like Eric's cruising videos of guys in Paris roaming the streets or cruising areas (reminds me of me when I was younger!). KeiranXXL and Darko are some of my favorite performers. And I like Joe Gage's productions for Titan with rugged men and stories set in rural small town America. Just to name a few, I'm sure I'm forgetting some. Yes, I prefer porn to be BB but I do like to watch these as well. It's a welcome change now and then from the straight-in-your-face hole banging vids. I know men.com (I think?) produced some gay porn parodies on major feature films. Haven't seen those so don't know what those are like. Anyone?

It has actually been a longtime fantasy of mine to set up and run a BB holiday resort. Somewhere secluded in the woods in a warm location (e.g. Southern Europe in my case). Maybe 15-20 holiday cabins for 1-2-4 guys each. A bar/club for social meets. An outdoor cruising area in the woods with places convenient to fuck (e.g. a fuck tree, fuck bench or similar). Sheds with video booths or theatre (free of course) and gloryholes. A barn where you can organise events like Fickstutenmarkt in Berlin (and other places). This could be a weekly or monthly event which also non-residents can subscribe to and attend. I would certainly live on the premises and entertain the guests;-)

Thanks for the responses guys. Seems like my thinking is wrong that long term relationships always include both "setting up house" and sexual satisfaction. Could be either or both. I know that there are couples who get along so great in bed that sex was the main point of getting together but found out later they can't really get along on different levels which causes friction in the relationship. I know a perfect relationship doesn't exist. It's hard work and there will always be things both will never agree on but sometimes the non-sexual aspects/problems of a relationship have their impact of what happens in the bedroom too. I think my question comes from the fact that I think I have commitment problems. Like being trapped in something you can't fully commit to. And the fact that I don't think I can be in a monogamous relationship. Or maybe because I am promiscuous now (can you be promiscuous as a single guy?) that I can't be faithful to one partner. So I was wondering what I would do if I met a guy who would be my "soulmate" on every level except sex simply because he's also a bottom. If that were the case we could probably make it work if we both could seek sex elsewhere - and be completely happy with that- but be a couple in every other sense. Maybe that would even be a more solid relationship than one based on sexual compatibility but a disconnect on other levels (in the longterm)? And I was wondering if there are any guys out there who are in a relationship like that and for who this works? Of course single guys can share their thoughts as well about what they would do when they connect with a guy on many levels except sexual. Love to hear their thoughts on this.

Never do that myself but I love it when I see a guy like that with a hot ass exposed in the mens room. Never really understood why some guys feel the need to do that, after all what's a fly for? But hey, please go ahead!

Question for guys in a relationship. Sometimes you meet someone who you really connect with and could easily see yourself being in a relationship with only to find out that you really connect on all levels except sex. Meaning you're a total bottom and so is he. Or you're a total top and so is he. Not talking about one of you being vers, just both of you being top or bottom. What do you do? Any guys here who are in such a relationship? Most couples seem to -conveniently- consist of a top and a bottom. But I can't believe "The Guy for You" always happens to be someone who has the opposite sexual appetite and role. If you meet someone like that, or if you already have, would you enter such a relationship? And how do you go about the sex issue? Each goes his own way when it comes to getting sex (I do include open relationships in this question. Most guys are not mongamous)? Or play together with a third (or more) all the time? Do you have sex together at all or never? Or would you assume the opposite role just for him in your relationship and start bottoming or topping just for him even though that goes against what you really like? I'm curious as over the years I have met some guys I really liked and I could see myself getting more involved with, maybe even start a relationship with (although I haven't really been a relationship type of guy so far) but feel myself pulling back going further because we're not sexually compatible and I think that could become an issue in the end. How do/would you handle this?

I'm pretty quiet myself but love a verbal top. But evenly arousing is a verbal top in a language you don't understand. I have Polish regular and don't understand a word he is saying. Same with Italian and Spanish guys. Or French, although I understand enough French to understand some of what they say sometimes and watching enough EricVideos does help ;-)

When are you going? Well, you must have read the stories about Berlin here (or Barelin rather). So that would be a good choice. Or Amsterdam (can't really comment on that myself). If you like it sunnier Barcelona and Madrid are an option. Enough clubs there. Paris? I had a lot of fun in Rome but really couldn't find any sex clubs or gay bars where I would feel comfortable (not being 30 anymore). Plenty of horny bare Italians though if you use PlanetRomeo looking for locals to meet, and I had a lot of them and plenty of eye candy on the streets. As for hotels and B&Bs you never know upfront what the situation is and if you will be able to host. Ask the question in the local Europe section here about hotels (or do a search there) once you have decided where to go. Or use AirBNB for privacy or their gay equivalent www.misterbnb.com. At least the owners are (mostly) gay and must know their guests are not saints. Check if they don't have a "service" of coming in every morning/afternoon to clean the apartment. You don't want them knocking at the door with new towels when you're enjoying local dick. And research WHERE exactly those are located. You don't want to be miles out of the city center and having to travel a lot. Must admit I haven't used that site myself so far. Have fun and let us know how you got on.

Only had this once years ago with a guy who even wasn't that old. I usually try to postpone my own orgasm as much as possible and getting a blowjob gets me off pretty quickly. So getting one after being fucked is OK. Or when the top makes me cum by just fucking me too (although that's a whole different sensation). This guy fucked me and then surprised me by taking out his dentures and blowing me. At first I was put off but he did such a great job slobbering all over my dick and balls (obviously he didn't have to mind his teeth) that I shot within minutes and didn't mind at all. Never saw him again but I remember him for the "special treat".