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Question for guys in a relationship. Sometimes you meet someone who you really connect with and could easily see yourself being in a relationship with only to find out that you really connect on all levels except sex. Meaning you're a total bottom and so is he. Or you're a total top and so is he. Not talking about one of you being vers, just both of you being top or bottom. What do you do? Any guys here who are in such a relationship? Most couples seem to -conveniently- consist of a top and a bottom. But I can't believe "The Guy for You" always happens to be someone who has the opposite sexual appetite and role. If you meet someone like that, or if you already have, would you enter such a relationship? And how do you go about the sex issue? Each goes his own way when it comes to getting sex (I do include open relationships in this question. Most guys are not mongamous)? Or play together with a third (or more) all the time? Do you have sex together at all or never? Or would you assume the opposite role just for him in your relationship and start bottoming or topping just for him even though that goes against what you really like? I'm curious as over the years I have met some guys I really liked and I could see myself getting more involved with, maybe even start a relationship with (although I haven't really been a relationship type of guy so far) but feel myself pulling back going further because we're not sexually compatible and I think that could become an issue in the end. How do/would you handle this?
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I'm pretty quiet myself but love a verbal top. But evenly arousing is a verbal top in a language you don't understand. I have Polish regular and don't understand a word he is saying. Same with Italian and Spanish guys. Or French, although I understand enough French to understand some of what they say sometimes and watching enough EricVideos does help ;-)
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When are you going? Well, you must have read the stories about Berlin here (or Barelin rather). So that would be a good choice. Or Amsterdam (can't really comment on that myself). If you like it sunnier Barcelona and Madrid are an option. Enough clubs there. Paris? I had a lot of fun in Rome but really couldn't find any sex clubs or gay bars where I would feel comfortable (not being 30 anymore). Plenty of horny bare Italians though if you use PlanetRomeo looking for locals to meet, and I had a lot of them and plenty of eye candy on the streets. As for hotels and B&Bs you never know upfront what the situation is and if you will be able to host. Ask the question in the local Europe section here about hotels (or do a search there) once you have decided where to go. Or use AirBNB for privacy or their gay equivalent www.misterbnb.com. At least the owners are (mostly) gay and must know their guests are not saints. Check if they don't have a "service" of coming in every morning/afternoon to clean the apartment. You don't want them knocking at the door with new towels when you're enjoying local dick. And research WHERE exactly those are located. You don't want to be miles out of the city center and having to travel a lot. Must admit I haven't used that site myself so far. Have fun and let us know how you got on.
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Only had this once years ago with a guy who even wasn't that old. I usually try to postpone my own orgasm as much as possible and getting a blowjob gets me off pretty quickly. So getting one after being fucked is OK. Or when the top makes me cum by just fucking me too (although that's a whole different sensation). This guy fucked me and then surprised me by taking out his dentures and blowing me. At first I was put off but he did such a great job slobbering all over my dick and balls (obviously he didn't have to mind his teeth) that I shot within minutes and didn't mind at all. Never saw him again but I remember him for the "special treat".
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XTube link collection - breeding videos
NLbear replied to bbfan74's topic in Bareback Porn Discussion
By: manutdboy https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/15-group-fun-3-tops-1-bottom-33518402 15. GROUP FUN (3 TOPS 1 BOTTOM) Got together with the couple from video #11 and my bear buddy who's the other top in video #13 to take turns fucking and breeding the bottom guy in the couple. I actually get fucked a bit in this video too. The bottom's partner sticks his cock in my ass while I'm fucking him. I cum in his ass while I'm getting fucked. Next my bear buddy gives him a load and then the bottom's partner finishes it off with load #3. -
Had more of those than I liked. Can't say I'm a fan like you. Pushing his dick all the way down my throat with his hands on the back of my head, locking me, his balls on my chin and my nose in his pubes so I can't breathe. Guys, please. I'll gladly swallow the very last drop but at least let me get some air....!
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My preferred position is still getting fucked doggy with the top thrusting into me. Hands on my hips pulling me onto him or on my shoulders (doing the same). Gets even better if I have a another nice dick to suck on while he's doing that and then them switching and taking turns ;-)
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True. But I still like to know what to expect. A (real) pic of your body and dick (or ass) is not going to identify you on the street.....So I'm not a fan of blank profiles. Even though I have to admit I have given in to blank profiles as well when horny enough. LOL!
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Didn't have sex in a week but last night got fucked by two big hairy bears who I hadn't seen for more than a year. Remembered I had a great time with them then so jumped at the question when they hit me up earlier this week when they said they would be in town. Both a lot bigger than me. I'm 5.7" and they are easily 6.3" and 6.5" I think. Really felt like a fuck toy with these two big guys pushing me around. They took forever taking turns and spit roasting me. Arrived at 9pm and didn't leave until after midnight. Both guys like fucking more than cumming. One with a nice uncut 7" dick (vers), the other an immensely thick cut 6" awesome ass stretcher (top). Almost too thick to take but I managed after the other one went first. Afterwards I felt like I had been fucked by 10 guys instead of just two ;-) Was exhausted after being used like that. Made me cum twice, which doesn't happen very often, by just plowing me. Squirted one (unexpectedly) on my bed and the other in the vers guy's mouth. Mindblowing. Between the two of them they still planted three loads in my ass and I swallowed one. Hole is sore like hell but more fun coming up tonight and tomorrow with a Saturday regular and my FB, if they both show up as planned. It's going to be a slutty weekend
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I wish I could test it. Never had so many cocks in one row that I couldn't take one more. Howeve, it would be probably be aching jaws that would force me to stop, not loads.
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Why is gay porn so vanilla? Even TIM is really missing the mark.
NLbear replied to a topic in General Discussion
Can't deny that really good amateur porn is way hotter. But also have to admit I like the eye candy of Sean Cody sometimes. Even Raging Stallion, Titan or Stag Homme. Even though those are condom vids I watch those for the studs and hope some of them do some BB porn on the side ;-) -
bottom visiting Italy in March to service tops
NLbear replied to Cumjunky215's topic in Europe & Russia
No problem. I would expect to see (maybe better?) advice from the Italians here but I'm happy to help with what I know as a visitor. -
When did you accept you were a sub cumslut?
NLbear replied to MuscleAss's topic in General Discussion
I realised I was a slut pretty much after the first time I was fucked at 17 and wanted it again and again. Went hunting for dick practically every night in the park to get more. Which is pretty easy when you're that age and good looking (if I say so myself ;-) However as opposed to a lot of bottoms here I have never considered myself to be submissive. I want to be in control and to be honest I use tops to get what I want like tops use bottoms to dump their load. That doesn't mean I don't like to be in a submissive position like being used by a group of tops or being whored out if it happens but I will never submit mentally to a top or being owned by one. I have become too independent for that. It's my body and my mind and I decide how it can be used. I know this not to everyone's liking but that's the way it is. -
Even though I'm in my 50s now, in my head I'm still a 30-something. The first time I got a "Hey Daddy" hit I was in my 40s and I was shocked. I was still looking a lot younger than my age but it made me realise I was getting older and I was viewed as an older guy by the young. Didn't like it at all when I was called a Daddy but then I saw that even guys in their 30s were called Daddy by much younger guys. For me now it's just an expression that younger guys use to adress hot older guys. For me it has nothing to do with a father figure type of relationship (if you can even call anon sex a relationship) just sex between me and a younger guy. If they want to call me Daddy then so be it. I find it kinda hot a younger guy thinks I'm hot, or my ass is ;-) And I found that there are quite a lot of younger guys who want to bang someone older. Some really get off on fucking a "Daddy". I don't know why. Maybe because it's easy sex and they don't run the risk of bumping into me in their social circle? I don't care as long as their dick is hard and they use it on me. I don't adress myself as a Daddy but if a guy wants to call me Daddy then I have no problem with that. Sure, there will be a time when you are really no longer attractive to younger guys and you are considered "too old". But I think I still have about 20 good years or so to go! I don't get any complaints from younger guys and they do return. I know a guy who's a bottom and >65 and he almost has more sex than I have! Granted, he lives in a town that oozes sex but he's my example that sex doesn't stop when you hit a certain age.
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By: KanSwallow https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/massive-muscle-5-32906142 MASSIVE MUSCLE 5 It's been a while but we finally got our schedules to work so he could come by for some relief. LOVE sucking this muscle stud and as usual he fed me a big load. I finally got my hands on that sweet ass and he didn't seem to mind so i'll do more exploring on his next visit
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My few cents. You need practice first. When you have moved and the place is indeed limited in terms of population you want the guys to come back to you and become regulars. For straight guys I think that means giving them a mindblowing experience. One they won't get from their girlfriends or girls in general and make them come back to you for a quick relief. Certainly because you're a guy and they're not used getting head from a guy they won't come back if you don't give them something they can't get anywhere else. And make up your mind if you want to swallow or just make them cum. Swallowing and clean their dicks is bound to be hotter (for them) than just jerking them to completion at the end. So, even though you have no interest in gloryholes or bookstores and such I think that is exactly the place where you need to start to get experience. As FriendlyBottom already said. It's anon and you can practice your sucking skills. And watch a lot of cocksucking vids on Xtube for example to know what you can do with a cock! Once you got the experience you can turn to seducing straight guys to come to your place. In fact, in your new place you could start by setting up a gloryhole. Then you can advertise it will be completely anonymous. The guys may be more willing to come over to you at first if they know they can't be seen (of course nothing prevents you to set up a hidden cam to view who has visited!). Once guys become regular visitors they may be more likely to get sucked without the gloryhole. Good luck!
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That's about 8 on average every single day....?
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Nice one. I have a young Moroccan guy living a few streets away from me. Similar dick (actually a bit thicker). He also claims to be straight but he does love to use my mouth and ass for his relief when he's horny ;-)
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Same here
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I have had a few times when I was contacted out of the blue on a hook-up site by guys who said they "had heard from a friend" I have a hot hole or give good head. I usually looked at their profile and if I liked what I saw we got together. If it was one of those profiles with hardly any info I asked who that friend was to know what type of guy their "friend" was. No reply, no hook-up. If they did give me the name (= chat name) I would consider it. If I could remember who that was... Back in my student days when I was out clubbing I sometimes was hit on by guys who said "So, you're a friend of ***?" When *** was just some guy I had fucked with, not a friend. I knew then what it was they where after (easy NSA fuck). If he was cute (I was more picky back then) I went along with it, horned up, knowing what would happen after closing time. Easier than having to cruise for dick after everyone was thrown out at 2am ;-)
