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Mine is a thick 7" (see pic) but that doesn't really matter as a bottom. I consider myself a bottom and not a versatile bottom as I only top very occasionally. Guys (usually younger guys looking for a Daddy) hit me up and want me to fuck them. Those are the ones who don't read profiles and just look at pics ;-)

In that case, just flaunt that ass. Naked or in a jock (better if you want to show you're a bottom). You won't have to send out any signals, your delicious butt does it for you. Won't be long before guys are hitting on you and you take it from there

Your date has probably happened by now so too late to give advice (but great advice from @Homo60, hope you noticed). How did it go? Did he know it's your first time? He should have gone easy on you if he knew. Did you practice with a dildo or something before? My first time didn't really hurt but there have been plenty of others when I started out when it did hurt (and still does sometimes). After your first time you'll know what to expect. But you will also know that once the pain goes away you will feel really good, especially if he's a skilled top. So just bite the bullet the first few minutes even though your body (and mind) will likely want him to stop. Once you get the hang of it, it will be easier and you will experience how much pleasure you can get from getting fucked. But you really need to want it. Some realize after a while that bottoming is not for them and they are more top or some realize anal sex is not for them at all (not all gay guys have anal sex).

By: freedomtofck https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/steamworks-berkeley-32629802 STEAMWORKS BERKELEY Had a weeknight meet up with a good friend of mine at Steamworks in Berkeley and had a great time fucking his sweet hole. We looked around for other tops to join, but it was pretty empty that night. I had to be a good friend and top, so I fucked him extra deep and extra hard. If you haven't noticed, long and slow strokes are my thing, but I love pounding hard as well.

By: RyanCummings https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/tag-team-bred-at-the-bathhouse-last-night-32685932 Tag team Bred at the bathhouse last night Last night at the bathhouse in Edmonton, a cute young Asian from Vancouver asked how many loads I had, so I downplayed it saying 6 to not make him worry. He was turned on and tag teamed me (I was actually over 20 loads). He was recording with his phone and mine and put mine down missing the White guy breeding me. The Asian guy fucks me and breeds my hole. Not filmed is a few hour later he came back and bred me again after seriously eating cum from my hole. I finished at 43 loads.

By: Ghloverbcn https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/bcn-sex-store-32775942 BCN sex store Love spending time in a sex store waiting for a willing ass to take my load

By: FFuckAss https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/i-give-a-great-blowjob-at-a-sexshop-32807542 I give a Great Blowjob at a Sexshop Bubble nen hot cock at the Gloryhole in ner DvD department of a sex shop, with a lot of cum in the end .... ;-)))

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By: AirMaxBBttm https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/french-xxl-breeds-slut-huge-cumload-squirts-32827492 French XXL Breeds ?️?️ Slut + HUGE Cumload Squirts Meet one of my XTube fans: very hot guy from France with a HUGE BARE COCK He made an account only to be able to contact me haha And so he did! He was in Amsterdam for a very short visit but was determined to FUCK 'n LOAD my RAW ass! And he wanted to record everything and put it on XTube haha! So we met up in a cruise bar after midnight... Well the rest you can see for yourself! Damn his cock is just fucking huge! Watch me squirt out his SPUNK after he came inside me

Just out of curiosity (I'm a bottom) but maybe one of my FB's is interested: WHERE would you stick the needle? Just anywhere? And for the gel, is that also for the dick or for a bottom's hole? Why would you apply it to your hole if it's for an erection? Would it also act as lube?

Yep, but I has always been the top who decided to take it off. If I'm really into a guy but he insists on wearing a condom I let him (hoping he will come back and go bare next time). Plenty took it off halfway because it was annoying and/or not comfortable or it slipped off and they just left it off. Maybe some of those intended to go bare in the first place but thought they did the "right thing" by using one (at first)? I never asked.

Two tops who I see almost every week. Then there are a few young guys who want blowjobs. Those vary, sometimes twice a week, sometimes I don't hear from them for weeks.

I mostly bottom but I do top every now and then. Usually only when in a 3some and the top orders me to fuck his bf. Or sometimes when I meet up with a young guy to give him blowjob and when he then asks to be fucked as well (happened recently). But usually I am more than happy to be on the receiving end only.

Can't. The guy who fucked me for the first time worked in an Adult Video Store. He closed the shop and came to my booth. Went back for months and he fucked me every time. But I also took cock in the cruising area, same night actually. AVS guy must have changed jobs at some point as suddenly he was gone. I still know exactly what he looked like and smelled like though even it's decades ago.

True. Most guys are 6-7" anyway and as long as it's in working order I am not complaining. If he's bigger than that it's a bonus. A big(ger) dick doesn't automatically mean the sex is better. Some think having a big dick is enough. Not so, it's what you do with it that counts. Had some huge dicks who were lousy tops. Just like I have also seen some lousy bottoms ;-)

On a school trip to London when I was 15. We were free to roam the city by ourselves for a few hours. I needed to piss and went to a urinal, a few class mates waiting outside until I was done. There was only one other guy. Took a while before I realized the other guy wasn't pissing but stroking his dick. When I looked at his face he motioned with his head to come over. He knelt and started to suck. I had never done anything like this before. I was hard in a second and only took less than a minute I think before I blew in his mouth. First time ever I had any sexual contact with another guy. Rest of the day I had a semi erection thinking about it ;-) It wasn't until a little over a year later that I sucked my first dick and got fucked for the first time as well.

No it's not. Not really into this myself although I do like the view sometimes.

This is fun! Here's my attempt (Jingle Bells chorus). It's a long one. Bouncing Balls, Bouncing Balls, Bouncing all the way It's Friday night, am all horned up and I am looking for big dick Bouncing Balls, Bouncing Balls, Bouncing all the way A handsome top with a nine inch dick looks like the perfect trick Bouncing Balls, Bouncing Balls, Bouncing all the way Oh what fun it is to ride, balls deep all the way Bouncing Balls, Bouncing Balls, Bouncing all the way And when he shoots it is so deep, I won't let him get away Bouncing Balls, Bouncing Balls, Bouncing all the way I'm in heaven, can't get enough and want him to go again Bouncing Balls, Bouncing Balls, Bouncing all the way I turn around and and show my hole so he can dive in yet again Bouncing Balls, Bouncing Balls, Bouncing all the way His dick is hard and his balls are full and he wants to fuck some more Bouncing Balls, Bouncing Balls, Bouncing all the way He fucks like mad till his balls are drained and my hole is feeling sore Bouncing Balls, Bouncing Balls, Bouncing all the way He needs some rest, his big dick limp but I ask him for another Bouncing Balls, Bouncing Balls, Bouncing all the way He smiles at me, shakes his head, saying: "Have you met my brother?" Bouncing Balls, Bouncing Balls, Bouncing all the way I am in awe when I look at him. Brother is even bigger Bouncing Balls, Bouncing Balls, Bouncing all the way Big Bro fucks hard, again and again, and shouts releasing the trigger Bouncing Balls, Bouncing Balls, Bouncing all the way I've had enough, but they say No: "You want this horny slut" Bouncing Balls, Bouncing Balls, Bouncing all the way They take turns, more and more, until they shoot their nut Bouncing Balls, Bouncing Balls, Bouncing all the way Those Big Balls are slapping my ass and the other's are on my chin Bouncing Balls, Bouncing Balls, Bouncing all the way "Go Bro" they say and pound so deep, and both show an evil grin Bouncing Balls, Bouncing Balls, Bouncing all the way They tear me up, both holes abused, both fucking really rough Bouncing Balls, Bouncing Balls, Bouncing all the way And after ten loads, Big Bro says: "Have you had enough?" Bouncing Balls, Bouncing Balls, Bouncing all the way My hole so hurts, my jaws so ache but I say: "Can I have some more?" Bouncing Balls, Bouncing Balls, Bouncing all the way They laugh out loud, their dicks still hard and attack like never before Bouncing Balls, Bouncing Balls, Bouncing all the way I can take no more, but they won't let go, using me like a toy Bouncing Balls, Bouncing Balls, Bouncing all the way Big Bro shoots a final load and says: "Now you are our Boy" Bouncing Balls, Bouncing Balls, Bouncing all the way I clean their dicks and suck their balls while they fall asleep Bouncing Balls, Bouncing Balls, Bouncing all the way I stagger home, leaking cum, thinking: "Those I want to keep" Bouncing Balls, Bouncing Balls, Bouncing all the way I crawl in bed, turn off the lights, drift off in a horny atmosphere Bouncing Balls, Bouncing Balls, Bouncing all the way My phone then rings and Big Bro says: "Get your slutty ass over here" Bouncing Balls, Bouncing Balls, Bouncing all the way They fuck all night, shooting load after load and I beg them to stop in vain Bouncing Balls, Bouncing Balls, Bouncing all the way It's Saturday now and they still won't stop, so they go at it again Bouncing Balls, Bouncing Balls, Bouncing all the way Oh what fun, I'm so in lust with two Bro's in heat like this Bouncing Balls, Bouncing Balls, Bouncing all the way They fuck all day and they fuck all night. I'm in total bliss Bouncing Balls, Bouncing Balls, Bouncing all the way It's Sunday night when they send me home and my knees are feeling weak Bouncing Balls, Bouncing Balls, Bouncing all the way Both men grin, grabbing their crotch and say "See you next week" Bouncing Balls, Bouncing Balls, Bouncing all the way I go back to them, week after week, offering my holes for them to hump Bouncing Balls, Bouncing Balls, Bouncing all the way I have become, I must admit, their true and willing cumdump - End -

This guy usually posts vids of him sucking off XXL dicks but he has a few where his other hole is being used. By: deepthroat4xxxxl https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/second-visit-by-the-incredible-rablondon-29543561 Second visit by the incredible Rablondon I can't believe it has been over 3 years since the last time I serviced Rablondon, way too long!! So pleased to get to suck him and take his big cock raw and deep in my tight ass. I hope it is not another 3 years for session number 3!

Next to the Forums button I just see this icon that looks like a Word document (where the Chat button used to be). When I click on it it opens a new window but I am on the Forums page, not Chat. I did log in /out to see if that refreshed the page but it didn't.

Difficult. Socially: Nowadays I don't really feel like I am part of a LGBT "community". But that is probably because here in NL nobody raises an eyebrow anymore about same sex relationships, marriages or gay couples having kids. It's all very "normal" (if I may call it that). Sure, there are exceptions but overall gays are not different from straights in public or in society. Politicians won't dare to make any insulting remarks. They would be slammed in the press and on social media and it would be political suicide. Even the Christian parties in parliament (except for one very small one ) won't dare, they just say they don't really 'approve'. Nobody listens to religious people anymore anyway, hardly anyone goes to church anymore. Religion only plays a very tiny role in society over here. It was very different when I started out when I was 17 late 70s and moved to the big city to study. I had crushes on teachers even in elementary school but at that age I didn't even realize what that was. I just thought I liked them. It wasn't until high school that I realized I was different from most and felt left out. Surely I was the only one having indecent thoughts about other guys? There must have been others but I didn't know them. When I was 13/14 I started to realize there were others and that there was a name for it: gay (or 'homo' at that time). And there were lots of them in bigger cities far away. So when I moved to the big city for college at 16 - soon to be 17- and I worked up the courage to go to a 'gay' student bar (drinking age at that time was 16, it's 18 now) I felt overwhelmed. Here were boys/guys dancing and flirting with each other and just having a good time with not a scare in the world. There were parties and discussion and social groups and support organizations. That's the first time when I felt I was part of a "community" and I belonged to something. And it felt very good. All this has changed over the years as it has become common now. As for sex: Only took very little time after going to that bar for the first time (and having discovered the cruising area by word of mouth) that I sucked dick and was fucked for the first time in an AVS. And scored tricks in bars or clubs with whoever thought I was hot (looking for confirmation?) or hot for that night or who thought I had a hot ass and was 'easy'.... And I was 'new meat' so there were plenty of them, whether they were my age or old (i.e. anyone >30 at that time). And I loved being part of the "community" of men that simply liked having sex with other men without any hang ups. Hanging out with friends (who you were not going to sleep with!) guessing who would be going home with whom and tease them about that the next time. And them teasing me too of course ("really!! Him? How could you! Was he any good? What's his dick like?). Haven't stopped having sex with strangers since. Considering the number of gay men is so much smaller than the number of straight men I still feel I am part of a 'group' but I don't feel I am part of a "community" anymore. Maybe I would still feel that way when I would be a regular at a certain bar and you know the other regulars there (not necessarily have sex with them, just 'friends') but there aren't any around where I live now. Long reply but I hope this make sense?

I have a dildo and a butt plug but hardly every use them or play with them. Just doesn't feel the same. I have a Jeff Stryker which is big and pretty flexible but just can't get into it. Doesn't do much for me so after trying it out a few times it's just lying there in a drawer. I know some guy like using a butt plug, stick it in and keep it in after sex but I don't really like the feeling walking around with that thing in my ass. Only a few times a top has used my dildo as part of the play. That's cool. I know it will be replaced by the real thing in that session. Another reason may be that I simply don't like to go through the cleaning process just to use a dildo on myself. Too much effort for not getting a real dick in the end. Pity, as I like vids of bottoms enjoying themselves with a dildo but it's just not for me.