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Looks like the bigger blacker book app is kaput. At least on ios. There's notes in the store asking if its abandoned. What are similar alternatives? All the ones I've tried so far either block behind expensive paywalls, or are substandard at best.

NTA 😁 as so many have already said there was an opportunity for him to work on the guy.

Squirt still is searchable, they've just changed the interface. When I've filtered by city name or neighborhood the listings come up and you can still select if you want ABS or Washrooms etc. That being said, I was just out of town and found I was using Sniffies most often to look for cruising spots. An advantage with that is that you get an idea if people are actively cruising when you're looking to go, have recently done so or if the spot is dead. I still think its all hit or miss since there are so many apps out there and everyone is spread out.

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How common are confessionals these days? Guessing he had some kindred spirits in other churches

First time one of my old fuck buds bred me was something like this. He's partnered, only ever fucked with condom up until that point. The night had started with another fuck bud breeding me in the park. I was walking home and the safer fuck bud messaged me on the app. I told him I had just gotten fucked in the park by a bud. He responded "raw?" and I told him yes. He tells me to come over. This is like 1 AM at this point. I didn't get snuck in, rather he told me to go around to the backyard. He comes out the basement door in the backyard, says his partner is upstairs asleep. I start to blow him, he pulls me up and slides his uncut cock in my ass raw, adding his load in. Hubby never knew his man was in the yard getting his rocks off.

Taxi drivers, when they were more common I remember taking cabs late at night just to offer BJ's to the driver. Only once or twice did it work out.

In the past few months I feel like I've been experiencing a decrease in libido. Dick and ass work perfectly fine, but I haven't had an inkling to top in I don't know how long. Not sure the best way to describe it other than my libido going down. I've tried things like less frequent jerking, eating healthier etc. but haven't had any luck. Anyone else experience this? If so anything work to get the mojo back?

Oh that twist at the end 🥵

Hopefully not off topic, but anyone remember a story on here about a dad figuring out his son was posting for gloryhole sex on craigslist, sets up a meet anon and while getting sucked his phone rings identifying him? I think it was taken down, but if not would love to read it again was fucking hot.

Have a fuckbud I see every now and then. He's got a condo downtown and home with the wife and kids in the city. Profile says he's looking for safe sex with condom but he's bred me every time we meet.

I'm not sure how truthful people are anymore. People who were either poz or undetectable on BBRT when I joined years ago have magically become negative or on PrEP in recent times so I only talk about it when brought up anymore

Haven't had a good last load story for a while, but tonight changed all that. Around dinner time I got hit up by one of my fuckbuds. He's a mid-twenties black twink that likes fucking hairy ass. He's told me before that he wants me sloppy seconds, but every time I had a load for him he wasn't in the mood or it didn't work out otherwise. Tonight when he messaged me he asked if I had any loads yet. Honestly, I was thinking I was going to have a low key night and get to bed early seeing I have work tomorrow morning. I told him the truth, i wasn't really looking. He was very persuasive in his messages so I took a peak at some options. I hit up a neighbor I've played with before, no response. Checked another app and a bud that also likes sloppy seconds was on. I've probably written about him before, he's a vers/top average build & cock but he shoots some damn good loads. I messaged this fuckbud, really fuckbud prime, and told him the situation. He seemed down for it. I had some back and forth on text with the twink, and back and forth on scruff with fuck bud prime and eventually fuckbud prime shows up at my place to prime my ass. The twink wants video of this, and both these guys love taking some vids. I told Prime this, and when he walks in he turns my phone cam on and records the entire fuck. He was on a tight schedule so the fuck only lasted 6:31 or at least that was the length of the video. As per usual, his cum was phenom. I send the vid off to twink and then get no response, FUCK! When I told him fuck bud prime was on way, he told me he was going to stroke a bit and have a drink so I figured he was backing out. A few minutes after I sent the video, he finally responds and tells me he has to wait a bit to cum, but gives me a time. 40 minutes later I'm ass up waiting for him to walk in. We've NEVER done ass up waiting. I was wearing a glow in the dark jock and a blindfold so my other senses were escalated. The twink pounded me for 45 minutes with his 9" cock. My hole felt so wet and full when he was done I was in cumdump heaven. Checking the phone, he took 4 videos of his cock in my ass at different points. Of course I had to share with fuck bud prime since he gave me some starter seed at the beginning of the night. Can't wait to repeat this!

Interesting, cant' reach at all unless I go off wi-fi. Oh well, not sure what the issue is on my end.

Curious if squirt is no longer a thing? Tried checking it out a couple days ago and then today and keep getting server not found.

None of those fit, I wanted to have more sex and bottoming was kind of the final frontier. When I discovered I enjoyed it with poppers and raw the rest became history

Had a bit of a dry spell most of May. Broke that tonight. A fuckbud I hadn't seen in a while was on. He's a twink, 22 year old that loves bears and guys a bit older than him. He came by, we made out, kissing, hugging (he felt and smelled so good). Eventually I sat on his 7.5" curved uncut cock and rode him a few minutes before he blasted in me. We cuddled in bed some more in the afterglow. About 20 minutes later he pushes me on my back, lubes up and slides in for round two. After a few minutes he pulls out has me get into doggy, he slams his dick in me so fast, the curve hits my prostate and I shoot a load all over the blanket. A few minutes later he dumps load 2 in me. All in all a good night.

I was in a tearoom on a business trip last year that was totally insane. At one point one of the cleaners came in and stood watching the action, didn't participate but didn't do anything to stop. One of the players was full on jacking his huge uncut cock in view of the guy too.

Wow! In process of reading up on medical research and came across a reference to Tearoom Trade in relation to ethics etc.

One thing I'd throw out there is if you're asked a question on topics listed above, have the courtesy to be curious about the same with the guy your out with. My last date was with a guy that is a little narcissistic and likes to talk about himself. I walked away knowing far more than I should about him and I think he knows my name. If he wasn't hung I probably would have walked away earlier...

You're totally right about the book, yet it is funny to me how relevant the information is today. I own a copy, and read most of it. I remember going looking for it in the Chicago Public Library because I had heard about the book online, and was having issues "cracking the code" to be an effective cruiser as this thread discusses in some replies. The book was supposedly always in the library, yet I never found it on the shelf. Thinking back not much has changed in spite of the apps. If you find an active tearoom in the wild, or just meeting there some of the "roles & rules" are still there. The author coined or stole the term "Watchqueens" for those that are the lookouts. He breaks that down even further, see attached. I can't help but thinking the longevity of the book being in circulation is that it shows how little certain aspects of cruising have changed in spite of the apps. The other thing is whether or not someone is actually studying this behavior with modern inventions such as the cell phone etc being taken into consideration. Unless another major, lethal, STI outbreak such as AIDS comes along I doubt much attention would be paid to the subject beyond those of us that participate or want to.

Haven't posted in a while. Took two loads today. First was from a guy in one of the gayborhoods. Was cute, colombian, short (like me) muscular, and had a gorgeous uncut cock he slid in me. Pounded my hole a few minutes before unloading. When I got home a guy I'd been chatting with wanted to drop by. He's a tall, thin black guy with a nice big cock. Added his load to the mix. Wasn't expecting two today so it was a very pleasant surrpise

I'd probably still be a total top if I didn't start taking cock raw 😁

Politely told a guy on one of the apps tonight that I want raw, immediately got an a question about PrEP. Kid you not, the chat had the same time stamp for my raw comment his PrEP comment. Found it too funny. Needless to say we did not hookup in the end.

As I've begun my transition into my daddy stage, I find more often that it's hard to find guys that I'm interested in that aren't hustling. I get why they won't outright say they're hustling, maybe it's they don't want to admit, or maybe they're worried if they say it on the app/site that they'll get kicked off or something. Recently a guy I met up with a couple times said it was his kink. I bought into that after finding out what his full-time job was (good-paying for sure.) He got very annoying texting me a couple times a week trying to get me to donate to him etc. We did fool around a couple of times, he always wanted to wear a condom. When he went bare at our last meeting (he apparently expected me to bring condoms over) the entire fuck he kept saying he was 'scared' but the tone in his voice gave away the game. I know the voice was fake for sure since he kept breaking condoms on our first meet, and at one point he said something about trying my hole bare before going in for a few minutes. In any event, after the last 'scared' time I finally blocked him.