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What is the Strangest Thing that has Happened to You at a Hook-Up
wood replied to Falls727's topic in General Discussion
I guess more of a hook up situation, but messaged a guy in an app, he was fully down to play but was working. I was visiting and couldn’t host. I suggested his office bathroom.. “can’t I’m a ups driver” me, “okay back of your truck?” him, meet me here. -
Bingo.
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On a personal level I’ve had many fun relations with law enforcement before. On a macro level, law enforcement in the US is broken in so many ways.
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I came in for IML just like I have for years, and had a good time but compared to past years, here’s a couple points I noticed. *There was a definitely a lack of the intrinsic joy and feeling of community that past IML’s have had. While it was still crowded people felt more click ish and less willing to meet others. *way less sex overall. Doors always used to be open everywhere and public sex even in spaces where it was technically prohibited was the norm. That was NOT the case this year. It was almost like everyone switched from a cruising mindset to an app mindset. *Events were VERY widely scattered and somewhat disorganized. As noted Chicago is fairly large and spending over $300 on Uber/taxi/lyft was the norm for the weekend. Many events were not close to transit systems. Events at the hotel were meager and mainly was just about the leather mart. *Costs for certain things were just annoying, like $12 for a mediocre well cocktail at the leather mart. This was compounded by the fact that the events were so far and required transport. *the hotel staff which always gets special training for this event was way off. To the extent that they were asking people to leave if they were not staying there. I still had a great time seeing everyone but when all of those items combined the event fully lost some of the magic it always had. I will still go next year and I imagine the organizers will try and fix some of the issues that people had this year.
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You’re not going to get statistical data on this but yes it’s possible.
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Health tips for guys not on meds
wood replied to ConvertCreed's topic in HIV/AIDS & Sexual Health Issues
Honestly it’s just usual health stuff. Don’t smoke, get exercise, limit drinking, don’t parTy, etc. for med resistance the worst thing you can do is take them very inconsistently. IE like twice a week or on one week off again. You are better off stopping completely, then starting again completely. -
Man sentenced to 30 yrs for deliberately spreading HIV
wood replied to seaguy's topic in General Discussion
I’m sorry but how is this guy a gentleman? He actively tried to have sex with someone he thought was 15, and did with someone 16. At the very least he is pedophile in my book. And I do not think this had anything to do with race. He fucked too many people in a small town, people talk, police eventually got involved. You can’t fuck kids. PERIOD, and the age of consent in Idaho is 18. The fact he was seeking people out and lying about status was simply found out during court discovery. -
Man sentenced to 30 yrs for deliberately spreading HIV
wood replied to seaguy's topic in General Discussion
These prosecutions are rare for a reason, this is not common. It has to be said however, that if you are hiv+ actively not on treatment and there are records of your diagnosis, there can be ramifications. Courts can get all of your records if they want too and there is probable cause. In this case he admitted to what he did. IMO this is NOT about the criminalization of HIV. I don’t think any person who is undetectable should ever be prosecuted for having unprotected sex. This is simply a blatant disregard for others autonomy. Take another example, if diabetes was transmissible, I would be extremely pissed if someone purposefully gave it to me. Most feel the same about HIV. There is a reason why stealthing even on here is only allowed as a fiction topic, it is illegal, and imo immoral if you are looking to infect another. Like I said before there are plenty of people that love anon sex and don’t ask questions. If you are poz and don’t want meds find them. These stories give a terrible name to the gay community and contribute hugely to HIV stigma. -
Man sentenced to 30 yrs for deliberately spreading HIV
wood replied to seaguy's topic in General Discussion
This should scare the shit out of anyone who is stealthing and infectious. It only takes one person to come forward for a court to get all your records. There are plenty of kinky guys out there that don’t care about status, guy fuck them. -
Advice on doctors in the NYC area to check out anal pain
wood replied to Bimarried001's topic in New York Metro Area
Lots of reasons but be super careful if you are having excessive bleeding, you really may need to go to the hospital if that’s the case. I know the post is old, hope you got it figured out. -
These are good options. you’ll have more fun in Florida and DC, NYC has parties as mentioned but people are flaky AF in NYC.
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Moderators: Not sure if this is the right forum and feel free to move if it needs to be. So my friend does some escort work. He did do some partying as well, only with the one substance that is usually nicknamed with a capital letter. The big issue is that he was visiting a single client for a meet up. They had met before and it seemed like it was going to be about the same as they always have, some play just with him for a couple hours and leave. On this occasion he gave him some “stuff” and they started to play as usual. However on this occasion, he started to feel quite weird and then passed out. He came about a couple times during this “session” at which point he realized that multiple people were in the room, and he had been there for many hours. At the end of this, he couldn’t even tell how many people had been in there, and even worse he came down with some STI’s, was bleeding slightly from his ass, and a case of Covid that landed him in the hospital. He’s extremely pissed and wants advice. The only thing I could tell him is possibly call the authorities. Any other ideas on this?
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You won’t have problems exactly, but you biggest issue will most likely be almost everything is online based now. Also, so many people don’t or can’t host so depending on your parole situation and where you are living that could hurt your chances. Additionally, the last thing you need is something like possibly getting caught by police in a public setting. Im in no way judging you for anything that’s happened in your life, but you may want to concentrate as much as possible on getting your life back first and jerking off a bit more. Costs for some basic things are also much higher. Adult book stores, bathhouses, basic transportation have also risen significantly. So that may also be a factor. in any case, I’m sure you will find play and best of luck when you get out! You’re a beast and I don’t know what your skill set is but if you could find a decent paying job in construction, I’m sure you could do well. Someone with your muscle mass is a huge asset on job sites and superintendents love people that can punch above their pay grade and do the work of two people. It really gets noticed. Also while you are still in, see if there are any job training programs. While it’s still tough with a record more and more employers aren’t asking for complete background checks. By far your best bet is to start planning your post release now, and that can include sex life as well, but you may also be really busy with general life. good luck!
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That screams scam. The math doesn’t add up for the people doing it, even if you give them the right to film you and distribute it. I know many people are struggling but at the end of the day $500 isn’t that much money and to spend that much time doing it makes zero sense when divided by the number of guys. 2-3 guys for a couple hours, that can make sense.
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I’d love to be better at it, but as a former competitive athlete, my joints aren’t what they used to be. 😅
