subbytch
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@fucktoy20, yeah, I don't feel safe with just any old top or dom. Been around the block one too many times, counting the crazies and nutjobs with each pass. To answer you question, most of the guys I play with regularly I found every place but a dating app or site. One was a straight neighbor who I discovered gets off on dominating the fuck out of gay guys. (Is he secretly gay? I don't fucking care. lol.) Another I met on a nude beach. We became friends. Hanging out one day, things turned sexual and has sense gotten more sexual. Neither of those two (or the one or two others I'd count) are serious relationships / scenes. More regular play. I like these guys, so I feel "safe" with them, in a way that I don't with some random trick I've met on an app or in a bar. I like @raw top's idea of having one of the guys I trust whore me out, though I'm still not sure if that's something I want to do -- or just don't want to do yet. It might also take one of these guys, or maybe someone else I'm yet to meet, to be " trained to accept any load, from any man, any time, anywhere" as @faggot hole writes. Either way should prove interesting. Though the constant desire to be an in-use cunt might be the best predictor of where things will eventually end up. lol.
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The more I get fucked, the more I want. Most people already know that, I realize. For me, after years of avoiding getting fucked, having now gotten back into it, with each encounter I don't want it to stop. Being fucked is mostly wrapped up with kinky sex. Soft and loving is fine, but being someone's bitch in the bedroom, their eager, mewing, begging cunt, is all kinds of awesome. Face in pillow, breath on the back of the neck, dirty words whispered (or yelled) are an emotional viagra. Finally blasting, be it the top into me or me onto the bed, is a rolling wave of wonder that fades to warm bliss. But damn. Thirty minutes. Forty. After they leave. I'm climbing the walls, wanting it again. Hungry hole, indeed. The trap, for me, is that as submissive as I can be, as bitchy as I get, it's not with everyone. Random guys, no matter how hot, I don't particularly feel comfortable, relaxed, or safe enough to let go and be fucked, let alone dominated. I have a small handful of guys that I can let go like this with. (Curiously, half of that handful is either bisexual or straight identified.) The circle slowly expands, but it's not large enough yet to accommodate their -- or my -- busy life. No doubt it would be better to be a no-loads refused cum dump or frequent bath houses. I never liked either. Whatever the kink space in my soul is narrow but very, very, deep. The love-space even more so. Anyone else run into a situation like this? How did you solve it? Or is it just a part of life?
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When safe-sex only guys ask what I want or am looking for, whether I'm using a "slutty" profile or a more regular and tame one, I say "I want you to fuck your cum deep into me." About 95% of them are eager too. I think the cultural pressure is to put "safe-sex only" on your profile, no to actually have it.
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Younger... Something about a guy younger than me taking his Daddy issues out on my ass is just so damn hot.
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There is something about having it called my "cunt" that makes it twitch and my dick hard. I don't go in for drag or consider myself a woman, but being called a bitch and fucked in the cunt is heaven.
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In no way would I presume that it's easy. It does take work. It has to be something that both you and you BF want to work at. Also, just as I think it's a mistake to think you can get all of your sexual needs met by one person, it's also a mistake to think you can get all of your deep emotional needs met by one person. Most of us just aren't wired that way. Maybe it's okay to have feelings for some FB's. They don't have to be the same as what you have for your BF... but they can be in the same neighborhood, to use another metaphor. And you and your BF can also set some guidelines around having fun with others, rules like both of you have to wake up next to each other each morning. Remember, it's not an either / or binary situation. Talking about it is one of those steps you can take to try to get the most out of all of your relationships. Unless you like them gagged. (Use grunts in that case.)
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Sometimes you want a salad and sometimes you want chocolate cake. Let yourself have them.
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I prefer fuck buds and friends with benefits. Random, anon, no-words-just-fuck doesn't get me nearly as horned up as some level of connection. It doesn't have to be deep friendship; it can be as simple as a some time talking before ass-slapping, collars and cum-fucking, but blindfold-never-met I don't really respond to. That being said, if it's someone I know who just wants to come over, find me blind-folded and pound me on the floor, game on.
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Because of the net, I've come to find that most of those conventional wisdoms I was handed years ago are mostly bullshit. Yes, older men are in demand, as both bottoms and tops. True, it is in a smaller percentage than younger to younger, but in larger cities and more populous states, it's a sizeable fraction. I'm in my mid-40s, a bear, and love to be a submissive bottom to younger, twinks, jocks and nerds. And I'm constantly amazed at the number and quality of the guys I meet. I'm far more popular now than when I was in my teens and 20s. Not regular enough for my liking, but that has to do with me. Strange, though endlessly surprising, world.
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I think this also ties into the frequently mentioned "jizz joy." :-)
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I moan and beg. It's slightly embarrassing. lol. -
This just proves it. Number one is reason enough... 16 Reasons to Have Daily Sex
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Curious, who here is sexually satisfied? I've been pondering what that means, myself. I know I'm not sexually satisfied yet. I also know that I'm still figuring out what that means. Sometimes solving a problem requires figuring out how others define it and what their answers are. So how would you define satisfied? Frequent sex? Frequent and great sex? Great sex in the moment? As much sex as one wants? Another way? And if you've defined it, have you achieved it? Is it even possible to achieve, for a bottom? For a top?
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I like younger ones. I don't think I got enough sex in my teens, twenties and thirties. Younger, dom tops really get me hard.... and down on my knees. lol.
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Had an interesting conversation with a straight (ish) friend of mine about sex with guys vs. girls. I was asking him how the various holes ranked for sexual purposes. He never seems to have a problem getting exactly what he wants. :-) In his opinion, guys give better blowjobs than girls, but girls take cock better than guys *unless* a guy likes it hard and long, then males take first place again. Thoughts? Is that other's direct or indirect experience?
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Having read and lurked for a while, finally wanted to say hi and hello. I have really enjoyed much of what I've read here. From reading other people's comments, I was able to confirm that, yes, there's an itch that wasn't getting scratched, a need not being met and something I desperately was looking for. With the advent of PrEP, I finally feel it's okay to open up a little more and take a few more risks. Even so, I'm fairly certain that I'm not as wild as some of the folks on here, but I am frequently a bitch-in-heat, and I've been avoiding getting pleasure from that with either condom or condomless sex. Looking forward to seeing what develops. A hearty thank you to the community and mods for this space.
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There's a difference between the fantasy of rape and the actual practice of it. People fantasize about a great many things they'd never do in person or never want done to them in person. Even people who play rape, by and large, are still freely choosing to give up control for a set period of time, in exchange for sexual and emotional pleasure. All of that is far different from someone who has their consent taken away and is forced, in the purest sense of the term, into a sexual situation without their consent at any point, and without any idea of the outcome. The vast majority of people on here who fantasize or have engaged in simulated rape wouldn't, wouldn't be in favor of the second example.
