breederboy
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Thanks for all the helpful replies! I am not understanding Grindr. Lots of guys hit me up and chat and seem interested, but then they just stop chatting. It's pretty dumb. Been looking for a cumdump to breed all week and no luck. This just sucks.
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What gets me on these sites is how many people seem like they're interested but then just fade away and stop chatting I just don't get that. Either you're interested or not but why waste my time chatting if you really don't intend on meeting up or just stop chatting? What's the point? Last week some guy invited me to a group sex session but stood me up and the door to the hotel room he gave me was locked. And then this guy who said he wanted to arrange a 3way with me did not show up and so I never got to meet the other guy. Seems like excuse after excuse. I could have met a couple other guys but they weren't my type. I met this guy on Grindr and he seemed really weird like he just wanted friends and then I went down and hungout with him and spent 4 boring hours watching tv he did not make a move or anything. I really just want one or two buds I could meet and fuck on a regular basis but that seems to be impossible to find. I'd just like to meet one or two guys I could play with that are actually into me.
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My issue right now is just finding someone to breed on a regular basis. It's so hard why is it this hard lol.
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Its annoying when guys ask "d/d free" or "clean"? What does that even mean? I am poz and undetectable I'm not "dirty". Why do people think it's ok to have stds but if you're healthy and poz and undetectable thats somehow a deal breaker. Don't really get that. Thankfully there are quite a few good bottom pigs who don't care or who are educated.
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Usually guys who hit me up will ask to trade more pics, and then ask what I get into, & then some of them will ask d/d free, others don't. If they ask, I feel I have to tell them. If they don't ask, then I don't feel obligated to tell. Personally I feel that being undetectable and poz is better than not knowing one's status or having an std, but maybe that's just me. It's kind of a fine line and hard to know. Since I'm mainly into fucking instead of just oral, and I only fuck bareback, period, then I'm fine with telling if a guy asks me directly if I'm "clean" or "d/d free". If he doesn't ask, then I don't tell. Bbrts is much better as far as knowing statuses but just so few seem to use it.
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True, I have to tell, they do have a right to know I think. Especially guys who may not know what undetectable means. Grindr is a bit indiscrete to say the least so not really comfortable with putting my status in my profile there so usually I wait and see if they ask and if they do I tell them. Its kind of a buzzkill thought having to explain it when you just want to hookup. So far, I have only told them if they ask me point blank, and if they're ok with it, fine, if not, oh well. If they don't ask, then I don't bring it up.
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This has come up before but how do you handle it as a top on Grindr when a lot of hot bottoms hit me up wanting to fuck but don't know my status do you tell them before and risk half of them not being interested or tell them and hope some still are? I only fuck bareback and condoms are a huge turn off. Even if a guy is hot I still won't fuck if he insists on a condom. So do you tell guys that I'm poz and undetectable if they ask? And just let the chips fall where they may? ON bbrts it's a lot easier because most there assume it, but problem with bbrts is that it's so dead usually nobody is on much. Just today a hot guy hit me up and we chatted and he was a bottom but he asked "ddf"? So of course when asked I can't lie, so I say, "I'm poz and undetectable and std and drug free". He said he'd get fucked but only with condom. Which is a dealbreaker for me I hate condoms. So how to approach this when chatting with a hot guy? Just tell if they ask point blank? Or tell them from the get go?
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Question what do you do when a guy who you'd really like to hook up with (and he wants to hookup with you) have totally opposite schedules? I am not free nights but he is. He keeps asking me constantly if I can come see him at night, but I simply can't. I can only do mornings or afternoons. How do I address this with him? He asks like every day. I told him if we can work so
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Isn't there one day or night, out of seven, that you can meet up ? If not, I guess you'll just have to let it go...
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I suppose. I tend to go with my gut and so far haven't met anyone cool who wants to play off Grindr. I'm all about friends but this was just beyond awkward sitting there watching tv. I guess I should have been more upfront with him about what I'm looking for. I did find it a bit weird how he got kind of pissy when I would tell him why I couldn't meet at certain times. Not like I'm dating him or anything. Then when I got there all he did was basically stare at me and look like he was examining something under a microscope. Just felt a weird vibe. He was nice enough but I just felt cornered and uncomfortable. This always seems to happen to me, I'm only looking for hot fun, no drama, and I end up with weird guys who don't seem to know what they want from day to day which confuses me further. I just want a fun guy to chill with and fuck.
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Just wanted to give some advice to anyone who needs it or has been there. Never meet a guy from grindr or any of the sites unless you're both crystal clear about what you're looking for/what's going to happen! I was chatting with a guy and he seemed cool, and was cute, and at first seemed sexually interested but then began talking about wanting "friends". I'm cool with friends but for the most part I prefer real friends outside of hookup sites. I don't think one can really mix hookups and friends lol. But anyway, he kept asking me to come hangout with him, and since he was so persistent, I finally agreed, since he started getting pissy. Not sure why though because it's not like we're dating. He seemed more interested in cuddling than fucking. But I went and visited him, and he was a nice enough guy, and good looking, but it was weird, and awkward. I basically just wanted to fuck without much chit chat. But he seemed to just want to sit onthe couch and watch tv while we made EXTREMELY awkward conversation. I wasn't even sure why I was there. I spent 2 hours there just feeling horribly awkward and with him basically letting me do the talking which really was weird. I finally left, it was all very friendly, he said "let's hangout again" but honestly due to how awkward it felt to me I may not again. So word to the wise. Don't meet someone unless both of you know what's going to happen otherwise it will be extremely awkward! Grindr isn't for friends lol, it's for sex. Not sure why guys pretend otherwise.
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Lol who knows. Dry spell I guess. The guy who wants me to come visit him seems to be more about friends/cuddling. Last week we had made plans to meet at a certain time but he wasn't around when the time came but then he got pissy afterwards claiming he was online when he wasn't lol. Weird. Now he's wanting me to come visit him and "cuddle" and be "friends" but I really just want to fuck, I'm not really into cuddling. But if I don't go, he'll probably get pissy so what do I do.
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I don't get guys. Some guys seem cool and hit me up but seem to want to be friends instead of fucking. I mean I'm cool with that, but sometimes I just need a hot fuck. One guy has been asking me over and over but he's only free at night when I am not free due to work and so we haven't been able to do it yet. Why is hooking up this hard lol. Maybe it's where I am, I don't know. Just know that I am logged on adam4adam and bbrts for ages and don't get single responses or anyone seeming interested. I have a decent dick and can fuck for ages too and cum a ton. But guys are missing out because they won't give me a chance. I've been on grindr all day and nobody chats on there either. I hit some up asking if they needed fucked, but no response. Seems like it's all talk. The guy who wants me to come visit him tomorrow seemed more interested in friends, not sure what his agenda is. I really just want to fuck. He says he's a cuddler, I'm not that into cuddling to be honest. But he thinks it's a good idea apparently.
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I think so too attitude is everything. And sometimes, if a guy does want to meet me, our schedules don't always match up at any given time, but sometimes if you suggest planning for another day, a guy gets weird and thinks your playing games. But I try to make good faith effort for any guy I'm interested in if he doesnt live too far away. Going to meet a guy tomorrow I've chatted with for a week or so. Seems like a cool guy, wants to cuddle and netflix & maybe some fun thrown in. I think he thought I was playing games because my schedule was too busy to meet this week but I'm planning on going to meet him at his place tomorrow. Hopefully it will be fun & he will be a cool guy. He wanted me to come today but I'm at family's for the new years thing. So wish me luck he looks like a hot guy hopefully he'll be cool and sane lol
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It's just discouraging. My question is how to approach it without having to get into some long lengthy lecture about what undetectable means when I really just want to get laid. Guys always ask me if I am d/d free and clean. What the fuck does that even mean? So back to my question. On grindr, when guys chat me up, do I have to tell them I am poz every single time I want to hook up with a guy, unless he asks point blank? I spend day after day on grindr and am just not getting any hits and I have a nice face pic and everything on there. I don't get it.
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I've had trouble at times too, don't sweat it. Guys are weird. I think you should be more aggressive, I have typically tended to try and let guys come to me, if they're interested, but this isn't going to work so well, so might as well say fuck it and just try and hit up as many guys as you want that you're interested in, and if some aren't oh well, their loss, but you'll probably score if you are more proactive. Trust me I know it's difficult, I struggle with how to chat with guys when I want to hook up too, especially being poz, never sure how that's going to go down. Trust me. It's best to show your face on the sites, it saves time, and speaking for myself I don't want to chat with guys without face pics either, I want to see who I'm chatting with. It's 2015, no time to deal with weird people with no faces. I've been on grindr a week and have a face pic, and haven't gotten a single hookup from it yet. Not sure why, but after being on it a few days, guys started hitting me up less and less, and now hardly anyone talks to me. Maybe just being more proactive is the key.
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So I'm poz, and a top. And I need some advice for how to improve my luck meeting guys for fun, regular buddies. I'm having problems meeting guys. I'm on several of the sites, adam4adam, bbrts, grindr..On a4a and bbrts I have my status as undetectable so as to filter out anyone who might have an issue with that. Just makes things easier, although I get very very few hits, and I am a young in-shape guy and reasonably hung, so I assume many people are just scared off my my status. How should I handle it on grindr? I am a young guy, so I get as horny as anyone else. I am poz and undetectable, I list as my tribe "poz", so I assume any guys who hit me up would assume that I am poz. Some guys hit me up and never ask my status, so if they don't ask, do I need to tell them? If they are willing to do bb? One guy said he would bb if I was "clean" but I told him I was poz and undetectable and he stopped talking to me. So how can I get more hits being a poz guy? Do I have to tell every single guy that wants to hook up with me I am poz unless they ask? I am kind of tired of being a young guy with a huge libido but not getting much any action.
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How Do You Go To Bare When Meeting A Guy?
breederboy replied to Barehorny's topic in General Discussion
Condoms are a complete and total turn off for me. It's a tricky situation, depends on where/how you meet a lot of the time. For instance if you meet off somewhere like bbrts chances are pretty good that he'll like bb as much as you. So the issue won't even come up. Other places, like Grindr, can be trickier, if you don't list your status in your profile, for instance, many guys will just not ask and get straight to wanting to hookup without it even coming up, but through chat, usually you can get a feel for them and what they like. Some guys are just anal no pun intended about insisting on condoms, in which case I usually assume they're a bit uptight for me anyway, and move along. However, sometimes if a guy is cool enough and hot enough, I can have fun without fucking, but fucking raw is always my first choice. So like on Grindr, while I don't disclose my status on my profile, because I don't feel comfortable doing that, I do have in my tribe, "Poz" so if guys can read they can assume that I am poz. But I could never hook up and fuck a guy without telling him I'm poz and undetectable. However it's also a bit cumbersome to have to explain the whole poz/undetectable thing to guys who don't understand it. So to make long story short, given all this, I usually just find that it's easier and less hassle to stick to openly poz guys, because they don't usually care, or guys who state that they are poz friendly. Usually I ask in chat if it gets sexual if they are poz friendly, and if they say yes, it's cool, and ok to proceed. That's how I approach it. -
I will never understand why guys hit me up and start chatting and then when I reply back, with "hows it going" or "whats up", they clam up and just stop chatting. A chat is supposed to be mutual right? Whats with all these guys who hit you up but then go totally quiet?
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Yea, seems like just a lot of weird flakes. I'm a pretty laid back guy, but if you're going to host, at least make things presentable. I met a guy awhile back who had a disgustingly messy place and it reeked of cat piss I left right then and there because it was so gross. And this bottom this week who said he wanted to meet and seemed cool but then called me 10 minutes before asking me to buy him lube and a phone charger? What the fuck?? And then didn't answer the door. The these guys this week who seemed cool and wanted to meet but then stood me up. I'm to the point now where I am not chasing any more. If someone is interested, I'll play my part, but not going to go above and beyond any more. If a strange guy wants to meet, then it's going to be during the day when it's safe or in a safe spot in public not some gas station or somewhere weird. Tired of the flakes.
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Don't sweat it man, I totally identify with you. It's happened to me many times. Guys will chat me up, seem interested, or even claim they want to set something up with another guy or whatever, but they either just stop talking, or make some lame excuse and don't follow through. Of course, many guys actually mean what they say, so not all are flakes, but sadly several are. I don't get it. Yesterday I was on bbrts kind of looking, and some hot dude hit me up asking if I wanted to tag some bottom with him. I said sure, and he got strangely quiet. He then messaged me about the other guy where he was, etc. But then, when I hit him back showing my interest, he never responded again. I asked again, no response. He just stopped chatting. I told him to not waste my fucking time any more and have a nice day. I am as laid back as anyone, and always game for a hot time, but I mean what I say, and expect the same. Anything else is a waste of time. Just this week, some other hot looking dude messaged me wanting to meet and I showed up and knocked on the door and he would not answer, and I was standing there like a fool. He claimed he had "gone to run an errand to buy a phone charger" and asked me to come back. Nah, not going to do that. The guy even had the nerve to ask me if I "would buy him a phone charger and lube" before coming to his place, "I'll pay you back man". Really? You're a bottom but you don't even have any lube? That's bullshit. Guys need to be straight up and mean what they say. I don't have many hangups, just be straight up, mean what you say, show up when you say, have good teeth and good breath, and be fun and easy going! Really not that picky. I've noticed that there seems to be a lot of meaningless talk and not much action in the hookup arena lately..
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He's not straight if he's fucking a guy! Period. He's probably bi or confused but just doesn't know how to face it or whatever. No truly straight men are going to want to fuck a dude. Just like as a gay man, I definitely am only into men, no interest at all in women sexually.
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I enjoy anonymous scenes with a hot hungry hole presentment. Have had some very enjoyable times over the years with hotel cumpigs! Once had a buddy who would visit and I would always breed him multiple times using other dude's cum as my lube. He had a sweet, furry, addictive hole! Loved seeding him.
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Pig bottom's hole was hungry so I went to his hotel room & destroyed his tight hole, seeded him deep. Great hole, nice way to kick off new year's. Who's next?
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I think part of it too with the guy last night was that it was pretty late, and something about it creeped me out. You just can never tell with people. I'm usually really chill, but that guy's pushiness really creeped me out. He was borderline obsessive.
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Yea, it's such a fine line lol. I like a guy to seem interested in me, I actually hate it when you chat with a guy who seems cool but he can't hold a conversation or beats around the bush, but I also by the same token don't like when a guy starts really pushing me. The guy last night was nice and didn't seem to be a tweaker but I could be wrong, but he just kept saying "what time will you be there" or stuff like that. I actually drove part of the way to meet him, but his constant pushy texts made me bail. He got a little pissy about it but I just had to go with my gut. He just seemed to hellbent on meeting even if just for a few minutes for some reason. That kind of made me suspicious. I think I made right call. If he ever messages me again, I'll have to let him know that if he wants to meet during the day when I feel more comfortable that's cool, on mutual terms. The guy today was a lot cooler, or seemed like it, but he called me like 5 minutes before I was to meet him, and asked me to get him a phone charger & lube. That was weird. And then I showed up at his door and he didn't answer. He claimed he was away running errands but I'm not sure. Where are the normal cool guys who just want to have fun? I had to go to this guy's hotel today I was horny & have a huge load I was going to give him but he didn't even answer the door. Lame.
