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  1. discreetmpls
    Here's one for you size queens. https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/biggest-cock-to-ever-fuck-me-post-comments-30016571
  2. discreetmpls
    "Str8 goes bb" is one I return to a lot. If anyone is interested, I have a ton of gloryhole86 vids that I ripped off xtube when they were still there.
  3. discreetmpls
    Last July, I topped two different cum sluts bb. Both had multiple loads in them when I fucked them. About two weeks later, I felt like I had an std (itching, discomfort, etc.). I tested negative for everything but had a swollen prostate. My doctor believed I may have contracted bacterial prostatitis from the unprotected sex. Apparently bacteria that are healthy in the anus can go up the urethra and start growing in your bladder or prostate, where they don't belong. I went on several rounds of anti-biotics and ultimately never had any resolution. I now have chronic prostatitis that has affected my sex life significantly due to discomfort with erections and ejaculation. I've been to a specialist, and they say there isn't much I can do except manage symptoms. I'm now taking Flomax (tamsulosin) for about four months so far, to keep my prostate from being permanently damaged, which has its own set of side effects, and I do physical therapy daily. Unfortunately, nothing has changed much. I'm wondering if anyone else has experienced something similar, or am I just incredibly unlucky. Does anyone have suggestions for alternative treatments that work?
  4. discreetmpls
    This goes to pornhub not xtube. Having said that, I'm pretty sure the bottom is u-fuck-me from xtube. He's got a lot of good ones.
  5. discreetmpls
    I'm going to agree with wood on this one. There would be no difference between PrEP sex and PrEP free sex other than mentally. The idea of it being "so intense" is completely psychological and likely had more to do with the poz partner wanting either the dominance of infecting someone, or the co-dependence of not being the only poz person in the relationship. I know I would probably get flamed for saying this, but I don't believe there is any excuse for infecting someone in a day and age where the combination of PrEP and anti-viral regimen for poz men can reduce the risk to nearly 0. HIV is not diabetes, and the health care costs are still ridiculously high - you may have great insurance, but you can believe everyone else deals with a higher premium.
  6. discreetmpls
    No, not really, if PrEP is 99% effective, then you have the same 1% chance every poz load that you take, no matter how many you take. However, if someone is taking lots of loads and "pushing the envelope" as he stated, it's likely that other things were happening, such as torn rectal tissue, fatigue, drug or alcohol use, etc. all of which can decrease your body's defenses. In addition, the type of party he went to likely had several poz tops who either aren't on meds or whose viral load has not yet been reduced, making them more infectious that the typical poz on meds. Number of partners/number of loads only slightly slightly increases your risk in that 1% 100 times is more risky than 1% 2 times if you calculate out the odds.
  7. discreetmpls
    I have been on PrEP since September, and the biggest change for me is that I will fuck HIV+ bottoms now. Before, even if they were undetectable, I had some hang-ups and couldn't get an erection. The other thing I have noticed is that I have much more frank and open conversations about status, meds, risk factors than I ever did before. In the past it seemed like there wasn't much point because everyone claimed to have a recent test and you had no way to know if they were lying or even if the test was accurate if they'd been bb'ing since. Now it's easy to confirm they are on PrEP, HIV+ people rarely lie about their viral load, and even if someone is shady my risk is minimal other than STDs. As far as side effects I have had none that were noticeable enough to attribute to TRUVADA.
  8. discreetmpls
    This is a smart tactic. I am very glad that PrEP has made men who have sex with men start to be much more open and communicative about their health status and risk factors. I can say for myself that since going on PrEP I have much more frank conversations with potential partners than I ever did when it was a lot of smoke and mirrors and even a recent test was meaningless.
  9. discreetmpls
    Option 2 seems a bit silly, to be honest, given that you have to take 2 pills before you think you might have sex, and then 1 per day until 48 hours after sex. If you are like me, you'd end up taking 5-6 pills a week anyway, and you're at greater risk (even if still low) than if you just take it daily. If you are on daily PrEP, it becomes part of your routine, and unplanned sex doesn't have to be a concern. I could see option 2 making more sense only in situations where you are primarily monogamous with a partner, and have a few vacations a year where you have 3-ways or open activity. There's no reason for someone who is sexually active with multiple partners to go option 2, imo.
  10. discreetmpls
    There is a probably a distinction to be made between the concept of Christianity, which is a belief that God had a half-human child who was offered as a sacrifice so everyone else could be forgiven, and the practice of certain Christian sects who focus on a slavish devotion to a literal reading of a book written by men with agendas. One is a belief/faith, the other is a laundry list of rules. Within the broader scope, I'm sure there is plenty of room for all types of Christians. Within the narrow "fundamental" sects, not so much.
  11. discreetmpls
    Christians are supposed to honor the teachings of Jesus, who had very little to say about sex and wouldn't have understood "barebacking" as there was little in the way of "safe sex" in those times. The views of sex held by different religions are typically meant to increase the population of that religion (hence no contraception) and to control women (by denying them pleasurable or frequent sex). If you believe that God loves us, then it would be silly to think he'd make sex the single most pleasurable thing we can do, and then tell us not to do it. That isn't love. Now God might want you to respect your body and make good decisions about your health, but being a bb cumdump doesn't mean you are devaluing your body or your health, it really depends on why you do it and how you feel about yourself before, during, after.
  12. discreetmpls
    The top is Mark Sergeant. Those scenes were very hot, and wish they would do more like that. The performer "Glenn" on ChaosMen also does internals where you can see his dick spasming like crazy (very hot!), but he always starts outside the hole and then puts it in.
  13. discreetmpls
    If the top is actually cumming, it will be obvious from his face, his body, and his sounds. Yes, there are probably tops out there who can shoot a huge load without a single muscle spasming, jerking, or facial twitch, but I'm guessing those guys would not be in porn. I don't need to see the load beyond what might drip or leak out, and it completely removes me from the fantasy when a top pulls out to shoot, because it's so unrealistic.
  14. discreetmpls
    I agree here. I have a gay doctor who is very nice and understanding, but I don't tell him quite everything. I feel like the little white lies are fine, provided you aren't covering up health conditions. For example, I say that I have a few regular partners but we are all open and they may be having sex with others. That isn't quite the same as, I've had four partners in the last three days and god only knows who else they've been with or what their status is. It's not a total lie to make it sound less slutty than it is, I'm still having multiple partners who have other partners, that's the part that matters for my doctor. Yes, it would be nice to be totally honest, but I can accept that I feel a bit of shame still over being sexually promiscuous, and I don't need to dread the doctor as some kind of post-catholic confessional.
  15. discreetmpls
    See if your doctor has the Gilead co-pay cards. It was as simple as calling an 800 number and giving some basic information, then giving the card number to my pharmacist. No paperwork, no waiting, and they will pay up to $200/month of whatever copay you are responsible for. Basically the paperwork is done by the doctor's office and they get a stack of them to give out.
  16. discreetmpls
    one thing that hasn't been mentioned - absolutely do not take 3-4 pills in one day. you can cause serious damage to your liver and kidney. if you are going to try loading up before loading up (hah!), you need to take it daily for several days beforehand, not a mega-dose at one time. i don't recommend doing this at all, but if you're going to do it, at least minimize your risk of organ damage.
  17. discreetmpls
    I'm glad you have looked into PrEP a little more, but I have to echo 420SubCub and bearbandit. Taking a handful of pills (that you don't have a prescription for) right before a cumslut week-end is exactly the kind of behavior that the PrEP haters accuse all of us of doing - a "party drug". I appreciate that you've realized you made a mistake, but just in case anyone else is considering a similar strategy, you should understand the health risks. The reason you have to be tested and monitored while starting on Truvada is because if you are already positive or become positive before the drug is built up in your system, the HIV will become Truvada resistant, meaning that you won't be able to take Truvada as a treatment, and will have to take more harsh and physically damaging HIV drugs instead. Also, the guy who gave you his pills, that means he's missing 10 days of treatment himself? If he's positive, that's really just insane, he's seriously compromising his health, and if he's negative, he's putting himself at risk for the same Truvada resistant HIV. Two-three days is all it takes for the drug to drop to levels that will no longer prevent infection. Either way, he's committing a crime. Truvada is not meant to be taken a few days here and a few days there, it's an extremely expensive and controversial drug that requires doctor supervision and long-term commitment. In order to make sure that everyone will be able to access this important preventative option, we need to use it responsibly. I talked to my doctor about whether there would be an issue in the future with Truvada being taken off insurance plans' formularies, similar to how birth control right now is optional for insurance providers (because they are "slut" drugs). He said it was pretty far off anyone's radar right now. Let's keep it that way, at least until it goes generic and we can afford it w/o insurance.
  18. discreetmpls
    Yup, that was it - thank you!!
  19. discreetmpls
    can anyone help me find a video? i thought it was somewhere in this thread but there are way too many posts to go through. it's a dp scene where both tops cum while fucking. it's very amateur, and one of the guys says something like "that's the hottest thing i've ever done" at the end. very normal guys, no faces.
  20. discreetmpls
    Are you on their insurance?
  21. discreetmpls
    You seem very concerned, giving up sex for a year when you engaged in very low risk activities. I would recommend a few things - go on PrEP (there are many forum postings about it here), and get vaccinated for anything you can, Hep A & B, HPV, etc. You don't have to be celibate in order to be safe, and you don't need to go through months of fear because of one minimally risky encounter. You should never do anything you aren't comfortable with, but fear is the wrong reason to avoid intimacy.
  22. discreetmpls
    Just another advocate for PrEP. It's covered very cheaply by most insurances (mine is $25 a month which is then covered by the co-pay assistance program, so I pay $0). So far, no one who takes PrEP daily has sero-converted - the few people "on PrEP" who became positive showed no evidence of the drug in their blood, meaning that they either stopped taking it or were taking it very infrequently. Studies have shown even if you miss a day, drug levels in your blood remain high enough to prevent infection for about 72 hours. However, it does take about the same 3 days to build up the recommended amount in your blood when you first start taking it. I'd recommend you go on PrEP, have your first two week check-in so your doctor can make sure nothing crazy is happening, like you are some metabolism monster who is processing the drug right out or something bizarre. After that, get wild and indulge your fantasy. You're going to do it eventually anyway, but this way you'll get the feeling of the risk with little of the actual risk.
  23. discreetmpls
    I started on PrEP two months ago and didn't have any side effects at all. I also haven't yet bent over a barrel at the local bathhouse, as Weinstein suggested I might. All the sex I've had since starting on PrEP has been oral, just like most of it was before. I'm taking it more to let myself off the hook a bit, when I'm eventually drunk or stoned and do what comes naturally. I never liked wearing condoms, and I HATE getting fucked by them - probably 90% of the anal sex I've had in my life was unsafe. Now I don't have to feel guilty about it or scared every time I go in for HIV tests.
  24. discreetmpls
    Now that is just some drama. What documented evidence can you show that this is "poisonous"? Also, the "big pharma" that makes TRUVADA has all kinds of assistance programs to help with the costs. They are just doing what every pharma does, making as much money as they can before the patent expires and it goes generic. Once it's generic no one will be making any money off it anymore. IMO, Gilead deserves to make a bit of money for investing in research for a drug that the mainstream isn't very interested in.
  25. discreetmpls
    You weren't having all that sex out of fear, now the fear is gone. You are not a different person, you are freer to be who you want to be.

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