you're right and i apologise, i understand why you got angry, i guess i was careless with the words, but i would argue that on this site we all reduce ourselves in this way. we don't think about respect or barriers when it comes to sex, even about ourselves - i call myself a faggot and my hole a cunt here all the time because thats the shit we say when we're horned, not because i'm ignorant about my or others' sexuality. This is a fetish website basically, so we objectify and fetisize each other, at least, thats what most people here do - in straight culture its the same way i guess some dudes say 'that big-titted black chick sucked me off like a vacumn last night'. its not nice or flattering at all, but its crude male sex banter, which is what we're supposed to have the freedom to do here.
and for context, this was at a free-for-all sex party, and they referred to it as a pussy themselves - yes i know it comes across as demeaning and making you out as less than either gender, and i'm sorry if it came out like that, but in my case, i meant it as just the factual truth, and not meant as an insult. Dealing with a vagina is just likely going to be a closer experience sexually for me to dealing with a cis girl than with a dick, whoever its attached to, right?