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  1. They don't even always want to watch here. Most of the time if you start having sex out in the open other guys will avoid the area, I like the audience and it greatly improves the chances of getting a group scene going on. I'm fully versatile, so I have no issues either topping or bottoming, although I probably top at least 9 out of 10 times here. In most cities I can usually get a cock in my ass for every 2 or 3 asses I fuck, I love flip fucking and getting fucked while fucking.
  2. It's been a frustrating weekend for me had a little sex but no where near the amount I would have liked, and I'm extremely horny. Went to the bathhouse both Friday night and last night, unfortunately it was full of guys that don't hookup. "I'm only into JO," "I just like to watch," "I like to cuddle," "I'm not into fucking" (sorry blow jobs and rimming don't cut it for me), and etc. Some of these guys will cruise you for hours, and will stay right with you discouraging others that might actually be into fucking. Not to mention the guys that walk around posing or modeling their fetish gear but never let anyone get near them. It's not limited to any particular age group, the 2 guys that got my loads were hot young twinks who were having the same problem. I realize it is more endemic in some cities than others (is almost all of the time in some places and only happens on rare occasions in others), but how do you get guys to participate and actually fuck each other? Last weekend they loosened up their inhibitions a little and there was some sex going on even an orgy with guys swapping around, this weekend it was close to zilch even for one on one. I have noticed the phenomenon here in Portland before, where things start to loosen up a little one weekend, followed by several weeks of nothing. Are there a lot of guys that are only let there inhibitions down once every few months?
  3. I'm bi and love fucking both women and men, and probably a sex addict. It is easier to find men willing to have gratuitous promiscuous sex than it is for women, however with the right participants they are equally hot.
  4. I went to the CumUnion party at HawksPDX last night, hot fucking orgy, I had my cock in probably 20 different holes and had 2 cocks in my tight ass (no loads). I blew my load in 3 guys, both of the major instigators of the nearly continuous orgy going on in the upper video area took my seed, and at the end of the night I bred a tall guy in the sling while one of the instigators got bred in the sling next to us. I love orgies, my cock just keeps getting hard even after cumming several times.
  5. Last nights CumUnion was hot. There were finally enough uninhibited guys there that fucking was actually happening outside of the darkroom and private rooms. Several orgies broke out in the upper video area, versatile flip fucking, train fucks, spit roasts, swapping partners around, all of the wonderful things that can happen when a good cock and ass crazed dog pile orgy gets going. The slings out in the open were finally getting some good use too. Hope it continues, Hawks was a true sex club for once.
  6. Some cities are definitely better than others. I've lived in several and travel a lot, if the majority of hookup ads that don't mention fucking or specifically looking for JO, it's going to be difficult to find either a bottom or top. Going to sex clubs and cruising in those cities is an exercise in frustration. I'm versatile and not all that picky when I'm horny and have been cruising unsuccessfully for a couple of hours, but find myself winding up with blue balls anyway. In most cities I can usually have my pick of bottoms. I've found LA to be pretty average in that regard (not a total pig city), so I'm guessing the OP needs to figure out where to look.
  7. Maybe he just bored and his dick is hard. Happens to me, I'll just start casually stroking while I'm reading or watching TV.
  8. They can, the question is why they would want to be.
  9. Do they count as regulars if you just hook up at the clubs, theaters or other cruising spots, I don't bring guys home and very, very rarely go home with one. Where I live currently it is about 1:1 regulars to random guys (usually out of towners). Other places I have lived and cities I travel to regularly it quickly becomes 4 or 5:1 regulars to random hookups.
  10. HawksPDX is probably your best bet. Followed by the Paris theater and any of the downtown bookstores.
  11. The places that are still around are hit or miss, mostly miss. XES is gone, downtown Portland bath is closed. I quit going to Steam (there was enough activity there when I 1st moved to keep me from completely going nuts, but it tapered off to nothing), lot's of guys late nights on weekends, but no one ever seems to hook up I very rarely saw, heard or any other kind of evidence that guys were fucking. New bath called HawksPDX has some activity, but it seems like fewer and fewer guys are visiting (that's where I hooked up with the latest Mr Quality). Downtown theater has moved and has some activity, mostly guys that want to jack off together but keep your hands to yourself. I've fucked a twink (not really my type but anyone willing becomes my type when I'm not traveling for a few weeks) there several times recently, that just moved from LA, he is ready to move back if he can't get laid more. I'd do the same if I wasn't traveling regularly. I seldom go the ABS's but haven't seen anything that would keep me coming back when I have been, guys stand around put enough money in the machines to keep the employees happy and wait for Mr. Perfect. Parks, rarely see anyone actively cruising and if you do it's the same as at the theater (watch each other jack off). I don't get it, lot's guys saying they live the gay lifestyle in this town, but almost no fucking.
  12. I don't seem to have the problem, anywhere outside the Pacific Northwest. I thought hooking up in bathhouses, adult theaters, and parks was usually a good indication by itself? Just curious, where did you find the raunchy-easy-sleazy guys? I've lived here 6 years, can easily sniff out hot spots to hookup with guys most places I have traveled and everywhere else I've every lived, but I haven't found it here.
  13. That's the problem, this guy seems to be the norm for this area, in other places I've lived and most places I travel to regularly I wouldn't give this guy a 2nd chance. Unfortunately I have yet to have a local guy like him turn into a good fuck, he doesn't want to do it again for at least 2 weeks so it will be a very slow education at best. I have been messing around with another guy here who is both a a good bottom and top, he claims he only has sex once a week, unfortunately he goes out cruising practically every day (but only wants to jack off if he has had sex in the last week), but I guess if you fuck around once a week for 20 years you can get good at it (but who wants to wait that long). Me I want to fuck around a couple of times a day, I leave when I sated. It is also a problem that everyone seems to be looking for a boyfriend, even at the bathhouse, adult theater, outdoor cruising spots, bookstores, and etc., not a lot of gratuitous promiscuity. I've had too many guys get pissed off at me if I fuck them or let them fuck me 5 or 10 times at the baths and then don't want to become their boyfriend. I did breed him, wasn't easy and it was obviously painful for him, how do you get someone with a hangup like that to try a new position, maybe if it was enjoyable he would want to get fucked more often.
  14. I had the misfortune (or fortune depending how you look at it) of hooking up with a guy that claims he wants "quality over quantity" in his sex life, again last night. Terrible fuck, he would only get fucked in on his side, did little for me and seemed to be extremely uncomfortable for him, but he's "built that way," so that is the only way he takes it, he also only gets fucked in the dark. Anyway apparently it was "good" for him, he wants to get together again in "few weeks." This fits with my past experience with guys that say this, for what ever reason I fit the perception of their ideal guy, so he wants to hook up. Unfortunately they hook up so rarely that it is almost like fumbling around with a virgin, and an extremely inhibited virgin at that. I'm not looking for a boyfriend or monogamy, because I'm not "wired that way," but I'm pretty sure he sees me as boyfriend material. Even if he is willing to settle for just being a fuckbud, is there any point? I find him hot, but will someone like that ever let their inhibitions go enough and have sex often enough to actually get good at it? I'm not even sure why I'm considering it, nor do I think he will accept the idea of being just a fuck buddy, but anyone else have this experience and how would you handle it?
  15. I've never been to Palm Springs, so I would pick Denver. Guys are total pigs at Denver Bathhouses.
  16. Definitely. If you start with spit the ass seems to do a much better job of making it's own lube, and there is nothing quite like the scent and taste of natural juices from a clean ass.
  17. Why avoid actually having sex? Unfortunately I see a lot of guys doing it these days, even in sex clubs. It is worse in some cities than it is in others. What really gets to me is calling it kink, kink is great if it includes fucking or at least sucking cock, but using toys, or any other of the many forms of kink, to avoid slipping someone some dick or having someone slip you some dick doesn't make sense. Hookup to fuck and/or get fucked quit looking for substitutes and excuses.
  18. I'm versatile, I love to get rimmed and to rim a clean hole. I try to make sure they know that rimming is just foreplay, if you want to stick your tongue in my hole or get mine stuck in your, at least one of us will get fucked. Rimming is great but not great enough to be the main event.
  19. Like the other posters have said it can vary a great deal based on the time of day, how many guys are there, and the mix of guys that are there. It can also be very different from city to city how much activity takes place and different types draw the attention at different clubs, if there are multiple clubs in the area. Did you see, or even suspect there were other guys hooking up and fucking while you were there? Unfortunately there are cities where very little sex takes place in bathhouses, guys treat them more like a social club or bar. Fortunately there are also cities where guys at bathhouses are total pigs and are there to have uninhibited gratuitous no strings fuckfests with any guy they have an interest in. Most cities fall somewhere in between.
  20. I love group sex. For me there is nothing better than being with a group of guys that are all willing to participate in a dog pile orgy. I love to switch off, flip get my ass fucked or fucked while I'm fucking, sucking another guy while fucking or being fucked, or just fucking with someone and making out with someone else. When it comes time I have no problem shooting a huge load. I can get hard again in 10 minutes and shoot 4 loads in 2 hours when I get involved in an orgy like that. Where as, when I go to the sex clubs here in Portland most guys are so inhibited, afraid of fucking or even sucking in the where they might be seen, and even more that want to go somewhere private just to jackoff (they don't fuck or even suck), that I usually have trouble getting hard after about an hour regardless of whether I cum in the 1st hour or not. Luckily I travel alot.
  21. I've never understood why guys would get together and use toys! You have all of the equipment why resort to lesbian style sex. If someone doesn't get a real cock in them I'm not interested.
  22. Anyone else going tonight. I will be there looking for versatile, bottom and top guys. Let's do more than just hang out and people watch, CumUnion is suppose to be a fucking uninhibited orgy, not a people watching party to stand around, model your fetishwear and explore your inhibitions. Let's use the video play areas, the shower play area, and slings as they were intended, instead of limiting the fucking and sexual contact to uncomfortable fumbling in the dark room and uncomfortable booths and small rooms.
  23. 40 is not over the hill for me, it is right in the middle of my preferred age range (30-60). When I was younger and fucking around less I definitely tended to go for guys that were close to my own age (within 5 years). Since about age 30 I tend to prefer for guys within 10-15 years (always legal on the low end) of my own age, but make exceptions. I'm 44 now, so far this week I have fucked 2 twinks in there early 20's, one older bear probably more than 15 years older than I am, and was fucked by a guy in his late 40's. When I'm stuck here in Portland (where I live) for long periods of time, I get less and less picky as the days go by due to the lack of guys in all age groups, body types and etc. willing to fuck around. When I'm on the road outside the Pacific Northwest and have more horny guys to choose from I have the luxury of being pickier and don't bother pursuing guys outside my preferred type, but may not reject them if they pursue me. Mostly I love to fuck, if I have any attraction to you, my cock and/or my ass is yours.
  24. I'm genuinely versatile, which means I top 80% of the time.
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