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NWUSHorny

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  1. I'd be ok with the boxes if they didn't have to be binary. Why not a box for versatile flip fucker? I'm both bi and versatile, so like many things in life, I don't fit and don't want to fit a this or that binary question. There should be more binaries, here are mine for the question you listed: Have sex with men = 1 Have sex with women = 1 Anal top = 1 Anal bottom = 1 Use toys on a gay bottom = 0 Use popsicles on a gay bottom = 0 Film 2 guys fucking = 1
  2. Wow, that would take dedication, that I don't possess. I can understand why you turned mostly top, and there are times, when I can tell the prep isn't going to go quickly that I make the same decision.
  3. I would 2nd that, and also the pics that have an explicit "partying" look.
  4. If you want that kind of variety, I recommend visiting the Pacific Northwest of the United States. They are very, very into almost any and every kink and fetish. What they don't seem to have much interest in is actual penetrative sex. I run into a lot of guys that won't touch my cock and won't let me touch theirs, yet want to have "sex" for hours. Even if they do want to involve the cock in their play, there is still a large number of them that neither fuck ass or get fucked in the ass. Sorry, but that just isn't my thing and I'm not going to waste hours hanging out with them. I am more than willing to eat a hole I have just fucked or suck the cock that just came in my ass, and go multiple rounds if all parties want to, I'm also into groups of 3, or more and more than happy to fuck or get fucked publicly in front of mixed company. What I do not enjoy is the guys who think 30 seconds of fucking in private at a sex club, should buy them 3 hours of cuddling or to have me spend the rest of day/night with them. That is not the purpose of a sex club as I understand it.
  5. I'm bi and fully versatile for gay sex. So in my case I doesn't get much more versatile as far as the actual sex act.
  6. Sexcation night 2 did not go quite as well as night 1. It was a decent, but not spectacular Cumunion dog like orgy party for the LAX venue,(which does happen at that venue). I stuck my dick in at least 30 holes and bred 2 of them, but only got 1 guy to fuck me and did not get bred and I'm still horny so I could have given another lad if I had had more inspiration. It's still better than watching guys do the no mating dance for the 1st hour, frustrating me to the point I can't get hard, like frequently happens at home in Portland.

  7. There are lots of size queens, admittedly there are quite a few with eyes bigger than their holes, but most still want to try taking a big dick.
  8. I find both topping and bottoming to be amazing. I don't want to top less, but would love to bottom more. I also love flipping with a guy, which seems to be a problem even for a lot of versatile guys. In too many cases versatile only top with certain types, and those types seem to be more restrictive than the types they will bottom for. I think we need more sexual exuberance, with fewer inhibitions and restrictions.
  9. Around the hole doesn't seem to be the most comfortable place to have stubble, for either the fuckee or the fucker. Do most guys that want a smooth hole wax them instead? I'm used to finding guys that have uncomfortable stubble at the base of their dick, but very rarely have encountered it around the fuckhole. I would think the fuckhole stubble would be unpleasant for the holes other use.
  10. I'm not planning on becoming primarily a bottom, I intend to be fully versatile until the equipment stops functioning.. I still love topping and bottoming as much as I did the 1st time I tried them.
  11. Night 1 of sexcation 2022 was a success. Finally got to go to a true pig orgy. I fucked, got fucked and there are at least 7 loads in this sloppy happy hole

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  12. My observation is that sex clubs that have higher percentages of versatile guys have a lot more fucking than those that don't. I definitely prefer clubs with lots of activity where I can fuck 15 or 20 guys, hopefully get at least a dozen cocks in my ass, cum 3 or 4 times and leave fully satiated after 3 hours. I find hanging around the bath for more than 4 hours just hoping for activity, to be extremely frustrating. Unfortunately that has always been my reality at the baths in Portland. I quite often spend the full 8 hours and while I nearly always fuck and get fucked more than half of the time, I still usually leave more sexually frustrated than when I arrived. I actually stopped going to my local bathhouses for a couple of years when Steam was the only bathhouse in town. I think I would have gone out of my mind if I wasn't traveling 75% of the time, because there was no way to meet my needs locally.
  13. I don't consider my nose, my feet or even my tits to be sexual organs. I do consider my cock, hole and balls to be sexual organs, and have found that even guys who are mostly or entirely top encourage having their hole licked or massaged. The aversion to involving all of man's sexual organs in an encounter seems to be mostly limited to bottoms.
  14. Another observation, when I started fucking 30+ years ago I had the impression that most guys tried topping before they tried bottoming. I have been told by a number of bottoms that are 15 to 20 years younger than I am, that they have never tried topping and have no interest in trying it.
  15. @dmvnewbie I have a slightly different observation on the porn front. Flip fuck scenes had almost entirely disappeared from main stream gay porn before the advent of amateur distribution channels, which could also have had an effect on guys fantasies. Thirty years ago, there as almost a formula for what went onto a gay VHS tape, 5 scenes, 1 JO only, 1 oral, 3 anal with at least one of the anal scenes being a flip fuck. More recently even when all of the performers in a scene are versatile, they stick to just one role within a given scene and often times all of the scenes in the release. I have some slight hope that the amateur internet performers releasing flip fuck scenes and orgy scenes where all of the performers fuck and get fucked might inspire more guys to flip. Unfortunately it doesn't seem to be happening yet. I'm tempted don a hood and participate in an amateur porn orgy with a bunch of versatile guys. The only things holding me back are that I'm over weight and over 50.
  16. As someone who has always been at least verse curious, and has been fully versatile since my 1st time bottoming, I can't wrap my head around why so many gay (and bi guys when they have sex with men) have such a strong tendency towards bottoming. While there have been more bottoms than, tops and versatile guys for the entire 30 odd years I have been having sex with men, it seems like the tendency towards bottoming has been increasing significantly over the last 5- 10 years. I've always enjoyed gay sex as an act between equals, not necessarily fit for that, but with the idea that we all have cocks and balls to be enjoyed as well as holes to be fucked. In 30 plus years I have only hooked up with 2 or 3 guys that topped me on multiple occasions that did not eventually take my dick in their ass, yet I have probably had multiple hookups with a 1000 guys or more who will never top anyone, or "versatile" guys who won't even consider topping a guy once they have bottoms for them. The rarest of the rare, and my favorite are the guys that flip with me on most of our encounters. What is your opinion on why does this strong tendency towards bottoming exist? Is the tendency towards bottoming getting more pronounced? Is there more ED issues than there was in the past? Are the ED issues related to increased drug use? Is it purely psychological? If you are a total bottom or primarily a bottom that does not suffer from ED is there anything (like an almost total lack of tops) that would inspire you to become more versatile?
  17. Tops and versatile guys frequently wear jockstraps too. Jockstraps, can be easily pushed aside and don't bother me. I still don't get why it is so important or it turns you on, to deny fuck partners access to your manhood.
  18. Meanwhile, we have almost fuckless sex clubs, but maybe that is a lot of the guys intent. I will readily admit to being sexually incompatible with most of what goes on in sex clubs in the PNW.
  19. @hntnholeMy question was about caged dicks. If they have a plug locked in their hole, it is pretty obvious I'm not going to fuck them. There were getting to be a lot of guys at the fuck joints here with caged dicks before the pandemic, however I didn't see it again until the last month or so. I have never seen a "dad" trying to whore out a "son" with a caged cock, it is mostly just guys walking around the bath with their dick in a cage. Personally, if I do see a caged guy actively trying to get fucked, I'm not going to fuck them no matter how desperate I am, it just doesn't do it for me. Yesterday, there was an obvious couple with a caged bottom who had his partner fuck him in front of an audience on the patio, which is okay if you just want to be an exhibitionist I guess. Both of them were hot, but I found the caged dick on the bottom to be a pretty big turn off for me. I have also encountered guys with plugs in their ass, that claimed to be bottoms and wanted to play, but would not remove the plug to get fucked. It is also possible that there are guys with both caged cocks and plugged holes. Fetishes are very popular, actually fucking not so much.
  20. I think we are at a similar point. I don't need a bottom to cum if I fuck them, but if I'm fucking a guy I want it to be a fully functioning male. I'm fully versatile, and have had the cum fucked out of me which is a truly mind blowing experience, however it happens less than 1% of the time and that is a load that does not get shared with another man. If they are wearing a chastity device I feel like they don't want to be a fully functioning male, I have a similar problem with cross dressers. I'm bi, so if I want to fuck a man I want them to really be a man, if I want to fuck someone who is not presenting or acting as male I want her to be a real woman.
  21. I'm sure this is going to ruffle a few feathers, but I find guys in chastity devices at sex clubs a major turn off. I have never fucked a guy wearing one, and seriously doubt I ever will. Unfortunately it seems to have become common place over the last 5 or 6 years for guys to wear them in sex clubs.
  22. As a 50+ versatile guy, I don't see much difference. Because of body type and dick size, I've always been stereotyped as a top and have had an easier time finding bottoms than I do tops. It really isn't any different at 52 than it was at 22. To be fair, I was bred by two 20-30 something guys this weekend and no guys over 40 (although I did get fucked by a couple). I did slightly better with the older crowd as a top it was probably evenly distributed older to younger, 2 of the 3 guys that got my loads appeared to be in the 20-30 something age group. I find, at least in a sex club, how actively a guy is seeking and having sex is a much better indicator of a good fuck than age. A "quality over quantity" guy that mostly stands and poses while looking for their concept of "perfect" is a lousy fuck at any age. To be perfectly honest I prefer guys of any age that are willing to flip with me, if you want my load the best way to get it is to be willing to fuck me back.
  23. I will definitely be there the night of the 3rd, debating on staying the night of the 4th or going to San Diego that night.
  24. If you are taking cock in a sex club how do you tell? I can tell when the 1st cock breeds me even if the owner doesn't let on that he has cum, but after that I usually can't tell. If I've been fucked by multiple guys I answer with an "at least" (my confirmed load total).
  25. No strong preference, other than the few holes that are too tight to comfortably fuck, or so loose I can't get any friction.
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