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After years of only giving loads, I let myself get intentionally bred (pretty sure i had been stealthed a time or two) for the first time last weekend. I just got home from Hawks after taking two loads and giving two loads today. I just had my first noticeable cum fart walking up the steps into the house.

I don't like darkrooms or gloryholes either, there is something to be said for seeing the guy you are fucking with. That said I'm also and exhibitionist, and love public play areas in sex clubs.

You run the risk of turning into a size queen. The 2nd cock I ever took was a little over 10" and we came together, probably my best fuck ever. Since then I've taken up to 12" and for many years didn't bottom for anyone that was smaller than I am, and I'm 8.5"s. With my size almost everyone wants to bottom for me, so a majority of the times I get fucked it is a flip fuck with another big dicked guy.

I find it helps to be really turned on, if I'm really into the guy or his cock my hole will self-lube to the point that a little spit on his dick and pushed into my hole with a finger is enough (if it is my finger I can tell how wet I'm getting). I find the same thing true of bottoms I've fucked without lube. I find it more satisfying as both a top or a bottom when I fuck without artificial lube.

I am frequently the one to get things started. I always go up to someone in that situation and try to get things started, I'm fully versatile so i.e. love to bottom but wind up topping 90%+ of the time, so if they are willing the action gets started. The flip side is that sometimes everyone will leave, unfortunately in some cities most of the guys really are there just to jack-off.

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Cleaning out is not foolproof (maybe if you start 48 hours before hand and fast until you get fucked, but I have a life and expect the guys I top to have lives too). The only time I've had shit fountain out of my ass like a geyser, and most if not all of the times I've had that happen to bottoms I was fucking, it was after a good cleaning out. Yeah shit can be distasteful to extremely nasty, so if you know you are going to get fucked make the effort and/or let the the top know and decide if he wants to risk it but if you are going to fuck ass keep in mind it is an unavoidable fact of life. Unless the bottom has had it become an extremely nasty problem the 1st 2 or 3 times you fuck give them the benefit of the doubt and try it again.

It is the natural function of that body part, so shit is going to happen occasionally. As a versatile guy I've had it happen on both sides, even when the bottom made an effort to clean out (I don't know if I've ever been with a bottom that started cleaning and fasted 2 days before getting fucked, making the effort to douche a couple of hours in advance and maybe a follow up is usually sufficient unless you ate something that causes you gastric distress). Unless it is too bad just keep fucking, I've been in situations where the bottom lets the top know they may not be clean in advance and they fuck anyway (in fact this was true the last time I bottomed, it was at an adult theater and a really hot huge black guy wanted to fuck me I let him know I probably wasn't clean, despite the Picasso Effect he fucked my 3 times that night using paper towels to clean up each time).

The worst is when the majority of guys at the club or sex party are there to stand around or wait for Mr. Perfect. If you thing the Cumunion party in LA is bad try coming to the one in the Pacific Northwest, I stayed for 4 hours at a Cumunion party in Seattle and to the best of my knowledge no one fucked in a public are while I was there (if at all), Portland is not quite as bad but if you get a large enough group of the standees it can completely kill the mood and very little fucking happens. I have been getting to the Cumunion party at LAX every few months and while it does attract standees, the mood and vibe belong to the guys that are actually there to fuck. There is no way the bottoms could line up on a fuck bench or on the bed and have tops fuck them (and sometimes the guys fucking the guys the total bottoms getting fucked as well) like they do at the LAX Cumunion parties, that kind of group vibe just doesn't happen 3-4 ways are rare even at Cumunion parties. The weird thing up here, is more often than not if 2 guys actually start having sex in a public area the standees will actually clear out and avoid the area even to the point where they are blocking access to guys that might want to join in, so there is little chance of getting them interested or getting an orgy going. I can't speak for everyone but I like groups, I like having guys join in or joining in and I like having sex with multiple guys at the same time. I really miss living in cities where guys fuck in the clubs and at parties freely (moving here reduced the frequency I got laid by at least 2/3 overnight) and am glad I am able to travel to get my fill once in awhile.

I want my bottoms to enjoy it. If you don't get used to it fairly quickly I don't want to feel like I'm hurting you. It has to be pleasurable for both parties.

I like both ways, and am happy to provide either the big white cock or the tight white hole. Stereotypes aside, I have topped more with black guys than I have been topped.

I'm partial to the middle, nothing like being the meat in a fuck sandwich.

As someone who travels a lot for work, I have definitely made some observations. 1. Any area can be completely dead at some point in time. 2. Some areas, and I believe this is regional are dead most of the time. 3. Areas more accepting of versatily are less likely to be dead. I've lived in the Portland area for the last 8 years, and it has comparitively been an extremely inactive sex scene for all of those years, the amount of time I spent looking for sex doubled and the number of hookups I got in a week dropped by 3/4. If I hadn't tried to hookup in Seattle on several occasions I would have beleived it was the deadist city for sexual hookups in the world. I think it is a combination of guys looking for Mr. Perfect as already mentioned, guys that are cruising or on hookup sites looking for a relationship rather than a hookup (looking for a relationship can be very clear on the hookup sites too), and a rising percentage of guys that only want to jackoff while watching you jackoff (I'm tall, blonde, blue eyed, big dicked, and in reasonably good shape for a middle aged guy and seem to be a magnate for this type as well as the guys looking for a relationship before they hookup). Locally (since I have not experience it anywhere else) we also have the problem with guys into dressup fetishes and dressing up seems to be their only sexual release (you can't imagine how disappointed I was when I figured out guys in leather, assless underwear, and jockstraps go to the baths to get off on modeling their fetish rather than using there fetish to enhance the sex). My problem is I don't know where to go as a horny guy, not overly picky and looking to hookup with no strings, most of the time I can easily find local guys that want to cruise me and be cruised by me but aren't actually interested in having sex, so horny travelers are always welcome. I have question to AlwaysOpen is, has it improved yet? I went to the bathhouse Friday night, there were a few guys but no one was even touching anyone else (which actualy isn't that abnormal for here) I stayed 3.5 hours and I don't think anyone had sex for the duration, last night things had returned to the normal level of extremely limited sex going on, I topped 4 guys including being jumped by 2 very hot guys and witnessed 6 more fucks. I've pretty much given up on bottoming when I'm at home, I still douche just in case but bottoming has become a treat I get to indulge mostly when traveling.

I've never kept track per se, but given your list I've definitely had it in a lifetime, probably in a week, probably in a weekend, and possibly in one night. I got pretty close at a sex club last night all I lacked was the native american and ginger. For my 2nd and final cum of the night was fucking a brunette hole (who had just been loaded by an asian) in a sling, while getting my own blond fuck hole used by a black cock, while being watch occasionally fondled and kissing guys who were watching. It was a fun slutty night, I fucked a latin, brunette, blond and asian and was fucked by 2 black guys.

I've cum hands free a few times, but I don't think it is something you can learn as a bottom. As a top there are some bottoms I know how to make cum.

Not for me, or my 1st slut phase isn't over (been in it for 26 years). Lack of available of guys or an easy venue to hook up in where I am at, and the time I have to put into the effort are my limiting factors.

I like direct. My personal observation if you do try to hook up with a guy that wants to play coy in a hook up environment is that if they do decide to have sex with you, they bring too many inhibitions and are a lousy fuck in addition to the pre fuck game playing.

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While I'm definitely not into monogamy, only hooking up once seems pretty extreme too. I love sex, unless the sex is bad or they try to push me into a relationship, monogamous or not, I'm willing to have sex with a guy again.

As a versatile guy, versatility is definitely not a turn off. I love both fucking and getting fucked, and as a big, masculine guy with a big cock I top a lot more than I bottom. Nine times out of ten when I do find someone interested in fucking me we wind up flip flopping, which as far as I'm concerned is the ultimate session. It may not limit your sex life if you are a total top, but bottoms that guys they know are versatile will eventually eliminate almost all of their potential partners.

Only if you consider the rarity of it. I fuck a lot more black ass than I get black cock in my ass.

I find if I'm really into the guy or his cock my ass gets loose and wet.

Go for it. I have been in several cities, no one will be mad at you only suck. I go with the intention of being a total versatile slut, it depends a great deal on what city you go how much sexual activity there is.

Left 3 loads in guys at Cumunion in PDX last night. Lot's of fucking going on amongst versatile stud sluts, had my cock in 10 guys and got fucked by a guy with a really thick cock. All 3 of the guys I bred were already full of cum when I slipped into them.

I'm versatile and wouldn't limit myself to just versatile guys, I like fucking too much for that. If there is any kind of attraction we can fuck, flipping is merely a bonus. I do think other versatile guys are better at both topping and bottoming. I've also found that guys with larger cocks are more likely to be versatile and flip with you. For some reason average and smaller versatile guys tend to turn total bottom when we hook up.