berlinboi

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Love that - out with friends then off to hook up - almost like a perfect day

What vid is that from? I know it's on pornhub but i'd love to see the whole vid.

Something akin to this goes on at horse fairs or `fickstutenmarkts` - however this would be great to attend as a bottom with lower lighting.

Better still seek out a 4th generation test where the exposure window is 28 days.

For me i've been such a `good boy` for 30 years i can count the times i've barebacked on the fingers of both hands yet my eyes were opened by a brief experience at my local sexual health clinic. When i was first out on the scene to `catch HIV` was a death sentence. You could die a horrible death and then AZT came along and you'd just have a horrible life. It put the fear of death in most Gay guys - it's something that younger Gay guys should learn about and one day a film will be done from then to the present day of PrEP. It will help them understand what people have fought for. A friend of mine had, in pasing, mentioned PrEP and I didn't think much of it just looked into it dipping in and out. At a sex club in London I `slipped up` or rather when I was drunk a guy `slipped up` me I really enjoyed it yet felt so fearful. After ten days I went to the clinic and was feeling quite vulnerable. I just felt that they used my vulnerability to push their own agenda and insult my intelligence. I asked about PrEP and the subject was simply closed down and diverted to condom use and PEP. The things that I was seeing and hearing were not syncing with the orthodoxy being peddled. It was as if the information was there to help them rather than help me feel better or navigate the new. In the meantime I'd met one undetectable guy and, once I had psychologically dusted myself down from the clinic experience, i'd met another and realised that if they were taking their ARVs and doing the associated bloodworks they were safer than those who were negative who never get tested. I then spent many hours researching HIV statistics, PrEP and the relative safety of barebacking. I came to the conclusion that the sexual health professionals are not really there to serve me but to serve themselves. For instance, I've been on Tetralysals for years for a seperate health condition - no one felt fit to tell me that this acts like a doxycycline against chlamydia and syphilis. Yes, that's not the full range of infections yet it was only by looking up what it is that I found this out. It was as if `that's good - keep on using condoms`. When you really look into PrEP you learn quite a few things. 1) homophobia and pleasurephobia is rife in the NHS 2) there are `approved risk taking activities` and `disapproved risk taking activities`. No one ever tut tuts skiiers and says `you know you should only do safe skiing why not just stick to the nursery slopes?` or `best not to do Rugby matches - they're dangerous`. Yet when it comes to Gay sex oh fuck me no - what, you want real pleasure how fucking dare you? Why don't you become a monk or wait for the right man? 3) PReP will change everything and sexual health profession is shit scared of the change it will bring. It will mean more testing of stds yes yet also will mean they can't fob you off with the old condom argument. What do they say instead? They'd have to properly engage with the full gamut of MSM sexual behaviour which let's be honest with ourselves some of the married lady doctors really don't want to think about. The best people i've come across working in these places were single young women, gay men and lesbians. The doctors seem paralysed by fear about what sex activity takes place although the nurses are lovely. I suppose they are there to care not to judge. My advice is to embrace change at the pace that suits you - look up everything and take PrEP.

I've used ebab.com a few times recently in Frankfurt also in Munich and Dusseldorf - can't recommend it highly enough. The best one was in Koln where I had a whole studio flat to myself.

There was a club that is now closed that had a piss night - there was one guy who sat in the toilets with a sort of `darth vader beak mask` that just invited men to piss into it. The piss would stay there and slowly seep into his mouth.

I think there are three sorts of guys - 1. completely into physical ticklists that are based on mainstream opinion 2. niche ticklists ie really into ginger hair or 3 just into men The first is very `sensor driven` (google it) based on current and past values and about lowest common denominator values The second you'll be looking for other bears and chubby chasers Luckily I'm in the third group who are more `intuitive driven` and go for both the whole package and more crucially keep an open mind about sexual/romantic thinking and possibliities As a vers man I think you have a fine big man's arse i'd fuck it good

I love swapping cum and piss stained ones if anyone's interested

Is it age and looks limited? I read a review saying that there were double the amount of bttms to tops.

sounds like a good friend

Have to say that I think that the gay scene is diverging. I was in Edinburgh in August and there are two saunas. The first one I went to guys were walking round the maze in circles. It was nice and clean etc but so prissy. After two hours I gave up and wandered down to the independent one that is older and more `well established`. Boy what a difference! Even though it was an hour or so before closing time I was getting it on with an older guy within five minutes. I was fucked by a hot Chinese guy and a guy my age. Same in London. Go to some of these squeaky clean saunas and if you're over 40 you can clear the room (unless you act like some `daddy`). All the guys are looking for someone like themselves rather than being open-minded like some sort of pseudo marriage parade except that they can flit from man to man. Travel to another one and the mentality is completely the opposite. In the one near Marble Arch I've been to although it's mostly suck and wank you can see some totally hot tall guy in his 20s taking it in turns to snog and wank suck with all the other older guys as if there is no cultural difference. It's a question of mindset. The other thing I notice is that you can also have a bit of friendly banter with people in the lounge areas. If you go to the more niche sex clubs there is one very special one that has spanking nights, piss nights etc - the bar area is full of cruising and chatting and even if you don't fancy a guy the vibe is to acknowledge him and if you can have a friendly chat - it's the done thing. Berlin is the same - go to Tom's Bar and you might as well forget it if you're over 35. They do the `sixpack test` in the dark lol. Wander a few minutes to the Bull bar or Woof bar it's completely different. Bull bar lots of younger getting off with older - woof bar full of ordinary hot guys bottoms and tops looking for a good time or if they're not they are drinking and chatting in the pub area. I think guys find life a bit too easy - when i was younger we had to be open minded and take our fun wherever we could find it. There was a stigma to being Gay let alone anything else like Poz. Everyone is looking for the ideal catch without realising it's never gonna happen and that we're all men out to have a good time or find a nice guy to settle down with. The ticklist is all wrong - it's about physical detail and not personality combined with what's available. Frankfurt - there's one place where I had some sort of good time though was pushed away a lot (too old). Go to the Amsterdam Sauna in the same town and you are essentially in older man's heaven. Full of guys 30s to 60s really up for it no attitude. I got fucked (covered) by one horny guy about 60 and had fun with other guys similar age and younger. The key thing is that there's also a really nice cafe area where you can go and rest or take a guy to chat and drink. Anot

what's not to like? either way the feeling of him banging his dick on my cheeks, entering me, fucking me with internal orgasms, and then the point of no return when a switch is flicked on in his brain and he wants to fully seed me - and the reverse of all that is true!

It depends - sometimes and more often lately i've been wanting to take dick - however if i see a hot arse bent over my mind wants to both fuck it and be the guy at the same time

Depends on the guy - swallow definitely if i'm kneeling down though love to be in the bath covered in it or at the piss club giving and taking either drinking or pissing all over a guy.

Found out that if you get generics for a bit over 40 pounds a month clinics in London will do your `bloodlines` for free. Will be investigating it soon

This gets my pussy juices flowing - brave, lucky or both? http://www.xvideos.com/video10428321/12_inch_bbc_fuck_white_bitch_bareback

Think i've half answered my question - what fabulous arses both the bttm and the top - not a twink but hot http://www.xvideos.com/video9882295/5_guys_from_craigslist_cumdump_hotel_fuck The first guy is hot the second guy is like a fuck machine though my fave is the final one,

what about burping and pig noises oink nothing like being in the darkroom of the piss club hooking up with some guy snogging burping pit sniffing precum licking arse rimming burping from the beer piss flowing down your legs while twisting each others tits

I'm not into fisting but I swear by colt big man douche - it's always difficult when away from your own environment though ie hotel room http://www.amazon.co.uk/Colt-Big-Cleanser-Anal-Douche/dp/B00KVGXRK8

what about his spit and precum too

not just my hole but my soul

was well pissed off this morning as this really hot older top wanted to have fun with me breed me - we'd been chatting on and off and he was going on about how he had to look for work so hadn't been in touch and he suggested today. Needless to ask (as with a lot of British Gay men) i'd douched and was ready only for, you guessed it, him not picking up the phone so I ended up sending him a text asking him to get in touch. On the same site I found out about this guy another Black guy was interested - not into bb but he seemed fun only after half an hour of tit for tat he said he couldn't fuck because he had a bad back. The whole day wasn't working out for me as two other guys gave the usual British excuse (oh to be in America or Germany!) Still, I had the option to go to a film with Gay friends and it was nice meeting the couple that organise the event and two new people. After the film (which was rather good) we said our goodbyes and I thought `fuck it i'm going to the bathhouse`. Earlier that day the leather guy I met in the sex club last weekend had asked whether I wanted to meet him there and I put him off as in some way i'd rather have him in his or my place (just more intimate). I asked again whether he wanted to meet him there - he said `I'm already there been here ages`. `Right I'm on my way` I replied. When I got there we missed each other (he told me later he had been playing) and I wandered round and around (the usual British tradition for these places) and had a play. The sort of place where someone over 40 can clear the room. Then this really hot chubster, would say about 28, walked by and I just grabbed his tits and sexy tummy and bod we started snogging and went into a private room. His cock was thick and long and I was desperate to take it not just suck it. I asked `you bottom or top?` `I'm top` BINGO! Within ten minutes he was plowing my hole and creaming his sexy chubby load up me. After this I walked around for a bit and found my leather friend in the changing rooms. We chatted and had drinks in the lounge area and it was clear there's some bond there between us probably similar yet contrasting personality types. We ended up snogging and he said `let's go to a private room`. We made out again and I took his long thick cock doggy style it felt so good. He painfully stretched my hole at one point - it's all good practice. Suddenly, I was playing with his arse and I was hard and I told him i wanted to fuck him. I just loved looking at his horny bod as I doggy fucked him and shot my load inside him. He said he'd been wanting that ever since the sex club. I'm sure our paths will cross again.

fuck yeah i like that as part of play depends on situation and how i feel on the day and what the top's like