barecubtop

I go away for 4.5 days and have 71 notifications on here...guess I'll spend some time tonight going through those and catching up.  :-)  Hope there's some good stuff, too...since I didn't get much on my trip.

Great story.  We'll have to meet up at Steamworks sometime when I come up there.

Hey guys, I'll be in Vegas from December 2nd (Sat) through December 6 (Wed) for an academic conference.  The conference starts on Sunday afternoon, so I'll be up for some fun Saturday night when I arrive and possibly in the evenings after 8pm.  Send me a note if you're out in Vegas (or will be visiting at the same time) and might be interested in chatting. 

Another local Grindr guy is about to be blocked.  Tag teamed him with another top last week, chatted with him a couple times this week and this afternoon he makes it seem (to me at least) that he would be open to another tag team if we found another top or two, so I started asking around and found a couple.  He eventually responds and says, "my plans with friends were moved earlier"...but I happen to find out that he's actually over at one of the other top's place getting fucked.  I called him out on it, and then I get a lecture that I shouldn't have done that.  Sorry, it's a small town, and you led me on, I'm not going to just say "oh that's great, enjoy your fuck and I'll just jack off".  GGRRRRR

A little late, but Happy Halloween for those of us in the US

It's finally starting to feel like fall here in the Midwest.  Who wants to get a pumpkin spice latte and go for a walk in the woods to marvel at the changing colors, then come home to fuck, watch a Halloween movie, fuck again, get some sleep, then fuck again, more sleep, another fuck, breakfast....etc....etc....??

Hey, I'll be in Chicago next week (Thursday and Friday for sure, maybe Saturday also).  Let me know if you want to chat.

Coming up to Chicago on Oct. 5th for the Blackhawks game with a friend.  I will definitely be staying overnight that night (will have a hotel room to myself, likely in the loop).  I'm still debating on whether I will stay additional nights as well.  If not, I'll be looking to play during the day on Thursday Oct 5th and during the day on Friday Oct 6th before my train back to Indiana.  Obviously if I stay more nights, then I'll have more time to fuck around as well....

CL annoyance of the day:

(several emails have been exchanged, I've given out the address of my apt complex but not my apt door number, and I've asked him for his ETA)

him:  I should be there about 2:30 what do you feel like doing?

me: Just suck you off.

him: Oh I thought you were going to rim and fuck me too

me: You replied to my ad looking for daddy cock to suck, and in your first reply you said you wanted your cock sucked.  If that's not the case, then good luck but don't come over.

him: Sorry for the misunderstanding.

Grindr annoyance of the day.

him: i could go to suck someone off right about now

(grammar much?)

me: Pics? (his profile is completely blank other than his age - 21)

him: yours gets mine

me: My profile shows me very clearly.  You have nothing showing. (I have a selfie of me chest up, showing my face)

him: okay well have a nice night

(*shaking my head*)

The local GrindR boys are really irritating me, to the point where I wonder if it would be better to only use GrindR when I'm out of town.  Just so much attitude and "holier than thou" shit along with being uneducated about sexual health and sex positivity.

It's been one of those frustrating weekends.  My syphilis symptoms are gone and therefore I've been looking to fuck, but of course that paradox occurs where you can't find anything when you're wanting it the worst.  I've been subject to almost all of the usual online problems this weekend:  good chatting and lead-up to sex and then they just stop responding, guys saying that they'll come over and then they don't, just being ignored no matter how I message them (polite or more direct).  I don't want this to come off as a whine/complaint, because I know this happens all the time, but it's just more frustrating than usual this weekend.

Diagnosed with syphilis today.  Don't know from who or when, of course.  Got my shots and doc said to wait 2 weeks before any sexual contact.  Is that what others have been told?  Usually it's a week for most infections.

First week of the semester is over, other than a dinner I'm about to go to.  Good to see all the students back on campus...especially the ones in tank tops and basketball shorts...or anything that shows off their shoulders and ass.  MMMMmmm.

I'm back in the land of the living.  Last 2 weeks have had me out of commission with stomach and GI issues and generally just feeling "out of it" due to lack of eating and dehydration.  I can't say for sure that I got it from sex or a trip to the bathhouse, but it's certainly possible that this most recent sickness and some stomach parasites I had in the spring were from rimming and general uncleanliness of people and places.  Just throwing that out there as food for thought.  I will be having scope procedures (both from the top and from the bottom) soon to see if there's anything else going on inside me that's causing me to be more susceptible to these kinds of things.  Again, I apologize for the TMI, but these are health issues that really got me down for the count that may have been from the kinds of sexual behaviors we talk about on this site - something to think about.

Ugh, my year of GI issues continues, just got home from spending a few hours in the emergency room getting re-hydrated and having some scans done. 

Having one of those weekends where I am horny as fuck and wanting a good fuck session or two, yet nothing is working out.  GRRRR!

Still in the midwest? coming over to Indiana at all?

July is almost over, where has the summer gone?!?!?

Weekend plans settled.  I'm about to hop in the car to drive down to Louisville, KY to go to the Vapor bathhouse there tonight and spend the night at a hotel, then on Saturday I'll drive back up into Indiana and stop in Indianapolis at Club Indy bathhouse that afternoon/evening, then head home after that.  If anyone is in either city and wanting to play, let me know!

I've had a few fucks this week, but nothing amazing.  Hoping to get to the bathhouse in Indy this weekend and see what I can get into.

Hey buddy :-)

Hey bud, have a great time in Chicago.  Doesn't look like I'll make it up tonight, but I hope you'll fill me in after or post a "last load" entry or two.

I was just over in Bloomington, IL over the 4th of July holiday.  My family lives there.  We'll have to keep in touch so I can get into that ass sometime.

Hope everyone (in the USA at least) has a nice 4th of July holiday! I'm on a sex break while visiting family but will look forward to hearing/reading some of your adventures!