theplayerking
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In the end, a no-holds-barred free for all orgy is very rare in a non-curated setting. Even in a curated setting you have to find guys that are 100 percent versatile and equally attracted to everyone in the group. Some venues might attract a really piggy clientele that create something close to this, but there will always be total tops and total bottoms that will not flip. Like you, I’m a versatile guy that loves flip fucking in groups, but I know we’re no where near the majority. And while I’m open to sex with many different types of guys, I can’t bring myself to get fucked by absolutely anyone. If I’m turned off by a guy, I don’t want his dick in my ass.
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Cumdump situations where all the tops are there at the same time and are fucking back-to-back are relatively rare unless it’s group of guys that you know. A more common scenario is hosting in a hotel room, or similar venue, where guys show up periodically over a certain time. In that case your hole has some time to recover between fucks. In either case, you need to do some stretching in preparation. It might be best to start out in a bathhouse to see how many dicks you can take. If you advertise as a cumdump, your hole needs to be able to deliver.
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The guys on this forum are an exception. Most gay men in the U.S., even the ones that go to bath houses and sex clubs, don’t like to have sex in front of other guys. There are certain venues that specialize in that, and certain guys that seek out that scene, but it’s far from universal. Personally, I think there’s nothing more liberating than a roomful of guys watching me fucking and getting fucked, but I know I’m not in the majority on that one. Regarding etiquette, I think many of us fear rejection so it’s much easier to find a subtle way of gauging a guy‘s interest. If you drop to your knees and start sucking a guy, but he walks away, it can be hard on your ego.
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For me, if you attend an orgy I assume you’ve given consent for light touching above the waist. It’s up to the other guy to accept that touch and take it further if he wants. If he doesn’t respond, I move onto the next guy. If I’m stroking, I’ve had guys grab my dick, which seems fair. I can push his hand away if I’m not interested. If a guy is getting fucked, I’ll go up to him and see if he wants to play with my cock as well. Unless a guy is ass up and obviously taking all loads, I try and get some form of consent. Of course, the platonic ideal of an orgy is where everyone is vers I can both take and give dick in every hole available, but that’s very rare unless the guys already know each other.
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The first time I had sex so 18 with my freshman roommate.
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What college was that?
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Do you continue yourself gay or bi? Are you out or DL?
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I’m a gay man that will be in Rome on Sunday afternoon. I’m married to a man, but traveling on business and will be alone. I’m not looking to “cheat” on my husband, but I love watching other guys having sex. I’m looking for a companion to show me around the city and check out the cruise clubs, parties, etc. I prefer to stay fully clothed but may jack off. Happy to pick up the drinks, dinner, etc. Anyone interested in hanging out?
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Now that nearly everyone barebacks, BBRT lost its niche. It’s competing solely on its user interface, which is tired and behind the times.
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I love fucking and getting fucked standing. It’s so much sleazier. Like we couldn’t wait long enough to find a bed.
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I’ve come to realize that I’m fraysexual. Fraysexuality, also known as “reverse-sexuality,” is a unique orientation on the sexual spectrum where individuals experience initial sexual or romantic attraction towards people they aren’t very close to. But this attraction tends to fade or disappear altogether as they get to know the person better or form a deeper emotional connection. In short, I get off on sex with strangers.
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If he’s building it from scratch, he should design it first for ease of cleaning and maintenance.
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Volunteer doorman for cumdumps
theplayerking replied to theplayerking's topic in New York Metro Area
I can’t host (I live in a doorman building) and only play when my husband is out of town, unfortunately. -
Favorite part about giving head?
theplayerking replied to DiscreetNDangerous's topic in Cocksucking Discussion
For me, it’s watching a guy open his pants and seeing his dick for the first time. -
I came of sexual age in the late 80s and early 90s when raw sex was a nonstarter. Now that I bareback, a bottom telling me to breed his hole sends me over the edge pretty quickly. The emotional and psychological catharsis is too intense.
