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  1. I’m not a cumdump, but I love casual group sex, especially in bathhouses or sex parties. For me it’s a male bonding and the validation of being desired and accepted by men. Many of us grew up being picked on and called names in school. Fucking and getting fucked at a party makes me feel part of a brotherhood that I never experience any other way.
  2. You can get an online prescription that you can pick up at a regular pharmacy. Much easier than going through your GP and eliminates the risk of sketchy online pharmacies with meds from who knows where.
  3. I’ve been a volunteer doorman for cumdumps. I don’t mean to be a downer, but in a major gay market, like New York or San Francisco, because there’s so much competition between anonymous cumdumps for loads that age, looks and willingness to share face pics really matter. I’ve found it’s hard to get tops to show up in these cities. You might have better luck at a bathhouse or sex club.
  4. You’re lucky to have such an accommodating husband. Does he hookup too? Would have been hot to get the whole walking group to mount you.
  5. But that was definitely not the norm before PrEP, especially in the early 90s.
  6. Nothing online is truly free and I wouldn’t trust a free VPN. They have to make money somewhere. I subscribe to NordVPN through Apple, which anonymizes my subscription (NordVPN doesn’t even have my name or email address).
  7. I’m so jealous of the bareback action college guys can get these days. That was a huge fantasy of mine when I was in undergrad, but I never would have done it in the 90s.
  8. Unfortunately not every guy at a clothing optional gay resort is looking to fuck and many might not want to fuck in front of an audience. As you noted, most of the action happens in the designated play areas later at night, even at the raunchier places. I don’t think a butt plug would make much of a difference either way.
  9. I traded blow jobs with a housekeeper in Chile once. He started cleaning my room while I was in the shower. I came out of the bathroom and saw that he was there. I dropped my towel and he really got to work. Unfortunately he didn’t want to fuck. I’m always on the lookout for cute room service twinks, but most are not that hot.
  10. In my experience, massages, even erotic massages by gay masseurs, don’t typically involve anal. I’ve been fucked by therapist, but that was more about us getting carried away and not a usual service. Most erotic masseurs will offer two options, with or without “release,” which is usually just a handjob. If you’re looking to get fucked, you really want an escort that offers some massage as foreplay. It’s pretty common, but don’t expect a real massage and negotiate everything beforehand to set expectations and let him prepare properly.
  11. I don’t try to deceive anyone, but as a vers guy, I do enjoy convincing bottoms to shoot their loads up my ass after I’ve bred them.
  12. The most important things to know about Inn Leather is that it’s very small (only ten rooms), very basic (one-star) and the demographic skews older: not 40s and 50s, but 60s and 70s+. When I was there, only 10 percent of the guys were under 65. Despite the name, the scene is not so much kink or fetish as it is older and bearish. Most of the guys are locals on day passes. They arrive around 10:00 or 11:00 and spend the day hanging out at the pool. Everyone is completely naked and, as there is no enclosed playroom, all the sex takes place in the open. A lot of guys get sucked off in the pool. There’s also a sling and a picnic table for guys to get fucked. Most of the guys engage in sexual activities for a bit, but it’s not a full on orgy. It’s also essential to note that the day passes all end at 5:00, when everyone that is not staying in one of the ten rooms is escorted out. As the vast majority of the guys there are on day passes, the place becomes a ghost town after 5:00. You can invite your own guests over (and let them in the gate) but otherwise the options for “fresh meat” are limited. The rooms are very basic and grungy. No one stays there for the quality of the accommodation. The advantage of staying at Inn Leather is, unlike other clothing-optional hotels in Fort Lauderdale, almost everyone is looking for sex. The disadvantage is that I didn’t want to have sex with most of them. I was hoping the vibe would be more like 321 Slammer (a diverse set of guys of all ages and types being piggy) but with sleeping rooms. The scene is pretty chatty and social so if you like hanging out naked with slutty guys in their 70s, it’s definitely the place for you. Otherwise, there’s not a lot to recommend it. I’m not bashing older gay men and I think it’s wonderful that they have a place to hangout and have fun. The place caters to a very specific demographic and it’s either you thing or it’s not.
  13. My first time was also in Toronto but it was lame. I was in my early 20s and booked a cheap, last minute flight. I was so excited I dropped my stuff off at my hotel and rushed over. Unfortunately it was the middle of the day and the place was nearly empty. I learned my lesson to on peak times.
  14. In a big gay Mecca like New York, it really depends on your looks and your willingness to put a face pic in your ad. If you’re young and hot you can put an ad on Sniffies and have guys lined up around the block waiting to load you up. If you’re average, you’ll have a hard time competing with the gorgeous muscle cumdumps (including minor porn models) offering their fuck holes for free.
  15. This company (Bleachers and Co.) alters sportswear and jeans with a zipper to give guys full access to your fuck hole. If you play it off as a clothing fetish, guys might get into fucking you almost fully dressed. Also handy for cruising toilets and parks.
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