I have found honesty in normal surroundings really works. I started talking to a dusty highway worker one day I saw he had a wedding band on and in the course of the conversation he asks if I'm married, I told him "no I'm gay". He is quiet and then says "I heard you guys get into guys like me working type guys"? I said "definitely could get into you anytime". In 5 minutes we were in his truck and I got a mouthful of cum. We hooked up a few times, he said his wife gives him all the pussy he wants but is terrible at head. I also wanted to mention the current kids coming out do not have the same idea of sex most of us do. There is not the gay/straight labels its sex and if they want it they do it. A buddys 16 year old son is open about getting sex from both sexes and is not embarrassed or shy about it. The thing that really blew my mind was my friend has 2 nephews (her 2 brothers sons). First the 16 year old comes out to his parents without any reservations and months later her other brothers 14 year old son brings a friend home and tells his parents they are dating. Both families were fine with it. I think its great they are so adjusted im in my 20s and when I was 17 and sick of my fathers asking why I don't have a girlfriend, I came out to him and he almost dropped dead. 10 years later its still a sore subject with him but my mom and brother could care less. Some other time I will share some funny stories my brother told me that made him think I was gay as a kid.