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Tonight at my local cruise club I was fucked raw 3 times over several hours, a slow night. Just before I went home two of those guys in a dark room deposited loads in me in quick succession. In an unplanned move, I came simultaneously with the last guy.

Weird perhaps not the right word, but certainly unusual for me. As a tourist I was wandering around Kowloon in Hong Kong and when passing a storefront caught the eye of a Chinese man as I passed. After a few paces I glanced back and found he had done the same. Classic cruising, old school. Never successfully done it as well before! The funny thing was that he didn’t speak any English. As he had the local knowledge I followed him. It wasn’t that quick - we walked for about 15 minutes along alleys, in and out of department stores, eventually he spied a quiet public restrooms and I sucked him off in there. Perfect gay communication but not a word spoken ...

Last night at my regular cruise club it was a quiet night but managed to fuck 4 guys and was fucked, regrettably, by only one (and that guy put on a rubber which was rare theses days at that club). I’m versatile but like to bottom but it sometimes seems that there’s a shortage of tops so guys often seem to line up to be fucked once they see me in action. That was especially the case last night as the first guy fucking me was clearly shy and inexperienced so stopped and pulled out when another guy walked up. The other guy saw his chance and positioned his ass next to my hard cock, so what’s a guy to do, I fucked him. Later in a dark room I was fucking one guy and two other guys angled their way around in the dark to get me to switch to fucking them, which I did, changing between the three guys in the dark. However, the first guy loyally remained and I returned eventually to fucking him and he got the prize of me coming inside him.

Attended an Xmas orgy in Sydney, probably 200 guys there at least. Most were fit young guys who weren’t interested in me but it was fun to rub up against them and watch them at it (it was packed tightly for at least the first half hour and was almost standing room only, other than a mattress on the floor, so most guys were fucking standing up). The first guy to ask me to fuck him asked that I wear a rubber, though not keen I reluctantly complied as he explained he had a girlfriend and couldn’t risk STIs (though frankly coming to an orgy wasn’t the brightest idea in that case). However things hotted up for me when a cute young Asian guy watched me fucking and as soon as the other guy came squeezed through the crowd to ask me to fuck him. Raw this time. He was pretty tight but was game to take my cock which tapers up to a thick base. After I had screwed him for quite a while, in several different poses, we flipped and he fucked me raw. Then we flipped back and forth. Normally in an orgy I’d be prowling around to score with more guys but I surprised myself by spending more than an hour switching back and forth while other guys were coming and going along side us on the mattress, sometimes watching us or having one of us suck someone while we were ploughed, and occasionally fucking one of us in a brief pause in the action. We took a short break and took some food and drink before returning to finish. As it happened I never actually came at the orgy but I was pleased to have the Asian guy come in me whic slowly dripped out over the following hour. The guy offered to drive me back to my hotel after the orgy wound down as I’d arrived by bus. Naturally it didn’t end there as he came up to my hotel giving me the chance to give him the proper breeding I’d denied him earlier.

Only 9 guys on breeding zone been to an orgy this year? I don’t believe it, last weekend I went to an annual Xmas orgy in Sydney. I’d say there were over 200 people there - haven’t been given the official number yet - and had a great time. A slightly peculiar feature this year was to hold a straight orgy at the same time on the lower floors of a 3 storey venue. The floors started out ‘segregated’ so to speak, so the gay men’s floor was virtually standing room only of naked hard bodies, but after 15 minutes people could move between floors giving a bit more room to move around and find a space to lie down if you preferred that to fucking standing up. A good crowd for 3 hours before a final cumdump.

I’m preparing to attend an orgy on the weekend and wondered how frequently other guys join in orgies. What is an orgy? Dictionaries emphasise excess and sex. Urban dictionary includes one meaning as “a bunch of people getting together to trade STIs”, which is a bit cynical, and another “5 or more all having sex” which is a bit too general. I feel an orgy needs to be distinguished from, say, a small sex party amongst friends, a sex-on-site venue such as a bathhouse, or a busy cruising spot although these may each be reasonably considered to be an orgy by some. For others it’s just business as usual. So, here goes my definition for this poll: orgy means: - at least 10 people have sex during the event. - the sex is generally in sight of others and uninhibited. - the area in which sex happens is open to all participants (ie it’s not an orgy if people just pair off and head to closed bedrooms or cubicles for sex) and in proximity to each other (ie it can be over several rooms or an entire house but not a cruising area of an entire forest or beach). - it can’t be at a regular bathhouse or sex club: I realise this is a strange qualification but without it I guess any Saturday night session at a busy sauna might potentially be an orgy, whereas I see an orgy as something distinct. I realise this may mean that cumunion held at a sauna is not an orgy but if held in a hotel suite it is. Please bear with me in my attempt at a definition but offer your own if you can express it better!

Oh for better attention to sex club design! My local cruise club has sensibly also put two sets of glory holes for each booth, one set higher than the other. It recognises the obvious fact that guys vary in height and a choice of holes allows the most comfortable fit to be achieved. It works well with the preferred slot tending to be initiated by one guy sticking his cock through or the intended sucker or bottom positioning his mouth or ass at the gap or reaching through to grab passing cocks. However, it’s not uncommon after starting for a guy to guy to give an indication that they’d like to move to a more comfortable higher or lower hole. While it’s a good design it is a compromise and I personally find that because of my height I have to slightly stoop down or stand on tip toes to get my cock through some holes so no design can be perfect for everyone! i totally agree about wall thickness and hole size. While the walls of my local cruise club are reasonably thin and are very good for sucking, and the holes are reasonably wide, I find them frustrating with fucking. While I enjoy being fucked by guys with long cocks through them they don’t work so well for average guy’s cocks or shorter cocks. My own cock is of average length, but quite thick at the base, and when fucking I find a successful session will depend upon the skill of the other guy positioning their ass hard up against the glory hole

Last day of my Hawaiian holiday I arranged to hook up again with a young guy I’d loaded up several days before. He joined me after he’d finished work and after showering he took a beer and then we made a start. We took our time for what ended as a leisurely 2 hour session. Eventually I eased my cock into his tight ass and started giving him what he had been hoping for ever since our earlier session. He begged me to cum in him but I wasn’t ready to shoot. He couldn’t hold back and apologetically shot his own load. With his consent I restarted fucking him but my cock is pretty thick at the base and it wasn’t long after restarting that his moans got loaded and he said he couldn’t take it any more. Ever the gentleman I pulled out and we laid back together. Then a funny thing happened the young guy almost immediately fell asleep head on my chest and In an embrace. After a decent nap his cock appropriately responded to my overtures and we were able to start a second time. Eventually I moved to doggy style with me standing and he kneeling on the bed. He was still gasping and moaning with my thick cock and I noticed that he was making the rookie mistake of stroking his cock to ease the pain. I immediately ordered him to stop and he did so only to sheepishly confess he’d come a second time. He’d admitted his foolishness as he really wanted to take my load but I didn’t mind as it was a boost to my ego to make a young guy come twice and I get a kick out of giving such pleasure to another person using my body.

Excellent end yesterday to a vacation day that started badly. A planned morning hookup with a twink didn’t eventuate, it had been rescheduled twice and it became clear he was a bit of a flake. But with that obligation resolved another fell in my lap and I walked 5 minutes to a nearby hotel (we were both on holiday) and spent an enjoyable hour in bed with a cuddly and chatty guy. He gave me a good fucking but alas no load. Later that day on the way to catch a bus I stopped by an adult book store I had been introduced to the previous day by a guy off BBRTS. All I got to do was to suck a guy’s rather dissapontingly small cock, and given how jittery he was and how quick he rushed off without becoming fully hard much less coming I assume he may have been straight. That could have been it for the day, but idly glancing at Grindr at 10.30pm I found I’d been ‘tapped’ and after a chat and pic exchange the guy was hurrying to my hotel to beat an 11pm deadline after which he’d need me to come down and let him in. A great session ensued with a fitting end to the day with me depositing a good load in his tight Vietnamese ass.

Yesterday on Grindr I arranged a hookup with a young guy but he kept giving excuses for not getting to my hotel at the agreed times. When we gave up for the day I was, fortunately, able to arrange on BBRTS for another hookup albeit that the next guy got a message and had to rush back early to his bf. I gave the Grindr guy the benefit of the doubt and messaged him last night inviting him to get in touch to reschedule- and I’m glad I did. This evening we got together and I was able to fuck his beautiful young black ass. He begged me to cum inside and I was pleased to oblige. It was worth the wait.

Flew into Hawaii and turned on Grindr just after getting into my room at 8.30. Lined up my first hookup by 9.30am and had him in my room naked by 10.30am. While I made it clear I’d take him raw he asked for a condom. I carry a few for such hookups, though I don’t bring them out, and they are large to accommodate the thick base to my cock. Far too big for this young Asian guy who had a beautiful cock of decent length but quite thin. Still he wore the rubber and pumped my ass valiantly then took it off and came on his chest (to my disappointment as he’d said he’d come in my mouth). To make it up a bit I licked the cum off his smooth chest.

Local Cruise club - saunas, especially when travelling - Grindr - BBRTS - orgies - outdoor cruising: probably in that order at present. I’d like to do more cruising at gay beaches but get limited opportunity.

Had an accident on my bike and haven’t been cruising for two months but my ankle is now pretty good. So last night went to my local cruise club to see what action I could get. Unfortunately quite quiet for a Saturday night. Started with a few gloryhole sessions both sucking and being sucked. One guy with a beautiful long, hard and thick uncut cock kept coming back for long sessions which was nice, if tiring, but unfortunately he’d neither fuck me (merely whispering in my ear, ‘you’d like that, wouldn’t you boy?) nor near to coming in my mouth. I moved on to cruising in the dark rooms and corridors for guys looking to fuck an found a near-naked Chinese guy in a room face down so I slipped in, stripped off, lubed up and got on top. I fucked him bareback for some time on top, then moved him to stand by the bed bent over for my doggy please and pounded away some more. When I opened the door of the room I was met by a couple of guys who’d been standing listing to the quiet moaning of the Asian guy, the thudding of our bodies and the slapping of my balls. One guy followed me to the bathroom where I washed off my cock and begged me also to fuck him so I took him to a room decorated as a kind of mechanic’s workroom and bent him over a 44 gallon drum and lubed up. He offered me a condom but I told him no thanks and, at his request slapped his ass and moved to get started. At this point he reached around and started unrolling a rubber onto the head of my cock. I stopped, got dressed and stepped back in the corridor, bare only for me. After more group sucking action, I caught up again with the Chinese guy in a dark room this time- couldn’t see him particularly but could recognise by touch and was soon fucking him standing up. After a while I moved him to side of room so he could lean on the wall. Several other guys came and went reaching under to cup my balls or finger my ass. He was using poppers and after a long time I had a sniff to hasten the session end. I was disappointed that as I came I wasn’t able to come inside him as he swung his ass away at the last second but a guy standing by and groping me saw his chance and pulled my cock into his mouth to take the load. Although I was disappointed not to take any loads myself this at least provided a nice end to the session and has got me back in the saddle after 2 months.

I find it interesting to see how many guys report they’re shown their face in videos and not regretted it - that’s encouraging. But I see a couple of guys have done so with regrets. It would be helpful if guys could share their experiences e.g. what reactions have they encountered favourable or unfavourable, what are the main worries or positive rewards?

It looks from the replies so far that a lot of guys have changed behaviour after going on PrEP- barebacking when they weren’t before - not surprising I guess, but interesting.

Eros wired makes a good point about uncertainty, unless you check what’s on the other guy’s phone or you controlled the filming you won’t know if your face is shown. I’ve seen some videos where an attempt is made to pixelate the face but it’s often a bit hit and miss. On the other hand, while it might be a bit scary to have an identifiable video out there it must be some kind of thrill to find thousands of guys had jerked off watching you!

Making sex videos can be scary or hot. Ever done it? To improve on an earlier poll I’ve tried to list all the options though I bet some guys have done extreme things I somehow hadn’t thought of ... For me, I have been filmed once (no face), don’t know what the guy did with it - he let me check it before he left to ensure I couldn’t be recognised and said he just kept it for himself, but I fantasise about doing it again but better next time and maybe seeing it online. What’s your experience?

Sorry about the survey design, it should have been multiple choice, it was my first try at doing a poll and I actually thought I had set it up that way. I know better now and will do better next time! I’m wondering how people manage to get the good camera shots - a selfie-stick maybe? I expect that concentrating on fucking would throw out my cinematic technique... I’ve even found taking still pictures quite tricky. A few tips appreciated!

Like many gay guys who started their sexual life in the mid-1980s I’ve used condoms for much of my life. I became less consistent in using condoms in the last 7 or 8 years but until I started on PrEP about 3 years ago my starting point with sex was usually to use a rubber unless the mood or the other guy pulled me in the other direction. I didn’t plan to change my behaviour when going on PrEP- I just saw it as protecting me from my erratic use of condoms and the increasing risk of being stealthed in gloryholes etc. I told the doctor who prescribed PrEP as much and I wasn’t trying to deceive him, I was deluding myself. Once on PrEP I’ve gone 100% bareback - and it wasn’t gradual but virtually overnight. This wasn’t the plan and despite a few STIs I’ve no regrets. I’ve surprised myself so much by the change that I wondered whether the experience of other guys has been.

A while back I was surprised to find that a Grindr hookup who was fucking me doggy-style had grabbed his phone and was videoing his cock plunging in and out of my ass. He didn’t ask or tell me but after a brief shock I felt incredibly hot and a bit flattered. He promised not to photo or film my face and let me check his phone and delete anything. I entered the spirit and helped hold the phone to get some shots and also when we flipped and I fucked him. Since then I’ve fantasied about doing it again but so far have only taken a few still pictures and had another guy take a photo fucking me. Although I’ve seen lots of these videos online I wondered how common this actually was so hope guys will complete the poll.

I’ve found BBRT and Grindr equally useful. More guys on Grindr but you can spend a lot of time there waiting or chatting, BBRT more likely to get down to business. But I’ve had flakes on both but mainly on Grindr. Less time wasted with guys who seem only to be intent on collecting pictures with BBRT as you can post explicit photos in advance. The other thing is if you do a lot of hookups while travelling that Grindr is a bit more universal so I want both available.

Elbow grease.

I recently had an accident on my cycle and it was immediately clear that I wasn’t going to be active for a while with my severe ankle sprain - I had to immediately cancel a two week holiday in Japan which was due to start 4 days later (dammit I was really looking forward to some hot sessions at the famous Tokyo 24 Kaikan - hoping more Japanese guys and taken up barebacking since I was there 2 years ago). I,ve been on daily PrEP for a couple of years now initially having bought it online on prescription but for the last 18 months on a medical research trial due to run for another 6 months (during which the Truvada is free). As I was on a sponsored trial that requires me to take a dose every day I have continued to do so even though it was obvious I wasn’t going to be fucking around at my local cruise club as I usually would every week. It got me to thinking though - this was a case where I knew I’d be having no sex for at least 5 weeks - in such a case I guess it would be safe to stop taking the pills for 4 weeks and then restart for at least a week to get the medication back in the system before hooking up. Is that what other guys on PrEP would do if they ‘knew’ there was no chance of sex for a month?

I’ve found lots of action in Bangkok, Singapore, Macau, Hong Kong and Taipei. Totally unscientific- and may just be impressions formed from luck on recent visits - but I have the impression that guys in Singapore and Taipei are keen to bareback.

I usually strip off in hotel rooms as soon as I arrive. Don’t get many opportunities for going nude but always on the lookout for nude beaches on my travels: enjoyed nude sunbathing a few times in Portugal (beach 17 I think it was called), Italy and New Caledonia and - most times also scoring some sex in the dunes or forest as a bonus. Also enjoyed the clothing optional accomodations at Fort Lauderdale and Palm Springs (sex included of course!) My only true entirely non-sexual and genuine naturist experience was a week at a gay Hawaiian banana plantation nudist retreat on the big Island. I was alone on the huge plantation as it was low season and staying in a yurt. Great experience, beautiful setting, nice hosts, I really enjoyed it. Only wore clothes if I took my car out for the day for a visit. By the end of my stay it seemed more unnatural to wear clothes ...