Oldercumslut
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What Does It Feel Like To Be Gangbanged?
Oldercumslut replied to GyCumdump's topic in Making The Decision To Bareback
That is a unique sound isn't it. It's been a couple of years. -
Gay venues starting to close due to Covid-19
Oldercumslut replied to bbzh's topic in General Discussion
Around where I am, there hasn't really been many places other than the ABS. We have to travel a couple of hours to get to a club. I see a few "Private Clubs" being started though with plans for "after" this settles down. Guys are only going to keep it in their pants for so long, no matter what goes down. In the 40 plus years I've been active, I've seen this kind of thing come and go. I even know of bath houses that stayed open at the hight of the Aids crisis. They got around it by offering testing and had lots of baskets of condoms around and strict "Rules" about always using a condom. But with the lights out, I know I was stealth many times. I expect the different glory holes will open first. I think it's going to be fear of disease and not the conservative right that keeps things closed around here. -
I did, but since I was active duty in some not very friendly places, wasn’t that active. Did a lot of key parties. “It’s not,gay when it’s part of threesome” Did rest stops. When your ass up in the dark, you never know if it’s going to get covered or not and I know many a cock that started covered finished bare. A few ladyboys in those Asian towns. amazed I never got even a case of the crabs
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Sorry hit enter before finishing im using database app called AirTable also. Works like spreadsheet.
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What’s everyone using to keep,tally. I had been using the spreadsheet but operator error deleted it. Right now I have a simple tally shortcut on IOS.
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This has really put a dent in my travel plans. I've got 4 months of leave saved up and was really planning on getting down and dirty this year.
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Anon is how I prefer it. All of my last hookups have been anon. Even one where I stood outside his door with a hood on. He led me into the house. Pulled my shorts down and he and his husband proceeded to use and abuse me for a couple of hours. Led me to front door and closed it behind me. Have no idea what they look like. The risk is a form of self medication for me. Only had one recently do me covered. The rest have all been bare. Even the one that claimed only did it covered.
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The Future of quarterly testing.
Oldercumslut replied to Oldercumslut's topic in HIV/AIDS & Sexual Health Issues
I’m Inuslin Dependent Diabetic. Reasonably useful under control and I could stand to l;oose a few pounds. I had a “self medication” moment last week and played. Enjoyed it while it happened, but then had a long stretch of paranoia. I”m not sure anyone has calculated the risk of exposure to anon scene with one at at time visitiers. Definitely not the smartest thing I’ve done. There is so much we don’t know about this virus. We don’t know about the antibodies, imunitiry, etc. But after starting my medical career at the beginning of the AIDS epidemic I’m not as optimistic that we as a community will be smart in how we deal with it. -
Poll: Sexual Risk Habits, For Both Poz/neg
Oldercumslut replied to gay87's topic in General Discussion
I’m now alternating between 5&6. After last syphilus and how bad my ass felt after 3 weeks of Penicillin shots, I may be waffling back. -
The Future of quarterly testing.
Oldercumslut replied to Oldercumslut's topic in HIV/AIDS & Sexual Health Issues
With this it’s going to be more about immunity. Although at this point we don’t really know much about that yet. -
Can already see the writing on the wall. When testing for PreP. HIV, RPR, GC/Chlamidia, Hepatitis and COVID-19. I’m not particular optimistic about he utility of a vaccine. I’m pretty sure it will require a booster at least annnually. If we’re lucky it will be similar to Pneuomvac.
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Discretion is key. I can probably never run for government office with the skeletons in my cause, but I've been the cumslut for 30+ years and co workers haven't found out. Well except for the ones that were into themselves.
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After my run in with the two teens, I did a signifiant amount of research on age of consent. I was comforted that I wouldn't be tabled a pedophile if it was found out about those two while I was hooked/lights out. Contributing to the delinquency of a minor is still on the table, even if there are of age and younger than 18. One of the attorneys I consult with (he's into some extreme BDSM) and he agreed. If it was to come out, the prosecution would probably take the tack that I should have taken some form of steps to prevent that. So now to limit the risk, I try and choose times and locations that would limit the risk. However I'm probably making a naive assumption that not using CL is safer and that grinder, BBRT etc is.
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In the process of setting up a private club. Out in the boonies, private with privacy fences added. It will be BYOB Not asking for anything on the legal side of things, just on some of the logistics. Does anyone have any experience? 1. Best way to keep members in touch and communicating with each other. KIK, WhatsApp, etc. Probably something easy and not require much in the way of computer savvy so things like discourse server may not be best option. 2. Best way to collect membership fees. Looked at different crowd funding for help in getting it started. We're speared by some reasonable distances, so just dropping cash off isn't a really good method. 3. And maybe most important, If you've done it before what kind of things did you find out later that you should have thought of.
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And this is for many reasons. Most common is those of us who are a bit on the older side, have to take meds to keep out plumbing work. That's one of the side effects
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When I think back to my teen years, Just about everything I did would have gotten someone thrown in jail now a days. And I was definitely consenting. I knew what I wanted. I knew the risks (although this was just before HIV days and no one really knew the risks). I so wonder if any of those older guys really cared how old I was or just that I was an open lubed ready hole. Hell my first partner was a cousin. I'm just glad there weren't smart phones back then. The pics would have gotten us in trouble. I'm a paralegal (non practicing) but focus on malpractice and licensing issues for nurses and doctors on their side. I see way to many times that consent doesn't mean anything once it gets in front of a judge and/or jury.
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I've been trying to arrange a DP for awhile. I've got dildo that I use to prep for it. Still haven't been able to get two guys together to do me.
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One reason that anon, blindfolded, ass up, door open can be dangerous. Couple of years back I had just checked into hotel, mid afternoon. (this was still CL days). Two guys claiming to be college kids wanted to come over. I was already prepped so I told them to come over. Had blindfold on and headphones. They came in, and it till a bit before anything happened. One pushed his cock into my mouth and the other started pounding me. They alternated. Both cam, but stayed pretty hard and did me again. As the left, one pulled up the headphones and whispered their actual age. Let's say I was pretty paranoid for awhile after that. I may be an all loads cumslut, but I've learned to be a bit more careful.
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Got onto Grindr last night for a Hail Mary attempt. DIdn't take long. I was looking for someone who was interested in a little risk. Young black buy. I told him where I should be and what I was going to be wearing. It was dark and right at curfew time which was 9pm, but park was still open till 10. Bent over the railing over the river. He walked up behind me and quietly stood there. I pulled by shorts down and handed him some lube. I hadn't asked how big he was, but I guess I should have asked. He grabbed my hips and took me balls deep. It was all I could do not to scream. Damn he was big and hard. He pounded fast and hard for just a couple of minutes and then went balls deep again and grunted. Stood there a bit as he got soft and I handed him a bar towel. ( I buy them by bulk at Sams for just this reason. ). he walked off leaving me with my shorts down around my ankles and cum leaking down my leg. I pulled them up and headed home. (about 2 blocks) Have hopes for tonight. Although it's suppose to rain, might still be fun.
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it means I'm having to work to much to have any hook up time.
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Going back and digging through my diaries, at best I can come up with is about 750. I tend to go in cycles. Sometimes nothing then I'll get a lot. When I added up the lights out ass up nights where I go lucky and got 20 some loads combined with my regulars over the years it does add up. I to started with a bang as a teen and got gang banged by groups of guys who probably didn't know how old I was. Now that I"m old and fat it's prob going to be hard to hit that number.
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I'm starting to plan for conferences this summer and fall. There are a few in Vegas. I'll probably be at the Venetian Sept 8-12. Anything normally going on during that time frame? I'm pretty much stuck at the venue hotel, but I've been known to sneak out and get a room somewhere else when needed.
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The prime reason I don't like his is that you can't trust a single word that comes out of his mouth. Sometimes I can't decide if he is just spouting and doesn't care or if he is intentionally lying. Look how many times he's said "I don't know him or I never met him, when there is an over abundance of video evidence that he did. He doesn't seem to care that in todays age, there is no shortage of ways to prove he's lying. What he is betting on is that his supporters won't take the time to check and/or they don't care. They like trump for the same reason medical people liked Dr House. They wish they could get away with what he gets away with. What Trump HAS proved is that we as a nation have been deceiving ourselves that we've managed to address the prejudices that are prevalent in our country. White nationalism has always been here, it's just embolden now because of him. I'm hoping that when he's gone, we can address these things. My fear is that he's irrevocably damaged the democracy. He's trashing everything the founding fathers worked so hard to create, and what so many people have died for over the decades to defend.
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Do you admit to guys you hook up with how slutty you are?
Oldercumslut replied to a topic in General Discussion
I"m guessing most of them already know without me telling them. Since they found me on Grindr, A4A or BBRT, I'm guessing most have already figured it out. -
Yeah I was already messed up. That's how I got into the position to have sex at that age. And for some the only ones close enough are probably too closely related to us to be socially unacceptable. To this day I have no idea were the idea came from to bend over and start sucking. I know it wasn't his idea either. But he took advantage of it then again frequently afterwords. Now the adults a little later on definitely fit todays definition of predators. They set the whole situation up.
