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12 hours ago, earlystart said:

Hope I can write something to make this all worth the wait!

Every chapter has been worth the wait..... But as @jeffny456 observes, you managed to repeat yourself.

To my short list of June 15, I'll add the two papers, based on patient interviews, which I've attached to this posting. 

Psychosexual experiences of men following radiotherapy for prostate cancer in Johannesburg, South Africa.pdf Exploring the lived experience of gay men with prostate cancer | A phenomenological study.pdf

Like iosam, I too don't know much about prostate cancer. But I do know it's possible that, for whatever reason, you won't get many responses here. If I read the medical journal articles correctly, the medical establishment is just figuring out that during and after treatment, gay men might have quality of life issues that are different than those of straight men. It looks as if these two websites might provide the information and insight you're looking for:  [think before following links] https://healthunlocked.com/prostate-cancer-gay-men [think before following links] https://dansjourney.com/resources/gay-men-and-prostate-cancer/. There's also clinical guidance about anal sex after treatments: [think before following links] https://www.news-medical.net/news/20190610/Worlds-first-clinical-guidance-on-anal-sex-after-prostate-cancer-treatments.aspx.

I hope that this is of some help, especially on those nights when you're wide awake at 3 am thinking about this. Good luck....

7 hours ago, Dandy said:

a 19 year old glass collector who was around 5 feet tall and around 100lb, really quiet and shy.

It’s always the thin guys who have enough dick for three.

8 hours ago, funpozbottom said:

And ... um ... did you get fries with that? 🙂

A big pickle on the quarter pounder would be about right....

6 hours ago, LetsPOZBreed said:

I just KNEW this thread sounded vaguely familiar.  

@hotguy02 we've heard this before...from you, specifically.  Always this concern about not being allowed to go on PrEP and so forth. 

This thread might be the one you're thinking of:  "Curious but confused bottom," started Oct. 14, 2020, in General Discussion.

7 hours ago, HunkeBBBotm said:

I am looking to purchase some gay erotic books and would appreciate suggestions from you dirty fuckers on authors or titles that you’ve read and got off on.  There are so many good authors on BZ that I’ve enjoyed getting naked and edging to for hours while I read but I’ve read almost everything on this site and need more. Suggestions that will keep my cock dripping and my ass hungry.  

I had to blow the dust off my copies, but you might want to give these a look:

Hard: Erotic Fiction

Man on Man

Hotter than Hell

Men for All Seasons

Up All Hours: Scorching Tales of Sex Around the Clock

8 hours ago, ErosWired said:

I don’t know the status of butyl/isobutyl nitrite in Australia

Effective February 2020, Australia reclassified the substances: amyl nitrite can be obtained, without a prescription, from a pharmacist; isopropyl nitrite was banned; and butyl nitrite, isobutyl nitrite, and other alkyl nitrites were available on prescription only. [think before following links] https://www.gaystarnews.com/article/australia-decides-not-to-ban-poppers/ [think before following links] https://qnews.com.au/therapeutic-goods-administration-decides-against-banning-poppers/ [think before following links] https://qnews.com.au/what-you-need-to-know-about-the-law-changes-around-poppers/ 

1 hour ago, ErosWired said:

I’ll need to look more into findings on purported carcinogenic effects of isobutyl - this is the first time I’ve heard that.

[think before following links] https://pubchem.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/compound/Isobutyl-nitrite (section 11 of the PubChem entry)

20 hours ago, BootmanLA said:

There are very few clinical studies, if any, done regarding popper use, just like there are very few clinical studies done for inhaling paint fumes or swallowing lye soap. 

As for consistency of formula and regulations, etc.: it's one step above bathtub gin and outhouse crystal meth. There's nothing to stop Big Popper Co. Inc. from sending out a thousand bottles of "X brand video head cleaner" (because of course there are still so many video cassette players in service) that contain nothing but turpentine. Or diluted Lysol concentrate. Or whatever else they might have on hand. Do they? Probably not. Are you willing to risk snorting something based on trusting the company not to have screwed up some formula?

Two years ago, the Australian Dept. of Health analyzed samples of poppers available for purchase both within the country and from overseas. Eight samples of poppers, labelled as "leather cleaner," were purchased from local adult stores. All of the products represented in the labelling that they contained "alkyl nitrite." Isobutyl nitrite was identified as the single major ingredient in all of the products. Ten samples were obtained from overseas retailers. Five samples contained isopropyl nitrite, and the other five contained isoamyl nitrite (aka isopentyl nitrite). Eight of the ten contained the type of nitrite claimed on the label. The other two, stating the ingredient was pentyl nitrite, actually contained isopentyl nitrite. 

Why does any of this matter? tj87's doctor could tell us.

3 hours ago, tj87 said:

Poppers in the UK are butyl nitrite these days I believe, which has the same vasodilating effect of amyl nitrite without the depressant effects. Amyls were before my time and I never really got the "high" from poppers. They've always been a utility drug for me to help open my ass up.

My superb sexual health clinic in Clapham Junction always ask about my eyesight when i go for a routine check up. They know I use poppers and they know about a link between poppers and vision loss - the NHS released a study ten years ago that points to a correlation).

Isobutyl nitrite was designated as a cancer causing agent in 2006 in the UK, and isopropyl nitrite replaced it as the active ingredient. After isopropyl nitrite became the most commonly used compound in poppers, doctors in the UK and in France were seeing patients who had used poppers and now had impaired vision. There wasn't anything like a "smoking gun," but the patients' medical histories and use of poppers suggested that isopropyl nitrite affected the retina in a way that isobutyl nitrite did not.

The medical journals and the Australian Dept. of Health summary report are attached.

%22Poppers maculopathy%22 -- an emerging ophthalmic reaction to recreational substance abuse.pdf Adverse ophthalmic reaction in poppers users | case series of %22poppers maculopathy%22.pdf Case report | Poppers retinopathy.pdf New chemical composition of 'poppers' linked to retinal damage Harms associated with these recreational drugs should be reassessed, urge researchers -- ScienceDaily.pdf Testing of Alkyl Nitrite 'Poppers' | Therapeutic Goods Administration (TGA).pdf Foveal damage in habitual poppers users (Abstract).pdf

20 hours ago, BootmanLA said:

 Any doctor who gave a patient crystal meth anally while doing a fake "rectal exam" should lose his license. Fuck no. The idea of encouraging and eroticizing sexual predators is pathetic.

If the doctor only lost his license, he'd be the luckiest SOB on the planet. In the real world, not the fantasy world some of us inhabit, the doctor would be looking at a prison sentence of substantial length. 

13 hours ago, Getnpiggyftl said:

He fucked me like I stole his bike...

that's a great description.....

Back in my younger and wilder days, I would occasionally tell a close friend that I had hooked up with X. If my experience with X had been unsettling, I would definitely mention it to my friend. Otherwise, I kept my own counsel about who I had played with on a weekend. Over time, it became known that I didn't disclose who I had been with, and I ended up meeting guys I wouldn't have expected to meet. 

On 5/27/2021 at 6:29 PM, Barebackbottomno said:

Those of us who have fucked or been fucked on an old used, stained mattress in an abandoned building probably wouldn't' notice.  However, strong foul odors; for example, a rotting corpse with swarming flies, might be a deal breaker.

I'm instantly thinking of "Tales from the Crypt." There'll be a couple of nightmares in my sleep.

If the smell can get past my congested sinuses, I’m turning around and going home. My other criterion for leaving — do I think I’ll have to shake my shoes out when I get home? Alternatively phrased, should I run my gym bag through the dryer on the “incinerate” setting?

14 hours ago, Flyguy2020 said:

Omg! I feel dumb. LOL

Bah... the only dumb question is the one not asked because the person didn't want to appear dumb.

1 hour ago, ErosWired said:

Others have already posted topics asking this exact question and been well advised. I recommend you do a search or read back through the threads as the quickest way to find your answer. Lots of us could give you advice on this, but have gotten tired of repeating ourselves for every new bottom asking for the easiest way to get fucked.

You're not the only one discouraged by the inability of the smartphone generation to type a question into the search box located in the upper right corner of apparently every page on this site. (And the search engine rawTOP uses is really good so there's no excuse not to use the search function.)

On 5/10/2021 at 9:14 PM, Bottombb14 said:

How did it turn out?

just wondering if you noticed that the original poster hasn't been online here since March 2018? 

On 5/6/2021 at 8:08 AM, CumdumpDad said:

I don't want to get writer's cramp

Perhaps better than having writer's block.

6 hours ago, bbzh said:

If you can't pull that off, then I'd at least set up a meeting where you and HR have a talk with him - if he indeed gets the promotion - where you discuss the operational (and reputational) risk of the company getting sued over discriminatory practices, sexual harassment or creating a hostile work environment.

^ ^ ^ ^ This. Back in my working days, the HR person and I would have this type of chat with every new hire. That enabled me to jump on violators with both feet.

On 10/25/2020 at 6:54 PM, tallslenderguy said:

[You] can also get to it from the outside if you push a finger at the base of the cock, underside (top of the taint). You feel the urethra first, but right behind the urrethra at that point is the prostate. There's sort of art form to learning it, not to hard, not too soft, watch they guys expression lol, it will speak volumes.  See in the pic how even if you go in through the ass, you are not actually touching the prostate?  Pressure can be exerted on the prostate from all sorts of directions ;-). 

If anyone is trying the same move described by Read1 in his 8 May post, here's a more detailed description -- with pictures!!

The Gods of the Internet must have heard our cries of woe and despair. Thursday night, using Firefox for iOS and the cell phone on 4G, page requests timed out a third of the time. Friday evening and yesterday (Saturday), however, I had no problem (using Safari or Chrome). Go figure....

On 5/2/2021 at 10:56 PM, drscorpio said:

I sucked him briefly, and he shot a sweet load in my mouth. 20 seconds later he was out the front door. 

A great definition of a "commercial break."

He seems to be over at Active Duty and Next Door Studios last year; Next Door Studios has him in 3 videos early last year.

I'm relieved to learn that I'm not the only one who's had difficulty. About 10 days or 2 weeks ago, pages began to load slowly and invariably, the request timed out. It's not just moving to the next page in the topic thread or to the next topic in the forum; it also happens when I try to post a comment in response to a post. If I'm using Safari (version 14.1) (I'm on mac OS 11.3.1 [Big Sur]), about half the time, I can get the page to load by hitting "reload page." If I'm using Chrome (version 90.0.4430.93), the request will time out, but Chrome loads the page about 3 seconds later. I've cleared the cache on Safari a couple of times, but that didn't improve the situation (I regularly clear the cache on Chrome). The problem also occurs when I use my iPad (6th generation; iPad OS 14.5.1).

I doubt it's my ISP (Charter, if anyone was idly wondering); I use Cloudflare WARP (and have since they hooked up with Mozilla to offer secure DNS traffic) to keep nosy parkers out of the DNS logs. I've noticed that the problem seems to be worse midday, say from 11 am to 3 or 4 pm. Needless to say, I don't have the problem with any other websites. Thanks in advance for anything you can do about this. More generally, thanks for everything you've done and do to keep BZ running.