bareback-flipflop

Just a short feedback. The guy said that he couldn’t fall in love with me, so let’s be just friends. Bullshit. But the good thing that I could return to my promiscuous life. 😉

For sure. I love to hear that I am used and serving the top. And announcing the cum means that. Furthermore, I prefer when he says not only he is cumming but he is uploading my slutty hole, calling me dirty bitch or humiliating me harder.

It’s easy on that way. Unfortunately, our university and even our faculty have separate buildings in the city. We don’t have a campus. So, if I’m on Grindr I can detect our students. Furthermore, our building is in the central of one of the most popular tourist places, so, many profiles are of tourists.

It always depends on the situation. At somebody’s house, in saunas and of course in nudist beach, I prefer being naked. During a lycra or leather fun, it’s obvious. In bars, I usually wear clothes. However, I also like being there semi or fully naked. Semi naked I mean wearing clothes only in my upper body or in opposite.

Good for you. I have some students, with whom I can imagine sex but I never try it.

My sexual life was very low-key; furthermore, meagre in the last weeks. The guy I fell in love with had not too much time for me. We didn’t meet in the half of September. I met with two old fuckbuddies, but I didn’t enjoy the sex. I could only think of him. Thursday he announced that he couldn’t feel the same and suggested being only friends. Bullshit. I couldn’t sleep and around 1am, a guy texted me to join them. Four guys were at his place. Although I was tired, and sad I hoped that a bareback party would be able to handle my mood. I was wrong, I didn’t enjoy the party. Moreover, I had to wake up early, so I left them and promised I would be better partner next time. Yesterday, around 10pm, he texted that some guys were there again. So, I could proof what I promised. After a long preparation of myself I arrived around midnight and kept my promise. I stayed there until 10am. When I arrived, a top, a bottom and two versatile were there. Plus a totally useless guy, who didn’t do anything and later left. I was the oldest, the bottom was 28, the others in their thirties. The top and the versatiles fucked every body. Sometimes we fucked in pairs but it was more typical that while someone was being fucked, the other sucked or let him suck. And many times we fucked the fuckers. Later the top left but two versatiles arrived soon. Although everybody had good tools but on of the newcomers had a huge dick. However he loved to be fucked. So, we continued this orgy. Around morning two other tops came, they fucked almost everybody. I got only two loads, which doesn’t seem two much but I enjoyed the whole party. And as a good guest I gave my only one load to the host tight hole. Bareback house parties are always my favourite and it was one of the best. I fucked with all the eight guys. They were different types but none of them were picky. We all knew that we were there to enjoy each other’s holes, mouths and cocks. And we really did it.

Totally agreed. I don’t understand the people who feel because PreP makes their sex life worse. PreP means for me freedom. I can live my life without limits. Being barebacker is the essence of my sexuality. Without PreP, I would have to choose between having sex with condome or barebacking with continuously fear from HIV. However, if someone feel the opposite, they can leave PreP, especially if they don’t mind becoming sick.

I wasn’t so young as the beginners nowadays. I was already 22. I was eager for gay sex but at the late sixties there were less possibilities than today. So I met that guy after a newspaper ad (LoL). I don’t really remember his face but the moment when I first got a cock into my mouth is still clear. It was so clean and fresh. At this moment I immediately knew that I was born to serve cocks. Anyway he was gentle, patient and careful. Of course we used condomes. He asked me if I wanted to suck or be sucked and top or bottom. When I replied that I wanted everything he liked it. We started with 69 and sucked eachother for a long time. After it, he turned me onto my back, put my legs on his shoulders and I could feel a cock in my hole. I don’t remember but I suppose that he lubed me before. So, he was fucking me long laying on my back. He was playing with my cock, which was rock hard. After a while he pulled out his cock, dressed up mine and sit onto it he was riding on me, and when we both were close, he shot onto my chest. Then he took off, greased my cock with his cock’s jism. And finally he jerked me off onto my chest too. Then he mixed our jism on my chest and fed ourselves.

Kissing is an essential need for me. I stop kissing only when I feel that the other can’t kiss. I like kissing with full mouth, fighting with tongues, sucking each other’s tongue, with huge amount of saliva. I hate the small mouth dry kiss. And it never embarrasses me if I feel that the kissed mouth met a cock or ass before or it was dull with jism. Feeling that makes me just hornier.

I fuck only bb in both ways but I am definitely not a chaser. I want to avoid becoming poz. Therefore, I’m on prep. There was a short time on my life when I live as a bb slut without prep, but even then I wanted keep being neg. Anyway, I can’t understand chasers. I don’t understand why it is good being sick. I don’t have any problem with the poz guys. I fuck with them. I don’t blame them. If it happened it happened. I just don’t understand why one wants it directly.

I am joining the previous posters. I not only hate porn with condom but I find it boring and it doesn’t make me horny. If I catch the scene guy is wearing condome, I shut down the video immediately. Avoiding the disappointment, I recently fast-forward the video till I can check if it is bareback or not. And if it is, I go back to the start. If it is not, I search another one. Another thing that I truly hate when according to the description the video is bb but the guys are wrapped.

Exactly 😉

Hot story, made me horny. However, the last sentece is really funny, I am loughing.

It happened quite late, I was around 18. I was just curious. I knew that something could happen down there. And as my father’s nunchaku seemed suitable, I tried it (then I had no idea about lubes, so I used body lotion) and I liked it. From then, that tool became my top lover for years. LoL

As a versatile I have advantageous position. According to my to my experiences most of the younger guys (I mean 20-25 years younger) want to be a top and the older are rather bottom. I recently fucked with a 18 years old guy during a month in July. He gave his virginity to me. He started as a total submissive bottom, but later I introduced him to the tops’ world and as he tasted that, he always wanted to fuck me. Not only fuck but to fuck rough, to dominate me, etc.

Anywhere. LoL Perhaps it sounds like a joke, but it’s true. Saunas and bars hardly can be found guys who use condome. By apps many “only safe” guy text me and when I ask back if they have any problem with bb, the answer is always no. My profiles are explicit, just like my username which is the same everywhere.

I think the same like some before me. These times are the neo-BB era. Most of the guys I fucked with didn’t use or claim to use condome. I hardly can remember if I meet guys abroad who wanted wrapped fuck. For example maybe one in Berlin. One of 50-60. Even in Hungary I couldn’t meet condome users, only a totally beginner bisexual guy and a foreigner from Serbia.

I think, it’s a very complicated situation. If you wouldn’t write that you have bad feelings about his loneliness, etc., one could suppose that you are selfish. However, slowly I learn it that we have only one life. And we have to love our life fully. You have to put on the question, which the more important is. Don’t worry about his feelings, live with attractive roommates and pay your accommodation costs yourself or care about him, enjoy his generosity and give up the totally freedom. Maybe he supposes that he can expect more care regarding his financial support (because I think that paying other’s costs, even though partly, is a support). Nevertheless, I agree with the comments that suggested to communicate with him. Be gentle and open for understand his problems. Ask, if you’re lifestyle is embarrassing for him. Note, if he won’t change, you must leave. At the and of that discussion, you will see, whether he can change or it’s better to leave.

I have never wanted a relationship just because of the feelings. I had two boyfriends. The first was that I mentioned, I began that relationship just because I wanted to try the relationship with a man. Although it lasted two years but I cannot say that it was a good relationship. I cheated my bf as many as I could. The other was a real love. Lasted more than 16 years. We loved each other. However, our expectations of sex were different. Therefore we lived in an open relationship. Basically, it was a semi-open relationship, because my boyfriend wasn’t interested in sex, so although he could he didn’t want to have sex with others. Now, I’m in a strange situation. I’ve fallen in love with a guy and I cannot think about sex with others. He is always in my mind and I want everything with him. I’m curious about his thoughts about the open relationship but he seems to be unsure.

You are right, that moment was what gave me hope. But later he talked about open relationships like something strange and not understandable thing. I fear that he can accept these kind of things only out of a relationship.

Sometimes things are changing. I am a total slut, and a cumdump, who was always eager for others’ DNA, who couldn’t imagine his life without going to cruising bars, saunas, dark rooms at least once a week. Normally I needed sex every day but at least every second day (sometimes one per s day wasn’t enough). Now, I can think only one person, don’t want others to give me offers, I wouldn’t like to go to the places I mentioned afore. I felt strange and I asked if something is wrong with me. But it is my feelings at this moment. Later it can change as it has changed before. So, stay calm, accept that our personality is complex. You used to be a loyal guy, now you’re a slut, but later you can turn back to your previous way.

All You replied very important and interesting things. However, almost in all cases, live snd open relationship work together because both parties want it, accept it. I think, I can say, I love that guy and he loves me. But he talks about open relationship like strange, furthermore disgusting option. I can imagine to leave my private adventures but not the adventures together. The question is, who will fit who. I can’t imagine that I will be able to leave in a monogamous relationship for years. Okey, now at the beginning. But I know myself, later I will scratch the walls being so eager for adventures in sauna and cruising bar, for being bred in dark rooms, being gang banged, etc. I lived cheating my boyfriend, lying him late night works. I hated it, and I don’t want it again. Furthermore, we can’t meet too much, only one or two times in a week. Now, my brain is full with him, so I less miss the regular sex, but soon it won’t be enough. I hope, I can keep him and my freedom together.

Normally I leave him. If I need being fucked so strong or the top is a kinda gorgeous guy I take an exception.

I have only one. In Hungary, it is not typical of using in public places like sauna or cruising bars. However, sometimes I see guys wearing harnesses. I wear my one at home playing and in Berlin I wore it almost always.

It sounds so smart and nice. I want a relationship, such like this you described. A relationship, that is based on deep love and intelligence, tolerancy, and mutual understanding. I hope he will be ready to open when I will be. Or vice vers. At this moment, I feel totally the same that you wrote: ” It wasn't a hardship for me because from the first time he came in my ass, I didn't want anyone else. Sex with him was so exciting that I didn't feel the need to take other cock.” I complete this not only with sex but general. My thoughts are always about him. If my phone signals that a message came, I immediately become excited if he is who texted. It was almost 20 years ago when I last felt something like that, when I felt in love with my ex boyfriend.