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Sorry for you RWHID. Needy is not nice. There is an age element to being able to retain an erection, but we're talking of physical causes of decreased hormones and furred up arteries and so on, so more likely in the 70s on, though it can start earlier depending on lifestyle factors. As you found, however, failure to bone up can even affect a 22 year old so while most people like there to be a medical reason and drug therapy to fix everything mostly this problem is in the mind. It comes from the deep seated 'shame' of not feeling good enough to match the expectation we think others have of us. The guys who can't get hard are mostly going to be less confident and worried sufficiently to be frightened of not being able to get an erection so of course they prove themselves right because fear blocks the sexual excitement from having its effect. The more they try and fail to get an erection, the worse that fear will become. If you get someone who is having such difficulties, easing their mind and taking the pressure of for them will help, with some undemanding kissing and caressing and cuddling in bed until their fear subsides and their erection starts to bone up. Sadly most don't feel able to be honest about their difficulties, and while their heads and cocks react well to the thought of all the hot porn-style sex that's in prospect, when you are standing with them and they feel the weight of their expectations the problems can start. One other issue is the 'do we fuck bare or do we have to use condoms' issue which may have a bearing. People worry about whether to admit to taking bare cock for fear of disapproval and the possible rejection, yet really really want it. That worry leads to fear and shame again to kill the boner. So if you can establish bare up front then that's one less worry and more chance of a stiff moist cock invading your hole. So once you have them boned up and oozing precum, sit across their waist, move your ass up and down with their cock rubbing over your prelubed hole and then tilt and sit on their bare cock. If they say no, we must use condoms, you can act all surprised it went in so easily (ahem!) and get off them to get a condom (or to throw them out!), if they sigh "Ohhhh, yea..." then you know where you are.

The picture ratio is a bit stretched vertically, but the top is certainly big even allowing for that. The quality isn't all that good, but good enough. The line "spread that pussy open for me" should give you a clue, and seeing the cum shot into the open hole and then fucked in is certainly hot to me. If you're not a fan of hearing "pussy" all the time, then give this a miss, everyone else enjoy! http://www.xtube.com/watch.php?v=IZFj5-G162- Incidentally, I notice that the word "twin" is now asterisked out by default on Xtube now, so Twink appears as ****k. Rolls eyes!

Asian/Thai breeding including porn style pull-out for first spirt and back in, cum flow from ass and re-entry. All that in 1m 12s min... http://www.xtube.com/watch.php?v=dHqTN-G585-

Cum_hole_Vienna loading another good looking bottom in 14 minutes. http://www.xtube.com/watch.php?v=R9PaN-G692-

Submissive and Bottom are not necessarily the same thing. Bottoms can be dominant with submissive tops

My opinion is that you are wise to be honest them beforehand. One young cumdump in London was taking loads last weekend and had 70 BBRTS guys interested. However, I can imagine random guys could well no wish to run the risk of pumping your hole with potentially poz cum in there. Personally I would find it hot that you were pre-loaded.

Seconded. We are out here. I'd love a young cumdump boyfriend. Love to see young guys making the most of their youthful horniness enjoying themselves. Get loads of happy memories while you can! However, we are few and far between it seems. When someone looks for a boyfriend they will likely get someone who is possessive. Just keep your mind open and if it just happens you will know. Meanwhile keep having fun and taking the loads.

I think it's admirable that you like to spread the love rather than deny your sexy bootie to the many needy guys. An essential community service you do as a cumdump

If he was that stiff and shaking I imagine he was inexperienced and trying it out and scared limp. If you're too tense you can't get an erection. Go get another one, more experienced, to make up for it

Is that like Sugar Daddy? I can understand the desire to make a cute guys happy, to get the cute guy to like them and feel good through association, though being their buddy and self-worth. Sadly I'm achingly sugar-free so don't have the means to try it out with money I don't think it's pimping out for money, though that's apparently similar except the pimps usually seem to be confident controllers whereas cash slaves are it seems generally very submissive. Sleazy_Brit_Boy, anyone with a butt like yours deserves to be worshiped. Hot

I managed to find my way around pretty quick, once I could tear myself away from that background image that displays on wide screens. That's hot! I also like that age is displayed in posts - it helps to know the age of the poster. I'll let you know if I find any problems when I get time to take a long look. Thanks for the hard work - I know how difficult and infuriating it can be.

Seems Gonorrhea can produce similar symptoms of diarrhea, so that's another possibility. You should get checked out as the others say.

It sounds to me like a bacterial infection possibly from sucking a cock that's come out of a less than clean ass or some such. Maybe could even be dysentery, my friend had the same. They also found he was poz from the tests to identify the cause.

Wow indeed, a great story akin to a nice slow fuck gently speeding up and moving harder and deeper until the nicely delivered hot climax. I'm pleased he took a positive attitude to the experience

Thank you for that lead, mpschaser. I took a look at his first video, CL cumdump: http://www.xtube.com/watch.php?v=3Chzg-G779- It's short because the top got too excited and couldn't hold it but I found the audio really erotic. I don't mean poz talk, I mean just the natural sounds of bare sex nicely recorded. Lovely guys too. Now to watch/listen to the others...

I think it always was the norm too, but it has been modified by fear such that most of those having casual sex wish to protect themselves somehow. There are many who will fuck bare if when both want it, but I don't get the impression it's the majority of casual sex guys by any means. The majority of guys who approach me for sex insist on condoms and get quite vehement about it. There again as most of them turn out to have wives and partners, that's another aspect to it.

I agree with atlfukbud and ChaserBoysRHot. I think those who bareback are those who want to bareback because they like it not because they've seen it on a DVD. It's far more complex than some reaction to what they are seeing on a porn video. If they are playing DVDs of straight sex I'm not likely to warm to the idea of fucking a woman bare or wrapped than I am now. If they're being showing DVDs in a bar that feature bareback sex then those who want to do it will perhaps feel it's perhaps not frowned up to do it if there are other guys who feel encouraged to do it there too, but the majority of safe sex guys will tut and go on rubbering up. Bareback sex is always more prevalent in darkrooms where identity is hidden so I think it's bound up with avoiding any disapproval - something the study may have done by virtue of telling them its ok to fuck bareback after watching the porn so long as they tell the researcher. To answer your question, I am no more likely to fuck bareback after having seen a DVD of raw fucking than I would before. I thought there already were warnings on DVD cases and on the lead in to the content, are there not? I personally am happy for that to continue with perhaps more up to date and relevant messages. However, the majority of people watch porn on tube sites or pay sites these days so it would not be seen by the majority of guys out there who do need to be educated about the actual risks so they can make informed decisions.

Really good news. You have friends here who can try to help by words, but there is nothing better than meeting other people in face to face dialogue, seeing as most communication is non-verbal. Taking it head on and creating something good out of a desperate situation seems is a great way to deal with it and you will find it feels great to be able to help others deal with what you're going through. Indeed helping yourself while helping others. And who knows, you may well find someone special at the social group too. Well done, glad to see you're on a good track.

That seem to be a common reaction, and similar to people deep in debt with unopened letters from the banks piling up, only making it worse. Much as it hurts, they won't listen though, until they reach a crisis point and have to face it. Not a happy situation to watch. I generally feel that people will not do things you tell them to, so that won't work. However, the idea of keeping the dialogue up but in general terms and not putting him on the spot, is probably the only thing that you can do. Discuss the problem impersonally, in other words, but occasionally or you will likely lose his attention.

Good to hear the update, both to know that you're fighting your way through this, and for generously sharing your experience for others to learn from. I hope the support group works out. Worth a go, and with your openness I imagine you will find it helpful. I hope so anyway. Looking forward to better news from you on the next update!

Preparation H in the UK is similar I believe. Cooling and soothing.

Both logos look good. The #BBBH works nicely on FB. Thanks for all you do!

An ignorant stupid frightened asshole with a diseased (as in not at ease) mind himself by the sounds of it. Sadly a by-product of the anonymity of the internet. It is indeed very difficult not to get dishearted with these trolls but you are the one being honest and acting with integrity here. He's not.

It's difficult to second guess situations, but I'd say leave the roleplay for the bedroom. They might be one fuck ponies, but they could well think you don't want to see them! Catch 22. There's a lot of fear of saying something that breaks the spell, but I'd say if the spell is that fragile, it's not really worth the effort. If you'd like to fuck them again, tell them. You've not really lost anything and have cute butts and warm hugs to gain!

If I'd seen it I'd have met up with you to give you advice and guide you in your few days here. Ho-hum! I agree with JDW pretty much. I'd show a cock and ass shot as you're versatile to get the buyers interested. There tends to be a lot of 'browsing' and little action. I think it's the problem with over supply - people get spoilt for choice, don't know which to take a chance on, then do none as they don't want to waste their time, ironically. However, I would expect that not being online was a major limitation. Some might scan the travel section for 'fresh meat' but I doubt most do. Status negative can be an issue with some, but that's what you are so go with it though 'Ask me' would get you more interest - it did when I set mine to that - but it's assumed I believe generally that 'Ask me' is Poz. I do get some interest from Undetectable guys as a neg guy, but then I'm honest in saying I'm 59 years of age which tends to be a problem with many, but you're the other side of 40 so I don't think you'd have difficulty getting interest if you can stay online somehow. Anyway, some random thoughts. I hope they help!