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I'm not experienced in these matters but the mere fact you are asking suggests to me that you are not ready to give up your independence for longer than just your sex play sessions if that is what is on the cards.
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There were actually specific parameters as to whether I would be eligible and it was part on truvada and part a control group not given it, with no choice of which group you were in. The clinic didn't feel I would qualify as I was on PEP at the time.
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Cool. Personally I would not be overly worried, especially with it being a well lubed hole. Of course there is a risk but it sounds like you had your wits about you despite being high. I wish there was PrEP here too.
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It rather depends whether the poz guys, the one you fucked or the one who loaded his hole first, or the one who fucked you, were on meds and with a low / undetectable viral load or not. You'd need to have an existing infection in your urethra or tears in the skin of your cock to make it likely there was infection from fucking a poz guy who has a high viral load. You could well be ok. There is no benefit to avoiding being tested, the sooner you know the sooner you can relax, or in the event you did get infected the sooner you get treated the better. I have no idea what country you are in but if this was recent you can get Post Exposure Prophylaxis treatment, to make sure, if you start it within 72 hours - earlier the better. You get it from the accident and emergency department at the local hospital here in the UK. But get tested in 4-6 weeks after the event with one of the latest tests that detect the virus rather than the antibodies.
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Wow! Revenge is sweet they say. Very sweet by the sound of it. Thanks for taking us on the exciting ride too with your usual masterful storytelling. That was HOT!
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Gonorrhea symptoms I had were that I noticed white furry 'mould' on the stools when I took a dump a few days after being fucked. No pain but slightly itchy. I've had some Chlamydia infections too, but didn't know, there were no symptoms.
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http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/gay-and-lesbian-well-being/201406/condomless-sex-and-gay-men?tr=MostViewedhttp://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/gay-and-lesbian-well-being/201406/condomless-sex-and-gay-men?tr=MostViewed Some extracts below, but read the whole article. "These men have been called derisively, Truvada whores; however, a number of gay men have taken the sting out of this term by defiantly self-identifying in this way, embracing and even emblazoning the moniker on t-shirts." "Thus, the decision to use condoms is also a decision to prioritize safety at the cost of sexual satisfaction. Promoting “safe” sex will always be limited whereby, currently and throughout history, hot sex has always been dangerous in some way. Thus, “safety” isn’t sexy and can, in fact, be a libido killer." "Further, it must be recognized that gay men have consistently been told their sexuality is wrong—so they are accustomed to finding ways to ignore messages that simply do not take into account their desires, attractions, and pleasures." "So, back to the issue of Truvada whores…The promotion of the use of prophylactic HIV medications offers an important option for gay men—a way to protect themselves that does not diminish sexual pleasure and takes into account their desires. If we fail to understand issues of pleasure and desire, our HIV prevention efforts will continued to be stymied by our own Puritanism." -
A jock strap shows your ass not your cock so a it's a clue the jock wearer is a bottom, especially if it's an Andrew Christian type stylish jock (open back brief) rather than a sports jock which I would say was more likely to be a top. It's just my view though. You could try both a few times and see which averaged out more effective! Don't sweat it though, just enjoy whatever you do, young man. With an sizzling hot ass like yours I'm sure you'll turn a few bottoms as well as tops. More cum for you
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Is Bareback sex a sign of Porn addiction or being Gay?
slowfuck replied to a topic in General Discussion
Ok, amateur psychology from some bloke you never met on the internet alert Is this possibly a need to thrill-seek to compensate for a dull and boring life? Or is this a need to satisfy a desire to be a receptive partner rather than to be the penetrative one you had to be with your wife? Have you tried your wife wearing strap-on dildos and fucking you? We're men and tend to be wired for promiscuous sexual play so you could be attracted to the fact that men can be sleazy fuckers and give you the excitement and thrills you lack elsewhere? Aside from the fact that your wife is presumably unable to satisfy your urge for loads of hot cum I feel Gay tends to be more of a handy mnemonic for a way of being, a lifestyle shorthand, though quite broad brush with it. Does it matter that much? Gay, Bi, Straight? Can you be a straight bloke who likes to take cum up the ass? Probably though it screws with the stereotype. I reckon you may be best defining who you are comfortable being rather than seeing which label most closely fits what you like to do. If you can reconcile having a comfortable honest life with your dear wife, and enjoy whoring your ass as well, then all power to you. There are far worse things in this world... -
It seems to me that there is a lot of violence towards the extremes of sexual play, but it's not restricted to gay play by any means. I guess that often we get turned on by pretending to be who we're not in our public lives. For example a top company executive getting off on being a sub slave for the duration of play for example, and to some extent maybe the received homophobia we soak up from our early experience can come out in play acting too. Fuck the filthy slut, abuse the faggot and all the other demeaning and abusive themes seem to derive from that strand. I suspect it is empowering to act out and take ownership in one's own way? Personally the heavier side to this turns me off somewhat, but then I tend to look for affection and approval so I guess it would
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Young man, you are clearly scared and in my opinion in no position to allow yourself to be fucked without a condom. It would seem that the younger generation get precious little sensible sex education to know the facts and be confident about sex. Actually very few people in general know much about STIs and HIV beyond what a mate told them or they read in some newspaper. I recommend you keep having a cummy hole as a fantasy - for now at least - and first learn all you can about STIs and HIV until you are at peace with your desires and know exactly what you're doing. Sadly you can't trust anyone 100% as they themselves may not know what their status is, and certainly can't trust anyone you chatted to on the internet. That's not to say everyone is diseased by any means, just that in practical terms no one can be certain of their HIV and STI status. Even if you decide to fuck with condoms, do keep checking that the top has not taken it off without you realising. Be good. It's a jungle out there!
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Monogamous relationships tend to work where the guys' interests don't revolve around sex, and are focussed on work and home and sports and hobbies of various types so I very much doubt you'd find them easily via any of the online dating websites where it almost seems a long term relationship is seeing a guy for all of two hours and asking him his first name, maybe There are guys on Gaydar and Manhunt and Squirt looking for LTRs but few and far between in my experience. It's why, Gordon, I think the best chance of meeting someone for an LTR is joining some of the social groups that abound and hopefully meeting someone in the old fashioned way there. Take a look at outeverywhere.com and thegayguide.org.uk in the UK for ideas. Good luck.
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Personally seeing you in one at a bathhouse I would imagine you were 'owned' and therefore off limits, unlike a jock strap.
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I'm sure you didn't mean that last bit to read as it came across. We all have 'standards'. Yours are just different to those of many others, as are mine and so on. It's is very difficult to find long term relationships with the 'online shopping' nature of the main hookup sites. I would say the only ways to bag an LTR with a guy who fucks raw is to join social groups and find a good LTR candidate there and explore his attitudes to sex if you get on, or ask on the usual hookup sites for what you want - explicitly and clearly - and wait for someone who feels the same as you. Gaydar for sure, but even BBRT as there are guys who decide to look for something more long term on there too. Good luck.
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Number two.
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New boy seeking help with questions for experienced bottoms
slowfuck replied to stk.77's topic in General Discussion
Stk.77, how would you feel if your professor didn't want to fuck you any more? Telling you he won't fuck you if you get fucked elsewhere is certainly controlling. Getting fucked roughly with huge cocks will affect your anus in time. Whether it would show over a summer is debatable. You could say you used a big dildo but seems he'd no be keen because he likes you tight. Professor might be able to guess and do you really want to lie to him? Do you really want him telling you how to live your life? It sounds like you enjoyed the sex with the new guy and want to fuck with him all summer so are not keen on being controlled. There are a world of other tops to try. Controlling, open minded, abusive, affectionate, exciting and boring ones. There's also versatile guys and bottom guys to mix it up a bit. You're young, and can likely have your pick. Maybe try finding a versatile guy to introduce you to topping as well so you understand it from both sides. And maybe find a cute bottom guy or two to practice your top skills with too. Enjoy your summer -
I'm with you there, samshadowxxx. I do wish people would practice their technique on themselves first then they'd know how to do things gently and know how uncomfortable it feels when done badly. I prefer to tongue a hole rather than finger it. The only reason I do it is to reach their prostate to massage it if I'm not into fucking the guy but he wants some ass play beyond rimming. I'll first circle his hole with my well lubed finger and gentle tease it pressing with the fleshy bottom of the finger dragging across to slowly stretch the side open a little, then I'll keep the downward pressure to keep the trimmed nail side from pressing anywhere, slowly see-sawing and soon my finger is inside. Slowly pressing at each side of the ring loosening up then stretching open enough to work a second one in and work it slowly round to get my fingers to his prostate and then gently rub across while working his cock. They usually like it, but once they've cum it's not so easy to ease the fingers out again once they clam up apart from extremely slowly. So yes, I reckon it's best overall to stick to dildoes and tongues and stiff cocks if possible.
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I feel for you. There are some very knowledgeable guys on here who will hopefully be along soon. I think you need to chat privately with one of them to discuss which country you are in and how to access help there. Hang in there.
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Top what do you like to hear when fucking a bottom
slowfuck replied to a topic in General Discussion
Any hint of porn talk or commands from the bottom turns me right off. I need to know he is really enjoying it as much as me so authentic moaning because you can't help it rather than play acting for me. But we all have different needs so best to have the conversation with each top. -
XTube link collection - breeding videos
slowfuck replied to bbfan74's topic in Bareback Porn Discussion
Nice pullout, big cum shot on the hole and straight back in at 2 mins, just as the song lyrics 'do me more time' are heard. Such a laugh. -
Leaving aside those ignorant folk who think you mean you're HIV and Prep is the latest medication for it, I guess it's like when women said they were on the contraceptive pill when it first came out. 'They must be sluts' was the view. There are still people with that moral view and telling them is akin to flaunting your sluttiness, and you reap the whirlwind of their indignation. I think just keep it to yourselves and know you can relax a little, STIs aside. My view is they don't need to know.
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I wouldn't continue with a dildo myself, I feel it's too rigid and is probably bruising your throat somewhat. As has been said, deep throating will leave you with a slightly sore feeling throat anyway so hopefully all will recover ok. I spray my throat with Eludril throat spray - chlorhexidine antibacterial anaesthetic spray - a little while before seeing someone where I'm likely to deep throat and the anaesthetic stops the gag reflex. I use it because I use it for its proper purpose too Maybe thats a thing to try rather than a dildo. Take care, buddy.
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I have seen Eric's videos on the Treasure Island Media site under the Porn Stash section - Eric's Raw Fuck Tapes #1 - #5. They were directed by Eric Paris and Produced by Paul Morris (of TIM). Seems to have started with Raw Underground Paris in 2010 and continued to the end of 2012 as the series #1 to #5. I guess Eric Videos took off during that time. My assumption would be that the US stuff was done then, but Eric is still producing in Paris. Just my understanding, I have no connection or proven knowledge.
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Hello. Sorry my mailbox was full, I have cleared some old messages to make space
You certainly have a sweet pussy, that would be a pleasure to slide in and for us to both enjoy a long fuck, before filling your pussy with my love juice deep inside :-p Enjoy the thought -
Yes, Kazore, I tend to agree that some porn to get one in the mood is fine, but over-indulgence can lead to becoming more turned on by being voyeuristic and addicted to the cumshot compilations, and unwilling - possibly unable - to relate with and build sexual excitement slowly with a sex partner in real life.
You certainly have a sweet pussy, that would be a pleasure to slide in and for us to both enjoy a long fuck, before filling your pussy with my love juice deep inside :-p Enjoy the thought 