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Boy-oh-boy, just looked at your pictures. I'm not surprised you were so popular and I can imagine the buzz you caused in there. Cute guy, let alone your oh-so-sexy ass. Slurp!
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Only known one break in a good many years and I think the guys' finger nail nicked putting it on it so it was weakened. Used properly and if the guy getting fucked doesn't clamp his hole down tight on it and the fucking isn't long and rough, they are pretty reliable in my experience. I'd say get a condom the right size too so it doesn't stretch too tight and risk bursting. My thoughts anyway.
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This 'shit in a hole' making it easier is down to the crouching down which doubles your body and aligns everything inside to make it easy. In the absence of a hole to shit in, if I sit on the toilet bowl and lean forward so my body meets my legs it will have similar effect when it's a bit of a difficult one...! -
Dare I say "horses for courses"...? :-) I think it's about giving up control over what happens which is quite liberating when your whole life is controlled and predictable. If you don't know what's going to happen your senses get more acute and your mind works overtime not just from touch but from what you hear. As has been said, frightning and exhilarating at one and the same time. It's basically a darkroom but only from the bottom's point of view. Lucky tops get to choose who to ride!
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Yes, I agree with and can't really improve on the haemorrhoid advice as that's what it looks like to me as well. It will take time to heal so leave it alone apart from haemorrhoid cream. A haemorrhoid is nothing to get stressed or embarrassed about, people usually get them from straining to pass hard lumps of faeces when going to the toilet. Eat plenty of fruit and vegetable for fibre and drink plenty so your shit is softer. Take care.
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How about taking a picture of it with your phone camera and post it here? That would help I guess?
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ASIANS being barebacked (X Tube link collection)
slowfuck replied to bbfan74's topic in Bareback Porn Discussion
Nice smooth asian bottom fucked with a lovely long cock. Impressive cumload on his ass before begging for the tops cock to be put back in. "Asian Butt Plowed Bareback by Bi Uncut 9inch Cock" by 'asianrawfuck'. http://www.xtube.com/watch.php?v=s4s1i-G233- -
By 'dump' I assume you mean 'bump'. We all tend to think the worst when we look things up on the internet. You look up anal wart and make the connection in your mind so you make yourself believe it. It could be an anal wart, or it could be a hemorrhoid from straining, or it could be something else. Just don't try to pop it with a needle any more! I imagine you could let another infection in. I know you feel embarrassed but you should go get it looked at to check. Ask you buddy if he has any symptoms - if it is warts he's likely to have symptoms too, he may help you? I don't know your healthcare systems so can't advise on where you could go that is anonymous.
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Ok, I'll have a go with what I've learned and deduced. I find it's a 'healthy' balanced diet - moderate portions of carbs, fats and proteins that would make a dietician proud, with plenty of fruit and veg for fibre, and with minimal saturated fats, so that's the fried stuff and pies and the processed foods out. It takes 24-48 hours to travel through your body depending on many variables so you have to change your diet a few days before. I find if I pig-out on lots of greasy fried battered fish and fried chips then next day for a couple of days it's more difficult to clean as the shit is too soft and sticky because of the saturated fat being expelled. Your gut will move the food through the gut slowly all the time so you clean out the rectum and in time it fills again. However it tends to move things along more quickly when you eat anything. In one end, pushes out the other end. Hence if you eat a meal after emptying out you will be more likely to find your rectum fills up again very quickly. Eat then give it a couple of hours and then douche out you'll be more likely to stay clean. Who knew being a clean bottom was such a 'fucking' art! ;-)
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It seems we go for the ones we think we deserve. It's not wrong if you want to care for him - you know what you're doing. Hope it works out how you want it to.
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Without knowing what the row was about and who broke off the relationship it is difficult to form view of any certainty but if you ended it and he didn't want it to end, then it sounds as if he's angry and trying to get back at you, and you're missing him. Alternatively, if he ended it, he could be regretting the break-up and hoping that you will open a dialogue up again in a somewhat perverse way, by getting you to care about him, though somehow I suspect the former? Just how it seems to me from what I read. If you did that much gangbanging together then it's not going to be easy to prove if indeed it is conversion and not a bout of flu. I hope it helped to write it all down and post it, and that you find a way for yourself to get through this.
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Should I take his POZ load?
slowfuck replied to 100000489's topic in Making The Decision To Bareback
I agree totally, I would add that to me it is about being ready to accept whatever consequences follow from my actions. Many seem to want find an excuse of some sort to negate their own responsibility for what they did and build up anger at the world for what it (they) did or allowed to happen to them(selves). Not a nice place to be. You say you don't want the bug - then don't do it until you can calmly accept the consequences if you did get it. It's that simple to my mind. I hope that helps? -
I agree. Most places with darkrooms - which in these places and others that have them are more or less totally dark. Guys don't like to be seen barefucking in general, but where no one can see, no one can tell. How very British
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From versatile guys who get pozzed bottoming and pass it on topping.
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If the penis is thick then it will stretch the condom taut and act to rub the membrane raw and make it sore if there is insufficient lubrication. Spit isn't good enough as it doesn't cling the the latex. This is probably why you feel burning for a couple of hours after, not latex intolerance. Stretched taut also increases the risk of bursting. Condoms need to (1) the correct size so they stay on but are not stretched taut so don't burst, and (2) be kept lubricated frequently with a suitable lube so the condom doesn't 'stick' to your hole and rub the hell out of it in an unwelcome way. I think that this hassle is one of many reasons why lots of tops hate condoms. I found the new Skyn condoms feel softer and different and they do a large size which I feels so much better for me whether as a top or bottom. Always flatters the top to say you have a large condom for them - or of course they are welcome to spit and fuck raw if they prefer...!
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On the status issue, there's a risk whatever status they say they are, I think it's just a question of what risk reduction policy you wish to adopt - from none through some form of risk assessment through to condoms. On risk assessment I think it's down whether you trust what the bottom says. If he says he's neg but is always high and in darkrooms or bending over in the woods to take some anonymous loads, he's likely to be in denial and quite likely to be highly infectious for HIV and other STDs. If you meet a curious married guy and seduce him then he's likely to be a low. In the middle, you have the poz undetectables who get tested regularly and take their meds consistently who then will probably be low to no risk. Where the risk with poz undetectables is, I gather, is where they haven't kept up the meds consistently and get high who are greater risk. There's no easy certain answer. It's always risky as I know you know. You need to get good a sizing people up about their honesty and then asking the questions that let you know what kind of risks they've been taking, whatever they say their status is, and taking your chances. On the fucking older guys, you will find plenty who will happily bend over for you, or throw their legs in the air - it just takes us longer to do that the older we get... Good luck!
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Ohhhhh, looks a bit red swollen and angry to me. It might spit at you... and no doubt in you
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einathens, you are right there. Someone needs to make a move. I used to wait, I don't wait now. bboriental, I have no doubt a 20-ish oriental guy in good shape will be in demand as a top or bottom. Enjoy the attention!
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Difficulty cumming in the morning - advice?
slowfuck replied to Darkness's topic in General Discussion
Oh another thing, if I had sex in the morning but needed to urinate, I couldn't cum easily. Pissing, then having sex worked a lot better. I am sure some will suggest working the pissing into the sex play... -
Difficulty cumming in the morning - advice?
slowfuck replied to Darkness's topic in General Discussion
Personally, poppers kills my hard-on immediately! My experience is that I need to be doing something that turns me on and excites me, I need to relax myself and just allow the sensations to build, and I need to allow my mind to go into that fantasy mode to get me to orgasm. I had problems getting an erection that was caused by me trying to stiffen my cock physically by tensing up my groin - but that only stopped the blood flow and made the problem worse. Cocks only work when you let them do what they want to do. Similarly, if I consciously tried to cum then, being in conscious thought, I stopped the mind going to that nirvana that it goes to when I am about to cum and so that didn't work either. Assuming that you still find the sex you have with your boyfriend is exciting you and you are not thinking of it as a duty or a chore, then my guess is that you are consciously thinking too much about cumming - or more particularly thinking too much about not cumming - and that inhibits the autoresponse kicking in that leads to you spurting lots of hot fresh cum wherever your cock is exciting itself, ahem I hope that helps. -
It's need to know basis for me. The only people who need to know are those I have sex with my profiles have the activity 'barebacking' ticked.
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No problems for me.
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heyyyyyyyyyyy I can imagine your wide eyes and big grin. Good for you!
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I wonder if the lure is the same as that thrill many get from watching a thriller movie if they get into it. You wouldn't do it yourself, but it's exciting to watch it happening to others and imagining yourself in that situation, knowing you are able to resume your other life again when the film finishes. You may rationally not want to go there, but that doesn't stop the excitement of the sexual equivalent of extreme sports. The fear of being disapproved of and losing friendships does tend to stop most of us revealing our wildest desires and fantasies. Except here, with the relative anonymity and the likelihood of us actually them too
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Great question - liked how you wove the hot details into the question! It seems the things we shouldn't do are the things we enjoy doing the most. We're not supposed to fuck bare so it become fascinating. We try it. How exciting is it to fuck bare? Fucking amazing because it feels so good. It's that dangerous sports effect. Excitement living on the edge. You can occasionally catch something from BB like chlamydia or gonorrhea, as well as HIV etc. But as I've said elsewhere, the risk of catching something is variable depending on who you're fucking with and what risks they tend to take as much as your level of risk-taking. You HAVE to be comfortable with accepting personal responsiblity for whatever consequences come with your free choices. The alternative is paranoia. I know what I prefer. I think the home test HIV kits are a mouth swab you send away to a lab so that wouldn't work - and even if it did work instantly, you'd only know he wasn't HIV poz up to a month ago but because of the latency between infection and showing in tests, he could be HIV+ now. And it would also be a bit of a passion killer! You can keep it as a hot fantasy source - and live vicariously through the stories of others. The condom problem is down to you interrupting play both physically and mentally to stop and try to quickly and successfully roll on a tight condom and fumbling over it, feeling silly and then you've lost it. Embarrassment is not a hot feeling. If you get the bottom to roll a large-size non-latex condom like Skyn condoms on your cock as part of his foreplay then he can combine it into the play and you can get on with the fucking - he might even roll it on with his lips and if he's extra naughty, bite the teat a little to give you that extra level of sensation... but I fantasize