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  1. polyglutton
    This is so well expressed. I agree 100%. I wish there were more of these. In my ideal world, it would be a public service venue, like a library or a post office: it would be a fulcrum of society.
  2. polyglutton
    Most of these are here as a safe place to explore their fantasy for a deeply stigmatised and broadly derided fetish, and adding explanatory disclaimers kills the buzz.
  3. polyglutton
    You're conflating strict heterosexuality with bisexuality. In social species, homosexuality greatly contributes to survival through prosocial mechanisms.
  4. polyglutton
    I believe it is. The scientific data and historical sources portray a majority of humans as bisexual.
  5. polyglutton
    While it ultimately matters how the top is doing the action way more than the size does, I have only been hurt by a few smaller-than-average guys, but have never had lasting pain from hung guys. I think it's because a longer dick will fit in parallel to the angle of the rectum, but a shorter dick can end up hitting against the rectum walls at an acute angle if the top is not lined up right.
  6. polyglutton
    Something veruly similar happened to me and it really disturbed me. I'm not even into younger guys but he was pretty assertive and I was so horny. I did not meet or send a face pic, but he messaged me from multiple accounts over 6 months and I turned him down every time. At the very end I got messages like the ones you got with "his mom" making accusations. I don't know if it's some elaborate blackmail scam or some networked, concerted effort on the part of far right attacks on gay people. I deleted my profile and now do not send face pics anymore. I live in a small town, but when I visit cities, I'll feel safer to show my face away from these creepy people. On a sort of related note, I am trying to deal with a stalker on grindr who seems to be using some software hack that makes his profile impossible to block. I can block anyone else, but his never goes away. I just made a new account but in a small town I think he'll figure it out soon. Sucks bc grindr is the only gay outlet I have 😕.
  7. polyglutton
    How wonderful is this.
  8. polyglutton
    Pre-lube with vaseline?
  9. polyglutton
    Thank you for your continual efforts to make this a safe place
  10. polyglutton
    Hot story. Just FYI one of the myriad and biggest of the rules they must follow at all times is no never be away from their missionary companions. He probably got in trouble later for going unaccounted?
  11. polyglutton
    The IRL scenario you are referring referring to in which one gay or queer man would approach another is specific, usually in a place and time where this sort of interaction could be expected. However a phone is pretty much totally decontextualised; the recipient could be anywhere, doing or feeling anything. It's not natural, normal, or reasonable to expect random strangers to always respond, and always respond in real time, or even respond in a way that we want. We have no idea what they're dealing with. Take this as sign that you need to expand your creative imagination and your emotional generosity. Laugh, shrug, nod, or whatever helps. but don't judge others by your own experiences, because to treat these aa universal is missing out on an important lesson about life.
  12. polyglutton
    Good news, a week after my second dose (intradermal this time) I only felt bad for a week instead of two, and the swelling at the injection site is already going down. Huzzah.
  13. polyglutton
    I think you make a great point here. The vast majority of under 50 year olds haven't really experienced bathhouses and never learnt this etiquette. I feel super lucky to have lived near Steamworks for a few years in the age of PrEP.
  14. polyglutton
    For me there is a distinction between a preemptive or post conversation block vs. a real-time block. To me a real-time block i.e. mid contact/chat is inhumane. However a block before, or some time after contact, is really doing both people a favour. It opens up the grid for both users to have better chances of finding compatibility with someone better suited. But I agree that blocking someone because they did not respond right away is weak and short-sided. The other person could be up to anything, and to make their lack of immediate response about you is juvenile. I like to give people a few days before I decide they aren't going to respond. And that still isn't a reason to block if I'm interested in them.
  15. polyglutton
    Giving a gift or compliment should be done freely without any expectation of anything in return, otherwise it's an obligation and no longer a gift. If saying thank you were an obligation, then genuine gratitude in the words thank you would have no meaning. Making assumptions about why the other person didn't respond is unkind. You don't know what they're dealing with or anything else. Ultimately it's creepy to project expectations. Our personal experience and values are not universal, we do well to always keep that in mind with every person we encounter, both in person or online.
  16. polyglutton
    It depends on: 1. If am I already busy talking to or doing something else, I won't respond in real time. Some people will draw conclusions or even block if they don't get a response within a short period. Their loss. I insist on being a human, not at the beck and call of all notifications on my phone. 2. Since I live in a small town and grindr is also used as the only "community" resource, I try not to reduce every interaction to that of a potential hookup. This means I will sometimes respond to people in a friendly non-sexual way, being clear about it when it comes up. 3. If someone I'm not attracted to contacts me, I might respond and I might not. It depends on my mood (can I handle someone being rude?). I don't think being "nice" is overrated and even hurtful (a lot of what is nice or saving face is actually unnecessarily dishonest and misleading). Kind is better, and in my book, kindness means being honest and direct, but respectful and considerate. 4. I don't owe anyone a response and this doesn't make me a bad person, it just means I have boundaries.
  17. polyglutton
    I would wish to selectively tune in to the thoughts and feelings of others, in a non-creepy way. To be able to get an assessment of a person's character and desires right up front would work wonders for my trust and attachment issues.
  18. polyglutton
    Here's my experience with the vaccine: got my first shot on 22 July, and felt ill for 11 days after. Headaches, foggy or slow brain, general fatigue. No rash then, and although the injection site was hard and a bit swollen, it was only a 1 on a 1-10 scale of itchiness. However by 6 August, I developed an itchy rash on my forearms. It was itchiest on the left forearm (but no lesions developed). My right forearm was less itchy BUT I developed three small lesions, that look like the ones in the pictures I've seen, thankfully smaller than the average ones depicted. It took a week for the lesions to go down, I'd say the itchiness was a 4 out of 10. No scarring, but I find the mini-lesions as a part of my immune response unusual compared to what I've heard explained in expected side-effects. I am isolating and have no mpox exposure
  19. polyglutton
    I would like to be able to "like" more than 3 posts/responses per 24 hours. I don't post much myself, mostly just enjoy reading what others write as inspiration for my nightly wanks.
  20. polyglutton
    I got my vaccination a week ago and my immune response is still ongoing one week in. Low energy, headaches, and the injection site is still sore. I feel really lucky to get the vaccine, but I am surprised at how long the effects have been for me. It makes me wonder if I would have had a really bad case had I actually been infected. I appreciate being able to read the experiences of others here.
  21. polyglutton
    I started dating someone special a few months ago, and he tested positive a few days ago. He'd been away for a month and luckily his symptoms appeared before coming back to see me. Poor guy. I wonder how long it will be before he's no longer contagious? And will he develop immunity now or could he get reinfected? It's certainly been a rollercoaster week for us. I was so looking forward to seeing him.
  22. polyglutton
    Super hot story, and really well-written! Please keep going. I know this story will be a classic I keep returning to.
  23. polyglutton
    Cum or silicone, I don't like the rest
  24. polyglutton
    The pursuit of novelty has been a major driver of modern human evolution. With that said, not everyone prefers novelty to regular partners. Often the sex will improve and even become more adventurous over time with the familiarity and safety.
  25. polyglutton
    I want to thank everyone who took the time to give thoughts and advice. I have resisted meeting him so far. He was really persistent for about 5 days but in the last few he hasn't messaged me which has felt like a relief. It's been very intense for me, with the fear and confusion about how legal, ethical, or safe it would be. Very much out of my comfort zone. On top of this I now understand that the only reason I was open to this is because how sex-starved I am with from the isolation. It's sobering how vulnerable to this proposition I've found myself. I spent the last session with my therapist discussing it and she was really supportive and didn't think it would be wrong or legally ambiguous, but then again she's not a lawyer. I think I'll get a legal opinion for piece of mind even if I never actually meet him. At least would get an answer. The guy doesn't have any ID to show me (no driver's learning permit or license), only a high school ID which has no age on it, only the school year-grade. As all of this is new to me, since I've always avoided guys near the age if consent, it's so weird that there is so much ambiguity of legality where the age of consent is below 18. I should just block him and the sooner I forget it, the better.

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