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I went to High School in Manhattan and we were permitted to leave for lunch our senior year. Once or twice a week I would go to an ABS a few blocks away and stick my cock through one of the glory holes to get off. I usually got sucked off but sometimes whomever was on the other side would back their ass onto my cock. I let it happen without a condom every time. This was my first experience fucking raw with total strangers. I probably bred about 20 bottoms at lunch in high school. I've never told anyone this.

I'm a senior level director and what you describe is legally a hostile work environment (federal). May or may be sexual harassment, depending on state. Your employer has an obligation stop the situation 1) if it is observable to management; or 2) if you report the situation. If your employer fails to take action (based on either scenario), it's legally actionable but make sure your evidence is solid. (For example, follow-up via e-mail after you report your concern, if you decide to do so.) Based on the details you shared, it sounds like your employer is part of the problem. What you describe is extreme, must be known to management and I've fired people for far less. I sounds like they tolerate this behavior (in violation of federal law) and will not fix the problem. Your best outcome may be finding a better employer. If you take that route, make sure to complain formally before resigning to preserve your legal rights. Do this when you're relatively far along in the interview process and if your current employer is stupid enough to fire you or take some other retaliatory job action, then you'll have a cash money $$$ legal case after you're happily at your new job. Most important - don't suffer in silence. Do something you are comfortable with to resolve the situation. Feel free to private message me and I can send you links to relevant legal reference material.

BB is the norm in forward-looking cities where PrEP is readily available and encouraged. Other places.... They fuck BB too but with more shame and more effort on my end.... Had this experience this past week while traveling for work. Hot guy fucked me raw then, after he was dressed, asked if I was on PrEP/Negative. A question I have is during say the late 80s to 2010ish, were condoms used a diligently as all would like to remember? Or did people just not admit they fucked bare.? I've always wondered this since PrEP was generally available from the time I was in my early 20s - granted not as common then.

Routinely taking the high road when bottoming in a group setting. When pushy bottom comes along and steals the top, I just let it happen and assume they need it more than me.

For years, a close friend and I were pig travel buddies. We'd regularly go on vacation and pig out together. Sadly, he's settled down with a guy and can no longer join me for sex vacations. So, the reason for my post is 1) I'm curious if other guys have similar arrangements and 2) I'm hoping that someone on this forum may be interested in establishing a friendship of this nature. Ideally I'm looking for someone who can be normal when appropriate (dinner, bars, enjoying a city, etc.) but then lets his inner pig loose at the appropriate moment. We can fuck each other or not but must be open to playing with others together. Strong preference for a top or vers guy so we're not competing for cock constantly. We'll also both pay our own way but fine to split costs like hotels and meals. I'm based in California. Your home city is not an important factor but US guy preferred for ease of coordinating travel. So if this sounds appealing, contact me. Otherwise just share your piggy stories.

I travel a lot so getting fucked or fucking guys who don't speak english is a fairly regular occurrence. I do find it hot but the novelty has worn off. Generally I see more of a downside to not speaking the local language because it's very challenging to hookup at off-peak hours when bars or saunas aren't busy. I recently had this experience in Sao Palo. Even with my diligent effort to Google translate Grindr messages and responses, I couldn't keep up or get the slang right and guys clearly just gave up on me. I did recently have a very hot experience with a friend. We've known each other for years but never played. I was at a sex party in LA (neither of us live there) and there he is so, one thing led to another, and his cock was in my ass. Right as he was about to blow his load, he began whispering to me in Serbian which was super hot because I had no idea that he even spoke another language. Apparently his parent emigrated from Serbia (I didn't know that) and while he was born in the US, his family spoke (and still speaks) Serbian at home. After we were done, we walked out together and he told me that only happens during really hot fucks where he loses himself in the moment.

Banking - which works out very nicely. I get to sample hot guys all over the world while traveling for business. p.s. Thanks for the topic. It's nice the read that fellow pigs are sprinkled across all aspects of life.

Filming should always be pre-negotiated. It's unreasonable to expect you have the right to film your encounter without consent (and illegal in some places). While you may not care if there is a video of you fucking on the web, it could be devastating to lives or high profiles careers. Otherwise everything in this thread seems either incredibly obvious or indicative of a high maintenance bottom or top. Do others really have so much trouble?

I've always struggled to understand the economics of places such as the ones listed. Simply put, the real estate occupied by these venues can likely always generate far more revenue with really any other successful business. Factors working against success include (not al apply to each business): 1. Real Estate that is in use just a very small percent of the time 2.Multi-shift staffing (if not 24x7) with extended slow time periods. 3. Relatively low cost of entry which results in limited revenue even during well attended periods. 4. Booming city centers resulting increased occupancy and operating costs. (magnified in situations where neighborhood has gentrified) 5. Limited customer base. Gays are a small percentage of the population and only a small percentage of gays actually attend these venues regularly. 6. Competition from far more efficient (and free) methods of finding sex. (Hi Grindr) 7. Mainstreaming and broader acceptance of the gay family unit I don't think there are any politics at play. Just pure economics.

Stupid Question. Yes. Does a true human born before 1995 use the internet? That's an equivalent question. Not embracing societal advances is just dumb. PrEP allows a lot of cumdumps to act on their desires.

The layout changed and it's a little awkward. It's also a lot brighter.

Any places with good steady action? Nob Hill Theatre closed. Folsom Gulch has been renovated (if you can call it that) and the new setup is poor. I'm not a fan of Blow Buddies. Anything else I should check out with reliable traffic to get and give loads.

Geolocation is a necessary evil. I love the products it makes possible but hate all of the privacy concerns it creates. I have all of my browsers set not to share geolocation without my permission and I typically do not allow most sites to see my location, unless there is explicit benefit to me. Where there is benefit to me, I share my geolocation but I'm still creeped out about it because I assume it will be stored forevermore (not to mention the record of everyplace I go). I think a very reasonable privacy control you could implement is purging user location data within a reasonably short period of time.

I went on one of these cruises in the mediterranean a few years ago. The boat held ~2800 guys so you had the full spectrum of gay men. The dick dock is a real thing (unofficial). Almost all cruise ships have a small sundeck for nude bathing and this is the dick dock as it's the only place on the boat with no cameras. Although I don't think it would have been a "problem" if you did hookup on camera - crew looked the other way on everything. I talked to crew members along the way and they love the gay cruises - better tips, more fun and much more laid back. Hookups were plentiful too. In addition to all the groups of friends, you have couples ready to let loose. Add in a lot of booze and you can pretty much play whenever you'd like. Grindr still works on WiFi at sea so you had a lot of guys just post their room number and desires.

I'd rather pre-mature ejaculation in me than a top who jerked off earlier and can't get hard. If I' taking loads, it's about the cum and you can blow in me as fast as you'd like.

Any trouble with police? That's a big issue with parks in the US.

I will take any size cock. Size matters but confidence and experience matter more. First, for me, there is a sweet spot. 7" is the perfect size cock. It's big enough that you will enjoy, even if the operator isn't so skilled but not so big that you'll be dying if the top doesn't know what he's doing. As the cock moves to the larger side, it becomes important that the top is patient and in tune to the bottom. It just takes 30 seconds for my hole to open up for a very large cock but if the top isn't responsive to my queues, it will take me much longer to get comfortable. The largest cocks I've taken have been around 10" and, when attached to a skilled top, it's very satisfying to feel him very deep inside me. As cock size scales down in the other direction, it becomes increasingly important that the top knows how to fuck. He should find the angle that feels good for him but allows him to sustain penetration. Generally this will involve medium paced short but deep strokes. The mistake that smaller guys sometimes make is what I think of as "the jabber" - this is when the guy continuously pulls out and plunges back in a rapid pace, often at a poor angel that doesn't allow much more than his cock head to enter my hole, not really achieving full penetration. Don't do that! Also, I never ask tops about their cock size but find that smaller guys often "volunteer" cock size that is several inches larger and accompanied by an odd angle cock picture that creates the appearance of a larger dick. My advice would be to avoid this practice. You're going to have to take your pants off when you arrive so why create an uncomfortable situation on both sides? In my view this is no different than when a guy shows up and looks nothing like his face pics, is 15 years older than stated, etc. etc. Also cut vs. uncut - either is fine with me but know how to use it. If you're uncut, slide right in with no lube - anatomy will take care of it. If you're cut, make sure there's lubrication - whether it's spit, from a bottle or the cum that's already in my hole. I'll also take a moment to debunk a myth that larger tops struggle to get and stay hard. I haven't found this to be case. This is where bottoms need a little patience. It takes a lot of blood flow to inflate that monster so give the top a minute and don't make him self conscious about it.

The devil is in the details. A short pull in communicates a bunch of good things "I really want your load" "feels good" "I can take it, have at it" etc. Hanging on for dear life makes you seem like an annoying greedy bottom. More generally, communication is key in sex. Typically a partner who is good at sex will respond to subtle verbal and non verbal queues. If you want something different (as top or bottom), communicate when you want somehow and you will most likely get it.

For those times when I need to be clean for multiple hours of taking loads ?... 1. Food: Healthy clean eating starting two days before as other pointed out. Since I typically eat pretty heathy, this is easy. Day of play, eat nothing or small bland meal like plain oatmeal. 2. Double Cleaning: Ironically, preparing twice saves me time and is most effective. Let's say I plan on be a whore in the evening... I will clean out pretty quickly in the morning (or night before if it's morning fun I have in mind). Since I know I'm going to have to freshen up, perfection is not the goal. Then at the appropriate prep time, anything lingering has moved further along and is pretty easy to get out.

Happens to me a fair amount, particularly when I'm taking a big dick. attached to a skilled user. All tops seem to like it. I've also given many bottoms an anal orgasm and have had the "oh so proud" feeling myself. I was aggravated one time because the bottom couldn't keep going.

Has anyone had success with Doublelist? It looks / feels very similar to the former craigslist personals and a friend told me he's been able to get some cock from his post there. I looked for my area and, while there were some posts, there were not as many as there used to be on craigslist. I'm wondering if this site is new and just catching on or a dud.

I went in with high expectations and left disappointed. I went at what I thought should be primetime, late evening on the weekend; It was near empty. However, the Eurovision finale (very popular) was earlier that evening so it could have been an off night. Now, Lab.oratory on a Thursday night, while not technically a bathhouse, was piggy heaven.

Pass. I don't like it. Why complicate something that works.

I don't know if I was 10 or 11. I was an early bloomer; I had chest hair, hairy legs and sad teenager mustache in 6th grade. At first I was teased but then when everyone else started figure out about ejaculation was, and I was like, oh I've been able to do that for 2 years, suddenly people were very interested.

I don't find it hard at all. Strategy is required though. If you want to get bred at a prime time for socialization , you'll be disappointed. Wednesday or Thursday evening, cock central, to highlight one example. Think about times that guys will be sitting on the couch debating between Netflix or sex.