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Geolocation is a necessary evil. I love the products it makes possible but hate all of the privacy concerns it creates. I have all of my browsers set not to share geolocation without my permission and I typically do not allow most sites to see my location, unless there is explicit benefit to me. Where there is benefit to me, I share my geolocation but I'm still creeped out about it because I assume it will be stored forevermore (not to mention the record of everyplace I go). I think a very reasonable privacy control you could implement is purging user location data within a reasonably short period of time.

I went on one of these cruises in the mediterranean a few years ago. The boat held ~2800 guys so you had the full spectrum of gay men. The dick dock is a real thing (unofficial). Almost all cruise ships have a small sundeck for nude bathing and this is the dick dock as it's the only place on the boat with no cameras. Although I don't think it would have been a "problem" if you did hookup on camera - crew looked the other way on everything. I talked to crew members along the way and they love the gay cruises - better tips, more fun and much more laid back. Hookups were plentiful too. In addition to all the groups of friends, you have couples ready to let loose. Add in a lot of booze and you can pretty much play whenever you'd like. Grindr still works on WiFi at sea so you had a lot of guys just post their room number and desires.

I'd rather pre-mature ejaculation in me than a top who jerked off earlier and can't get hard. If I' taking loads, it's about the cum and you can blow in me as fast as you'd like.

Any trouble with police? That's a big issue with parks in the US.

I will take any size cock. Size matters but confidence and experience matter more. First, for me, there is a sweet spot. 7" is the perfect size cock. It's big enough that you will enjoy, even if the operator isn't so skilled but not so big that you'll be dying if the top doesn't know what he's doing. As the cock moves to the larger side, it becomes important that the top is patient and in tune to the bottom. It just takes 30 seconds for my hole to open up for a very large cock but if the top isn't responsive to my queues, it will take me much longer to get comfortable. The largest cocks I've taken have been around 10" and, when attached to a skilled top, it's very satisfying to feel him very deep inside me. As cock size scales down in the other direction, it becomes increasingly important that the top knows how to fuck. He should find the angle that feels good for him but allows him to sustain penetration. Generally this will involve medium paced short but deep strokes. The mistake that smaller guys sometimes make is what I think of as "the jabber" - this is when the guy continuously pulls out and plunges back in a rapid pace, often at a poor angel that doesn't allow much more than his cock head to enter my hole, not really achieving full penetration. Don't do that! Also, I never ask tops about their cock size but find that smaller guys often "volunteer" cock size that is several inches larger and accompanied by an odd angle cock picture that creates the appearance of a larger dick. My advice would be to avoid this practice. You're going to have to take your pants off when you arrive so why create an uncomfortable situation on both sides? In my view this is no different than when a guy shows up and looks nothing like his face pics, is 15 years older than stated, etc. etc. Also cut vs. uncut - either is fine with me but know how to use it. If you're uncut, slide right in with no lube - anatomy will take care of it. If you're cut, make sure there's lubrication - whether it's spit, from a bottle or the cum that's already in my hole. I'll also take a moment to debunk a myth that larger tops struggle to get and stay hard. I haven't found this to be case. This is where bottoms need a little patience. It takes a lot of blood flow to inflate that monster so give the top a minute and don't make him self conscious about it.

The devil is in the details. A short pull in communicates a bunch of good things "I really want your load" "feels good" "I can take it, have at it" etc. Hanging on for dear life makes you seem like an annoying greedy bottom. More generally, communication is key in sex. Typically a partner who is good at sex will respond to subtle verbal and non verbal queues. If you want something different (as top or bottom), communicate when you want somehow and you will most likely get it.

For those times when I need to be clean for multiple hours of taking loads ?... 1. Food: Healthy clean eating starting two days before as other pointed out. Since I typically eat pretty heathy, this is easy. Day of play, eat nothing or small bland meal like plain oatmeal. 2. Double Cleaning: Ironically, preparing twice saves me time and is most effective. Let's say I plan on be a whore in the evening... I will clean out pretty quickly in the morning (or night before if it's morning fun I have in mind). Since I know I'm going to have to freshen up, perfection is not the goal. Then at the appropriate prep time, anything lingering has moved further along and is pretty easy to get out.

Happens to me a fair amount, particularly when I'm taking a big dick. attached to a skilled user. All tops seem to like it. I've also given many bottoms an anal orgasm and have had the "oh so proud" feeling myself. I was aggravated one time because the bottom couldn't keep going.

Has anyone had success with Doublelist? It looks / feels very similar to the former craigslist personals and a friend told me he's been able to get some cock from his post there. I looked for my area and, while there were some posts, there were not as many as there used to be on craigslist. I'm wondering if this site is new and just catching on or a dud.

I went in with high expectations and left disappointed. I went at what I thought should be primetime, late evening on the weekend; It was near empty. However, the Eurovision finale (very popular) was earlier that evening so it could have been an off night. Now, Lab.oratory on a Thursday night, while not technically a bathhouse, was piggy heaven.

Pass. I don't like it. Why complicate something that works.

I don't know if I was 10 or 11. I was an early bloomer; I had chest hair, hairy legs and sad teenager mustache in 6th grade. At first I was teased but then when everyone else started figure out about ejaculation was, and I was like, oh I've been able to do that for 2 years, suddenly people were very interested.

I don't find it hard at all. Strategy is required though. If you want to get bred at a prime time for socialization , you'll be disappointed. Wednesday or Thursday evening, cock central, to highlight one example. Think about times that guys will be sitting on the couch debating between Netflix or sex.

Here's my advice as a frequent PS visitor. Stay at a proper hotel and buy a day or night pass for the clothing optional resorts. All the benefit of staying but the luxury of returning to humanity with a nice pool and room service once you're sexed out. airbnb or vrvo are also good options in PS.

Interested in this topic. Does advice change for someone who does not speak the local language? Are there certain asian cities that are English "friendly" for sex. (I have the business perspective. )

I find guys cruising in the gym locker room super annoying. It's about the least optimal place for sex. Always busy with customers and staff. And, let's be courteous to our straight friends. They don't want to be uncomfortable in the locker room because some awkward guy without a hookup app is ogling int the shower area. Take your peek at the hot guy and move on.

I have a very high sex drive and typically cum multiple times per day. Shooting a quick load in the shower is part of the morning routine (if nobody is in my bed). I typically shoot another load in the evening either solo or with /in someone. This is the big, enjoyable load of the day whereas the morning load is release to get me through the day. Probably 1-2 times per week I get horny at work and can't focus. In these cases, I just got to the rest room and stand at the urinal and shoot a really quick load. Before I do this, I'll spend 1-2 minutes on grindr to see if there's a bottom option in a hotel near the office.

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I expect a load in my ass if I'm getting fucked. I like it when a guy "asks" in a dirty talk kind of way but we both know he's not pulling out. I'm slightly turned off by a genuine question. It feels like the Grindr endless chat has moved to the bedroom. However, typically after my affirmative response, I very quickly feel the slow down and throbbing that's a clear indicator of a load in my ass , which completely eliminates my aggravation. I do get very annoyed if a guy fucks me and pulls out to cum but remain polite. As a top, I do not pull out.

Age 15-19: Always safe, every time. Age 20-22: Inconsistent as top Age 23-27: Actively seeking BB as top but would still wrap when other guy insisted. Occasionally bottom bare. Age 28-30: Only BB when top, inconsistent as bottom 31+: BB Only Interestingly, I've been reverse stealthed when bottoming a few times in the last 1-2 years. Reached back, felt bare cock, certain there was a "just the tip" moment, then, halfway through fuck realize there's a condom. Since this has been at parties, I've ended the encounter at that point.

Hi Boston: Please provide suggestions for a convenient hotel to take loads. (private message or post) I was educated in Boston so very familiar with all areas inside the 128 corridor. I'm looking for a nice hotel that does not have key card access controls. Cambridge or Boston proper preferred but would stay farther out if there is a hotel that attracts more guys. Thanks

Can anyone suggest a nicer hotel (traveling for business) in Piccadilly that does not call for a key. Preferably a US branded hotel so I don't have to fight with corporate travel agents! Fine if its a short ways off too. Also, I'll be spending a few days of personal time in London. What's the best area/hotel overall. Again, not looking for low end.

I don't like my current MD. Too much judgement as I'm simply honest to keep myself healthy. Anyone have a recommendation in SF? Possibly even a MD who is a BB pig. Probably best to private message me rather than post here.

Anyone been? What's the scene like? Do the women take raw cock and loads? I'm 95% gay but occasionally get a hankering to fuck a women raw.

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