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  1. I was going to suggest this one, but wasn’t able to describe it. First time a guy did this to me was WOW!
  2. Oh, maybe while you’re doing the changes in position, try using the rest of your body to keep the top interested. You’re a hole in the dark, the same as any other hole in the dark. If you just stand there and wait, what’s the point in a hole that’s hard to get into, over one that isn’t? But if you use your hands to gently rub the top’s thighs, up to his stomach, his balls (careful you don’t mess up the penetration more though). Same with your legs. Id there’s a little bit of light, spread your hole open so he can see you do it. Let him know how much you want him in you. Don’t overdo it, but just subtly, and it might keep them there just that small bit longer and let them get their cock into you. It’s worked for me before. If they don’t want it, they’ll usually put you back in position, and then you know to just let them take charge.
  3. Hmm. Could it be a positional thing? You say smaller guys have problems, so I guess it makes sense actually that the lube and poppers aren’t the problem. When some tops are entering me, they can be a bit particular about what angle I have my ass at. Up a bit more, down a bit more, sticking out a bit more, etc. I’ve found I that with a new top, I sometimes need to anticipate this and quickly go through a few subtle changes in position till we find one that clicks. I’ve got faster at it over time, though sometimes it can take longer. You could try simulate this with a couple of dildos of different shapes and sizes. If you use the ones with suction cups, you could put them on a wall, and change the height to simulate guys of different heights. Then stand with your ass in front of them and experiment with different body positions, see how they go in easiest. Not sure what else to offer, sorry.
  4. We have a slightly complicated law here, which I’ve looked up because I got tied up in knots trying to remember it. The TL/DR version is the age of consent is 17, with some limited exceptions, and I think that’s about right. 16 or 18 would sit easily with me either as those are the legal ages for most other things here (smoking, voting, drinking, making decisions about your medical care etc.) 17 is the legal age for driving. Basically the exceptions are for people under 17 having sex with other people under 17, so long as they’re both roughly the same age. I was a virgin (in terms of penetrative sex) until I was 20 and it hasn’t stopped me doing anything I want sexually, and a lot of it.
  5. My new batch from Crackstuffers arrived yesterday. Last night was fun! I tried to take one end of the double ender on my own but it kept bending, so that’s a two person job, but the other two are incredible. These are obviously fetish and not to everyone’s taste, but I can’t recommend the 12” silicone shower head attachment enough for douching. It was stupidly expensive at €45, but after one use I already think it’s worth it. I’ve been using a little mini travel douche bulb up till now and douching could take an hour or more. It took me two minutes with this thing, and most of that was the climbing in out of the shower! Obviously you don’t need to insert it the whole way, and a smaller one would likely be fine if you’re not into heavy ass play, but get a shower attachment!
  6. Ok I’m intrigued. What is the toilet seat? Like I get the idea, but do you wear it on your head or what? Never seen one of those!
  7. I presume you’re using poppers? If not, use them. And prelube your ass. A lot of tops tend to underestimate the amount of lube required. Plus it tends to really get a top going when his fingers wander to your hole and find it nice and sloppy already.
  8. Get a proper electric razor from a good brand, designed specifically for body hair. I’ve never tried Nair, but if it’s anything like Veet, steer clear. Veet is horrible and I’ve burned myself with it more than once. Wow, you’re brave. I willingly put myself into situations where men hit me with belts, but I draw the line at BIC razors!!
  9. Hmm. Honestly, yes. I really enjoy sucking dick, but it’s foreplay and a lead up to me taking dick, and everything else, in my ass. But like so many other things with me, it’s about what the top wants, not what I want. Tops who like having their dicks sucked have used this to torment me, making me suck them all night and never going near my hole. Thankfully I enjoy being mindfucked as well as assfucked!
  10. 239 so far. Damn. Needs some improvement. Would be higher if I were more vers...
  11. Have you tried different lubes? One of the fisting lubes might help? J lube comes as powder that you can mix to your own preferred consistency. It’s probably the best, especially when combined with Crisco, but it’s very messy. There’s a whole bunch of pre-made fisting lubes either. Fresh poppers too. Some are definitely stronger than others, but I find freshness is the biggest determinant of how well they work.
  12. Yes to this. My favourite type of porn is when there’s a real power dynamic and the bottom/sub is getting properly used. I hate flip fucking porn, regardless of how hot the guys are! It’s actually awkward sometimes, because I’m into fisting and it seems sort of expected by most guys that you’re at least vers for that. I’ve taught myself to enjoy fisting a guy, because otherwise I was never going to get invited anywhere. But my ideal would be a big, dominant man who slaps me around, ties me up, gags me and then starts wrecking my cunt!
  13. There are also the guys who always want to breed the newbie, so they lose interest after that first time. But yes, they’re made up for by the guys who see the raw slut coming again and know what that means. So like most people have said, don’t worry about rejection. You’re not going to have sex with everyone in the place, but you’ll have plenty of sex.
  14. Yeah that’s the conclusion I’ve come to myself. I’ve recently bought more gear and toys. I was tempted by these things, but decided to spend the money on stuff guys can use on me, rather than stuff I’d just use myself. Maybe next time. Thanks!
  15. I’ve a couple of dildos/butt plugs, and I’ve just bought more, large ones. I also own a blindfold and a gag, and have bought a harness and collar and a rubber jock. Multiple jockstraps. I used to own wrist/ankle restraints and a rubber shirt, but no longer do (long story). I LOVE gear of all kinds, and having everything you’ve mentioned in your poll used on me. The problem I find is if I bring my own gear, as a bottom/sub, the top/dom will either have his own gear, or not be into it. So more often than not, my gear has gone to waste. Anyone else have this problem, or a solution?
  16. Have you ever tried the combined cock ring/anal ball things? These sort of things: [think before following links] https://www.regulation.co.uk/catalog/product/view/id/2275/s/silicone-cock-ring-with-anal-ball-45mm/category/130/ I’m curious to try, but I can’t help thinking it would just be a barrier to guys getting in my ass at parties. What do you think?
  17. From reading here, I know there’s a few guys equally submissive as me. I’m curious to know: when did you first realise you were a sub? For me, when I was first accepting I was gay (or bi, as I called it then), around 16, I used to put “top” on my profiles online. Because that’s what men did, right? But with my first boyfriend, all I wanted to do was suck his cock and have him fuck me. It didn’t work out, because he wanted to bottom too (funny enough he’s a total top now). With my second, I insisted on him fucking me, and that’s all we did for the best part of 8 years. Now, all I want to do is get fucked by real, dominant men. Looking way back, there were signs of this when I was a kid. I had kidnap fantasies involving Captain Hook when I was about 5. I wanted to be a Lost Boy in Neverland and be made wear rags and go barefoot. Hilarious as that is, I honestly believe I was a sub at that young age. And if I were playing a video game, and had the choice to be a “weaker” female character (a notion I reject now, as an adult), I’d pick her. I wanted to be weaker and subservient to the men. This was all before I knew I had a sexuality. Did you other bitches have similar thoughts as kids? I know a lot of you were abused and such. I wasn’t, but it still just happened naturally that I grew up as a sub.
  18. Of course. You’re probably a sub like me so. We get off on being used, abused, and made feel inferior by the man we have the good fortune to be sucking/have fucking us. It’s his right to do as he pleases with us, and so much the better if that’s to physically let us know he’s superior. Now go get your ass spanked, your hair pulled, your neck choked, large objects shoved in your hole, led around on a lead, spat on, used as a footstool, a fuck toy for his friends, etc etc. Enjoy it :)
  19. Actually yes, I can’t agree with this enough. A great way to build confidence, that worked a trick for me, is to wander up to a group of guys hanging around and just drop to your knees. Believe me, you’ll get a dick put in your mouth. Everyone is there for sex, remember. Do that in a public area, especially as newbie, and more times than not you’ll have a crowd gather round, waiting their turn. Enjoy!
  20. Heya. So I’m now early 30s but look mid to late 20s, so once upon a time I would have been similar in looks to you. The key to approaching guys in a sauna is to not give a fuck about rejection, and to be willing to slut it up. Everyone is there for sex. Those who are uppity about it will get less sex. Those who are less uppity get more sex. As a young looking guy, you have an advantage over older guys. Most guys like youth. There will be some who’ll think you’re too young to know what you’re at, so expect rejection from those. They’ll be made it up for by guys who want to feel as old as the guy they’re fucking. Make sure you slut it up. Everyone’s there for sex. Don’t be a prude. Grab cock. Let your towel slip off your ass. Flash your bum. Throw the towel aside and suck/ride cock in the corridor, in full view, and skulk back to the desk later looking for a new towel. Have no shame. Everyone is there for sex, so fuck it.
  21. For all things hole related, I’d recommend some strong poppers, damn good toys and/or a patient partner. I’m sort of simultaneously working on both wider and deeper. They’re very different sensations and I’ve found guys tend to be good at one or the other. Being the greedy fuck I am, I want to get better at both. So I’ve bought toys. And poppers. And plan on working on it soon with an equally depraved bottom friend.
  22. Never worn one. Does this happen? Fuck, I assumed it was pleasant!
  23. I’m 173cm (5’ 8”) and 65kg (sorry, I don’t speak lbs. Google it. Slim side of average for my height). Average height in my country is about 178cm. I never get mistaken for a top, but I think that’s more about mannerisms tbh. I want to be dominated by a more aggressive man, and I’m pretty sure I give off that vibe. I’ve had great sex as both the bottom/sub with both bigger and smaller guys. Admittedly at first glance it “fits” better if the top is physically bigger. If you’re not into dominance/submissiveness, I don’t think it matters as much though. “Twink” is an age/amount of body hair thing. I used to be a twink, and submitted to bigger, more dominant twinks. There’s loads of tall twinks. It’s not really a height thing. It probably is a weight thing, though. Twinks are slim.
  24. Lol I had almost exactly the opposite experience as your rubber guy in the sling. My hand/the rubber was removed every time I handed him a condom and he proceeded to fuck me raw and load me without saying a word about it. Then two other guys did the same and I realised I was a bb cum pig. I like your guy from Barbados. He’s not taking a risk, but good enough for the bottom to. There’s something degrading about that that I love. Even though you wanted it anyway.
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