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I'm not getting loads and its driving me crazy
kinkysuBB replied to 1000GUYS's topic in Your Last Load...
This happens me all the time. I don’t mind so much, and have even had a guy point out to me at a sex party that I’m a cock whore rather than a cum whore. Quite often I’m talking to my bottom whore buddies about a night out, and they ask how many loads I got, and I’m like “Zero? One?” Seems everyone gets more loads than me. I mean I’m happy, I always get loads of cock, I just don’t seem to get all that many loads. So it’s not just you, and I’d be interested to hear the advice you get! -
So when did you guys know you were done with condoms? For me, I gradually came round to ditching them, after I “accidentally” took a bunch of guys bareback at the sauna, and had a few courses of PEP. But as for when I knew? Again at the sauna, this really hot muscular guy, maybe ten years older than me, tried to lob it in with me up against the wall. I grabbed his cock, realised it was raw, and said “no, sorry.” He immediately grabbed the guy next to me, a gorgeous black guy the same age and build as me, and shoved it in him against the wall instead. And the bottom just looked at me in pure ecstasy, with a huge smirk on his face. I decided then I was never going to let that happen again. Anyway, since then, both the muscular top and the black bottom have fucked me raw at the same sauna, so all good!
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I’m pretty sure I got either hepatitis A or some nasty gastroenteritis by doing this exact thing once. I don’t care. I’ve done it again loads of times. Nothing says “bareback slut” like taking a second hand cock in either hole.
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You guys are great. No more gloves for me, unless a guy insists on them obviously. I’m a barebacker and proud!
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I agree with most of what you say, great answer. Re: point 5. I must try this. I’m a very vocal bottom, to the point where tops often think they’re hurting me when really I’m just enjoying it. I tell them “Stop means stop, everything else means go harder.” I might amend that to differentiate between “stop” and “pull out”, thanks! Re: the bit in the middle. I had a row with a top (vers actually) fister about this once. I told him I get off on the lack of control and not having a clue what’s about to be shoved up my hole. He told me he likes to show a bottom what’s going up, and it’s going up whether they like it or not. That was me schooled! (Of course, he would stop if I actually asked him to). I guess my point is that different guys get off in different ways. Some of us like blindfolds, real or figurative. Re: point 6. Agreed. While I love a total top who just wants to ruin my hole and has no expectation that I’ll return the favour, they sometimes don’t know what they’re doing, because they haven’t experienced it. It’s a tricky balance. There are total tops who are perfect. Other times, you want a vers or vers top. I guess communicate if something really isn’t working for you. Point of order: I have both a fisting fetish (which is all about trust and respect) and a submissive, humiliation fetish (which is about the opposite, within agreed limits). Guys who are just into fisting have told me how important it is to clean the bottom’s hole afterwards. And I’m like: “What? Why would you do that? You’ve owned me as your slut, now leave me there like the fucking mess I am! Don’t wipe my hole, you’re above that!” So what I think may or may not apply to you.
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Funny, I like the bottom being pushed too hard. Just as I like being the bottom who’s pushed too hard (only just). That’s how I learn and I really enjoy seeing a bottom who’s obviously struggling yet into it at the same time. It’s a rare find. Of course, there’s a cross over here between my fisting fetish and my masochist fetish, which I realise a lot of guys don’t have.
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Really? I find most fisting guys are into body hair. I’ve the opposite problem. I’m 34, look like a slightly ageing twink, and fisters think I’m a baby that won’t be able to cope!
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I can’t remember if I’ve replied to this before. Anyway, condom porn gets turned off instantly. It’s such a boner killer. I may as well be watching Maggie Thatcher in a lesbian gangbang.
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Bottoms, do you like your tops to tell you they are cumming?
kinkysuBB replied to baldwin's topic in General Discussion
So hot. “Do you want a load?” Who says no to that?! Though I also enjoy him just leaving me with a drippy hole and walking off. So long as I get loaded. -
Guess I’m the only weirdo, so! 😂
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I can relate to that first time feeling! What you’re experiencing re the bowel is normal, to an extent. When your rectum is full (of whatever), your nerves sense the muscles stretching, and send the signal to your brain that it’s time to empty out. I find the same thing can happen if I’ve been getting fucked for a while, or even after douching; sometimes I’m not sure if I’ve douched enough and I pop to the bathroom, but there’s nothing there, it’s just the stretch sensation. This is likely to be more extreme when it comes to fisting. As for what to do about it, I’m no expert there, but I suspect at least part of the answer is psychological. I’d suggest to maybe inhale some more poppers when it happens. That would relax the anal sphincter muscles as well relaxing the mind a little (due to a drop in blood pressure to brain), and it should (in theory) let you just enjoy the sensation. You’ll get more used to it the more fists you take. I’m sure other guys might have more to add to that.
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“Pig” might be pushing it I’m afraid. In mind and attitude, yes, but I still have a lot of learning to do.
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This is a new one on me. When I read the title, I assumed it was the opposite of a power bottom. Meh. It’s a weird term. Some guys like sucking, some like to be sucked. Some don’t like anal at all. Live and let live.
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OMG where has this guy been all my life? Thank you! 😍
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@rawTOP, is it permissible to mention “enhancements” in these new forums (or the hardcore one, really)? I know enhancements and fetish don’t have to go together, obviously, but they often do, especially with WS and FF in my experience anyway. So far I’ve sort of alluded to it where it’s relevant, rather than being very blunt about it. Is this ok? Or does any discussion of enhancements, even as pertains to kink, belong in the “enhancements” forum?
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I love it! Not so crazy really though. Crisco is basically the same thing, just less natural, and that’s sold as lube.
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I realized bath house/sauna isnt for me (isnt exciting)
kinkysuBB replied to 1000GUYS's topic in General Discussion
Yeah I love the public aspect of it. You can be fucked in a corridor, or in a sling with the door open, and get a crowd of voyeurs or attract new participants as you go. I also love the language of saunas. No talking. Subtle looks, the brush of flesh on flesh, the drop of a towel at the right moment, or how it’s perfectly acceptable to just walk up to someone and grab their cock. And then how that escalates to just octopus arms grabbing everything in a steam room or dark room. But I know some people who don’t like them for various reasons. And that’s fine. Do what you enjoy. The best thing about being a gay whore is that there’s virtually no limit to the places and ways you can get sex. You mentioned you like cruising bars where the men are clothed. There’s not many of these near me. But I have gone to them abroad. And what I love is it to just wear a jock. It creates an instant power dynamic between the clothed top men and the almost naked, vulnerable bottom whore, and basically is like sticking a massive neon “submissive bottom” sign on my head. Any time I’ve done that, I’ve had basically the whole (smallish) bar fuck me. It probably helped that I was the youngest person there by about 15 years too, but I’d say it would work regardless. Crusing in a park is definitely on my to do list. I’ve had outdoor sex but it was with a boyfriend or for porn shoots in very isolated spots. I’ve never actually cruised. -
i enjoy being a urinal at parties
kinkysuBB replied to gangbangsuperstar's topic in Watersports Discussion
I don’t enjoy piss, particularly. I do enjoy submission and humiliation though, so I’ve been pissed on/in plenty of times when a top decides he wants to piss on me. One party I was at, no one was allowed piss in the toilet. We had a basin and you pissed in that, in full view. The piss was recycled into a syringe and injected back up the bottoms’ asses when the tops wanted to. It wasn’t pure piss, as you can imagine. Many years ago as a young twink, I visited a guy. Got fucked every which way, obviously. Also got tied up, hands and feet bound, had to follow him into the bathroom. He pissed all over me, made me drink it. Fucked me some more. Made me get dressed, and kicked me out to walk home, stinking. I don’t like piss. I fucking adore being made a man’s bitch, and if piss is part of his plan for me, that’s absolutely fine. -
I think this form needs to broaden its discussion beyond CBT. What about spanking or flogging then? Based on the experiences I’ve had to date, I enjoy being spanked and flogged. Particularly on my ass, because I’m very ass-centric, and I consider it my main/only real sex organ. Being flogged across the back/abdomen/chest/thighs etc. turns me on too though. Unfortunately, I’ve found this one very hard to get more experience in. It seems to be a limit for a lot of tops. And while I’ve a very high pain threshold, I mark really easily. It’s temporary, but it seems to put a lot of doms off. So most of the spanking I get is during sex when a top decides my ass needs a little beating. But it’s usually only short lived, then back to more fucking. There was one party I was at where a gorgeous twink appeared pretty much from nowhere with a belt and started flogging my ass with it. It was incredibly hot, but unfortunately he had work in the morning and had to leave shortly afterwards. And the other guys there, who had no problem with all night BB group fucking and using all manner of enhancements, were nonetheless a bit put off by him hitting me. Anyone much experience or tips?
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Fisting used to freak me out. Then I got kind of curious. Then as I started going to parties, you could be guaranteed at least one guy there would try fist me. I was later told this is because I have a “fist me face”! My role is to please a top, so I started to try learn how to do it. I had about a year of failed attempts. Then a guy messaged me on Grindr and told me he enjoyed the time he fisted me. I was like “huh?” And he sends me a picture of his fist in my ass, in my bedroom. I remembered then, but I’d thought at the time it was yet another failed attempt (I guess I was pretty out of it!) Then I knew I could do it, and I basically begged anyone I played with to fist me. One guy came over to mine and we played for hours, culminating in him double fisting me. Then over last new year’s I went to a few parties where of course one or two guys fisted me. New Year’s culminated in me going to my first proper fisting party where a really experienced vers took me under his wing and taught me how to take it better, and how to fist. Covid got in the way this year. In the periods when our numbers were low, I went to a couple of fist parties and by now I’m hooked. I’m laying low till the world goes back to normal, but I can’t wait to get out there and really open my hole to all who want in me, and anything they want to put in me. I enjoy being a top for fisting too. It’s not who I am naturally, I still prefer taking it a million percent, but it’s nice to actually be able to top someone when required (I can’t top with my dick. I’m just shit at it). And it definitely makes you more popular when you can be vers.
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What do people think of using sex toys as part of FF? For me, I have a massive toy fetish. The first proper fisting party I went to, I walked in and saw about ten 14 inch plus dildos lying on a table and I just thought “I’m home.” And I love dildo porn, not so much the solo videos, but of guys fucking huge dildos into another guy’s ass. Now obviously I love fists as well, dildos don’t replace them, they complement them. But I’ve met a few guys who are into fists but not so much dildos. Is it generally accepted that most FF players are into both?
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I’ve never really come across anyone with a poz/chasing fetish, other than on this site really. And I go to parties with hard core substance use, fisting, 100% bare. I wonder is it just less of a thing where I am? Or maybe I’m more naive than I think I am. Anyway, in my experience, the glove is to prevent hepatitis C, not HIV. Most people I play with tend to be on PrEP or undetectable. I make a point of not asking, but usually someone will over the course of the night (not so much at the fisting parties. It’s usually some twink on Grindr deciding whether to come to their first BB party). Asking is frowned upon, but no one is really chasing or publicly up for gift giving. Anyway, I’ve always let the top decide, but I think next time I’m going to ask for raw hand if they’re ok with that. I mean you’re either a barebacker or you’re not. And I already get off on taking second hand dicks/toys that have just been in another bottom, as well as loads obviously. I guess I should be taking fists raw too.
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Burn it 😜 Anyway, as a reformed condom Nazi, you firstly pick one that’s the right size. You pinch the tip so as to keep the teat hanging off the end of your dick when it’s put on. You then pop it over the tip of your hard dick, and roll it down. It only unrolls one way, so if it’s not unrolling, you need to flip it the other way. Don’t do this if you’ve already forced it on a bit since you’ve probably damaged it, get a new one. Then lube the whole thing up with water based lube. Fuck. Take it off as soon as you’re finished fucking, before you go soft and it slips off in the bottom. If it comes off during sex, get a new one, don’t reuse it. Practice on a banana or something, it’s what I did as a teenager. Of course, this should all be done in tandem with persuading your bottom to cop the fuck on... I mean see the light 😈😏
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In regards myself, I’m naturally hairy. Dark hair. Pale skin. It makes me look like Dracula. I hate it. It also makes me look more masculine when I leave it grow, and I don’t like that either. I don’t want to look feminine, but I also don’t want to look like the most masculine guy in the room. Thankfully I’m short, slim and have a boyish face, so I just trim/shave different amounts of hair, depending on my mood. On other guys, I don’t mind too much either way, as long as they’re not Chewbacca. Chest/arm/abdominal/leg/reasonable length facial hair is fine. Pubes should be trimmed to a length where I’m not getting mouthfuls of them when sucking, please. And I don’t like hairy holes at all, but as a total bottom I rarely pay much attention to them anyway. It’s more a turn off in porn for me. Having said all that, if Mr Yeti grabs me, throws me on the bed, and sticks his cock in me, then Mr Yeti is going to be let fuck me!
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I know I’m 7 months late, but I felt like talking about politics, and I don’t feel as qualified to comment on the many American threads. This is interesting. I’d like to see the methodology for that poll. I also wonder is it an outlier or is it part of a trend of similar polls? I’m not British, but my experience of Britain is that it’s by and large a liberal country. I don’t honestly believe that a quarter of a representative sample of British under 25s are anti-LGBT. A couple of theories: 1) Teenagers like to rebel and go against the flow. If society is pro-LGBT, if kids are being preached a message of tolerance and acceptance, to me, it stands to reason that some will go against that for a while, just for the sake of going against it. That’s what teenagers do. 2) There is a very vocal right wing movement in Britain, which we saw in the lead up to and aftermath of the Brexit referendum. I’m not saying that all or even most Brexit voters are right wing loons, but most right wing loons are Brexit voters, and they’ve been given a national platform in recent years. This means there is a very accessible alternative to the liberal consensus for people to subscribe to. 3) Certain religions I’m sure do come into it, as you said. These are just theories though. Hard to know what to think, without seeing the polling methodology and the results of other, similar polls.
