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  1. I have to take issue with that one. Rugby is very much about respect. No one but the captain speaks to the referee. The captain calls the referee “Sir”. Players may even call the opposition “Sir”. Physical contact is tough, but strictly within the laws of the game, and anything outside of that gets severely punished. You don’t hear a lot about rugby players causing trouble off the pitch (there are exceptions, of course). Football (soccer) players, on the other hand... As for Conor McGregor, he’s from a place a few minutes from where I’m from. You used to sometimes see him around town, although I’m not sure where he lives now. He’s got an attractive body, but the man is a lunatic. You’re all welcome to him!
  2. It’ll most likely heal. Haemorrhoids are extremely common, and unfortunately they’re recurrent. But they’re just veins around the anus that have become swollen, and therefore painful. The key is to reduce the swelling and get them back to normal size. Various medications can help with this. Scheriproct is one that’s available in Europe. I believe Preparation H is an American equivalent. Holding ice wrapped in kitchen roll against the area at night time can also help, as does anything that reduces constipation (so high fibre foods, fruit, plenty of water and exercise). Do that, don’t put anything up your ass for a week or so, and if it’s not healing up at that stage see a doctor.
  3. I’m gay because I’m attracted to men. I sometimes use drugs because they enhance the sex I have with other men. I don’t use them otherwise and have no interest in doing so. I have no desire to get HIV. So that’s one (sort of) out of your three, and most gay guys would consider me a bit extreme even at that. So no, I don’t think you’re a minority at all.
  4. If you’ve had these thoughts a while, they are not going to go away by themselves. You need to deal with them, one way or the other. So you either decide to put them away the sake of your relationship, in which case you may benefit from some professional help in doing so (these are deep, primal urges), or you decide you need to change the current state of your relationship. If you’ve had a monogamous relationship for 12 years, and you now decide you want to change this, then he deserves to know, and he deserves to know why. You owe him that. I suspect it won’t be an easy conversation. I agree not to go into too much detail, and least initially. Tell him that you’re very romantically, but that you feel you need more sexually. See how the conversation goes. Be kind to him, and to yourself. Whatever you choose to do, don’t go behind his back. And don’t try bottle things up any longer. These things always rear their heads again, and it’s always better they happen at a younger age than an older one. That gives both partners more time to seek out new things, if that’s what you decide. Good luck!
  5. There was literally a thread on this the other day, some good advice in there: [think before following links] https://breeding.zone/topic/61964-first-time-being-group-fucked/
  6. Yeah if you’re travelling it’s best to just be a complete slut. You don’t want dignity, you want loads. I’d suggest a face pic on your profile if you have a decent face. Then be as explicit in the profile as Grindr will let you be. “🅱️🅱️⬇️4Loads” or something as your tag line. Offer up pics of your ass early on. Don’t get bogged down in conversation or pic collecting though. They either want to load you or they don’t.
  7. So, advancing this a little bit. The guy I mentioned above, who was “mentoring” me in fisting, taking bigger toys, etc. has suggested we start doing it again. I’m certainly keen. I wonder is this different though? He initially did this for me in the context of a group party we were both participating in anyway (it was the same with me “mentoring” the other bottom I mentioned). It’s also more of a mutually beneficial thing, because he’s also teaching me how to be a top for FF/toy fucking, which curiously enough I’m enjoying. There’s no doubt it’s someone with more experience teaching someone with less. But I’m not exactly a virgin. Have people done this successfully at a more advanced stage?
  8. Not sure I agree with you. Every problem I mentioned above, apart from the haemorrhoids I’ve had since I was a teenage virgin, were caused by dicks. Dicks spread disease. Dildos, so long as they’re washed, are actually very safe. I mean they’re synthetic dicks. You can get huge ones that could do damage if you’re not careful, sure. But a dildo isn’t inherently dangerous. Nor are fists, although you need to build up to it and have a partner who knows what they’re doing and won’t hurt you. You’re much less likely to get an STI from fisting than fucking, although if you do make a small tear in the rectum and have cuts on your hands, hepatitis C can be a problem alright. It’s far more contagious than HIV, and I know a lot of hardcore barebackers who fist with gloves for this reason. It’s up to you what goes in your body of course, but it’s not as cut and dry as you’re making out. Whatever about fists, dildos are great for practicing with so I really wouldn’t advise guys write them off.
  9. 1, 5, 6 or 7. Right in the middle, dick in my ass, ideally with a couple more men involved in proceedings. Occasionally 2. All the good spots are gone, so I start sucking the nearest cock.
  10. You’re right, I guess. But is that a bad thing? A physical condom is a physical barrier. The “chemical condom” allows for skin to skin contact, so feels better physically and, for me anyway, mentally. I still get precum and then a load in my ass. That load gets absorbed into me. I get all the man and none of the virus, which to me is something foreign and unwelcome. What’s not to like? For a chaser, sure, it’s a bit pointless.
  11. If you’re having bareback hook up sex, you accept that you will get STIs. Not might: will. End of.
  12. If you care enough to go on PrEP, I’d honestly do it properly and take one a day for a full 7 days before you start cumdumping. There’ll be plenty of opportunities to be a cumdump in 7 days time. You only need to be pozzed once and you’re poz for life. 2 a day isn’t going to harm you, but there’s no studies I’m aware of to show this can reduce the 7 days it takes to build up in your rectal tissue. Regarding event based, it’s a while since I read the study that was based on. My understanding is it appeared to work well, but a lot of the guys enrolled in the study were having so much sex that they were taking a lot of event based PrEP. So much that it approached daily dosing in some cases. There’s solid evidence that daily PrEP works. Event based is more of a gamble, although seemingly a lot better than nothing.
  13. Well at least you’re starting early enough that if he panics you’ll still have plenty of time to rescue your evening. I had a guy literally run away in the middle of doing something like this recently. Literally, I went to the bathroom and I heard the front door slamming. I’d played with him once before in a threesome with a top, and then we’d tried to arrange this mentoring thing a few times (always at his instigation) and this was the first time he’d actually showed. Like your guy, super cute and wants to be a whore, but just nowhere near ready. He messaged me again tonight wondering can we hang out again but I’ve given up now. Good luck, and let us know how you get on! As much as my exhibitionist streak is turned on by this idea, please don’t film it, you’ll terrify him!
  14. It’s on my shopping list alright.
  15. Yes, I love it. Either when he holds his cock still and pushes my head down on it, or down and back. Or when he holds my head still and fucks my face.
  16. Sounds to me like you’re a power bottom. You want to dictate the type of sex you have and where the top cums. You don’t want a bossy top, just a manly one. I think that’s what you’re saying anyway. Not too sure what the question was really! Does that help at all? Maybe you could clarify the question, if not.
  17. Haha yes quite a few! But my favourite was a cute Russian boy I met on holiday in Spain. We met quite drunk at the end of a night out and he took me home to his place. We sat on the balcony drinking wine with his female friend who translated for us and also randomly screamed things loudly at both of us in Russian. This went on for several hours until we went to bed and fucked. We even managed to go for lunch the next day after some more fucking and talked some more. How I don’t know. I was still hammered! The whole thing was surreal but fun!
  18. Don’t eat much that day, especially avoid stuff with fibre in it like beans or brown carbs (bread/rice/pasta). But keep well hydrated. Wear a nice jock, stick your face down and your ass up 😜
  19. I’ve both mentored and been mentored, though not as formally as your friend is describing. In my case I taught a guy to take my dildo, which was much bigger than anything he’d taken before. And in the same week a more experienced bottom was teaching me how to take fists. If you’re comfortable with the idea of it it can be quite fun. Just make sure he knows what you’re comfortable with and not, and be prepared to take it very slowly. If he’s never done anything at all then what you consider tiny he’ll almost certainly consider huge. I’d imagine there’ll be a lot of explaining about lube and relaxing the sphincter and probably not a lot else the first time.
  20. I’ve travelled to London from Dublin by plane for sex, and subsequently on to Brighton for Cumunion, although none of it was exactly spontaneous. While in London I’ve travelled around on the tube for maybe an hour to meets. I actually find it hard to find guys further afield over there, the population density is so huge that Grindr only shows me a couple of km, and BBRT makes you specify your location within London. What apps/sites do you guys use?
  21. Definitely more of a cockslut. If I say I had a good night, people will ask me “How many loads did you get?” The answer might be zero, but I took tons of cock, and I’d be delighted with that. I also like long sessions where I get fucked for ages but may not get much or any loads. Having said that, I love cum and being dumped in, and doing an all day dump and go session where I collect 30 or 50 loads or whatever is high up my bucket list. So both, I guess. Nice that we don’t really have to choose!
  22. How is this going so? In terms of tips, do you have a BBRT profile? If not make one and start posting ads. You’ve a fantastic ass so you shouldn’t have much trouble, but it helps if you can host. Grindr is good too, more people on it but you have more time wasters too. My only concern would be your stamina. You look quite young and if you’ve only had 3 cocks at a time you might need to build up. Boiler House on Fri/Sat night is great for that when it’s back open. You can take breaks during the night and then go back to getting fucked when you’re ready again. Get a cubicle, door open, get on all fours with your ass pointing out. Or get in the sling. Or bend over in the dark room or steam room, hell even the corridor. Let us know how it goes!
  23. BBRT and Grindr. Get to a decent sex party and you’re guaranteed to get lots of raw cock. Saunas are hit and miss for me. I’ve always got cock there, but the ratio of walking around to actually getting fucked can vary a lot. My record was at SBN in London though. I’ve only been once and need to go again when it’s back. I took 40 cocks in one afternoon there. No idea how many loads, it got too sweaty and messy to have any notion.
  24. Oh here, where do I start? Haemorrhoids are definitely a problem. I’m not sure if I’m just prone to them anyway or if sex exacerbates them. There’s plenty can be done about them medically but I tend to just keep them controlled with a medical ointment called Scheriproct (it’s a local anaesthetic mixed with a steroid) every once in a while. Honestly they’re only noticeable if I’m pushing my ass muscles out, which is the opposite to relaxing it to take a cock, so apart from one time I was getting fisted and one burst, no top has ever seemed to notice. Haemorrhoids are just veins that are actually meant to be there, the problem is when they swell up and become painful and noticeable or bleed. I got a fissure twice. They are horribly painful. Both times I had gonorrhoea and a shot cleared it up. Regular STI checks for those. Rectal chlamydia a number of times, but that never caused symptoms. Syphilis which I can only assumed I acquired rectally since I know the guy who gave it to me and that was where his cock went. Again no symptoms. Again regular check ups needed. And I had a bit of a saga with anal warts and needed a cream called imiquimod for a while, but they settled down and went away. Most people get the HPV virus that causes them at some point, it’s just that a lot of people don’t get symptoms. Again the key is regular check ups. It sounds like I’m a walking petri dish of disease, this is all over a long period of time. I tested clear of everything a couple of weeks ago and was getting complimented on my nice ass as recently as the weekend. I think getting these things occasionally is just part of being a bareback bottom. The main thing is you treat them.
  25. I was an absolute condom nazi until my late 20s. Now I’m not!
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