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I took this to ridiculous extremes and pretended to be in my mid 20s for the first couple of years of my thirties. It was partly to see what I could get away with: I’m constantly being told I don’t look my age, which is nice and all but can actually get annoying too. Anyway, it got ridiculous. I may have been able to pull it off in terms of physical appearance, but I didn’t talk like a 24 year old, remembered things a 24 year old shouldn’t, didn’t know things a 24 year old should (the minutiae of Snapchat etc.), and I didn’t fuck like a 24 year old. Yes, I had guys wondering how the hell a 24 year old learned to do what I could do sexually and finding it weird. Add to that guys not bothering to find out what I could do sexually, and turning me down purely on the basis of my supposed age being too young. In the end I said “WTF am I doing?” and came clean. Regular fuck buddies thought I was a bit weird but it explained a lot. And then we got on with the fucking while I stopped trying to remember whether or not I was supposed to have an opinion on Oasis v Blur. Lesson learned. Age is a number.
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Hampstead Heath: a summer to remember?
kinkysuBB replied to Spunkinmyarse's topic in London Metro Area
Haha I’ll be posting up here before my next trip to London alright. -
Hampstead Heath: a summer to remember?
kinkysuBB replied to Spunkinmyarse's topic in London Metro Area
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Crisco lathered on with J lube on top for me. But I’ve only been taking fists for a year or so (and it was a quiet year for obvious reasons) so I’ve just gone with what the guys I’ve played with have used.
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This is a really interesting thread with some very good responses! It’s also a complicated one for me. Like some of the guys here, I’ve begun to realise in recent years that I’m not “relationship material.” I value my space and independence (bear with me here) too much. So I think if I were to be in a successful relationship, it would have to be of the Dom/sub variety. If I were to tolerate having another man around the whole time, he’d have to absolutely own me and ensure my entire focus in the relationship (sexually at least) was on meeting his needs. Without that natural hierarchy I’d get too independent and get fed up of having someone there the whole time. I don’t think I even want that sort of dynamic to be a romantic one for me though. Also, as an erstwhile admirer of the “cute” type of guy (twinks, basically), I’ve had some extended encounters (not relationships really) with “vers” bottoms. It’s been a disaster. They want to be fucked. I want to be fucked. We’ve gone to the sauna, spread our legs, and chewed the faces off each other while we each take a Cock in our cunts. It was hot. But I don’t honestly think it could sustain a relationship, for me anyway. It’s not even very sustainable when you’re just after sex. Thankfully I’ve now learned how to admire “proper” men 😈🐷🍆💦 Now, I do enjoy playing in groups with other bottoms. I love having bottom friends to talk about bottom stuff with, chase Cock with, spur each other on to every sluttier heights, hell even to help with the messy pre-fuck preparation. That’s a lot of fun. But this isn’t a relationship, for me.
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I don’t get it either. My favourite to date is the guy who actually did move, sent me status updates about his trip, sent me a live location on WhatsApp so I could see him arrive at the nearest station, told me he was at the station, then blocked me on everything.
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Hampstead Heath: a summer to remember?
kinkysuBB replied to Spunkinmyarse's topic in London Metro Area
Well fuck me, this thread got me going. I don’t live in London. I don’t even live in the UK. I do visit there quite often, in normal times. And next time I go, thanks to this thread and the internet wormhole it brought me down, I’m now fully up to speed on how to get to and from Hampstead Heath, the best times to do this, how to find the fuck tree, AND how to swing by the cruising area in Clapham Common on the way back for some more action. FUCK ME I MISS BEING FUCKED! Cannot WAIT to get my ass out this summer! -
I’ve ordered my chastity cage after obtaining my Dom’s permission. I went for the one pictured here, which I’m hoping will remove all stimulation from my dick. Can’t wait to put it on and show Him!
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I don’t agree. The physical sensations are there, sure, but straight men are attracted to women. I’m gay. I’m attracted to men. I like big toys up my ass. However, I do not want a woman putting a big toy up my ass. It’s just not the same. Physically, yes. Mentally... just no. I suppose if I were being an anon cumdump I wouldn’t know if it were a man or woman pegging me. But I sure as hell wouldn’t want it to be a woman. I would assume straight men feel the same way, only in reverse.
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Yeah I suspected as much. It’s one thing getting them to the Spanish mainland and a whole other thing getting them to the Canaries I guess. I’ve always been slightly wary about taking them on planes though.
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Oh yes please to any and all of this
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I believe so, in that it generally relaxes you. I’m not a weed smoker myself so I can’t speak from experience. I wouldn’t be without poppers myself. There are different types available online: amyl, pentyl, propyl etc. You may like to try them and see if it helps, depending how bad your allergy is, of course. Good luck and enjoy!
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Poppers and lube. Lots of both. And no attitude. You’re a whore. Enjoy being one!
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Haemorrhoid surgery is a big operation with a long recovery time. Have you had a doctor do any sort of procedure for it yet? If not, banding or injection are usually the first procedures they’ll do. You should recover in a matter of days.
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Are there any particular hotels/bungalows you’d recommend for sex? Are they like gay hotels in some cities, where guests will typically mingle and fuck each other? If there’s a hotel where the act of staying it means you’re available, I’m staying there! I see one has a small cruising area with a sling and St Andrew’s cross. Or do people actually relax at their accommodation and stick to the clubs, bars and dunes for sex? I see you said something about this elsewhere but you were talking about anon. I’m talking guys feeling you up at the pool. Also are poppers easily available? Officially they’re not for sale in Spain, but I’d no issue getting them in the cruise bars in Sitges, you just had to ask.
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Probably doggy for all the reasons @6Demon6Seed6 has said, only in reverse in my case. But really I like wherever I’m put by the dom. There’s something to like about all positions. What I do like is having a bit of discomfort introduced to the position. So doggy my head is being shoved down into the bed, or floor, or my hair is being pulled back hard, or my neck being choked. Missionary my legs are being spread as wide as they’ll go, or pulled right back over my head, ideally by someone other than the guy with his dick in me. Or another guy is grabbing my head and turning it to the side to face fuck me. I could go on but I think you get the idea.
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I think you’re describing stereotypical men, of any sexual orientation. Thankfully, for those of us who at some point in our lives get older, there seems to be enough outliers!
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The only thing I'd say to the laser twinks, is that you do get older eventually, and there comes a point where trying to pull off the "twink look" ends up with you looking ridiculous. I was the typical twink: small, slim, dyed hair, baby face. I still regularly get mistaken for being younger than I am, but at this stage I think I need to move beyond twink. And I'm only 34 yet. Five or 6 years ago I shaved everything, and loved being Mr Smooth Twink Bottom, but I've gradually moved into trimming here, shaving there, leaving this bit or that bit alone. I've even grown a short beard. I'm not very turned on by twink porn anymore, and I've learned there are lots of very sexy, hairy but totally submissive piggy cumdumps. Now I'm never going to want to be hairy, but I do think I now look better with a little bit here and there. Nice to have options, is all.
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It’s something I’ve given consideration to, as a total bottom. I’m 34 so I don’t have direct experience of this yet. But I have wandered into cruise bars and dark(ish) rooms where I’ve been the youngest by quite a distance. Admittedly, when this has happened, I’ve suddenly been the belle of the ball, the boy next door @ErosWired talks about. But you know what? That’s tended to be a brief reaction. It’s not like everyone else stops fucking each other and queues up for me just because I was born a few years later than the other bottoms. It’s more like I’m a curiosity for each of them for a few minutes, and then it’s as you were. Just as I’m certain I’m a better fuck now than I was as a baby gay, you can be sure those older bottoms could have shown me a thing a two. And I know for a fact that I’ve been rejected on apps for being “too young” by tops who want a bottom who knows what he’s doing. So, from my very limited experience in this matter, I’d agree. Shape up, have confidence, and go have fun!
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Sounds a fun time! I’ve a big dildo fetish and am an aspiring ass pig, so I think I would consider dildo fucking to be fucking, yeah. Though in my case it’s always been done as part of cock fucking/fist fucking. I don’t think I’ve ever just been penetrated with a dildo, other than by myself. Much as was the case for you, in fairness to your top. Presumably you’ve been pegged? That can be a lot of fun, especially if a top is on the smaller side.
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With an ass like that, I can’t see you having much trouble once you build up a bit of a network. And the pandemic will end eventually. Parties will be back.
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Fair. Could you perhaps travel to a bigger city for a weekend? I’ve done this in London before. The party section on BBRT used to be good for this, although it’s closed at the moment. The explore feature on Grindr Xtra might be useful to give you a sense of what’s happening in different places.
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I tend to just find them on Grindr or Bbrt. Then when you go to enough of them, people just text you to invite you when they’re hosting. These are just groups guys host in their houses, not elaborate hotel things like you’re describing, so I’m not sure if I’m answering your question. But there’s certainly plenty of sex, often fetish, and while most aren’t gangbangs I tend to get fucked by every guy there when I go.
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Brave decision, and I hope it works out for you and it makes you feel your best you 🤗 Also that it brings you plenty of cock 😈 I’ve often thought about doing it myself, but I’ve decided I like to be able to change my look by shaving to varying degrees. Please let us know how you get on!
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Yes, I do this too, but unfortunately not all tops are into gags. I'm very keen to hear from the tops on here. Although it's good to know I'm not the only loud bottom!
