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  1. 239 so far. Damn. Needs some improvement. Would be higher if I were more vers...
  2. Have you tried different lubes? One of the fisting lubes might help? J lube comes as powder that you can mix to your own preferred consistency. It’s probably the best, especially when combined with Crisco, but it’s very messy. There’s a whole bunch of pre-made fisting lubes either. Fresh poppers too. Some are definitely stronger than others, but I find freshness is the biggest determinant of how well they work.
  3. Yes to this. My favourite type of porn is when there’s a real power dynamic and the bottom/sub is getting properly used. I hate flip fucking porn, regardless of how hot the guys are! It’s actually awkward sometimes, because I’m into fisting and it seems sort of expected by most guys that you’re at least vers for that. I’ve taught myself to enjoy fisting a guy, because otherwise I was never going to get invited anywhere. But my ideal would be a big, dominant man who slaps me around, ties me up, gags me and then starts wrecking my cunt!
  4. There are also the guys who always want to breed the newbie, so they lose interest after that first time. But yes, they’re made up for by the guys who see the raw slut coming again and know what that means. So like most people have said, don’t worry about rejection. You’re not going to have sex with everyone in the place, but you’ll have plenty of sex.
  5. Yeah that’s the conclusion I’ve come to myself. I’ve recently bought more gear and toys. I was tempted by these things, but decided to spend the money on stuff guys can use on me, rather than stuff I’d just use myself. Maybe next time. Thanks!
  6. I’ve a couple of dildos/butt plugs, and I’ve just bought more, large ones. I also own a blindfold and a gag, and have bought a harness and collar and a rubber jock. Multiple jockstraps. I used to own wrist/ankle restraints and a rubber shirt, but no longer do (long story). I LOVE gear of all kinds, and having everything you’ve mentioned in your poll used on me. The problem I find is if I bring my own gear, as a bottom/sub, the top/dom will either have his own gear, or not be into it. So more often than not, my gear has gone to waste. Anyone else have this problem, or a solution?
  7. Have you ever tried the combined cock ring/anal ball things? These sort of things: [think before following links] https://www.regulation.co.uk/catalog/product/view/id/2275/s/silicone-cock-ring-with-anal-ball-45mm/category/130/ I’m curious to try, but I can’t help thinking it would just be a barrier to guys getting in my ass at parties. What do you think?
  8. From reading here, I know there’s a few guys equally submissive as me. I’m curious to know: when did you first realise you were a sub? For me, when I was first accepting I was gay (or bi, as I called it then), around 16, I used to put “top” on my profiles online. Because that’s what men did, right? But with my first boyfriend, all I wanted to do was suck his cock and have him fuck me. It didn’t work out, because he wanted to bottom too (funny enough he’s a total top now). With my second, I insisted on him fucking me, and that’s all we did for the best part of 8 years. Now, all I want to do is get fucked by real, dominant men. Looking way back, there were signs of this when I was a kid. I had kidnap fantasies involving Captain Hook when I was about 5. I wanted to be a Lost Boy in Neverland and be made wear rags and go barefoot. Hilarious as that is, I honestly believe I was a sub at that young age. And if I were playing a video game, and had the choice to be a “weaker” female character (a notion I reject now, as an adult), I’d pick her. I wanted to be weaker and subservient to the men. This was all before I knew I had a sexuality. Did you other bitches have similar thoughts as kids? I know a lot of you were abused and such. I wasn’t, but it still just happened naturally that I grew up as a sub.
  9. Of course. You’re probably a sub like me so. We get off on being used, abused, and made feel inferior by the man we have the good fortune to be sucking/have fucking us. It’s his right to do as he pleases with us, and so much the better if that’s to physically let us know he’s superior. Now go get your ass spanked, your hair pulled, your neck choked, large objects shoved in your hole, led around on a lead, spat on, used as a footstool, a fuck toy for his friends, etc etc. Enjoy it :)
  10. Actually yes, I can’t agree with this enough. A great way to build confidence, that worked a trick for me, is to wander up to a group of guys hanging around and just drop to your knees. Believe me, you’ll get a dick put in your mouth. Everyone is there for sex, remember. Do that in a public area, especially as newbie, and more times than not you’ll have a crowd gather round, waiting their turn. Enjoy!
  11. Heya. So I’m now early 30s but look mid to late 20s, so once upon a time I would have been similar in looks to you. The key to approaching guys in a sauna is to not give a fuck about rejection, and to be willing to slut it up. Everyone is there for sex. Those who are uppity about it will get less sex. Those who are less uppity get more sex. As a young looking guy, you have an advantage over older guys. Most guys like youth. There will be some who’ll think you’re too young to know what you’re at, so expect rejection from those. They’ll be made it up for by guys who want to feel as old as the guy they’re fucking. Make sure you slut it up. Everyone’s there for sex. Don’t be a prude. Grab cock. Let your towel slip off your ass. Flash your bum. Throw the towel aside and suck/ride cock in the corridor, in full view, and skulk back to the desk later looking for a new towel. Have no shame. Everyone is there for sex, so fuck it.
  12. For all things hole related, I’d recommend some strong poppers, damn good toys and/or a patient partner. I’m sort of simultaneously working on both wider and deeper. They’re very different sensations and I’ve found guys tend to be good at one or the other. Being the greedy fuck I am, I want to get better at both. So I’ve bought toys. And poppers. And plan on working on it soon with an equally depraved bottom friend.
  13. Never worn one. Does this happen? Fuck, I assumed it was pleasant!
  14. I’m 173cm (5’ 8”) and 65kg (sorry, I don’t speak lbs. Google it. Slim side of average for my height). Average height in my country is about 178cm. I never get mistaken for a top, but I think that’s more about mannerisms tbh. I want to be dominated by a more aggressive man, and I’m pretty sure I give off that vibe. I’ve had great sex as both the bottom/sub with both bigger and smaller guys. Admittedly at first glance it “fits” better if the top is physically bigger. If you’re not into dominance/submissiveness, I don’t think it matters as much though. “Twink” is an age/amount of body hair thing. I used to be a twink, and submitted to bigger, more dominant twinks. There’s loads of tall twinks. It’s not really a height thing. It probably is a weight thing, though. Twinks are slim.
  15. Lol I had almost exactly the opposite experience as your rubber guy in the sling. My hand/the rubber was removed every time I handed him a condom and he proceeded to fuck me raw and load me without saying a word about it. Then two other guys did the same and I realised I was a bb cum pig. I like your guy from Barbados. He’s not taking a risk, but good enough for the bottom to. There’s something degrading about that that I love. Even though you wanted it anyway.
  16. I stopped in April or thereabouts because I reckoned I wouldn’t be fucking. Went back on it on two occasions when covid numbers were down, I cracked and needed sex. Took it for a month on each occasion and then stopped again. Currently off it and the way our numbers are currently, I won’t be on it again for a while.
  17. In fact, in my own country, Ireland, one of the current coalition parties, Fine Gael, is considered either centre-right or a bunch of crazy right wing libertarians in the pockets of big business, depending who you’re talking to. This same party has, in the last 5 years, campaigned and legislated for both marriage equality and abortion. The current Minister for Finance, from this same party, is about to launch the biggest spending budget in the history of the State, to deal with COVID-19. These are our “arch conservatives”. And most of Western Europe has mainstream parties well to the left of anything we have here.
  18. You’re right, although as you alluded to, we’d call it “social democracy” here, rather than “socialism.” We have Venezuelan-style socialist parties as well, but they’re not mainstream anywhere. From a Western European perspective (and bear in mind that’s broad brushstrokes taking in multiple countries), the US Democrats are broadly centrist to centre-right, and the Republicans are so far to the right that we’ve very little that resembles them. Fidesz under Viktor Orban in Hungary and Law and Justice in Poland are probably the closest, so not ‘Western’ European.
  19. At this stage, yeah. 99% anyway. Two guys have put rubber in me in the last year and I was pretty pissed off about it in one way. But they were both gorgeous and I do what I’m told. Thankfully most guys tell me to open my hole wide for their bare cock.
  20. You’re going to love it! And the more you do it, the better you get. I’m not the world’s greatest sucker either, but I can keep a dick happy with my mouth. Your role as the bottom in this situation is to service the tops as much as they want. That means being spit roasted a lot. It means jerking the other guy off while being spit roasted. And you know that bottom in porn who’s got a cock in each hand and is going from sucking one to the other over and over, then shoving both in his mouth? That’s you 😉 Once you’ve done it and enjoyed it enough times you’ll be gagging to be DP’d, by the way. Just to warn you!
  21. All the time when I was slutting it up in the sauna. Since I moved mostly to parties, zero. Seems the party crowd take better care of themselves, at least around here. I got syphilis from a one on one with a friend though. If you’re BBing you’re going to get STIs. My take? Suck it up, it’s so worth it 😜
  22. I can’t argue with that.
  23. I have to take issue with that one. Rugby is very much about respect. No one but the captain speaks to the referee. The captain calls the referee “Sir”. Players may even call the opposition “Sir”. Physical contact is tough, but strictly within the laws of the game, and anything outside of that gets severely punished. You don’t hear a lot about rugby players causing trouble off the pitch (there are exceptions, of course). Football (soccer) players, on the other hand... As for Conor McGregor, he’s from a place a few minutes from where I’m from. You used to sometimes see him around town, although I’m not sure where he lives now. He’s got an attractive body, but the man is a lunatic. You’re all welcome to him!
  24. It’ll most likely heal. Haemorrhoids are extremely common, and unfortunately they’re recurrent. But they’re just veins around the anus that have become swollen, and therefore painful. The key is to reduce the swelling and get them back to normal size. Various medications can help with this. Scheriproct is one that’s available in Europe. I believe Preparation H is an American equivalent. Holding ice wrapped in kitchen roll against the area at night time can also help, as does anything that reduces constipation (so high fibre foods, fruit, plenty of water and exercise). Do that, don’t put anything up your ass for a week or so, and if it’s not healing up at that stage see a doctor.
  25. I’m gay because I’m attracted to men. I sometimes use drugs because they enhance the sex I have with other men. I don’t use them otherwise and have no interest in doing so. I have no desire to get HIV. So that’s one (sort of) out of your three, and most gay guys would consider me a bit extreme even at that. So no, I don’t think you’re a minority at all.
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