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  1. valldelxeno
    I haven't been raped as such but I did have an incident with a guy that was pretty forceful. Luckily it struck the balance of being real use of force (enough to probably count as some kind of minor sexual assault, albeit not legally) but not being traumatic to the point where thinking about it now turns me on, even though at the time it was unpleasant. Long story short, there's some half spun guy in my flat just kind of randomly, I had been told to make sure he didn't steal anything or die, so I messaged him on machobb to tell him to let me know if he needed anything. A few messages went back and forth and I went to his room. I ask him if he was into fisting, he said no. He had a massive dick though. It was an ok thickness but about 25 cm long. At the start it was alright but he was speeding up too quickly and I was telling him to take it a bit slower. After a few times of that I was getting sick of things and although I didn't say it directly, I signalled to stop and tried to sort of get up. He obviously understood because his response was to pin me down and tell me he wouldn't stop until he came. So I tried to make him cum as fast as possible, which only took a few more minutes. I did comment afterwards that his dick was extremely long for me. He said "you're the one that said you're into fisting" - I was just like, yeah, I can take the width of a fist, but I don't get much further than the wrist. When I went to the toilet to let his cum out there was a fair bit of blood (not pouring or anything...) so my pain wasn't imaginary. I think the issue was partly that his dick was unusually hard for one of its size (at least in my experience more volume = less rigid) I imagine some of you can see how this turns into a more erotic than traumatic memory. I'm thankful for that. It's probably also worth noting that I'm not at *all* into any sort of bdsm, apart from the bugchasing and fisting I'm quite vanilla.
  2. valldelxeno
    This is me, except I'm sensible enough not to plaster it all over machobb and the other apps. I would love to be a total cum dumpster but I'm just not. I can't get over being a bit selective. So I just stick with being a bit of a slut. I think some guys might be internally understanding "no load refused" as "no load refused (for its hiv status)" which is obviously not the point of the phrase, but they are probably essentially bugchasing without saying as much.
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    If he says he's positive I'm assuming he's still detectable (because undetectable guys tend to straight up say "I'm undetectable" when asked) and that turns me on. Isn't there something exciting about receiving a spicy load?
  4. valldelxeno
    Thanks, I'll check it out!
  5. valldelxeno
    When I started barebacking with strangers my intent was to bareback when possible but if a guy is hot and insists on a condom, go ahead with it. However I've found that I can't top with a condom anymore - it's just too uncomfortable and I lose my erection - and I find bottoming with a condom unpleasant, like it irritates. And it just doesn't feel like sex with a barrier between the two men anyway. So I exclusively bareback now. The only time I play with guys that insist on protection is if we're fisting, I don't mind using gloves for that (although I prefer without) and with those guys generally the dicks stay out of it because condoms really turn me off.
  6. valldelxeno
    I find that Dark Alley has the occasional bit of rosebud but I still struggle to come across ones with more of a prolapse than a rosebud. Between Dark Alley, Raging Stallion, and Hot House (three studios that have a decent amount of fisting), Evan Matthews seems to be as close as it gets (admittedly I haven't seen HungerFF's professional stuff...), and I mean he's great and all, but I like to see a real prolapse too. His is more of a very nice rosebud. I just kind of figured that enough guys were into fisting by now (I mean it's pretty mainstream right? I say that as someone relatively new on the scene, the only thing un-mainstream about it is that usually the guys are a bit older than myself at 27) that bigger prolapses would be mainstream enough too. Maybe we'll get something in a few years. HungerFF is surely the one you're thinking of, he's pretty good, and definitely one of the best amateurs imo - probably helps that he used to be pro. But he's the kind I like to see, pretty destroyed hole but clearly loving it. That's partly why I've mentioned Evan Matthews above - he doesn't look like he's struggling or in pain unlike a fair few actors that do fisting porn.
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    Basically the title, I tend to prefer professional porn over amateur (I feel like I'm the odd one out here) but one thing the amateurs seem to be winning at is the prolapse game. Does anyone know of any movies or the like that have a good amount of prolapsing in them? I feel like the studios are scared of it or something.
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    Once I got with a guy who used to go really slow (and my arse stretches out quite quickly) and after about half an hour I was just like dude can you stick it all in already?? He just replied "It is all in!! You can't feel my fist? You bastard!!" and then really went to town. That must have been one of my finest moments.
  9. valldelxeno
    As a bottom for penis sex (i.e. fisting is another story) generally I'm happy going for up to about 2 hours. After that I am probably getting bored and maybe hungry. Maybe it's because I take quite a long time to cum as a top so I can empathise haha. Usually when I top, for the first 5 minutes I'm trying really hard not to cum too soon, then after that it seems like it will never happen. It's quite normal for me to take about an hour.
  10. valldelxeno
    For me it was the third time I met up with this guy. The second time the condom had slipped (in retrospect I think he stealthed me) and the third time when I went to get a condom I gave it to him and while my back was turned he just chucked it on the floor still in the wrapper. Not in a discreet way or anything. And I was just kinda thinking, you know, that's what I wanted to do..."well at least I've tried" and great bareback sex proceeds. As soon as I got on PrEP I was just like, literally never using condoms again. Unfortunately some guys say they are fine with bareback on grindr then in person they use a condom? Wtf?
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    I think we like it just on opposite sides of the pain/pleasure line. I'm erring towards pleasure but you're fine with a bit of pain, if I understand correctly. I don't know how atypical this makes me as a fisting bottom, but not only am I not down for any kind of pain or humiliation, but sometimes I get a bit dominant myself. If I'm really loosened up I kind of like to pin the top to the ground and have him put his arm up and it's just like, you exist for my pleasure so you'd better hold still so I can ride your fist. If that makes sense? There's not really much else I do in particular like that, but I feel like it encapsulates my attitude to bottoming. As a top obviously I am seeking to please, but also seeking to get a nice punched out cunt to fuck (and admire) Oh, also, +1 on Drew Dixon and Nate Grimes. I only just discovered Nate the other day and am thoroughly impressed.
  12. valldelxeno
    It's where I live. Most Spanish people have excellent natural body hair and for some reason a massive proportion are body hair phobic. I think you are right though. In my case the fisters who dislike body hair are still able to put up with it. I feel like a lot of the more vanilla guys who dislike it straight up just won't tolerate it at all. I'm 27, not sure what I look like really, but yeah to be honest I do surprise people with how much I can open up. It's a short surprise though because I can open up very quickly - usually the whole hand is in within a minute of starting. Looks can be so deceiving though, not only if you're basing it on age and stuff, but even how the hole looks. I got with a fairly experienced guy whose hole looked basically untouched, yet I could double fist him. Oh ok, that's good. If there's a way for each user to control it that makes sense.
  13. valldelxeno
    My dick is painfully average and I don't like being told it's big - it isn't. Obviously if the arse is really really tight then I understand it because it's big in comparison to the arse that can't accommodate anything. I personally love fucking a wrecked cunt and being able to pound away, and feeling like there's a lot of room. I want the bottom to be comfortable - as a vers bottom myself I love being able to sit on a massive cock as if it's nothing - and if he's so "comfortable" that it's not even pleasurable then I'll use my hand.
  14. valldelxeno
    I found that the Open Mind isn't cliquey on the fisting nights - I've only been a couple of times though. I've only been to Xman once, also a fisting night, and there was plenty of BB going on. I'm sure fisters have more of a tendency to fuck BB though. I personally knew about PrEP approval here and know others that do as well, so I might mention it to a few others that I haven't discussed it with, to make sure they're aware. And I kind of have my eye on one of my friends who usually uses condoms but occasionally goes bareback... We already fist each other so if I could get his leche inside me as well that would be great.
  15. valldelxeno
    Nice idea, but peer review sounds scary to me! How does it work? I'm asking out of curiosity because I know that asspig has basically no-one where I live. It's just that I find that I'm often not what guys expect. I tell them that I am a lot hairier than I look in pictures because of how the light reflects (the hair is multicoloured). Then in person I find out they dislike body hair...I mean, it's never been to the point of them leaving or anything, but sometimes I've even found out after getting with them a few times that they dislike it. I'm just like...I told you I am actually hairy...
  16. valldelxeno
    I kind of agree although I'm not sure how much of it is the porn changing and how much is me. I think as I've become more experienced in fisting, I've come to expect certain things: rougher play (and I don't mean pushing the bottom too hard, I mean the bottom having a lot of capacity) so properly fist fucking rather than just about being able to get the hand in. And also I love a good prolapse/rosebud or even just a big gape really. I feel like the latter is a fault of cameramen who are maybe not into fisting, because I've seen films where I swear they move the camera up to the fistee's face or whatever every time the hole is exposed. The hole being exposed is one of the things I like about being fisted as well. Just as I enjoy being full of fist, I enjoy feeling a breeze go past my insides, like, perpendicular to my body.
  17. valldelxeno
    One of mine is Koldo Goran. He's got a nice mixture of hard fucking (with the bottoms that can take it, anyway...) and a lot of pleasure and personality really come through in his videos. And you know, a nice body/cock/face to top it all off.
  18. valldelxeno
    I prefer not to use gloves but I will use gloves if I'm asked to. I find that gloves tire me out much more quickly as a bottom, and as a top I can't really feel much if I'm wearing gloves. But at least I still get to look at a nice open cunt. I have nails as hard as diamond, so while if I'm fisting someone else I'll put the hours in to file them down, if I'm just fisting myself, sometimes I'll just get them "short enough" and stick gloves on. I've never had a problem doing that, so I guess they do probably provide some extra scratch protection. Also in this scenario the tiredness is a non-issue because I'm not gonna fist myself for more than half an hour anyway (except when I first managed to do it, that week I did spend hours and hours on my own fists...)

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