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  1. valldelxeno
    Ah ok, that's interesting. One would certainly feel a bit silly saying they weren't undetectable because they had 1 copy per millilitre of blood.
  2. valldelxeno
    For me the looser the better, absolutely. I want to be able to put my hand, my dick, and my foot in there. Comfortably. And I want to toss myself off inside it and really give it a pounding when I'm fucking it normal. The idea that he can hardly feel anything when I do that turns me on. I'm not even a proper top lmao
  3. valldelxeno
    So undetectable means <20 now? Feels like just yesterday it was <50. Hooray for science
  4. valldelxeno
    It's not logical, but then neither is serosorting, and people do it.
  5. valldelxeno
    For people living in Spanish speaking countries there's machobb which is absolutely excellent. It's exclusively bareback and you're allowed to put whatever (legal) photos up on your profile. It has some use outside of the Hispanosphere but your mileage may vary. If you live in say, San Francisco, Berlin, or London, you might have enough luck. Here in Spain pretty much all the gays are on it though, it's great. Because guess what - no-one actually wants to use condoms...
  6. valldelxeno
    I'm by no means an expert but based on observation it seems to me that the guys with prolapsed recta from anal play have good muscle control and it just happens that they can open the pelvic floor up wide enough for it to come out - in videos you don't *tend* to see them struggle to get it back in. On the other hand, someone (often elderly) with a weak or damaged pelvic floor has it coming out uncontrollably which is more of an issue
  7. valldelxeno
    If you are fucking bareback it's implicit that you're gonna be willing to take his load. And to be honest, if someone isn't willing to then they're a little bit stupid, because the difference in STI transmission isn't huge. There is a difference, but it's not of an order of magnitude worth considering.
  8. valldelxeno
    1. Yeah I have done once, I think we only had about one guy in common, and not a lot to say about him. Decent lay and all, nothing outstanding, would repeat but haven't actually bothered to kind of thing. 2. I think it's fine. It's just like when you talk about other people you know. You talk about how lovely it was when Antonio helped you move house, how appalled you were at José's behaviour the other night, and how well Xavi's massive dick fit inside your sloppy hole...
  9. valldelxeno
    I don't remove any hair. I love a good hairy hole myself, and I also could not bear the regrowth the one time I did shave my arse. I find it odd how many guys are hairy all over but still shave their arse - although I did come across a top who preferred this, so it's not without an audience. Either way the top still fisted me after he found out mine was hairy so he can't have been that put off xD But yeah, au natural is the easiest and sexiest solution in my opinion
  10. valldelxeno
    I hope it doesn't pan out like this...it really would be awful, I don't see what way of meeting gays could be more tailored to my needs...I dislike bars because you can't hear people and I can't dance. Plus I'm not great looking so it is kind of hard when there's a restricted amount of people (by venue capacity), I depend mostly on guys that find me exotic and I will definitely have more come across my profile on a hookup app than in a bar, the sheer volume of people is what does it. I, for one, however, would gladly be on a hookup app that is PG-13. I mean, I would prefer being able to exchange nudes, but I don't really care much about the body other than him being approximately average size and preferably having a big dick. The only bit I really care to see beforehand is the face. I'm hoping there are others like me...
  11. valldelxeno
    Once I fucked three guys called Alex in the same day. I was just like...this isn't even serious everyone has the same name
  12. valldelxeno
    Ah, personally I couldn't get with closeted guys. I'm the (maybe annoying) type that would say hi to a hookup if I bumped into him in the street lol
  13. valldelxeno
    I always get his name before meeting up, even if I don't know anything else about him. Even when it's really casual, just sex and nothing else, I still like to remember that I'm being fucked by a man, not just a flesh dildo. If someone refused to tell me his name I would find it a bit weird (I mean, he could just invent one) but I would still hook up with him. But it hasn't happened yet.
  14. valldelxeno
    I don't regret having a loose hole, I love it. I love to feel it filled with fists, arms, toys (but mainly with real body parts!) and with dicks and balls together and the like. I also like to feel the wind breeze past my rosebud. The most relaxed I've ever been was possibly in a club where I was in a sling and had a friend fisting me gently, and we're all chatting away, like four of us...being fisted gently is much easier with a loose hole! Neither me nor my friend had to really concentrate on the fisting because his hand fit so easily, although I was paying a lot of attention to the sensations of pleasure, of course. But I didn't have to focus on relaxing my hole or anything. Plus, obviously I can't know for sure, but I think my hole when it's loose gives more pleasure. The reactions from guys, especially those with big dicks, is what tells me this. It looks a lot like for many of them it's a new and very intense sensation. Understandably smaller dicked guys might have a bit less sensation, but one of the guys I got with was really turned on by that which was cool. Unfortunately my hole is tight at the moment 😞 confirmation that if you leave your hole for a year without any play it goes back to "normal" again. I need to work on getting loose again
  15. valldelxeno
    I've tried it before as a bottom with milkshake. I wasn't a fan because it felt too much like I was shitting in the top's mouth, but the top, for whom it was also his first time trying it, loved it, so that's something. Funny thing was that we used too much milkshake (I think about a litre?) and quite a lot more came out as a surprise when he was fisting me. One of the funnier moments I've had during sex I have to say, we were both cracking up while I was cleaning myself of milkshake and he was cleaning the bed... I would still try it as a top, but as a bottom I'm not looking to repeat the experience to be honest. Maybe I'd do it once in a while if I had a boyfriend who was *really* into it or something, but even then it would just be a special treat. In the boyfriend scenario I'd rather that he just did that particular thing with someone else.
  16. valldelxeno
    Yeah I take note of nationality too if I know it. I don't really know why I collect this information, I guess it helps me remember the hookup for when I think of past hookups while wanking haha. Otherwise there's some decent ones that I simply wouldn't remember. I only started keeping track relatively recently though...I'm sure there was a day where I fucked three guys that all had the same name but that's nowhere to be found here...but then again, there's two guys I fucked at a club that might have been the same guy, so I guess that balances out xD
  17. valldelxeno
    To go for it and start fucking and dating earlier and more often. But conversely don't meet that guy that seems a bit dodgy. He's not actually dodgy, but he is a dickhead and will treat you like shit. The apparent dodginess should have been a red flag on its own.
  18. valldelxeno
    It obviously depends on what exactly is worrying you, if it's social anxiety then socialising more in general would help, if it's a body issue then self acceptance combined with the gym could go far, if it's to do with it being a dude then that's a pure self acceptance thing. Either way a few visits to the psychologist would likely not go amiss (I am of the opinion that way more people should see psychologists than actually and currently do) Oh, and if it's worries about not being able to get it up, viagra could help. Insert all the warnings about do not mix viagra with poppers and be careful with mixing with other medications or heart conditions etc
  19. valldelxeno
    I've gone all over the place with this issue. I started out verse, I simply liked the pleasure in both the dick and arse and also enjoyed the feeling of opening up for someone and of drilling someone. Once my sex life actually picked up I quickly found topping awkward with a lot of guys because my dick isn't that big. It's about 5 inches so it gets the job done but there can be a lot of slipping out etc. and I feel like the thrusts are lacking. At the same time I got into fisting so although I was now almost entirely a bottom for fucking, I was 50/50 verse in fisting. My sex life is currently in a bit of a lull (well, it's completely died actually because reasons) and I would say I'm more verse now because although bottoming is what I'm better at, I really spend a lot of time craving holes to leave my load in. If there's other loads already then even better. And if he complains about my dick being too small I'll just stick my hand in with it, it's all good.
  20. valldelxeno
    I got 117. I do consider myself to be quite vanilla in taste, even though I'm very open minded in terms of attitude towards more extreme stuff. That being said, I felt like a lot of the ones I haven't done were pretty extreme
  21. valldelxeno
    For me once I convert I would like it if I hit the jackpot and managed to have a reasonably high viral load without the CD4 being affected so much. I realise high viral load tends to equate to low CD4 but it's just a tendency, not a strict rule. I like the idea of firing potent loads but I dislike the disease part.
  22. valldelxeno
    I'm quiet as both a top and a bottom, but especially as a top because when I bottom I tend to give more instructions. As a top I'm not one for constantly changing positions so that is even less present. I tend to spend a lot of time kissing though so my mouth is often otherwise occupied.
  23. valldelxeno
    I'm the same. I love the idea of taking a whole arm and sometimes I try but I think my body is just too fussy with length. I think my rectum is quite short because I seem to top out at about 8 inches. Of the guys whose dicks are longer than that, most of them have been too firm to get round the bend. There was one whose erections were a bit weaker who managed and it was great. Then when it comes to flexible dildos, they're either so thin that I can't feel anything even when going deep, or they are too thick to get round the bend. To be honest, I'm not even sure how that one guy managed, because when I feel up there with my hand it's a dead end. I love being opened wide though, feeling a breeze go past my (modest) rosebud. I can't wait until I can take two fists. I almost managed it end of 2019 but for a variety of reasons have been abstaining from sex lately, so I'm going to have to train it all over again before I get to that point...
  24. valldelxeno
    I was 21, I went to a guy's house from grindr, he was 32 at the time, and we chatted for a good hour or so before going to the bedroom because I was nervous. Wasn't sure who was going to top, turned out to be me despite him having a monster cock. I ended up lasting a good one and a half hours - I'm putting that down to nerves and alcohol because I really wasn't trying to last that long, he was starting to get tired around the one hour mark. Thankfully it was the middle of winter in the UK so I didn't die of heat exhaustion from pounding away for so long. Convincing him to take the condoms off was hard but I did manage it. Thankfully I did get to try out his massive dick a few times, it was thick and his erections weren't super hard. I prefer it that way - I find that when they are long and super hard they feel a bit stabby. I used to encourage him to slam it into me as hard as he could despite not having had any anal experience - I guess my fingers had been enough practice. I had a sexual hiatus after that relationship after which I practically had to lose my virginity again, this time to a lovely, bald, toned guy in his 40s who had an average sized dick but really knew how to use it. He also stealthed me which was appreciated as at the time I was nervous about barebacking and I needed someone to just do it to me. I remember having to fish out a shredded up condom and I commented to him that there was a lot of "lube", more than I was expecting, but of course I knew it was his seed.
  25. valldelxeno
    My friends probably think I'm a complete bottom as opposed to the vers bottom I actually am. I'm very sex positive with everyone as well as just generally explicit so it really is all of them. My parents however, my dad definitely has no way of knowing either way, although he does know that I have dated guys 20 years older than me which might be a hint (even though I was actually more vers with them!) and my mother wouldn't have any idea other than if she ever found my boy butter. But even then she might be naive enough to think it just helps with masturbation of the penis variety.

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