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valldelxeno

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  1. Depends on so many things. I would say always at least 10 minutes of actual fucking. I would say on average 30-45 minutes? But sometimes you just want to be pumped full of cum and not much else, other times you want your hole to be pounded so hard you can feel it for days
  2. Same. Condoms are such a huge turn off it's unreal. It just makes me wonder how condom porn is commercially viable is all
  3. I prefer to be naked. I once bottomed with my shirt still on in a very pump and dump type situation and I didn't like getting a sweaty back. And I don't know what it is about my anatomy but I find that jockstraps get in the way for sex. My exception to the nakedness is if I go to a club, then I'll be happily wearing a harness.
  4. Strange, it seems that where Chat should be I instead have an ellipsis that redirects to the homepage. On my phone the Chat shows up fine. Of note is that when I first opened the menu on my phone, it initially gave me an ellipsis instead of the chat too, but eventually loaded the word Chat and the link to the chatroom. So I guess maybe for some reason my PC isn't letting the entire menu load, if the chat is the last thing that gets put in it? Bizarrely, the problem happens in both browsers on my PC - Opera and Edge.
  5. Do you mean at the top? I have an ellipsis which just takes me to the home page and I have "Other" which just has: Leaderboard; Calendar; Guidelines; Staff; Online Users I don't see any more icon or three horizontal bars anywhere on the page
  6. Man I wish I could freeze my cum to use as lube...but I don't think my (straight) flatmates would be very impressed by test tubes of cum in the freezer somehow
  7. "sex exprés" has its place for me but I prefer what you say, to kiss and stuff first and naturally things progress to fucking. Even when I was a totally insatiable power bottom I was the same, many a top had his attempt at pounding me into oblivion but (mostly) not before a good makeout session first. And I consider myself to be fairly quick to progress from making out and downwards. But that little bit at the beginning is important
  8. I understand this forum has a chatroom, but where is it? I don't know if I'm just being stupid or if some technical issue means it isn't showing up on my computer. But I don't see a chat function anywhere.
  9. Probably asking in the wrong place here, but I just don't get who could possibly prefer condoms in their porn. Like everyone obviously prefers to fuck bare, whether or not people choose to do it themselves, weighing up the pros and cons...but surely in porn, which is meant to be a kind of fantasy land, bareback should be universally preferred?
  10. I think it's great that this site allows you to change your handle for this reason. On most sites you can't, and deleting accounts doesn't always remove everything (and, well, we can't delete our accounts here anyway iirc)
  11. Do what you feel most comfortable doing. If that is starting with bareback, go ahead. If you want to use condoms at the beginning, there is a logic to that too. Personally I don't have condom sex but there are risks even if you are on PrEP (how much you think that risk would affect you is a different question). You say about heading towards bareback: I don't think anyone really uses condoms with their boyfriends. Or very few people at least (e.g. serodiscordant couples without TasP/PrEP). My point here is that everyone is always heading towards bareback sex, but you should do what you think is right for you now, not what you think will be right for you later.
  12. Gosh my last time was end of 2019. Need to work on that. It was a fisting night at a club. Great fun. I loved feeling a breeze going past my hole (with a mini rosebud thing going on) and having random guys come up to me and fuck me. Like I really didn't care who they were, I was already in the sling with a nicely prepped hole, anyone was welcome to stick their dick and/or fist in and enjoy. I'd just be there chatting to my mates and getting fucked and fisted at the same time
  13. Exactly: you "try" it once, everything after that isn't trying, it's doing
  14. For some reason that surprises me, given that it's BZ. But as you say, everyone is different. Pa gustos colores. I love a wrecked arsehole, the more wrecked the better. I really wanna fuck someone's rosebud, but I've never actually fisted someone with a bigger rosebud than mine (which wasn't that big to begin with)
  15. Hard agree, sex between older and younger men can be great, especially if they're both good looking, but I don't get why it seems like *everything* has to be incest. I don't want to offend anyone that's into it but for me it has a real ick factor. Maybe I'm particularly averse to it because my older brother is gay and when he worked at my school there were all sorts of (untrue) rumours that he had assaulted me and that's why I'm gay. Plus, my family members aren't attractive. I got lucky with genes and I'm still probably below average. But back to the point, it feels to me like in porn incest is hugely over-represented. It's hard to say the same about BZ because a) it's a community which is relatively hardcore anyway and b) it's more "grassroots" so it's hard to accuse it of not being representative. But likewise, the backroom topics here are over-represented because that's half the point of the forum.
  16. Barcelona here! Anyone from Catalunya feel free to hit me up
  17. The first time I successfully fisted myself I didn't leave my hole alone for a week. I spent so many hours just crouched on my bed punching my cunt.
  18. I had it done professionally once and, well, here's my experience. Firstly, the technician noticed that I was very well behaved and appeared much more comfortable than most being filled with water. I mean, I guess that comes with douching practice and also being filled with fists. I think the session went on for longer than it was meant to, though, and I was expelling for much longer than I was meant to. Even once all the water was out, once I got home I wasn't clean. I think it just irritated my colon to be honest, because since then my colon has been much worse behaved. Without going into too much detail, prior to the colonic I had the occasional upset but generally was fine, could douche in a normal amount of time etc. Since then there have been a lot more problems and douching is much more challenging. So personally I don't recommend a colonic but that's just based on my experience. I had a teacher (not a fisting teacher, an actual teacher) who used to swear by colonics, so they seemingly help some people.
  19. A lot of guys like it if it's not the first time it's happened to them. At least in fisting circles the common wisdom is that you piss when it's extremely pleasurable. I find that to usually be true as well. Would love it if someone could fuck the piss out of me with just their dick too
  20. I often piss when I get fisted. I try to go beforehand but sometimes even then a surprising amount of piss gets fisted out of me. For this reason I tend to warn guys about it, luckily lots of fisters are into watersports too
  21. You will get some STIs if you have enough sex but you've correctly singled out the chronic ones. I wouldn't worry as such about herpes just because so many people have it. In the general world population it's more than 1 in 10 people, amongst gay men it is probably even higher. You can and should get vaccinated against hepatitis A and hepatitis B (although in some places there's a shortage of one of those or the other - last time I checked in the UK they were short of A and in Spain they were short of B, I think) and in some places you can get vaccinated against HPV. The other infections can all be treated, the guideline is to get tested every 3 months. Because of window periods, getting tested more often than that is considered unnecessary unless you need to get tested for work reasons (so if you're a porn star or a prostitute)
  22. I read a study on this and cumming outside approximately halves risk of HIV infection. Pointless if you ask me. If it were at least one order of magnitude, it might have some value as a protection method. But only halving? So the risk goes from about 1.5% to 0.75%. Not even a single percentage point.
  23. I've only ever felt it a couple of times when we've both held perfectly still for that purpose. Otherwise the movement of the dick in and out is just way more than a bit of cum splashing around. Even if he shoots with a lot of force
  24. Would love to find love but not sure it'll ever happen. I don't think that has anything to do with being a slut though
  25. I prefer nothing at all. Jocks are acceptable though, and I wear them to parties. I detest thongs
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