NicNorth

Quality can beat quantity.

I’ve had a few sexual encounters when neither of us spoke a word - we both knew what to do and got on with enjoying each other. Not much conversation in a dark room for example.

Had a horny time at my regular sauna in South London - basic place but everyone is up for sex and a really friendly vibe. Met up with a FB had a bit of a cuddle (he is really hot and passionate) but today he didn’t seem up for a fuck (or so I thought) so I left him to explore. Bit later went into the crowded steam room & squeezed next to my FB & we started making out. I was sucking his dick which was extra hard - he got me to sit on it. It was so crowded not sure if anyone else noticed us. We alternated me riding him and passionate kissing. I quickly realised he had not blown his load yet so his balls were really full. Five more sweaty minutes and he shot what was a huge load into me. I could feel some of it roll down my legs as climbed off him. I thought that was going to be it for the day. I wandered around a bit enjoying the sites sucking a few dicks watching others fuck - as usual not a condom in sight. Then this really sexy Chinese guy great chest muscles no body hair except his pits and bush. Followed him into a cubical. Great kisser and a thick uncut cock which I started to suck - could feel it grow in my mouth as it got even thicker. I was hoping for some precum at least. He was encouraging me to keep sucking which I enjoyed as his thick cock got bigger and harder and he started figuring my hole. I was definitely up for him to fuck me but wondered if I could take it comfortably - it was very thick. Next thing he had me on my knees and because of the previous load he slid in easily & I got used to him. He then spent 20 minutes fucking me in every position finally with me sitting on him. He had slowed up the thrusts by then and I was squeezing his shaft with my arse muscles. I was just starting to get a bit sore and glad of the relaxed pace. He was lying back with his hands behind his head and I could see and smell his sexy pits - a big turn on for me. I was wondering if he was ever going to blow and thinking of making my exit whin he really got excited by this squeezing blew big load inside me. Session ended with me getting him hard again with my mouth and him fucking me a bit more. Came home very satisfied.

I’ve been on daily prep for a few years - lower (but consistently so) kidney scores have meant I’m now on Descovy. A smaller pill and no side effects - kidney scores staying the same. Does make sex more relaxed and enjoyable. Also started doxyprep which has reduced so far to nil the amount of bacterial STDs .

Love missionary fucks: the eye contact, the chance to kiss and play with his chest/nipples and the smell of his pits - so hot. Then the reward of the look on his face as he unloads.

That was hot

The party that won here in the UK was careful in its campaign to stay on the middle ground and to emphasise good governance, openness & fiscal responsibility. Their leader a bit dull and certainly not flashy offered a period of stability. The Conservatives here were tainted by a period of Trumpian activity and irresponsible financial plans that spooked the market. It now looks like the grown ups are in charge. We also saw a small number of nationalist right wing candidates (5) elected but hugely outnumbered by a large number (72) Liberal Democrat MPs who are more progressive than Labour on some issues. Our system is different so I don’t know how much there is a read through to the US from this. I hope the reset with Kamala Harris gets the Democrats back on track

As someone from the other side of the pond it’s very interesting and instructive to read all these thoughtful comments it’s helped me understand both the dilemmas and calculations needed to be made. Here in the UK we care very much about how this will play out and I personally hope the Democrats find the best solution.

That sounds hot - enjoy the after burn

It depends on our definition of ‘nice’ which will vary according to who is asked. Political discourse has become polarised and more angry than I’ve ever remembered and I hope we can all row back from that. Nice (what ever it does mean) might not even be that hot for many - this is a LGBTQ site after all. Personally I have found the most aggression comes from ends of the political spectrum & where our community has suffered the most. That puts me in the middle but I would suggest the middle is where the most progress is achieved quietly and gradually. I would say that when we put political leaders in the balance we have to look at the whole picture both behaviour and policies. When we challenge the bad stuff we don’t have to play their game either. Our community has been good at being creative when fighting for our rights. Im sure I’ve not directly answered your question but a binary response may not be the most helpful one. If not actually nice let's all be respectful.

I used to spit but nearly always swallow although I would prefer the guy to cum in my arse

Un cut - I’m not sure if that was why I prefer uncut now. I l love the way an uncut dick head slides in and out of a guys foreskin when they fuck. Even better if they have a tight foreskin and it only slides back during vigorous raw fucking.

I agree - if a guy asks if I'm clean it’s a real turn off - I tell him I’ve had a shower and move into the next guy.

Not cold just honest - much better for both of you in the long term.

I remember the same thing - pens and little cards for people to exchange numbers - we used to call them trolling cards (back in the day troll meant cruise here in the uk). The more optimistic amongst us would carry cards with our name and number!

Most of the guys I’ve dated or lived with were first met in a sauna.

Older and still pretty horny - love younger guys so glad a good number have daddy issues and some of them also top.

Kissing always top of my list love the intimacy, the connection. I’m not that keen on sex without it - as long as the guy has good dental hygiene.

Such a range of things above - for me I hairy chests, pits & bush - shaved body hair big turn off. Love musky mansmell, foreskins, precum, bit of stubble rather than a beard and guys without tattos. And nice eyes.

Confidence is such a big part of sex for me if I’m feeling confident I get so much more out of getting fucked.

I agree - take the view that if they aren’t interested they aren’t worth my attention either. Does help to choose the right places and go for guys who are really into fucking.

In my 60s and I find it depends on where you seek younger guys. Some saunas are full of younger guys who are looking for mirror images of themselves or have taken too many substances to show interest in anyone. Other places with a mixture of ages the younger guys who do come know what they are looking for and are definitely up to fuck and get fucked by older men.

Sounds hot - hope you see him again

Been using it for 6 months and clear of anything after 2 tests. Not scientific but promising.

Fridays can be good for a sauna visit - guys horny after a weeks work w as bring to drain their cock before the weekend starts.