Sfmike64
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Minimum number of people to make it an orgy?
Sfmike64 replied to cintarius's topic in General Discussion
When I was a baby gay in the early 80s I read something somewhere that said one is masturbation, two is love, three is a ménage, four never works and five is an orgy. -
That's a fair point. But no reason you can't proceed on all fronts. Use the apps but also go out. It's the same advice I'd give a vanilla person.
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I'm really verbal (and love using all kinds of slang for your hole). But I am occasionally too much for some bottoms. I can start spinning out a story and sometimes they ask me to tone it down. But others respond to it and we have a blast (thanks for J who I met in SF about 15 years ago who helped me discover my talent for verbal nasty). When I first played with trans guys, though, I made SURE to ask what to call their front hole. CUNT was the choice, both of them said pussy was verboten and I respected that. Other times I've run into both cis and trans guys who said "hey don't use word X." And I respect that and stop. There are SO many hot euphemisms for your ass that it's easy to pick and choose.
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Like learning how to date, the people who don't want to break you in with more aggressive sex are NOT PEOPLE YOU WANT TO PLAY WITH. Find someone who will be patient with you, respect your limits (even if they pretend you don't have any...EVERYONE has limits and should be explicit about them) and will discuss the scene with you BEFORE you play. Preferably in person. Be patient. You're not just looking for a fuck, you're looking to explore BDSM and that's more complicated. Set up a Recon (also Growlr since you're into bears/dads) profile and be explicit about what you've done and have not done and what turns you on and want to explore. A top that's worth your time (and responds to your looks and personality) will make time and respect you and your limits. Try to make friends who are into the scene even if you don't want to fuck them (or vice versa). Having a wingman/mentor can be a very useful thing. Good luck. That's a nice butt. Someone should be playing with it and telling you you're a dirty faggot. 🙂
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Maybe find someone who has a selection and play together. Then you can find toys that you like. I found that the inflatables were sometimes hard to manage (perhaps the ones I had where cheaper and thinner) so they folded up when you were trying to insert them. But once you got it in your hole you could play up and down with stretching your ass (remember those are muscles and respond to use) quickly and easily.
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Have you tried inflatable toys? I used to really enjoy those when I was bottoming a lot. That gives you a lot of options about how fast and far to stretch your hole.
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Of all the men I’ve ever had sex with. I’ve never been with someone who had hyper spermia, but I sure would love to feel that ginormous load shooting in my ass.
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I'm gonna date myself now. The only thing I ever shoplifted was porn magazines. In my hometown (Champaign, IL) there was a bookstore across the street from the bus stop going home. I used to go in there all the time waiting for the bus home. That was when I discovered Honcho (THE BEST), Mandate, Blueboy, Playguy, etc. This would've been around 1979. I was 15. I would shoplift them, until I finally clocked the owner of the bookstore was gay (the other owner was I think his sister). He sold them to me no questions. They were only $1.95. I wish I still had all those old Honcho magazines! That's where I discovered that I really preferred stories to pictures. My problem with most porn these days is that no one is having any fun. They usually look bored. My favorite porn guy is Joel Someone because he's sexy as fuck and ALWAYS looks like he's having fun. He made a fun video with King Dwarf (I also dig short guys) where they're both laughing and having a blast. To me that's super sexy.
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Corrupting a Little Bro at the Bathhouse
Sfmike64 replied to rawrawraw76's topic in Chem Sex FICTION
He hasn't logged on in many years now (I just checked....2017.) It's too bad, and I, too, hope he's OK. I've shot a lot of loads from his stories. -
For taking anon loads, prefer hotel or sex club?
Sfmike64 replied to WestSideBB72's topic in General Discussion
That sounds like the start of a porn story. -
Sent me a private message and I can help you.
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Your mom: "hold my beer." You just don't remember. 🙂 I once went to see my doctor (a lesbian) in SF and asked her about a mark on my dick. She said not to worry, just a zit. Then I started laughing and told her...."I just realized that other than my mother changing my diapers as a baby, you're the only woman who's ever touched my dick." She had a lot of gay male patients (she was a prominent HIV doc) and thought this was HILARIOUS.
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Ah. Not to yuck someone's yum, but....no.
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Bend over sexy pig.
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Have you taken the BDSM test and show us your results
Sfmike64 replied to Shotsfired's topic in Softcore Fetishes Forum
== Results from bdsmtest.org: == 98% Voyeur 97% Exhibitionist 95% Non-monogamist 94% Degrader 93% Switch 90% Experimentalist 85% Degradee 76% Dominant 67% Brat tamer 64% Sadist 60% Primal (Hunter) 26% Rigger 26% Submissive 22% Owner 19% Master/Mistress 18% Vanilla 10% Daddy/Mommy 9% Pet 0% Ageplayer 0% Brat 0% Little 0% Masochist 0% Primal (Prey) 0% Rope bunny 0% Slave Interesting. I consider myself 100% Daddy.
