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PozBearWI

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About PozBearWI

  • Birthday March 5

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  • Gender
    Male
  • Location
    SE Wisconsin
  • Interests
    Sex with men. I try to not box myself in with one or another exact sex play; although as ED tends to interrupt me more often than I desire; cock sucking seems to be my dominate activity recently. Pre ED flip fucking was my most frequent play. I am not a fan of pain. Have played scat stuff and don't find it appealing. Being the one to have to clean it all up after; it is more chore than pleasure for me.

    Our men who enjoy sex with men part of our community; I have enjoyed lots of conversations here on BZ that are not sex based. In those circumstances I feel more part of a community. I don't have a hard and fast "type"; definitely willing to try once at least and we'll know how we clicked sexually. And even if we don't click much sexually; I am happy when those develop into friendships.

    As a group here, now, in 2023; my sense is our rather open social acceptance is at risk of moving back to fantasy based decisions. Facts and "I don't like" (aka; opinion or thougths about) are often at odds.

    WRT DADT; in part poz social acceptance in the coming years might very well get pretty vicious. I don't know that it will, but my observations of social (fueled by political) tolerance is that we're moving away from it while talking a good game. I am a fan of social tolerance about things we do to ourselves. I am not a fan of tolerance about prohibiting others rights to what happens within their own body. In my opinion each of us should have decision domain over our body. And for me there is a big difference between that and restrictions about where I can put my body. While a flawed system; restricting a social abusers contact with others makes sense. Sentencing seems deeply flawed; fueled also more by religion than risk mitigation.

    I also realize that while I will always find it interesting to discuss the above matters; I fall strongly in the "you do you" camp. Whether it is in opinion or our varied and rather widely differing abilities and talents. The why behind disagreements is often interesting to me; even if the founding principle. I am rather startled at the claims "it's worth any amount of money if we can save just one child"... We each have a time living; some quite short, some quite long, most somewhere in the middle. Perhaps it is simply my stage in life; 3/4 of a century. Being out and gay for half a century now has exposed me to quite a bit of change in public and private opinion. Experiencing a new fatal illness in my communities mix has our recently ended COVID pandemic a relative "walk in the park".

    Jim 7/4/23
  • HIV Status
    Poz, Not On Meds
  • Role
    Versatile
  • Background
    Been out and active since the mid 1970s. My pozzing was by choice to see if I could counteract my genetic resistance to HIV infection. And it wasn't a guarantee. But five months of monthly testing after my exposures I finally tested reactive in 2023. Twelve years ago I would never have done it; and I am certainly cognizant that HIV is not a trivial disease. However it is mostly controllable with a lower side effect profile. I already have diseases for life. I have too many dead friends and I only have a comparitively few years to "walk in their shoes". It is an experience I most definitely am grateful to be experiencing. Will it be much like other stuff I have, not terribly invasive to my ability to self care, get around, experience other facets of living.
  • Porn Experience
    None; save for home videos.
  • Looking For
    Primarily a happy exchange of energy. Raw only though. Might be my place in rural America but the majority of my play buds just want my talented oral skills. I definitely enjoy that and would never say no to sucking a guy off. I would like to redevelop a good topping/bottoming reputation again. It is perhaps excellent that u=u has taken hold somewhat. But largely guys in my area seem to want to avoid poz guys.

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  • BarebackRT Profile Name
    jizzdumpwi
  • Adam4Adam Profile Name
    JustJim

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    pozbearwi@curiouschaser.com

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  1. Indeed @Poz50something hopefully as we age we gain more direct experiences in ourselves and our associates in life. Whether Grandpa Joe (my affectionate reference for him) was getting chemo a year ago really doesn't matter. It was always ill advised for him to attempt a second term. I was disappointed he did that as it eliminated what I believe would have been valuable debate. At the same time, I am disappointed there wasn't more of a challenge to that. I seem to be perpetually in the "vote for least worst" camp. Coming to that conclusion can sometimes be a challenge. For me I don't see any logic in voting Donnie back in; but obviously many did. But now is the time to get deep into planning on "where to from here".
  2. Truly, whether Mr Biden knew he had cancer or not doesn't matter. There are a lot of us with prostate cancer who are simply monitoring it. Us older men and prostate cancer are a thing you know.... There are also a lot of people living and working who have cancer. It's an assumption to use this now as if it were significant. Any of us who watched the now famous debate saw and heard exactly how Biden performed. I believe had the election proceeded as primaried, and the debate failure had never occurred, Biden likely would have won. But we'll never know... I believe most of us took Biden as a one term guy. There are in the Democratic party others who would have been stronger challengers, had they been part of the primaries. This is where the Dems I think took a major misstep. Once Biden did pull out, primaries were over. The logical choice then was to put the VP in, which is what would have occurred had President Biden passed away. Logically correct but I think the misstep occurred by Biden running in the primaries at all.
  3. @Bokkierob man both are beautiful!
  4. We may see this change over the next couple of years, but there are a lot of us barebackers who fucked for decades without getting infected. It is not just a simple thing to get pozzed by fucking. I'm in the "why fuck if it isn't raw" camp. I recall the advertising of the 80's when the claim was made "you can't tell the difference"; and everyone I knew and met anyway still strongly preferred bareback, as did I. It isn't a bad life getting STI screenings on a regular basis to maintain sexual health. We have PrEP and doxyPEP as reasonable options. CDC seems to have removed the OK for PrEP on demand; but that is a viable option as long as one is consistent.
  5. @Sfmike64 would you mind giving your example of "the way to ask this question nicely". The Breedingzone Community covers a broad range of experiences, giving your example would, for me anyway, shown you being "nice".
  6. Never sure, but for example it seems like the old viral guy succeeded while Will was sucking off Arther
  7. Thanks @Jaygusher Nice addition. Seems like Will has had a few deposits of viral jizz...
  8. @Jaygusher have you an update coming?
  9. If my bottom says "stop" I'll stop then and there. If he says "don't cum in me" that is always for me as a maybe. More often than not "don't cum in me" changes to "don't stop".
  10. PozBearWI

    On Evolving Spaces

    Perhaps most significant as I read were your words "drop anchor". Isn't that what "home" is? Isn't "home" not only where we live, but the life we're living?
  11. Obviously we might choose to take up residence elsewhere. At least, for now we have some freedom of choice about that. There are ExPats from every nation including the US from all over the world. For me, US is home. Three quarters of a century here. I've owned a home in Central America for more than a decade, sold, thankfully, just before Covid lockdown. Maintaining awareness of how that government worked (a simpler system than the US) and the effects on that comparatively smaller scale of ill considered political decisions informs my view on what is unfolding in the US as I write this. There are plenty here who wish to intrude to our private consensual decisions with each other. Rather than see that continue to erode here it seems time to put an end to our current trajectory.
  12. Nice story. I just enjoyed a reread. We know how the next night likely went. Where I am curious is how Papa navigates this with his wife?
  13. PozBearWI

    On Compatibility

    Good that James recognized the future.
  14. I think the expectation that I pulled out is unrealistic. He would be wise to express pain to me. If he just says "stop", sadly a lot depends upon how he utters those words.
  15. @ffWhole individual results always vary.
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