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About PozBearWI
- Birthday March 5
Profile Information
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Gender
Male
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Location
SE Wisconsin
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Interests
Sex with men. I try to not box myself in with one or another exact sex play; although as ED tends to interrupt me more often than I desire; cock sucking seems to be my dominate activity recently. Pre ED flip fucking was my most frequent play. I am not a fan of pain. Have played scat stuff and don't find it appealing. Being the one to have to clean it all up after; it is more chore than pleasure for me.
Our men who enjoy sex with men part of our community; I have enjoyed lots of conversations here on BZ that are not sex based. In those circumstances I feel more part of a community. I don't have a hard and fast "type"; definitely willing to try once at least and we'll know how we clicked sexually. And even if we don't click much sexually; I am happy when those develop into friendships.
As a group here, now, in 2023; my sense is our rather open social acceptance is at risk of moving back to fantasy based decisions. Facts and "I don't like" (aka; opinion or thougths about) are often at odds.
WRT DADT; in part poz social acceptance in the coming years might very well get pretty vicious. I don't know that it will, but my observations of social (fueled by political) tolerance is that we're moving away from it while talking a good game. I am a fan of social tolerance about things we do to ourselves. I am not a fan of tolerance about prohibiting others rights to what happens within their own body. In my opinion each of us should have decision domain over our body. And for me there is a big difference between that and restrictions about where I can put my body. While a flawed system; restricting a social abusers contact with others makes sense. Sentencing seems deeply flawed; fueled also more by religion than risk mitigation.
I also realize that while I will always find it interesting to discuss the above matters; I fall strongly in the "you do you" camp. Whether it is in opinion or our varied and rather widely differing abilities and talents. The why behind disagreements is often interesting to me; even if the founding principle. I am rather startled at the claims "it's worth any amount of money if we can save just one child"... We each have a time living; some quite short, some quite long, most somewhere in the middle. Perhaps it is simply my stage in life; 3/4 of a century. Being out and gay for half a century now has exposed me to quite a bit of change in public and private opinion. Experiencing a new fatal illness in my communities mix has our recently ended COVID pandemic a relative "walk in the park".
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HIV Status
Poz, Not On Meds
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Role
Versatile
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Background
Been out and active since the mid 1970s. My pozzing was by choice to see if I could counteract my genetic resistance to HIV infection. And it wasn't a guarantee. But five months of monthly testing after my exposures I finally tested reactive in 2023. Twelve years ago I would never have done it; and I am certainly cognizant that HIV is not a trivial disease. However it is mostly controllable with a lower side effect profile. I already have diseases for life. I have too many dead friends and I only have a comparitively few years to "walk in their shoes". It is an experience I most definitely am grateful to be experiencing. Will it be much like other stuff I have, not terribly invasive to my ability to self care, get around, experience other facets of living.
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Porn Experience
None; save for home videos.
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Looking For
Primarily a happy exchange of energy. Raw only though. Might be my place in rural America but the majority of my play buds just want my talented oral skills. I definitely enjoy that and would never say no to sucking a guy off. I would like to redevelop a good topping/bottoming reputation again. It is perhaps excellent that u=u has taken hold somewhat. But largely guys in my area seem to want to avoid poz guys.
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BarebackRT Profile Name
jizzdumpwi
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Adam4Adam Profile Name
JustJim
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Website URL
pozbearwi@curiouschaser.com
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Indeed, perhaps the better way to frame it is that BZ is following the legislative restrictions.
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@Pozguyinchi would you remind me of when this was? I think it is relevant what year we pozzed in our overall experience of it. Two years in for me and starting out poz when HIV is pretty well understood, with a whole lot of options on how to manage it. WRT Fuck Flu - truly at this point my big concern with the whole Fuck Flu conversation is that only about half of us infected ever experience. HIV manifests in each of us differently, sometimes profoundly differently. I have some concerns when it sounds like guys are using "Fuck Flu" as their indicator they are infected.
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This sounds so similar to my own relationship with Rich. We've been together more than 25 years now. But very early in our time together we made our relationship sexually open. It isn't that we're out there "all the time" getting hot dates. But it is OK if we have sex with someone else. Neither of us has imbued sex for us as having magical powers. It is equally OK for us to have sex with ourselves. Again, no magic. We care for each other in more important ways. Available with each other. Participant in each others lives. We are each others immediate family. Siblings family, but less immediate. And including a family of friends. We're participants in our community, me more than Rich because he still works whereas I've been retired for the better part of a decade. @Philip wherever you two take this; he sounds like a good one to keep close.
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@BlindRawFucker1 at the point you cease life.
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Oh fuck yes. I crave my boners of old when I could flip fuck all night; and did. Sensations just aren't as powerful as they were. Nerve damage perhaps? When I truly connect with stories of other poz guys; often that lead to my strongest and furthest spurts, but my eyes are safe. 🙂
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We do @BlindRawFucker1 conform to our surroundings, and out abilities. I suppose we can resist what is, but over the long haul, accepting ourselves seems to be one's life mission.
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Well said @hntnhole. The reason to uphold Israel is that it is a big rock in a pond of the primary religion of the area, where there remains centuries of war. But plopping a democracy in the middle of all that has brought a focus on the things humanity; that is all of us humans on earth; have to grapple with if we hope our species survives. Military cooperation has historically brought intelligence to each nations defense. To Donnie's big decision; if the majority of democratic nations on earth agree to take out Iran's nuclear capability with US bombs; that should be one shared by most, not just (and illegally) by Donnie sans legislature (the body charged with that decision). My hope is that the citizens of Israel jettison Netty soon; and get a more rational centrist PM.
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@akula I would love to say it get's better. Mostly, it pays to tap into other things we love... Which isn't to give up, but to accept ourselves as we actually are.
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Can we please come to a generally accepted definition of "cheating"? I know for my mate and me; we are free to enjoy sex with anyone we fancy. If permission were ever needed; it has already been given. When I think of cheating I think of POTUS.
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Yikes, mid 77th year sure got here in a hurry! Unmedicated poz old guy with ED. CRAP!!!! One thing I did not expect was how sexually undesirable that makes me. A stark contrast to not so many years ago... I've no regret whatever about being poz. I knew at some point that would be the case, and that it waited for 3/4 of my life be done has been a blessing. Some harsh lessons I haven't had to personally experience. Not lost on me.... What I crave? I have loved hiking. And notice joints and tendons beginning to show signs of age. So I need a regular hiking bud. If that were hiking with mutual stroke or such, that would be a delight too. But conversation while hiking is such a pleasure. And my sweet husband, his other lovely attributes notwithstanding, is big into the whole "silent type" thing. He listens. But he is much more thoughtful than conversational. Still, even then, we enjoy walking with each other. Sex: A couple times a week I jack off. It isn't that I don't want to so much as it takes a fair amount of focus to get the plumbing responding. Rusty pipes? 🙂 Evidently the universe misunderstood me when I wished for a larger dick; and instead gave me a prodigious prostate. In that case, size matters, but not in a good way. So ED a serious issue that is difficult for me to overcome; especially in the last year. Improving that is another hoped for benefit of regular hikes. So most of the time it is better to focus on other enjoyable things than sex; and perhaps truly appreciate those couple times I go on a mental journey to orgasm and ejaculation....
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What is the best position to get seeded as deep as possible?
PozBearWI replied to Pampix's topic in General Discussion
I would love first hand experience of you fucking me @partying.hard -
Same @partying.hard, I never had the fuck flu.
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Well done! Thanks @kspozcum
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How Long After Infection Did You Get Fuck Flu?
PozBearWI replied to rawTOP's topic in HIV/AIDS & Sexual Health Issues
Pozzed by injection here. Never got a fuck flu.
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