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About PozBearWI
- Birthday March 5
Profile Information
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Gender
Male
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Location
SE Wisconsin
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Interests
Sex with men. I try to not box myself in with one or another exact sex play; although as ED tends to interrupt me more often than I desire; cock sucking seems to be my dominate activity recently. Pre ED flip fucking was my most frequent play. I am not a fan of pain. Have played scat stuff and don't find it appealing. Being the one to have to clean it all up after; it is more chore than pleasure for me.
Our men who enjoy sex with men part of our community; I have enjoyed lots of conversations here on BZ that are not sex based. In those circumstances I feel more part of a community. I don't have a hard and fast "type"; definitely willing to try once at least and we'll know how we clicked sexually. And even if we don't click much sexually; I am happy when those develop into friendships.
As a group here, now, in 2023; my sense is our rather open social acceptance is at risk of moving back to fantasy based decisions. Facts and "I don't like" (aka; opinion or thougths about) are often at odds.
WRT DADT; in part poz social acceptance in the coming years might very well get pretty vicious. I don't know that it will, but my observations of social (fueled by political) tolerance is that we're moving away from it while talking a good game. I am a fan of social tolerance about things we do to ourselves. I am not a fan of tolerance about prohibiting others rights to what happens within their own body. In my opinion each of us should have decision domain over our body. And for me there is a big difference between that and restrictions about where I can put my body. While a flawed system; restricting a social abusers contact with others makes sense. Sentencing seems deeply flawed; fueled also more by religion than risk mitigation.
I also realize that while I will always find it interesting to discuss the above matters; I fall strongly in the "you do you" camp. Whether it is in opinion or our varied and rather widely differing abilities and talents. The why behind disagreements is often interesting to me; even if the founding principle. I am rather startled at the claims "it's worth any amount of money if we can save just one child"... We each have a time living; some quite short, some quite long, most somewhere in the middle. Perhaps it is simply my stage in life; 3/4 of a century. Being out and gay for half a century now has exposed me to quite a bit of change in public and private opinion. Experiencing a new fatal illness in my communities mix has our recently ended COVID pandemic a relative "walk in the park".
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HIV Status
Poz, Not On Meds
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Role
Versatile
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Background
Been out and active since the mid 1970s. My pozzing was by choice to see if I could counteract my genetic resistance to HIV infection. And it wasn't a guarantee. But five months of monthly testing after my exposures I finally tested reactive in 2023. Twelve years ago I would never have done it; and I am certainly cognizant that HIV is not a trivial disease. However it is mostly controllable with a lower side effect profile. I already have diseases for life. I have too many dead friends and I only have a comparitively few years to "walk in their shoes". It is an experience I most definitely am grateful to be experiencing. Will it be much like other stuff I have, not terribly invasive to my ability to self care, get around, experience other facets of living.
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Porn Experience
None; save for home videos.
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Looking For
Primarily a happy exchange of energy. Raw only though. Might be my place in rural America but the majority of my play buds just want my talented oral skills. I definitely enjoy that and would never say no to sucking a guy off. I would like to redevelop a good topping/bottoming reputation again. It is perhaps excellent that u=u has taken hold somewhat. But largely guys in my area seem to want to avoid poz guys.
More Info
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BarebackRT Profile Name
jizzdumpwi
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Recon Profile Name
PozBearWI
Contact Methods
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Website URL
pozbearwi@curiouschaser.com
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It is of course, those words "in the legal sense".... And while legally I have no disagreement, we become aware of ourselves as humans at least a decade before we are legally an adult. If that teen has the ability to say yes or no to start or stop the activity, then legal be damned, they consented. Your own experience has to show you that...
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First, sucks you were raped. No one deserves that. Rape though while it involves sex parts typically, isn't what I was suggesting. Rape is by definition non consensual. If coach had talked with me and we agreed we were both interested, I don't think that would have been traumatic even if, for example, I was in my earlier teens. If I had been raped? Man I don't know. I am grateful I wasn't. How are you @blackrobe?
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Indeed, for a long time I've struggled to understand how sex with an adult would have damaged me. One of the coaches in high school was a stud I craved, even when I didn't really understand why. I find it hard to believe that if he had made a first move; or if I had (obviously I wasn't ready, brave enough, or such); that would have somehow damaged me. Sex at its core is something we discover. It seems to me by design to be a trial and error, trial and succeed sort of human experience. No one taught me how to masturbate. I figured it out unaided; and while once I started and would read "Ann Landers" teen advice; the antijack movement then didn't deter me. And somehow I had a productive career, and solid relationship and a comfortable enough retirement. Have I made plenty of missteps (eg: mistakes)? Oh hell yes. And learned from them.
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Do you really want to stop?
PozBearWI replied to aguyinthedesert's topic in Bug Chasing & Gift Giving FICTION
Odds are that it didn't. -
Welcome to BreedingZone @VirginEuroLatin.
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Do you really want to stop?
PozBearWI replied to aguyinthedesert's topic in Bug Chasing & Gift Giving FICTION
I doubt this will be the last time the three of them play -
How would you describe the real male taste of semen?
PozBearWI replied to a topic in General Discussion
Delicious -
I tend to interpret "side" as "not necessarily top or bottom". How one sets those parameters in a profile does not, for me, replace a conversation. They are a rough guide to discuss what we might do.
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I certainly do. Maybe with a bit of felching mixed in.
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Thanks for introducing yourself @Str8BottomFaggot. Actually even "faggots" are real men. I don't know where this delusional stuff comes from that a man being fucked makes him less of a man. I would argue it makes him more of a man - if it is relevant to manhood at all. Obviously you are in fact attracted to men physically or you wouldn't still be thinking about your college experiences and wishing that were your life now. To your point of "no going back", if you've achieved a point where life is pleasurable, what on earth are you wanting to go back to???
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The boy who craved destruction
PozBearWI replied to PleaseDestroyMe's topic in Bug Chasing & Gift Giving FICTION
Whenever I read a story like this, I wonder what happens after. So time passes, the twink gets used a few more times; is finally poz and faced with man after man begging for his charged load.... How does that play out??? -
The risk is less than most seem to know. I rawfucked for decades, caught a few other STI's but by fucking, HIV eluded me.
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Who was your most influential dick?
PozBearWI replied to cumfillthishole's topic in Cocksucking Discussion
I kind of struggle with the idea of influence... Best I can come up with is that my dick has been my most influential dick. Following the "little head" into pleasure. Too many dicks experienced to confine myself to one. I know there are many dozens I've forgotten. Perhaps if the question were "memorable dicks". But even then many would be "favorites".
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