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About PozBearWI
- Birthday March 5
Profile Information
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Gender
Male
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Location
SE Wisconsin
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Interests
Sex with men. I try to not box myself in with one or another exact sex play; although as ED tends to interrupt me more often than I desire; cock sucking seems to be my dominate activity recently. Pre ED flip fucking was my most frequent play. I am not a fan of pain. Have played scat stuff and don't find it appealing. Being the one to have to clean it all up after; it is more chore than pleasure for me.
Our men who enjoy sex with men part of our community; I have enjoyed lots of conversations here on BZ that are not sex based. In those circumstances I feel more part of a community. I don't have a hard and fast "type"; definitely willing to try once at least and we'll know how we clicked sexually. And even if we don't click much sexually; I am happy when those develop into friendships.
As a group here, now, in 2023; my sense is our rather open social acceptance is at risk of moving back to fantasy based decisions. Facts and "I don't like" (aka; opinion or thougths about) are often at odds.
WRT DADT; in part poz social acceptance in the coming years might very well get pretty vicious. I don't know that it will, but my observations of social (fueled by political) tolerance is that we're moving away from it while talking a good game. I am a fan of social tolerance about things we do to ourselves. I am not a fan of tolerance about prohibiting others rights to what happens within their own body. In my opinion each of us should have decision domain over our body. And for me there is a big difference between that and restrictions about where I can put my body. While a flawed system; restricting a social abusers contact with others makes sense. Sentencing seems deeply flawed; fueled also more by religion than risk mitigation.
I also realize that while I will always find it interesting to discuss the above matters; I fall strongly in the "you do you" camp. Whether it is in opinion or our varied and rather widely differing abilities and talents. The why behind disagreements is often interesting to me; even if the founding principle. I am rather startled at the claims "it's worth any amount of money if we can save just one child"... We each have a time living; some quite short, some quite long, most somewhere in the middle. Perhaps it is simply my stage in life; 3/4 of a century. Being out and gay for half a century now has exposed me to quite a bit of change in public and private opinion. Experiencing a new fatal illness in my communities mix has our recently ended COVID pandemic a relative "walk in the park".
Jim 7/4/23 -
HIV Status
Poz, Not On Meds
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Role
Versatile
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Background
Been out and active since the mid 1970s. My pozzing was by choice to see if I could counteract my genetic resistance to HIV infection. And it wasn't a guarantee. But five months of monthly testing after my exposures I finally tested reactive in 2023. Twelve years ago I would never have done it; and I am certainly cognizant that HIV is not a trivial disease. However it is mostly controllable with a lower side effect profile. I already have diseases for life. I have too many dead friends and I only have a comparitively few years to "walk in their shoes". It is an experience I most definitely am grateful to be experiencing. Will it be much like other stuff I have, not terribly invasive to my ability to self care, get around, experience other facets of living.
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Porn Experience
None; save for home videos.
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Looking For
Primarily a happy exchange of energy. Raw only though. Might be my place in rural America but the majority of my play buds just want my talented oral skills. I definitely enjoy that and would never say no to sucking a guy off. I would like to redevelop a good topping/bottoming reputation again. It is perhaps excellent that u=u has taken hold somewhat. But largely guys in my area seem to want to avoid poz guys.
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BarebackRT Profile Name
jizzdumpwi
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Adam4Adam Profile Name
JustJim
Contact Methods
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Website URL
pozbearwi@curiouschaser.com
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PozBearWI's Achievements
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Shoot if a guy I'm sucking starts pissing I just swallow.
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Reconnecting with my gay uncle
PozBearWI replied to Jaygusher's topic in Bug Chasing & Gift Giving FICTION
He has in Part 7 -
It is at once a delight and strange when I read how it is winter on other parts of this one planet we share; when where I live is in the midst of a toasty hot and humid summer.
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I've been a raw only guy since the 1970s. Do we take a bath wearing a wet suit? 🙂
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Let's not forget about TasP guys. Twenty years ago, before PrEP and during the many partner studies it became clear that Treatment as Prevention was highly effective. Look for your sex mates amongst poz guys on meds.
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Effective truly depends on what half the recommended dosage is accomplished? One of two pills daily or two pills every other day? And of course factor in potential exposures. Many will follow an On Demand PrEP; which BTW, at least in the US, is not recommended by the CDC. But if one is only exposed on Saturday, seven days of either Truvada or Discovy is more than is needed and in particular with Truvada, that might be the healthier option. The point I think is to discuss and understand dosing and discuss with your HIV doc. (Few GP's that I've met have much understanding on HIV at all, which I find confounding but all too common.). There are options which can be equally safe and effective. That said, if you don't want to be involved in those details; you don't wanna think about it; better to comply with dosing as the downside of improper use is worse than the infection you're trying to prevent.
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Time will tell Philip...
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Experience of prostate reduction surgery
PozBearWI replied to Wildpig's topic in HIV/AIDS & Sexual Health Issues
When you get cataract surgery, they will have to do some workarounds as a result of having taken flowmax. I found alfuzosin much more effective. -
Experience of prostate reduction surgery
PozBearWI replied to Wildpig's topic in HIV/AIDS & Sexual Health Issues
I've had prostate cancer for almost four years now. Thankfully slow growing, so the my decision was monitoring. I did have the Urolift procedure, damned glad I did. It had to be repeated after 18 months as tissue sagged between the lifts. But it has been successful. Tamulosin (FlowMax) is pretty brutal. I switched to Alfuzosin with much better results. -
It's certainly possible we'll see a general end to site like this. But then too, look at where all the big sex stories lie, Epstein et all. Seems to cover a big portion of the R's, so I don't see an end, just transition to something else...
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Like everyone else, a VPN will help you too @bareback-flipflop
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I think fretting where you and Suf go from here isn't something that needs to be answered today I'll evolve as it evolves. You appear to be present for that, and to varying degrees so are Suf and Phil. I always experienced that warmth you mention as an exchange of energy between me and whomever I am touching. With some it flows, with others it almost repels, and yet for the majority it really isn't there all that much. Suf, Phil, you, me, everyone reading this is continuously working to find ourselves. None of us is single dimensional. Each of us is complex with similarities to others, but never exactly the same. And we evolve until our final breath. You're articulating the high points of your evolution here.
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I'm not sure where this is going. A rather disjointed start...
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Beyond horny few limits sub bottom in need of host
PozBearWI replied to Teddybb's topic in Chicago Metro Area
Teddy, man I would enjoy meeting you too. But indeed weekdays are my most available time. And yes I own CC site. -
Beyond horny few limits sub bottom in need of host
PozBearWI replied to Teddybb's topic in Chicago Metro Area
I follow you Teddy. Weekends rarely work for me but weekdays almost always do.
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