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PozBearWI

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About PozBearWI

  • Birthday March 5

Profile Information

  • Gender
    Male
  • Location
    SE Wisconsin
  • Interests
    Sex with men. I try to not box myself in with one or another exact sex play; although as ED tends to interrupt me more often than I desire; cock sucking seems to be my dominate activity recently. Pre ED flip fucking was my most frequent play. I am not a fan of pain. Have played scat stuff and don't find it appealing. Being the one to have to clean it all up after; it is more chore than pleasure for me.

    Our men who enjoy sex with men part of our community; I have enjoyed lots of conversations here on BZ that are not sex based. In those circumstances I feel more part of a community. I don't have a hard and fast "type"; definitely willing to try once at least and we'll know how we clicked sexually. And even if we don't click much sexually; I am happy when those develop into friendships.

    As a group here, now, in 2023; my sense is our rather open social acceptance is at risk of moving back to fantasy based decisions. Facts and "I don't like" (aka; opinion or thougths about) are often at odds.

    WRT DADT; in part poz social acceptance in the coming years might very well get pretty vicious. I don't know that it will, but my observations of social (fueled by political) tolerance is that we're moving away from it while talking a good game. I am a fan of social tolerance about things we do to ourselves. I am not a fan of tolerance about prohibiting others rights to what happens within their own body. In my opinion each of us should have decision domain over our body. And for me there is a big difference between that and restrictions about where I can put my body. While a flawed system; restricting a social abusers contact with others makes sense. Sentencing seems deeply flawed; fueled also more by religion than risk mitigation.

    I also realize that while I will always find it interesting to discuss the above matters; I fall strongly in the "you do you" camp. Whether it is in opinion or our varied and rather widely differing abilities and talents. The why behind disagreements is often interesting to me; even if the founding principle. I am rather startled at the claims "it's worth any amount of money if we can save just one child"... We each have a time living; some quite short, some quite long, most somewhere in the middle. Perhaps it is simply my stage in life; 3/4 of a century. Being out and gay for half a century now has exposed me to quite a bit of change in public and private opinion. Experiencing a new fatal illness in my communities mix has our recently ended COVID pandemic a relative "walk in the park".

    Jim 7/4/23
  • HIV Status
    Poz, Not On Meds
  • Role
    Versatile
  • Background
    Been out and active since the mid 1970s. My pozzing was by choice to see if I could counteract my genetic resistance to HIV infection. And it wasn't a guarantee. But five months of monthly testing after my exposures I finally tested reactive in 2023. Twelve years ago I would never have done it; and I am certainly cognizant that HIV is not a trivial disease. However it is mostly controllable with a lower side effect profile. I already have diseases for life. I have too many dead friends and I only have a comparitively few years to "walk in their shoes". It is an experience I most definitely am grateful to be experiencing. Will it be much like other stuff I have, not terribly invasive to my ability to self care, get around, experience other facets of living.
  • Porn Experience
    None; save for home videos.
  • Looking For
    Primarily a happy exchange of energy. Raw only though. Might be my place in rural America but the majority of my play buds just want my talented oral skills. I definitely enjoy that and would never say no to sucking a guy off. I would like to redevelop a good topping/bottoming reputation again. It is perhaps excellent that u=u has taken hold somewhat. But largely guys in my area seem to want to avoid poz guys.

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  • BarebackRT Profile Name
    jizzdumpwi
  • Recon Profile Name
    PozBearWI

Contact Methods

  • Website URL
    pozbearwi@curiouschaser.com

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  1. Indeed, it seems to be fashionable these days to jump to taking offense. I think it is a lot less dramatic and more productive to just answer the question.
  2. Yes, and can we get a law passed that this is he moniker going forward? We can of course simplify that to SHON And to my friends Shawn, Sean, Shyawn; sorry homonyms just are...
  3. The description of "the dementors" Rowling used in her Harry Potter series seems to be an apt description for Donnie.
  4. Certainly a more productive POV @hntnhole. And indeed those who believe offing those with whom they disagree are definitely THE killer's group. Sadly Liberals and MAGAs (formerly known as Republicans) each have some of the killer group in them. So far the scorecard favors MAGA for assassins. But if we wind up in a full on Civil war obviously that idea goes off the table. It has occurred to me that maybe that is Donnie's vision, to the degree it might be a vision, that is, getting the nobel peace prize for ending the war he started? The man is a sink hole of need.
  5. Who determines when one is ready for sex? I believe it is likely there are individuals younger than age of consent laws that are truly emotionally and physically available for sex. I also believe that for most who were were not ready. All sorts of beliefs and norms that one grows up with are composed of a broad range of factors. I've met some otherwise well adjusted individuals where sexual association by an older individual in their youth had no adverse impact on their lives. I think if initiated by the youth, they're likely ready. But when we're looking back in time, how can it be proven without a doubt who that person is. Thus we need the imperfect metric of age. Age of consent should be whenever the person is able to sign contracts.
  6. Can we suffice to say that the killer isn't "one of us" either?
  7. The mods here are first rate guys. They don't misbehave and frankly, I've seen them use restraint few others anywhere exhibit.
  8. Splendid so far. Man I hope they get pozzed before they get there, even if they're in their window period before getting to Nachladen.
  9. PozBearWI

    you like PAs?

    It's close to 20 years since I got my PA. But I don't wear the jewelry consistently for two reasons. First, the remaining bridge is thin and a strong tug on the jewelry is apt to result in a meatotomy; which would end my ability to continue. Second, as I've aged my jewelry gets tucked nicely in my foreskin and bacteria (I believe) irritates the hole. Taking it out and a few rinses all is comfy again.
  10. It makes sense though that we don't set age of consent at puberty. Hormones are raging then and while the pleasure could be exquisite, decisions made then more often than not find themselves in the "regrets" stack. I can see the argument for 16, and wouldn't be leading a campaign to change that. But I've read cogent articles suggesting why 21 might be a better age. It is good I think that across the globe different ages gain this; and we can observe the effects of that to the benefit of the rest of us.
  11. True @J-raw. But he knows he took the first steps risking it. And that'll play on his mind for a time. We'll see what he eventually does.
  12. Lovely. Seems like the beginnings of a group is forming.
  13. I would hope you would!
  14. Or it is quite possible Mr Martin is just untested poz. Reminder that when we test NonReactive, that is our serostatus as of about one month ago, not today. So it's entirely possible both dad and Alex are poz already.
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