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PozBearWI

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About PozBearWI

  • Birthday March 5

Profile Information

  • Gender
    Male
  • Location
    SE Wisconsin
  • Interests
    Sex with men. I try to not box myself in with one or another exact sex play; although as ED tends to interrupt me more often than I desire; cock sucking seems to be my dominate activity recently. Pre ED flip fucking was my most frequent play. I am not a fan of pain. Have played scat stuff and don't find it appealing. Being the one to have to clean it all up after; it is more chore than pleasure for me.

    Our men who enjoy sex with men part of our community; I have enjoyed lots of conversations here on BZ that are not sex based. In those circumstances I feel more part of a community. I don't have a hard and fast "type"; definitely willing to try once at least and we'll know how we clicked sexually. And even if we don't click much sexually; I am happy when those develop into friendships.

    As a group here, now, in 2023; my sense is our rather open social acceptance is at risk of moving back to fantasy based decisions. Facts and "I don't like" (aka; opinion or thougths about) are often at odds.

    WRT DADT; in part poz social acceptance in the coming years might very well get pretty vicious. I don't know that it will, but my observations of social (fueled by political) tolerance is that we're moving away from it while talking a good game. I am a fan of social tolerance about things we do to ourselves. I am not a fan of tolerance about prohibiting others rights to what happens within their own body. In my opinion each of us should have decision domain over our body. And for me there is a big difference between that and restrictions about where I can put my body. While a flawed system; restricting a social abusers contact with others makes sense. Sentencing seems deeply flawed; fueled also more by religion than risk mitigation.

    I also realize that while I will always find it interesting to discuss the above matters; I fall strongly in the "you do you" camp. Whether it is in opinion or our varied and rather widely differing abilities and talents. The why behind disagreements is often interesting to me; even if the founding principle. I am rather startled at the claims "it's worth any amount of money if we can save just one child"... We each have a time living; some quite short, some quite long, most somewhere in the middle. Perhaps it is simply my stage in life; 3/4 of a century. Being out and gay for half a century now has exposed me to quite a bit of change in public and private opinion. Experiencing a new fatal illness in my communities mix has our recently ended COVID pandemic a relative "walk in the park".

    Jim 7/4/23
  • HIV Status
    Poz, Not On Meds
  • Role
    Versatile
  • Background
    Been out and active since the mid 1970s. My pozzing was by choice to see if I could counteract my genetic resistance to HIV infection. And it wasn't a guarantee. But five months of monthly testing after my exposures I finally tested reactive in 2023. Twelve years ago I would never have done it; and I am certainly cognizant that HIV is not a trivial disease. However it is mostly controllable with a lower side effect profile. I already have diseases for life. I have too many dead friends and I only have a comparitively few years to "walk in their shoes". It is an experience I most definitely am grateful to be experiencing. Will it be much like other stuff I have, not terribly invasive to my ability to self care, get around, experience other facets of living.
  • Porn Experience
    None; save for home videos.
  • Looking For
    Primarily a happy exchange of energy. Raw only though. Might be my place in rural America but the majority of my play buds just want my talented oral skills. I definitely enjoy that and would never say no to sucking a guy off. I would like to redevelop a good topping/bottoming reputation again. It is perhaps excellent that u=u has taken hold somewhat. But largely guys in my area seem to want to avoid poz guys.

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  • BarebackRT Profile Name
    jizzdumpwi
  • Adam4Adam Profile Name
    JustJim

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  • Website URL
    pozbearwi@curiouschaser.com

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  1. Hmm, so you're singing in front of one (coach). Perhaps for one session you can have someone come to listen; and more slowly get used to a group listening to you?
  2. Spot on description of my current experience.
  3. Everything slowed down now that I am poz and unmedicated. Not sure if or when I'll start meds, but it will be interesting when I can put undetectable in my profile.
  4. !. I am just about halfway through the first quarter of both parts. Yowzers a lot of characters to get to know. As a result my questions and curiosity increased. This is a delight to read! Excellent start to character development. The sort of approach Tom Clancy takes. I'm loving it so far! This could be fodder for an interesting discussion group on it's own, just ABOUT the story. I've a couple of "why would they do that" type stuff so far. Not a complaint. It is the sort of depth in story development that can be interesting to discuss can be about pretty much any subject.
  5. Nice. Yes I am a fan of phone calls in our text mad world.
  6. It kind of depends on the volume of his cumload. For many I'll keep the whole load in my mouth, savor the taste and swallow. But every so often I suck off a guy who "cums buckets" and for me, that calls for mid shoot swallowing...
  7. Bones me up, and still embarrasses me.
  8. The story ended perfectly. Look at where all of our imaginations went? 🙂
  9. @BlindRawFucker1 if you didn't intend your comment "Are you two going to fuck with Mickey Mouse?" to be funny, to me it was. I burst out laughing as my first reaction. I guess it conjured up a funny visual in my head.
  10. @chunkychains man thank you for putting it here as a finished story. I absolutely hate those that drag on for months, sometimes years. And I love that conversion was a side effect, not so much the point.
  11. PozBearWI

    which one are you?

    Me four 🙂
  12. Every load I jack I lick up.
  13. I think longest for me didn't exceed two hours. I guess I am easily bored??? LOL
  14. Good on you Philip for not just going with the name brand. Nothing wrong with Yamaha; but a good reputation shouldn't be our only choice. Some decades ago now I bought my first Hyundai. Hyundai's entry into the US with the relatively crappy Excel didn't give them the best start. But they were obviously working to change that with one hell of a warranty. My first one covered anything for the first 100,000 miles. And almost nothing went wrong. Everything felt like it was in the right place. and even though inexpensive, had a lot of features only the high priced entries had. I've never regretted that. It wasn't a Toyota, but I didn't give up anything either... Save that a few coworkers gave me grief that I bought a sh!tmobile. In the end.... Balance. Hmm, it is just one of those things we'll always do, kinda like breathing. Some days that is a bit more challenging, somedays it feels like there is no log to fall off of. Every day is a practice. 🙂 I submit that you're already having the time of your life...
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