young or old?

[hungry_hole]

What really turns me on are young masculine guys, but mostly for looking at. I find that there's nothing hotter than a young guy's body, young being up to around 40, but mostly 20's and 30's. In terms of having sex and getting fucked I settle for older men because that's what you get in parks, sex clubs and saunas. But I would love to see more men in their 20's and 30's in anon sex places.

[vrsbbltn]

Some fetishes are more easily attainable than others. Being 52 yo, and wanting to be truly loved and/or just fucked by a 21 yo one is very difficult, yet not impossible I know. Thing is, until you finally find what you are looking for, you have to deal with a lot of assholes, those who don't respect others, so if you approach them, they will most probably insult you if they are not interested. So that young fetish is worth it if you are really patient enough, don't get easily offended by random guys' attitudes, and such, otherwise, I'd skip them.

I know it's human nature to prefer younger dudes, because of overall better looks. Nevertheless, when we relate more with people of our age range, it has a lot of advantages (I know this is not always the norm, but probably 90% of the times it's like this), you experience the following:

- Common things to talk about, common interests.

- A 52 yo man is probably is interested in politics and history, the 21 is not.

- The 52 yo man like to spend more time at home, the 21 yo prefers outdoors.

- You feel comfortable with yourself, unless you are one of the many "I don't give a fuck" attitude kind of guys.

- When going to the movies, to the bars, to a hotel, you both look like bfs, or friends, or fb whatever, not like dad/son (which I know is a fantasy to many, but it's kinda hard to show it in public). Even though you are ok with this, the young guy is probably not, even though if he likes you, it's hard for him.

- Both feel attraction.

-I had a few very unpleasant situations when having sex with much older dudes. On average he was ok looking, I felt I'd like to fuck him. But when we were naked on bed, I felt no attraction, nothing, not even 5%. I use lots of psychology, but imagine those nasty twinks out there, will probably start criticizing your body, your aging skin, etc. So again, is it worth going through that?

I know all of us know all of that, but maybe we overlook it and assume the I don't give a fuck attitude. We all were 18 yo. Think for a moment, when you were 18 yo, where you really attracted to guys 30+ yo older than you? Some even pay them, which I think is ok, the young guy is making business and the older man enjoys it. But those 52 yo men thinking a 21 yo one will like them is kinda sad. They would probably love their money.

When I'm more open to have a regular fb or friend or whatever, I prefer those +- 5 yo from me, and can be extended to +-10 yo. Things work much better. On the other hand, if at a cruising site, I do guys outside that age range, as it's fuck me or I'll fuck you and goodbye. We wont meet, go out, drink coffee, etc.

I wrote this with my pov, I need some kind of connection with the other guy I'm having regular sex with. If I absolutely don't like him I won't get hard, and I won't take pills, nor I'll feel ok knowing the much younger guy is fucking me just because curiosity, morbidity, etc.

So, this is my pov and experience, anyone do whatever they want to do, I don't care, as I like that others don't care of what I do.

[ked239]

I tend to find I have more in common with guys a bit older than me, although I rarely go for guys older than mid-40s, being 23 myself, I do just find that a little uncomfortably close to my dad's age, unless of course they're a fit 40-odd year old, then I'm totally down with it.

Sexual experience does not link up with age at all in my experience, I've been with about 100 guys now, and many guys substantially older than me haven't been with even a quarter of that.

I do find guys in their 30s/40s tend to be much more respectful and actually good for a bit of a chat, rather than just a fuck n go, which is personally not massively my style.

I mostly go for a half-way house though of the late 20s/early 30s myself, older enough (from my perspective) to give added maturity on the whole, but still young enough for me to have a lot in common with them

[Jaenim]

pro and con.

Visually younger guy are more appealing. And they have short recovery time and high sex drive. Even those who never work out can have a average body. But what they have in energy they lack in skill and patient. Not to be stereotype, but most younger top get off by enjoying them self, for them is all about fucking. Bottom pleasure have little to do with them.

Older people generally have more experience and know what make different people tick. And because they have slower recovery time, and lower sexual drive, so they will take their time to enjoy each session, but they lack in stamina compare to younger people.

Personally I think the best top are usually bottom, because we know what we like when we get fucked and apply it on other as well.

But more bottom can't really top, like me i enjoy rimming and all that foreplay to prep a bottom, but i having problem staying hard when time to fuck. and cum too easily also, thats why i choose to bottom more

everything is pro and con.

[hungry_hole]

If it wasn't for young men I would have never known that I like men. And when it comes to young men I'm not that picky. When I see a hot young man with his dad, I can't believe that this hot guy will stop being hot.

On my way to work I take a city bus that goes by a university. My God!, so many hot guys who don't even know they are hot!

[Whitebutt]

It`s all about attitude.

A wise man once said: "Being a dirty old man has nothing to do with age, it`s a state of mind."

I`ve been a dirty old man all my life

[Guest GoodExercise]

Young is fine by me.

[HungLatinDom]

It`s all about attitude.

A wise man once said: "Being a dirty old man has nothing to do with age, it`s a state of mind."

I`ve been a dirty old man all my life

True words. By the time I was 20 I was already more of a pig and a deviant than 95% or so of the guys I played with, some of them even in their fifties.

[Leather69]

Gee after reading some of the responses to this lot... perhaps I need to go and drop of the planet.. if ure responses are real..

But I'm 61.. a gay masculine leatherman..I love to fuck.. and fuck raw.. and despite earlier comments.. I get my fair share of younger masculne

guys...

In short U will al be old... what do U want to be bitter and twisted.. or older and happy..

Ian

[hungry_hole]

I once hooked up with a young guy in his early 20's. When I opened the door I couldn't believe how hot he was. I thought he was going to turn around and leave. But instead he approached me and started to kiss me and we made out. We spent a good two hours together. Before he left I asked him why did he like older men when he was so hot and could get any man he wanted. His response was "Young men play too many games."

I think that life experience makes a difference in attitudes towards sex. But also most people as they get older care less about what other people think of them and thus, are able to be more "themselves". It's not that young men "play games" on purpose but simply that they may feel like hooking up but then something "scares" them and they may change their minds.

I think it's because young men have more difficulties "being themselves" and too worried about what people may say about them, that slutty young bottoms are so much in demand. The world is full of slutty older bottoms so when a young one shows up he becomes the centre of attention. On the other hand, aging men who like to top don't seem to have any problems finding bottoms, including young bottoms.

...We all know those profiles, nasty and insulting to older/out of shape guys.

I love when the "NO GEEZERS, NO OLDER THAN 30, I ALREADY HAVE A GRANDPA" sends me a message. I tell them next week I am going to be thirty pretty soon, so I do not want to bother them. To see them begging for dick is amusing.

Many young guys can be very offensive to older men, but at the same time there are many older men who behave very inappropriately with young guys. Some of the anger may come from having had the experience of older men being very annoying.

Yes, some men like older and some men like younger. But there is a big difference. Men who like older men may not be drawn to younger men but don't find younger men disgusting as is the case of some men who like younger men and who find the idea of sex with older men disgusting. Older men have to keep this in mind and try not to impose themselves on younger guys. Personally, I never chase younger men unless they show interest in me.

To the younger men I tell them not to spit to the sky because if they are lucky and they don't die soon, they will be old too. Also, show some kind of compassion for older men who when they were young, never had the same opportunities to explore their sexuality the way young men can do it today.

[Pig Bottom]

As a bottom with pretty limited experience (only about 8 guys) I have a question. Every guy Ive ever been with has been at LEAST 15 years older than me (Im 24). Ive been talking to this kid thats 23 who wants to top me and I was wondering about everyones preference and experiences. Young guys just seem like they would be clumsy to me but it has sparked by interest because its new and different. So let me hear what you've got.

Try it you might like it.

[Top4CumSwop]

Reading this subject with interest....I am 45 and will be 46 at he end of the year....on other sites I don't have my age...have been approached by guys with "No >30" in their profile...but when they see my arse and cock and tell me I don't look that old it is amazing how quickly age becomes just a number....

[whiteslutbttm]

I'm in my late 20's now. I didn't have sex till I was about 19-20. I have always gone for older guys, whether dating or sex. Both physically and personality wise, guys in the 40-60 range just have sometime about them that makes me want to get on their cocks. As long as a guy isn't totally gross (bad hygeine, overweight to the point of obesity, or looks to be about 80+, etc) if I'm out cruising I'll take his cock. Guys under 30? Only play with them as a last resort, and even then I'll usually just opt to watch porn and jack off instead.

I enjoy crusing for sex (porn shops, restrooms, etc). Usually a dozen guys over 40 for every one guy under 30. I cruised a reststop on I-95 last night (1am or so), sucked an old biker daddy's cock. After he left, I cruised a scruffy looking latino guy (about 50 I'd guess) and was sucking his cock when a 30-40 year old white guy came up and offered me his cock too. Ended up with both cocks in my mouth at one point, and a cock in each hole a few minutes later (guy who fucked me didn't even ask about a condom, just went in bare and started fucking me). Another daddy came over and jacked off while watching but didn't join in.

It was a hot time, and it's the reason I love older guys. Young guys? Outside of a staged porn scene, you'll be hard pressed to find young guys having sleazy rest-stop sex like that. Thank God for horny, nasty older guys!

[bearbandit]

I was recently messaged by a guy in his early twenties (I'm 56) on a site where my profile clearly says 35+. (His profile said <40 and his photos looked like a teenager: definite turnoff for me.) I wrote back and saying "thanks but no thanks" citing the age thing as the reason. "Oh, it's alright, I don't mind..." he said in reply. "You mightn't, but I do - gimme a shout in ten years or so"... It's a long time since I've seen a hissy fit like the one he threw: "You should be grateful..."

That profile might say 35+, but even 35 feels like cradle snatching: I much prefer men around my own age.

[Bbikercub]

I was recently messaged by a guy in his early twenties (I'm 56) on a site where my profile clearly says 35+. (His profile said <40 and his photos looked like a teenager: definite turnoff for me.) I wrote back and saying "thanks but no thanks" citing the age thing as the reason. "Oh' date=' it's alright, I don't mind..." he said in reply. "You mightn't, but I do - gimme a shout in ten years or so"... It's a long time since I've seen a hissy fit like the one he threw: "You should be grateful..."

That profile might say 35+, but even 35 feels like cradle snatching: I much prefer men around my own age.[/quote']

I'm under 35... You still said you'd shag me