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Once I make the decision to let a Top stick his cock in my hole, it's not implicit any more.   It's explicit to me that he can breed me--I have surrendered control of my hole to him.

 

Just my personal opinion.   In any hookup, I have the right to back out up to the point that I allow him to slide his cock into my ass.   Once he's in me, he owns me.   I've given him permission to cum in me or not.   It's the Top's call.

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ask permission?  NO!  he can shoot wherever the fuck he wants .. if i'm sucking he's gonna shoot and i'm gonna swallow .. if there's bb fucking it's because i WANT his load in my ass .. 

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When I bottom bareback if I don't want the load deposited in me then I would state that before we started because I think that bareback sex includes shooting in the bottoms ass because it's one of the major benefits of going raw.

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Too much porn. They gotta learn that movies are not realistic, lol :D

porn studios do that because it proves to the viewers that the top did really cum.  It would be so easy for them to fake it if they didn't pull out and show the top cumming.  I am fine with it as long as they end up fucking the load into the bottom.But if they just cum in the bottoms as and then pull out after they're done cumming I want to see cum leaking out the bottoms hole so I know they did cum and it was not faked.

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Porn is a lot different to me. I have never had a top who could control his cum as they do. I did have a guy who did porn tell me this. They will fuck for a while. Then stop. Top jacks off till he cums on the add. Then he push it in when he gets hard. They edit it so it looks like all done a one time. It may actually take 5-10 mini between pulling out and. Cumming

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porn studios do that because it proves to the viewers that the top did really cum.  It would be so easy for them to fake it if they didn't pull out and show the top cumming.  I am fine with it as long as they end up fucking the load into the bottom.But if they just cum in the bottoms as and then pull out after they're done cumming I want to see cum leaking out the bottoms hole so I know they did cum and it was not faked.

I much prefer the bottom pushing the load out to prove it vs the top pulling out to come. In porn and real life, it's a boner kill to have the top pull out and shoot his load. Even if it's pushed in. I know it's to prove it happened, but in the case of porn..... It's porn! I can fantasize that the top's seed is being shot into the bottom's ass when I don't actually see the cum shoot inside. After all, porn is about fantasy. And I have a hell of an imagination.

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Unless he is told before sliding in ur mouth or ass, he has every right to unload in you. I fully expect to have the load in my mouth or hole. It's a waste otherwise. If you don't want the load inside you, let him know upfront so he can move on to someone who wants his gift.

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many times I have found even if its not negotiated, the top will ask where he should cum.  When I top, I usually dont do that, but make sure they are okay with bare before hand.  

 

The worst is when a top pulls out and shoots on my back or some crap, what a waste. 

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I expect all tops that bareback me to deliver that seed deep in my hole. I once had this hot, muscular well hung top pound me hard for almost 45 min, only to pull out and cum on my back! I was so bummed out, made me feel incomplete!

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porn studios do that because it proves to the viewers that the top did really cum.  It would be so easy for them to fake it if they didn't pull out and show the top cumming.  I am fine with it as long as they end up fucking the load into the bottom.But if they just cum in the bottoms as and then pull out after they're done cumming I want to see cum leaking out the bottoms hole so I know they did cum and it was not faked.

But it's a major turn off when they shoot the load on people's backs or stomachs though. It's better when they shoot it right on the asshole and then shove it in. The best is still cuming inside and see the bottom's hole leaking with cum afterwards.

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Once I make the decision to let a Top stick his cock in my hole, it's not implicit any more.   It's explicit to me that he can breed me--I have surrendered control of my hole to him.

 

Just my personal opinion.   In any hookup, I have the right to back out up to the point that I allow him to slide his cock into my ass.   Once he's in me, he owns me.   I've given him permission to cum in me or not.   It's the Top's call.

I make sure we're clear on this before I meet a guy. If he doesn't agree to bb and cuming inside me, I'll say forget it, you're wasting my time.

 

If I meet a guy I like in a bar or at a party, I'll just try to convince him that we should bareback. Had one last summer who insisted on using condom. I did put it on, but it doesn't turn me on, so when I realized that the condom fell off inside his ass, it instantly turned me on, and I kept fucking until I came inside him. He didn't know until I had finished. The condom was way up inside him, he couldn't get it out, lol.But I'm sure sooner or later it would. :D

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I make sure we're clear on this before I meet a guy. If he doesn't agree to bb and cuming inside me, I'll say forget it, you're wasting my time.

 

If I meet a guy I like in a bar or at a party, I'll just try to convince him that we should bareback. Had one last summer who insisted on using condom. I did put it on, but it doesn't turn me on, so when I realized that the condom fell off inside his ass, it instantly turned me on, and I kept fucking until I came inside him. He didn't know until I had finished. The condom was way up inside him, he couldn't get it out, lol.But I'm sure sooner or later it would. :D

Forgot to add that he didn't seem to bother that I filled him with cum. Probably it turned him on too.

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Almost all the tops I've been with prefer to cum inside. Some ask beforehand because they don't want any surprises. I have been semi-stealthed when barebacking. A top will fuck me bare, cum inside, and even feels that way then when I ask if they ended up cumming they say "no".

 

If I confront them more about it I've had a few that say it just felt so good and they didn't want to take the risk of asking only for me to say that they couldn't cum inside.

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