Why Did You Start Barebacking?

[lovedbottom]

For me it was the awareness that the Condom Edict of the early eighties, that we thought was only going to last five years, was still in force thirty years later. Anti-retrovirals mean that I'm essentially non-infectious (I can't rule out the possibility of blips in my viral load, but a jump to infectious levels would most likely be accompanied by illness of some description: the normal blip is less than 100 points) and superinfection remains pretty much theoretical in that it happens about once a year in the entire world. So why the hell not? I couldn't think of a reason: I'd been BBing with other poz guys who I knew reasonably well since the late eighties, and loathe the sensation of rubbers (to me their only use is to deny a bottom the cum he wants as a punishment). ED makes it rare for me to fuck as the standard remedies don't work or give me all the side effects and none of the fun, so I'm more likely to end up getting my ass filled. Shit, but I've missed that sensation!

[alko]

For me, as a top, it came quite quickly.
I connected with a guy on a local dating site.
He said he was bi, divorced, naturist and clean.
he really insisted that he preferred to do it without a condom. he was versatile and even explained that if he put on a condom he would no longer be able to get hard.

After a few messages I agreed to meet him after work.

He actually welcomed me naked, he quickly got down on his knees to blow me.
After a good blowjob he turned his back on me and presented his ass to me, I went straight in without asking myself the question of putting on a condom.
It was so pleasant that I didn't have to wait to fill his ass.

[BBKnockerCum76]

I grew up barebacking (9) with my uncle (28), cousin (10) and uncle's neighbor friend (30s).  We took turns unloading in each other's asses until and my cousin could start shooting. It was easier to clean up after a big fuck session if we held in the cum until we could get to the bathroom to squirt it out in the commode.  Sometimes it was in too deep and we just carried it all day.  I could hold my uncles cum and my cousins quite well in those days.  My uncles neighbor had a thick anbd wide cock that looked like a shark.  He tore my ass up and put a rip in my spincter.  That rip too forever to heal.  I still have the rip today. Sometimes a guy will talk about it when they feel it. It makes taking a fist easy as I can just relax and spread it open. 

I had never seen a condom until one of my neighbors brought one out to show me and to play with it when I was 17.  I never bought a condom until I was 31 and living in a big town in the late 80s where using them was mandatory.  I was doing a lot of topping in those days.  However, I only used three condoms during that time.  I was playing with married guys in those days.  If I could get them to take a whiff of poppers when riding my cock, then the condom came off and they were rocking for cum.   I went through a phase where I had 4 or 5 married guys enjoying my breedings during afternoon sessions before the wife got home.  A couple of guys said they would fuck their wife with my cum in their ass to really get hot.  Those were some of the hottest sessions.  A couple of the guys lived close.  It was kind of awkward to see the wife and kids in the grocery store knowing I had been breeding the dad a day or two before. 

[SomewhereonNeptune]

I grew up during the early 80's when the AIDS epidemic was just becoming publicized and came of age when we were all being told to "use protection". We didn't get a lot of good information, so I just followed that and because I was fucking women and didn't want to get them pregnant...yet. Then I was fixed up by a friend with a cute girl who told him she wanted to hook up. We did and it was all bare because she was on the pill. And as insatiable as I was. So I was hooked with the feeling and experience. Then with others, it was until I knew them and  got comfortable going raw. Often, that was right away (offer me bareback and I'll probably dive right in).

Once you have the experience of the condom falling off mid fuck (I swear she was tight and kind of pulled it off me), that was it for her and I agreed, so we went without and played the timing game. Which itself was risky and kinda hot.

Everyone else from that point on was raw, including guys who I began seeing with increasing regularity as a top. I was only asked once to do the condom thing with a guy and it was a horrible experience, so I'd already disliked them and no one, men, women, trans, a hermaphrodite...none ever asked for a condom. So it was a natural progression based on just people really hating the feel of them as user or recipient. Not a decision I ever regretted, and I fortunately never tested positive for any STIs (knock wood). 

[Guest]

The first time I experienced sex it was bareback. I enjoyed the feeling and it's been BB ever since...with the subsequent consequences.

[NegFF]

My 1st time came out of pure passion. When we were having sex the very first time, we wore a condom. After he had came we laid there for awhile talking, kissing and I was slowly stroking him and tasting his cum. Once he started to get hard again, he slowly started to tease my hole with the head, then I just pushed my body & hole onto his cock. The difference was life altering and I never looked back to condom usage again. 

[Marlin]

So many reasons. I came of age when AIDS was raging so condoms were a natural but I remember my first fuck was a guy I picked climbing on my dick and riding me raw.  I shot in 30 seconds.  
Raw feels so much better

Fumbling to put a condom on is a drag

the intimacy of sharing semen with a man is so intimate and satisfying 

honestly the risk was hot. 

[westendboy]

the simple and honest answer is because hung studs wanted to fuck me raw and eventually wore down my resistance. I knew barebacking was often a way to attract and keep the interest of the type of tops I wanted so badly to mate with- they might agree to a rubber but I'd gain a competitive advantage if I let them hit raw. some insisted on raw. coupled with the ease of it sliding in and erectile difficulties melting away when no condom had to be squeezed on hurriedly, and the fact that I've always had well endowed partners, it just made sense for me and how I saw my place in the sexual ecosystem. I wasn't forced into it, I chose improved access to high quality fucking with elite daddy pigs as worth potentially getting pozzed for. (this was in 2011-2014)

[NicNorth]

Started raw before I became aware of AIDS loved the feeling of a man shooting his load deep inside me and holding on to it for as long as I could.   Then took up condoms - was still a nice feeling of a load filling a rubber which I could see after he pulled out but I knew I was missing the full experience.

Now on prep it’s raw and extra hot every time.

[Bumbot]

Being a Bi married guy I have generally played safe.

Fear kept me away from bare cock to some degree.

My last hook up was with a fairly Dom top. Long story short when we first met to fuck I was wearing a plug. He saw that and stated that "that will keep my load in when you go home"..

Fucked me raw there and then and I took my first raw load.  He fucked me a few more times before we lost touch. Always bare.

Tested negative 

 

I still crave an uncovered cock and am considering PreP.

 

 

 

[hungry_hole]

On 4/10/2024 at 6:05 PM, Barebackerscot said:

I started when I was 16...

When I started taking loads before the AIDS crisis, bareback was just called fucking because condoms was for straight sex. 

I remember the first time a guy pulled out a condom at a sauna and it surprised me because all fucking was what is now called bareback. Later condoms became the norm.

[Alexpdx]

The first few times I got fucked was raw, but the AIDS crisis was just beginning so I pretty much stopped having anal sex and only did oral for years once it became clear that oral was low risk. I started bottoming again in the early 2000s, but only with condoms. I started experimenting a bit with raw sex around that time and realized it was “the way” but was still terrified (this was pre-prep).
 

Around that time I got married and was monogamous for almost 20 years. When I got divorced, I immediately went on prep and started taking as many loads as I could to make up for lost time.
 

I can’t believe how long I went - basically my entire adult life - without taking loads. I don’t regret most of that time as AIDS was real and terrifying. Now that the risk is controllable, I’ve been able to experience what I was missing and the reality is even better than the fantasy. I love the feel of raw cock in my hole, love the sloppy feeling when a guy dumps a big load in me, love cum running down my leg. Everything about the experience is amazing. 

[EastTNbareback]

I've never not been fucked bareback.  The first time was with a family member who was 22 at the time (1993).  It happened after a night of too much merlot, silliness, online porn, dares, and nudity.  I happened to lay back naked on a couch and spread my legs wide open in the air.  Not really expecting anything to happen.  He, naked, climbed on top without a word and the next thing I know he is balls deep in my ass breeding me like an animal.  We did things that night that neither one of us would have ever expected to ever happen.  But it did, and we've been going at it ever since. He's always the alpha top, and I'm always his bottom smack-around bitch.  We even happen to catch the first time on a cheap computer camera.  We figured out recently that over the years he has shot well over 30 gallons of cum in and on me.

 

[Rawonly06]

My sexual mife began before 1980. In this périod, wich was intense in term of sex, nobody, above all gays, used condoms and every people fucked with anyone. We used to have multiple hook-up a day.

Then AIDS arrived and as major part of gay people i used condoms, but sometimes we didn’t. In the early 90's i began to leave condoms inside my pocket, until i completely forget them.

So i think i did safe sex only four or five years and otherwise i always played bareback.

[Rawonly06]

My sexual life began before 1980. In this périod, wich was intense in term of sex, nobody, above all gays, used condoms and every people fucked with anyone. We used to have multiple hook-up a day.

Then AIDS arrived and as major part of gay people i used condoms, but sometimes we didn’t. In the early 90's i began to leave condoms inside my pocket, until i completely forget them.

So i think i did safe sex only four or five years and otherwise i always played bareback.