How much of this is fantasy?

[Guest FinalDL2021]

I find that this is a good place to throw your fantasy out there, to get some feedbackhere, or read it out to yourself. Often times, you are really the one you are trying to convince making a fantasy turn to a reality. 

[Guest SEPaBBGuy]

Yes, nothing wrong with starting with fantasy and moving to the real adventure.

[bivergent]

My few post about my experiences with a guy are true as I haven't had a lot. I do have a lot of fantasies and reading the stories and post helps me realize I am not alone with some of my fantasies. I know currently I will not act on them due to relationship status and not sure I will act on them if my status changes.  

[Breedthisslut]

Everything that I have posted here is true. I have fantasies that I have yet to experience. Some fantasies may be for the future and some may be unfulfilled...only in the future will it unfold.

[Hunter22]

For me I find this place as a safe place to share my personal experiences with people who can understand and relate without any judgement. 

[ErosWired]

Everything I post - other than the occasional story in the labelled fiction area - is absolutely true, and happened to me. Hell, I couldn’t make half my shit up anyway. My sexual experience has turned out to be so far off the chain that I live in constant fear that guys assume I’m bullshitting as it is, when I’m telling the verbatim truth. That’s part of the reason why I sort of part company with those who say there’s nothing wrong with guys writing their fantasies and claiming they actually happened - it makes it harder to know who the real sexual adventurers are, and whose experience to pay attention to.

[Guygonebad]

I like this site to share my acts/deeds and talk about what I want sexually, what I want to explore.  I have stretched my limits and done more sexually because of chatting and being on this site...so fun!!! I have also met several fun guys on here, both to chat and meet up with. Everything I put on here is true except for a couple of stories which I marked as “fantasy.”

[MuscledHorse]

On 9/21/2018 at 12:39 AM, lycis said:

A lot of the stuff on this site isn't that "fantasy" IMO, which makes it all the more hot.

Before, I've accepted a lot of stories to be too coincidental or too "over the top" in how intense they are to be true, until I met my current BF. He has done in his past some of the hottest stuff I've ever even read (let alone seen) with proof, and have been lucky to participate in some of that life recently. One of the hottest he told me was his old friend from years ago was a part of a gay rugby league, and basically at a house party he organized my BF to be the party bottom for all these horny, thick rugby boys, casually while the team was shooting shit and drinking. Another hot one was him telling me about the time he basically spent dore one year getting constant cock, with 100+ loads, one of which was a fun little party he volunteered to literally be whored out - the guy at the door charged $5 for guys to dump a load into his ass - had at least a couple dozen do so, and my BF didn't see a single cent.

It's crazy to me all this (and a lot more...) has been true for my BF in the past, and it drives me totally wild. I'm pretty jealous of him in a sense - he's got this ability to completely lose himself to cock when getting fucked, and feels so much of it. It's easy for him to anal orgasam, and he has incredible stamina. When the slutty headspace kicks in (either with friends, strangers, or just me) he's able to become the perfect slutty bottom and is 120% driven (and capable) to get loads for as long as possible. It's insane!

Your BF is a sex pig after my own heart. One of the biggest issues I think stems from the fact there are some of us who dig in deep into the sex pig world and go make these fantasies happen for real. Guys are blown away when I tell them the number of partners I have annually or stuff that I did at an event like Folsom or CumUnion (there's a write up on here about my pig bottom performance at one in Atlanta back in 2017), or stuff I did when I escorted when I was in school. And that surprise is a mix of envy and disbelief rooted in the fact they can't imagine living like that themselves and exjoying sexual indulgence with so many partners but at the same time they wish they could/did. Mosy males don't realize that sexual freedom is ours for the taking. I went to work in the sex industry because I wanted to live the dream I once admired and envied. Now I get sex to the point it is like breathing for me and I couldn't be happier. #livethedream is my sex hound motto in life.

[Pozguyinchi]

I think that men are generally this sexual. Everything I comment on is true as well. I do not glorify my status but rather state the facts. I have been poz as long as I have been neg so it’s really just a way of life now. I do think that some of the guys that post about chasing would chose to stay neg if they had the option. I know I would be on prep if it was available 19 years ago. I have always been healthy and have not had issues with my status. I do however know a lot of men that have so the decision to convert should not be taken lightly.

Edited April 23, 2019 by Pozguyinchi

[Guest]

I like the comment that said he has a good bullshit detector.  I feel the same.  So much of what I read on here is clearly made up, but I guess it can give people ideas.  For those of us that just want to share our true experiences and find our "tribe" on here, you can take it for what it's worth.  

[PG1961Canada]

I change the names to protect the identities....but otherwise, my stuff is all based on actual events.

I've come to realize that we are all in a different place, so my 'reality' could be someone else's 'fantasy'.... or something I have always been curious to try is written by someone who has already tried it.  

I like that about this site... sharing .....

[Spunkinmyarse]

Last week I took more than 30 loads in my arse.  If you’d told me a year ago that that’s where I’d be now, I’d have dismissed it as pure fantasy.  Two years ago I hadn’t been fucked at all for over 20 years.

My journey from cocksucker to a fully-fledged bb cumdump has been swift.  Partly due to Prep, partly due to a change in my personal circumstances, and partly due to a realisation that time is ticking and “If not now, when?”, I have taken steps to make my fantasies come true.

I too used to dismiss some of the load counts I’d see on this and other sites as fantasy: “1,500 loads a year? How is that even possible?”.  But having taken over 30 last week (and with no superhuman effort- just one sauna visit and two evenings in a sex club), I can see how it is perfectly possible.  

I have no doubt that many of the stories on here that read like fantasies to some are in fact true.  I’m also just as sure that there’s a lot of bullshit.  But I’m not so sure that I am in a position to distinguish between the two.  One thing I’ve learnt on my journey is that there’s nowt so queer as folk, and only a fool would use his own limited life experience to pass judgement on another’s.

 

[Guest FinalDL2021]

On 8/13/2017 at 8:44 AM, Ranger Rick said:

I think my bulls hit detector is pretty good, and sometimes it's really obvious when guys are  projecting  fantasy. Rought guess, about 35% is true or mostly true and the rest is varying degrees of bullshit. 

What is cool about posting here, and reading threads, is you can go back over time, and see what you posted roughly a year, to 18months ago, and yes, to some degree, I'll  admit that alot of what I posted, to a varying degree was BS. Yet we are always evolving, and once we have more experiences with reality, we have a better concept of what real is.

[Guest]

The Anticipation of possibly meeting someone here, and having him become Friends, with benefits, is what gets me so turned on about BZ. What I reply, and post here is very true. I have also found that it's becoming somewhat of a virtual Diary for me as well, since I have no one to discuss this aspect of my life with.