Tell Me Your Thoughts On Hookup Sites/Apps & Finding Sex

[BlackDude]

Grindr seems to be unfriendly to certain people in my area. Anyone know the best sites where a black guy can have the best luck? I haven’t tried sniffies.

Edited February 13, 2021 by BlackDude

[Guest]

barebackrt is the best site. i have hooked up at super 8 in chicago with several from there. it has been a while.  i cant get or there any more, my mistake. i hope you get your hookup site up soon, i would love to meet alot of men. love gary

[Guest Goodbye]

I personally prefer breeding.zone because it's has a bit of everything in here. The chat room (which might need a revamp or more interest from the guys on here), the stories and blogs since I love it when my dirty imagination gets taking on an insane trip., the photos (real,  fake., commercial and especially amateur), and then the information from those who have been on the scene for a long while. 

 

I understand the need for splitting into different groups for ease of identifying possible hookups, but that could also add to the confusion cause many of us have interest which spreads and spills over into different fetishes and preferences. I am already struggling to keep up. Because now you would have to "prove" yourself again on another site/app, and I am only starting to build my reputation on here. 

Maybe focus on one site and do that really well with a bit of space for all the nasty guys out there, and when I say one site I mean breeding zone cause I'm on here. 😊😊😊

[Guest Seeder4]

Haven't had much luck on many hookup sites. So far this site has the kinks I'm into, love all the breeding here

[Bwccummer]

I am thinking with covid and way some act on apps and websites that a wonder anyone meets at all.

I gotten tired of some right away ask for pictures. They don't even try to have a conversation.  I am more inclined to share a few pictures if chat a bit , where learn age, what looking for, etc. 

If just want pictures at least be clear in what looking for. For example if just want cock picture then say so. Very annoying of one that thought was more interested, when as soon as got picture wanted left and gone from messages. Then I think of how can use my picture to pretend to be me, for I don't know if one has size insecurities and want to meet someone under misleading pictures. I think be obvious if one misleads in say in 8 inches when maybe under 6 inches. Or I guess one use a sex toy of same size,  but I think one know difference between real and silicon. I don't get with some, can't they go look at porn. Or is the mentality of only be with guys 9, or just 10 inches long or longer. Oh and let's not forget some like girth. Never mind if  one is packing a peanut butter jar size girth that be a challenge to bottom or suck.

I starting to think the whole thing is as if one go to a grocery store of produce section, see a cucumber,  banana,  etc. and think this size is nice, but then see a larger size, then one larger. The point is I think some are missing what could have now if say one is 6 inches and can host now.  Instead wait for 7 inches,  no wait 8 inches and so on. Then not get any meetings, even try to return to some chatted with earlier and likely no longer interested. 

While I get some lose messages, I do find extra annoying one asking for pictures for third time from same person. I can see first or second time but third or more time asking for pictures,  I am not likely to be inclined to for just figure a picture collector. 

I am no longer going to just share pictures,  unless have a conversation. Otherwise figure just wasting time. 

I have just a couple of pictures.  I don't want to be picture mobbed where seem one send to me half a dozen to what can seem a dozen pictures or more.  Then if share pictures think just a couple.  Anymore, and feel should meet in person if want to see more. Lol.

Maybe some meeting apps should be renamed amateur for many requests for photos.

I am thinking maybe when COVID-19 more vaccines given that go to adult bookstore where people not wanting endless pictures, with exception of watch films.

[bareall77]

I haven't been on BBRT in so long I have to create a new profile. Which sucks cuz I had lots of contacts.

Been out of the hookup scene for a bit...I needed a mental tuneup. However, now I'm back in. Not sure what the best is right now.

Any suggestions?

[ErosWired]

@rawTOP - As you are developing your hookup sites, a feature that might possibly be helpful might be the ability for a user to set his account preferences so that he can limit the geographic area in which he can receive contacts from others. For instance, a person might want to receive contacts only from other men within a 25-mile radius - that way, it would cut down sharply on the time-wasting contacts by pic hunters from 150 miles away, or anyone else who simply isn’t within a practical distance to actually hookup. It would also eliminate these annoying hits from profiles that show as being 5,000 miles away. A hookup site should facilitate actually hooking up; if it’s generating contacts for which hookups are impractical or impossible, then it’s doing something else.

Just a thought, as I delete my third message this evening on A4A from the other side of the planet.

[Guest jaysinnx]

bbrt was always reliable to me but call me old fashion nothing beats cruising the bookstore 

[Bwccummer]

One profile should have put just wanted to cuddle. I am remembering one profile had oral, and they bottom. When meet, thought was to do. Turns out basically just wanted to watch guitar and funny videos. Oh and was not interested in oral or anything else. Last saw had same information of to me is misleading. I just see as one time visit, and not meet again for their listing is misleading. 

Another seemed to get cheap thrills in share location of a run down apartment building that think was  up to 6 or so floors, to make one go up at least 3 flights of stairs.  This is in addition to a half hour or so walk. To meet outside on deck, to just close the door. I would not ever return to location if know same person there. If learn a different individual at location on a different level would see on a case by case basis. They could have just said not interested. 

When too many do similar, that becomes easier to just mow the lawn,  read a book, etc. For if not serious and just wasting time, that see will be revealed.  

Seems to not matter if hosting, that someone will play games in say on the way or lead on, when not interested. The opposite is true if one hosts but limited times such as early mornings  or have a half hour with little notice. While maybe only take 5 minutes,  don't like idea of feeling rushed. I could have meet one but when said couldn't host, figure ok. However,  later sound had a bathroom could play in. Problem was they shared that information too late when was leaving area. Thus not meet. If one can't enjoy then what is the point where can feel like a quick microwave. To address now, can see 2, 3 hours or more could be too long, unless can release multiple loads in the time. 

I tried different apps and websites and seems many of same individuals on multiple apps and websites. Seems can have much similarly and little differences. Some can seem to have a little more likelihood of actually meeting than others. Others times can see using all the apps with little success, I guess can vary at times and situations in success in meet or not. 

[Guest]

I don't think it's necessarily the app but can you host. Seems that 95% of the people can't or can't right now (which means can't) 

Grindr and BBRT work well for me. I can usually get a load or two every day. Especially early morns on their way to work or on their commute home. 

 

 

[Guest]

I've more or less abandoned apps and websites. It's become way too hard to hookup on them. I'm sure part of it is because I'm not a 20-something twink anymore, but I've just found it way easier to go to the bathhouse when I want to take some loads. 

[BB4fking]

I use Grindr and BBRTS. Grindr is good for its being near universal but suffers from many flakes. BBRTS has a useful bareback premise but suffers from a lack of usual notification facility. I have tried a couple of other apps over the years but gave up as Grindr worked better for my locality. In anticipation of a planned trip to Thailand I installed blued which I understand is big there. Trip cancelled by Covid so now uninstalled.

actually twitter is the hookup tool that interests me a lot at the moment. One of the most interesting aspect is that it is not designed as a dating app but can be slyly coopted for this slightly illicit use. 

[Guest]

I find double list a good format.

[Bwccummer]

I find confusing of how one contacted me in want to have fun in the afternoon. However, seems to play games in when share can host, I would think travel quickly, especially when seemed close by. Instead seemed to give excuses and later share want to have fun at night.  My question is if not willing to meet in the daytime, then why not at least be more upfront in want fun at midnight or whatever time. I also had tried to give time in thinking, ok maybe not today able to meet, but maybe soon.

Now I am thinking if not willing to meet, that most likely to not meet.

Because they played games, that was no longer able to host. I ended up giving them a deadline, then blocked individual when not make any effort to actually meet. I realize they're could just open another account or use a buddy's account.

 

Basically almost no longer care. I find  a large percentage of up to 90% or higher cover just want pictures, those that seems to get rocks off in lead one on, those not interested in meeting but pretend to meet. 

The last part that shows some that seems to lack manners, in ask for say a face picture and then if not like that just ignore or block. Couldn't one at least say not interested. When some act that way, at least save the time for too shallow in meet or are serious. One irony is some ask for face pictures not share any themselves.  Thus I have to wonder if they personally have self image issues or sadly unnecessary want to try to put others down.

I get some are into certain body sizes, shapes,  looks, etc. ,but seems should try to be polite if not interested. To me should not be that hard to share no thanks if not interested. Thus one can maybe find one that is wanting to meet.

Life is too short for games if looking to meet.

Otherwise if play games,  can seem one can clean room, watch a movie, play a video game,read a book for some just seem to waste others time in just casually check app and website. 

I tried one website but I guess one not check regularly so personally can't see as a good website to meet up.

[Bwccummer]

In using grindr app the other day ran into what thought was a woman. I do find a bit interesting of women can use app. A reason I guess is maybe they transitioned or appeal to those that are bi. Well, I don't run into often but what I thought was a individual, turned out to be one of those verify programs. The verify not seem real and have to wonder if just a way to misuse personal information. Felt wasted time in after think on the way, drop verify program. I realize then basically just a bit, fake or instead of seem 10 miles away,  my guess is 10,000 or more miles away as real location. I then blocked, just wished had verify earlier so not feel time wasted. 

I blocked for my experience with verify is not real. It is possible person is real but is many more actual miles away.

Afterwards had one that looked to host nearby,  however  learned location not that close.  I at one point not sure of where address was at. If not look up, would have thought one street,  when in a different area. They also not communicate well. For example,  said to give time to douche. I did, later wonder why not there, they didn't say was done or ready, so figure still getting ready. Instead later they messaged that figure I wasn't interested.  I wrote, thought still getting ready. I would have had to walk to location,  and saw while could do, that would have just meet in a location and then go to there location. They didn't ask if I could have hosted. On that day, I could have hosted. However,  they just seemed to want to host only.. Bottom line is not meet.