When are you too old for this lifestyle?

[Guest BushPig]

I'll be blunt and to the point.  I'm in my mid fifties and I have been experiencing more and more age discrimination while chasing potential hookups.  I'm not ugly, so I'm told, I'm a little chubby but I'm fit.  I've been rejected more often than not by the younger crowd and I'm starting to feel its time to "retire" so to speak.

Any of you older fuckers, be you top or bottom, have any suggestions or am I just going to have to act my age and start chasing in my own age bracket?  Hang out at the retirement home maybe?

If I'm relegated to the "Gray Fox" age bracket so be it but I still like breeding the young stuff every once in a while.

I'm open to suggestions?

[Guest Upstateguy518]

I'm a young guy and I still deal with rejection a lot so it's not all about age but I do find that most younger guys tend to stay under 35 when hooking up. Not many are into the Daddy kind of crowd but that just means more for me

[einathens]

I love older men so much I became one. 

It's useless to fight your maturity, so embrace it. 

Just today, a 22yo hit me up to ask if I'd be his tutor in kink. He can't learn what he needs from guys his own age. 

Be patient. They'll catch up to you eventually. 

You're too old for this when you're dead.

[NLbear]

I'm a bottom and as I get older I thought it would become more and more difficult for me. More so for a bottom than a top (enough younger guys who love an experienced top Daddy?) I know that 10 years ago I thought my sex life would be over 10 years down the road. It isn't to my own surprise. Sure, not as often as in the past but still more than enough to keep me satisfied. Even some younger guys who want my Daddy ass or who want me to suck them off although most are >35. Sure, plenty of younger guys who contact me and then don't show up (maybe they get off on leading on an older guy drooling over their young dick?) but I had some repeats with guys in their 20s, some even a bit younger (18+). Don't 'retire'. Depends on where you live of course. But I had plenty of dick last weekend (oral and anal) from guys in their 20s, 30s and 40s. That doesn't happen every weekend but then again I don't feel like cleaning out every single day as I did when I was younger ;-). Certainly as a top you have plenty of fun years ahead of you.

[Guest Dickmagnet]

I can only speak personally, To me age is totally irrelevant i really could not care less about a guys age. To me what is important is attitude. I'm not impressed by age abs or inches a good attitude counts for a lot more in my book. A guy can be 60 & hot with an open out going attitude as well as a 20 something. What i can't stand is small narrow minded guys who have a shopping list they can never aquire. When they're looking for mr adonis but look like shit themselves really guys who are like this minded i avoid at all cost. Then i think please don't fuck me go fuck the mirror because it's the only fuck you're ever going to get. I know from experience the picky guys always go home alone. So get you head out of that space & think positive when a guy is rejecting you for age it's his loss. Move on !!!

[bihairy]

15 hours ago, BushPig said:

I'll be blunt and to the point.  I'm in my mid fifties and I have been experiencing more and more age discrimination while chasing potential hookups.  I'm not ugly, so I'm told, I'm a little chubby but I'm fit.  I've been rejected more often than not by the younger crowd and I'm starting to feel its time to "retire" so to speak.

Any of you older fuckers, be you top or bottom, have any suggestions or am I just going to have to act my age and start chasing in my own age bracket?  Hang out at the retirement home maybe?

If I'm relegated to the "Gray Fox" age bracket so be it but I still like breeding the young stuff every once in a while.

I'm open to suggestions?

I'm in my late 50's and find myself fucking and breeding more guys in their 40's and 50's. Still having lots of fun. I'm also into younger and do find some guys into "daddy" type. I'll gladly breed and seed them too. Currently have a 26 yo I see occasionally. Don't get discouraged keep putting yourself out there and be more open to your sex partners and you'll be getting plenty. I do notice the younger guys tend to play more games. I have a conversation and if it leads to sex great, if not I move on. By the way, some of the best sex I have had recently has been when I open up and play with a bit older. I fuck a guy in his 60's who looks 10 years younger and he can take load after load and eventually wears ME out!! My dick doesn't know the difference except the older guy sure knows how to get me off!

[tallslenderguy]

I think there's some great feed back here. 

"Too old"  can have a lot of different connotations.  Does it refer to looks? Functionality?  Mental/emotional disposition?  I think it can be all or some of those things. Then there is your perspective, and everyone else.  If you are convinced you are too old, it's going to be reflected in your disposition.  I see a lot of guys who give up (or never worked on) their looks.  We have a lot of power over our fitness, hygiene and grooming, no matter how old we get. 

When I was younger, looks mattered to me in a different way. I still notice how a guy looks and attraction is a factor for me in some respects, but a lot less respects than it used to be.  I wouldn't want to marry Santa Claus, but i've sucked him off and been bred by him on more occasions than I can count.  I never would have done that when I was younger, and i missed out because of it.  I think age has it's advantages if it comes with maturity.  I don't breed very often, very sub bottom, but sometimes being sub involves breeding a bottom in need. I've bred some guys through a gh that turned out to be easily in their 70's but still had a sweet hole and were nice fucks. 

 

[Guest BushPig]

16 hours ago, einathens said:

I love older men so much I became one. 

It's useless to fight your maturity, so embrace it. 

Just today, a 22yo hit me up to ask if I'd be his tutor in kink. He can't learn what he needs from guys his own age. 

Be patient. They'll catch up to you eventually. 

You're too old for this when you're dead.

LOL Agreed 100%, and thanks for the feedback.

[Guest BushPig]

23 hours ago, Upstateguy518 said:

I'm a young guy and I still deal with rejection a lot so it's not all about age but I do find that most younger guys tend to stay under 35 when hooking up. Not many are into the Daddy kind of crowd but that just means more for me

I can appreciate the younger age bracket staying within their age, given a choice, but don't forget us older, horny and more experienced on occasion!  Thanks for the feedback.

[Guest BushPig]

14 hours ago, NLbear said:

I'm a bottom and as I get older I thought it would become more and more difficult for me. More so for a bottom than a top (enough younger guys who love an experienced top Daddy?) I know that 10 years ago I thought my sex life would be over 10 years down the road. It isn't to my own surprise. Sure, not as often as in the past but still more than enough to keep me satisfied. Even some younger guys who want my Daddy ass or who want me to suck them off although most are >35. Sure, plenty of younger guys who contact me and then don't show up (maybe they get off on leading on an older guy drooling over their young dick?) but I had some repeats with guys in their 20s, some even a bit younger (18+). Don't 'retire'. Depends on where you live of course. But I had plenty of dick last weekend (oral and anal) from guys in their 20s, 30s and 40s. That doesn't happen every weekend but then again I don't feel like cleaning out every single day as I did when I was younger ;-). Certainly as a top you have plenty of fun years ahead of you.

Maybe 'retire' was a poor choice of words, I'll stop when I'm dead as someone else has said   I also agree with your suggestion about location.  This area I live in is way too uptight and very "dry".  Very few safe places to meet and hook up.  Thanks for the feedback.

[Guest BushPig]

13 hours ago, Dickmagnet said:

I can only speak personally, To me age is totally irrelevant i really could not care less about a guys age. To me what is important is attitude. I'm not impressed by age abs or inches a good attitude counts for a lot more in my book. A guy can be 60 & hot with an open out going attitude as well as a 20 something. What i can't stand is small narrow minded guys who have a shopping list they can never aquire. When they're looking for mr adonis but look like shit themselves really guys who are like this minded i avoid at all cost. Then i think please don't fuck me go fuck the mirror because it's the only fuck you're ever going to get. I know from experience the picky guys always go home alone. So get you head out of that space & think positive when a guy is rejecting you for age it's his loss. Move on !!!

I am a happy, fun guy with a terrific sense of humour - hang on, this is sounding like a dating site entry - seriously though, I'm not picky and age for me has never been a deciding factor for anything.  You're 100% right on about attitude however, maybe I do need the attitude adjustment?  I've always prided myself about being a great communicator so maybe I should just ask the next time it happens.  Hope I'm prepared for the truth though, could be painful.  Thanks for the feedback and reality check! 

[Guest BushPig]

3 hours ago, tallslenderguy said:

I think there's some great feed back here. 

"Too old"  can have a lot of different connotations.  Does it refer to looks? Functionality?  Mental/emotional disposition?  I think it can be all or some of those things. Then there is your perspective, and everyone else.  If you are convinced you are too old, it's going to be reflected in your disposition.  I see a lot of guys who give up (or never worked on) their looks.  We have a lot of power over our fitness, hygiene and grooming, no matter how old we get. 

When I was younger, looks mattered to me in a different way. I still notice how a guy looks and attraction is a factor for me in some respects, but a lot less respects than it used to be.  I wouldn't want to marry Santa Claus, but i've sucked him off and been bred by him on more occasions than I can count.  I never would have done that when I was younger, and i missed out because of it.  I think age has it's advantages if it comes with maturity.  I don't breed very often, very sub bottom, but sometimes being sub involves breeding a bottom in need. I've bred some guys through a gh that turned out to be easily in their 70's but still had a sweet hole and were nice fucks. 

 

Absolutely excellent feedback!  You're spot on with the "Too old" mindset, I thought I was past my midlife crisis stage but maybe this is just a manifestation of that and I'm over thinking it.  I admit to maybe being hung up on looks to some degree but I take care of myself, not perfect by any stretch of the imagination, and I would expect the same from anyone I'm going to let fuck me or suck me.  Thanks for your point of view on this.

[Guest BushPig]

9 hours ago, bihairy said:

I'm in my late 50's and find myself fucking and breeding more guys in their 40's and 50's. Still having lots of fun. I'm also into younger and do find some guys into "daddy" type. I'll gladly breed and seed them too. Currently have a 26 yo I see occasionally. Don't get discouraged keep putting yourself out there and be more open to your sex partners and you'll be getting plenty. I do notice the younger guys tend to play more games. I have a conversation and if it leads to sex great, if not I move on. By the way, some of the best sex I have had recently has been when I open up and play with a bit older. I fuck a guy in his 60's who looks 10 years younger and he can take load after load and eventually wears ME out!! My dick doesn't know the difference except the older guy sure knows how to get me off!

That might be part of the problem too, I'm not really not that into the "Daddy" thing.  I'm just there to hookup and have some mutually agreeable fun.  The younger crowd tend to be more dramatic and like you said, play more head games than the older crowd but that's just my experience so far and not written in stone.  We are older and more experienced and we do know what gets us off, therefore we are better at getting our partners off.  Something the somewhat selfish younger crowd aren't that concerned about.  Hmm, more good points to ponder.  Thanks for the feedback.

[BREEDmeRAW]

Generally, you are Only TOO OLD if you are unwilling to hunt & chase for it. Top or bottom -- but if you lay there like a dead fish don't expect too much action.   

Personally, I will Top until my cock can no longer maintain a hard-on. Thanks to viagra that may never happen. I will fuck a hungry hole bareback when a bottom wants my load.

Bottom, I will be taking loads up my ass until my last breathe.  If a guy is fucking me and I stop breathing or die -- the fuck should continue until the guy blows his load. 

Ideally there should be CUM in my ass when I die. I am not really into the fantasy of fucking a dead body. However, I plan to be cremated and ashes spread among the beaches & Ocean. So no evidence if CUM is in my ass.

Two weeks After I die is when I will be too old for this lifestyle 

[Bicycledude]

16 hours ago, einathens said:

I love older men so much I became one. 

It's useless to fight your maturity, so embrace it. 

Just today, a 22yo hit me up to ask if I'd be his tutor in kink. He can't learn what he needs from guys his own age. 

Be patient. They'll catch up to you eventually. 

You're too old for this when you're dead.

The last line about says it all. 77 here and still horny as hell. Nice thing about older hookups is that they know what to do. ?