what or who makes you start having raw bb sex?

[ffabbian]

It never crossed my mind to use condoms and I was to young to buy them.   

[rawdiklover]

My first time was with a guy when I was in undergrad that I met on a gay website that no longer exists. We messaged with each other then we decided I would come over to spend the night at his house. When I came over, he started getting me horny and bent me over the couch in the living room. I was getting my ass ate then next thing I know I’m taking all 10” raw. Since that day, I’ve never used a condom. It’s all bareback sex now, and with my creampie fetish, it’s no reason for me to ask for them. Even when I top, I’ve never been asked to use one, and I’d probably not use one at this point anyway. I was afraid to bareback for a long time because of getting pozzed, but that craving for raw dick was too much. I don’t have that fear anymore tho so bring on everyone. 

Edited June 27 by rawdiklover

[thomsengermany]

I always used to have Safer Sex with my fuck buddy. One day, when i was fixed in his sling, he penetrated me without asking bare. Although he know that he might be pozz, he came inside me. He was really enjoying this sex- and so die i. Now, years later he is really pozz. 

[ncbareback]

No deciding it here - I've always fucked raw. I chased it in the baths in my 20s when I was this cute twink who let anybody breed him. As soon as I got what I wanted, I went a lot more vers.

[descartes70817]

My friend Mark started it after inviting me to sleep over after we'd been to a Rolling Stones cover band in the Students' Union and I missed the last bus home. He told me his bedroom was on the top floor of a detached garage in his parents' back garden, so we didn't have to worry about waking anyone up.

His bedroom was en-suite and decorated like only a child of hippies could, with a king size bed and his own music system, so we sat on his bed chilling out to 60s/70s music until I said I needed to sleep and my friend Mark said he was going to sleep too after he used the bathroom. He was gone for longer than I expected but when he came to bed he said he always slept naked and invited me to do so too, so I took my briefs off and threw them on the chair with the rest of my clothes.

Anyhow naked me fell asleep for I don't know how long before I woke up with that feeling you get just before you cum, only to open my eyes to Mark with my cock in his mouth while I was too close to cumming to stop him. It felt so good that I just let him finish, which he did like a pro - swallowing every drop of my cum as I unloaded in his mouth. After he finished he said that I had a boner and rolled on my back, and he couldn't resist the temptation to suck it.

Afterwards he asked me to spoon him until we fell asleep, except that with my naked chest against his naked back meant my dick was between his ass cheeks and before long he started rubbing my dick with his ass, making it rock hard again. He suggested that I could rub my dick between his legs if I wanted so it wouldn't be gay that way.

Anyway I pushed my now precum covered dick between his legs and he reached between his legs to push my dick against his balls, so I was happily humping away when he guided my thrusts directly into his boi hole and I was in heaven. I sort of convinced myself that if I didn't move I wasn't being gay (yeah, stupid, I know) and let Mark ride my dick until I shot my load in his raw hole and I couldn't pretend I didn't like it any more.

Mark told me he wanted me to keep my dick inside him as he fell asleep in my arms, so it wasn't surprising that I kept waking up with my dick hard and buried in his ass while matching his thrusts with my own until I came again - seven times in all that night

 

[transferal]

I have a much longer story but I had a hot bodybuilder boyfriend with a gorgeous big dick and PA who made it very clear he wanted me raw. He was willing to pull out once we ditched the condom but my dirty talk and grip on his cock gave him only one way to go with it: deeper in to breed.

This was before U=U though we suspected it.

I have a cum fetish and love playing with cum so he'd pin me down and sleep in me to prevent anything other than absorption. 

He was really hot and I was so proud my real boy pussy was his favourite thing in the world to be inside. 

I'm autistic and have ADHD and probably am hypersexual though I usually do pretty well with it. But I do need sex, particularly as a bottom, and I need to swallow or absorb the cum for full effect to keep my neurochemistry right and prevent things like depression, ADHD spikes, using masturbation as a stim, etc. I found it's actually very important for my mental health (and my physical health by proxy) that I bareback and get bred on a regular basis.

 

[Rawonly06]

My sexual life began in the 70th so everybody was playing raw. Then AIDS came, i began to use condoms but quickly i left them because it was not as raw sex.

[RawFreak]

I lost my virginity to a man and he fucked me with a condom. I didn't like the sex. It wasn't until I got fucked raw, I got into it. I never saw the men nutt cause they breeded me. Everytime i get fucked with a condom it doesnt feel natural to me. I LOVE RAW DICK AND RAW ASS. If I give you my ass to fuck, fuck me raw and nutt in it. I

[UKNegBoi]

I can tell you what started me realising I only really wanted to be with poz men. The first man I was ever with was a bit older than me and one day he got serious and asked me how I would feel if I found out I was talking to a positive man. Would I love him just the same, or would it be an obstacle?

I told him it wouldn't. Tbh I thought he was going to tell me he was poz. Anyway, he said I was disgusting and he could never be with someone like me and ditched me. I realised the only way to avoid an anti-poz bigot was to prefer poz men, and that I owed them complete and total acceptance.

If I was with a poz man, I'd never ask him to use a condom as though I didn't want him to touch me. My need to please him would never be less if he was detectable. It seems cruel to say "I want you, but only while you're undetectable". So to me none of the dialogue around detectabilty and infectiousness matters because either I'm his or I'm not. I think a neg guy who doesn't want to be with a poz man, or only on certain conditions, isn't really worthy of him

[LeatherGayBB]

I was lucky enough that the 2nd man, who ever fucked me wanted it to be raw. I obliged as I felt save with him and just wanted to feel him deeply without a barrier. We had a real intimate connection and to this day meet up sometimes for the occasional fuck session. We never discussed status or health, we knew it wouldn't matter to us. His bare cock has liberated me and raw is law now.

[Willing]

When you see that dick, you know you need it.😵

[NYBBGUY58]

Since I'm older (67), I started with bareback sex as the norm. For a long time, I was largely compliant with condom-only, though there were those impulsive moments. As one of my first infectious disease specialists commented, it is unrealistic to expect 100% compliance with condom usage given the strength of the sex drive. It was in the 2010s that a guy I hooked up with (having disclosed my HIV undetectable status) asked as he was about to enter me if I "wanted the load." My response was "This is an option?" If he was okay with it, I felt it would be fine. Shortly thereafter, PeP and PreP became "a thing," and I haven't looked back though I always disclose right up front if there's any question of sexual contact. I had some unpleasant experiences even when only the safest of safe sex was on the menu. So for better or for worse, I filter prospects with an outright announcement of my HIV status. If someone doesn't want to be with me at all given that, then I'd rather know ASAP. Right now I have a few reliable FWBs (met online) who are fine with the whole thing. Occasionally, I'll try someone "new," but it rarely works out well.

[onlyraw]

7 hours ago, NYBBGUY58 said:

As one of my first infectious disease specialists commented, it is unrealistic to expect 100% compliance with condom usage given the strength of the sex drive. 

In the early 2000’s I did PR for an HIV/AIDS organization… and when I was giving tours I would compare safe sex (100% condom use) to being on a really strict diet … the difference being if you fell off your diet and had a “piece of cake”, the next morning you just went back on your diet… but with “safe sex” you only need that one “piece of cake” and you could get pozzed. 
 

and, as @NYBBGUY58’s Dr mentioned… it was totally unrealistic for to expect every guy would use condoms 100% of the time

now that we have U=U and PrEP …. I think it is reasonable to think the guys can follow that… so now we can all enjoy hot raw sex … the way guys are ment to fuck 

[verbalBTTM]

I was a strict condom guy until I was in a committed relationship and we both were tested. In theory it was a solid plan, if my BF didn't cheat on me. So the condoms went back on for a few years until I met my Dom, after that I've only used them for toys in boys I wasn't sure cleaned themselves out properly.

 

How @onlyraw likened condom use to dieting, that is the most understated statement I've read in a long time. If only I could go back in time and say that to a few friends. Maybe it would of sunken in 

[NYBBGUY58]

12 hours ago, onlyraw said:

and, as @NYBBGUY58’s Dr mentioned… it was totally unrealistic for to expect every guy would use condoms 100% of the time

I should clarify that my then-doctor's point was that a vaccine was necessary. That has proved to be elusive, but PreP and better medications have been effective. I agree that bare sex just feels better, even for me as mostly bottom. The thrill of taking the load is unmatched - for reasons. 😁