What the act of bottoming represents

[Anonversecuck]

While many bottoms love the feel of a cock deep inside of them, some bottoms do not necessarily enjoy it, but still endure the uncomfortable feeling of being fucked because they want to serve top men. 

 

When I watch man on man or think about bottoming, I can't help but think what being fucked represents is far hotter than the act of being fucked itself. 

 

Let me explain. There's nothing more personal you can give to another man than to allow him to penetrate you bare and take his seed. This is as good as it gets. It's submissive by nature. For that moment in time, I'm truly a bitch that only cares about pleasing the top. Instead of my normal hetero macho self, I'm actually being a submissive bitch to another man and the thought of it drives me insane. 

 

Anyone else feel the same? 

[ChainedBoy]

5 minutes ago, Anonversecuck said:

....There's nothing more personal you can give to another man than to allow him to penetrate you bare and take his seed... It's submissive by nature. For that moment in time, I'm truly a bitch that only cares about pleasing the top.... I'm actually being a submissive bitch to another man and the thought of it drives me insane.

I call this phemomenon you described  "sub-space"; a state of mind where I subsume all my desires in place of the Fucker using me. 

Sadly, my experience has been that many Fuckers don't know how to deal with it.  There is far too much desire by Tops for egalitarianism that ruins the fuck for me. 

When I encounter those men, I cant get to "sub-space" and have to settle for plain old recrational fornication. Still enjoyable, but not as satisfying.

[Guest]

For myself I don't physically enjoy the act of bottoming it is also more about submitting myself to another guy.

Unfortunately I have never gotten to experience as it is mostly in my fantasies at the moment as I have only bottomed for one guy and attempted with another.

Neither guy was really into what I have fantasies of. The first guy was more interested in trying to give me pleasure and the second guy was also kind of the same mindset.

 

[Anonversecuck]

1 hour ago, ChainedBoy said:

I call this phemomenon you described  "sub-space"; a state of mind where I subsume all my desires in place of the Fucker using me. 

Sadly, my experience has been that many Fuckers don't know how to deal with it.  There is far too much desire by Tops for egalitarianism that ruins the fuck for me. 

When I encounter those men, I cant get to "sub-space" and have to settle for plain old recrational fornication. Still enjoyable, but not as satisfying.

I hear ya. Don't have a lot of experience as a bottom but my one top understands. He shows up, I swallow his cock for a bit then I turn around and bend over and he uses me as he pleases until he dumps his load and then he takes off. The way I enjoy it. 

[Anonversecuck]

58 minutes ago, bivergent said:

For myself I don't physically enjoy the act of bottoming it is also more about submitting myself to another guy.

Unfortunately I have never gotten to experience as it is mostly in my fantasies at the moment as I have only bottomed for one guy and attempted with another.

Neither guy was really into what I have fantasies of. The first guy was more interested in trying to give me pleasure and the second guy was also kind of the same mindset.

 

Fantasies are fine. I know when beating it to some video I think of being the submissive bottom. Most of it is in our mind anyways. 

[flashcard]

Like others, allowing a man to penetrate me is the ultimate giving up of my masculine power and giving it to the top so that we can be joined. Very spiritual for me. 

[ErosWired]

I don’t know any better way to describe it than to say bottoming fulfills a sense of purpose in me like nothing else does.

It isn’t that I lie around thinking about how bad I need a cock in me - it’s not that way at all. It’s the thrill of being able to give another man something that he enjoys sooo much that he loses himself in it.

I love being the vessel into which they pour their unguarded masculinity - masculinity magnified by the fact that their maleness is dominating mine. I love giving men the feeling of strength, power, confidence and control they get from penetrating me and fucking me for their pleasure.

It drives me crazy at night sometimes thinking that there are men out there somewhere, maybe not even far from me, who would give anything to have another guy who would let them fuck him, but instead will masturbate to porn tonight - any of those men could have had me for the asking, because that’s what I’m for.

Were it possible, I would love to be slutting myself out every day. I don’t mind if men think of me as a slut or a whore. Nature apparently gave me a gift - a highly fuckable ass - and of those to whom much is given, much is expected.

I honestly feel and believe that a part of my purpose in life is to accept the cock of any man who wishes to fuck me. It’s not some dumb fantasy - I actually live it, to the best of my ability, and would do much more if I could get into the right circumstances.

The best possible arrangement would be to find one of that special sort of Top who takes personal delight in whoring out another man. I would very happily let him have me on a regular basis, and I know what that really entails. I can take cocks, and have done so, for hours.

Because to me, the act of bottoming represents service, and duty, and purpose, and I give it my all.

[PhoenixGeoff]

7 hours ago, flashcard said:

Like others, allowing a man to penetrate me is the ultimate giving up of my masculine power and giving it to the top so that we can be joined. Very spiritual for me. 

Personally, I don't see it that way.  Both roles are highly masculine to me.  I love a manly man who looks me in the eye and spreads his legs and takes my cock deep.  I would never fuck a pussy.

I don't think you are a real man unless and until you got the balls to take another guy's dick.

[gaynudist61]

beinBeing a bottom means letting a  guy penetrate my ass and fuck me untill he cums.  I feel I've fullfilled my purpose as a bottom when this happens.   Being penetrated makes me feel like a real man.

[mike18fan]

i enjoy bottoming the most when i think the top is using my hole for his own pleasure - not mine. i really don't get a lot of physical pleasure out of the act itself, it's more of an emotional feeling of submission.  The best is being with a top who leaves the door to my room open so other guys get to watch him fuck me. He commands me to bend over and spread my cheeks for him. He lets me know he is in charge.  After a few minutes of fucking I hear him moan real loud which tells me he is fertilizing my butt with his seed.  He pulls out, puts his towel back on, and leaves my room. I don't feel like a real man after this happens. I feel like less than a real man when I leave my room and go to the communal showers where the men who watched me get fucked know that my butt is flooded with another man's live sperm. They wait for me to clean up and go back to my room, open my door, and lay back down ass up and ready.

[Cumfilledbottomboi]

I’m a submissive bottom. I’ve never topped and, to this point, have had no true desire to ever top. My cock doesn’t matter during sex. My sexual organs are my ass and mouth. I love to serve other men. It’s my sexual purpose in life.

[Pozlover1]

With me it’s not the dick (although one or two have hit the G spot) it’s the cum. Taking or giving  the sharing of DNA is a very personal thing even with quick anon loads. Add to that the total acceptance of HIV or the possibility, and there is no more complete act of sharing.

[Guest TWINKFAGGOTPUSSY]

Being a faggot whore and a mindless cum receptacle for any and all cocks & loads. Not knowing the word "No" when it cums to a cock going up your ass.

[analluv27]

For me it's an act of supplication giving oneself over not only to the act but to another person and bonding with the person especially is the case with barebacking.

[hornycumslut91]

On 10/1/2018 at 4:38 PM, Anonversecuck said:

While many bottoms love the feel of a cock deep inside of them, some bottoms do not necessarily enjoy it, but still endure the uncomfortable feeling of being fucked because they want to serve top men. 

 

When I watch man on man or think about bottoming, I can't help but think what being fucked represents is far hotter than the act of being fucked itself. 

 

Let me explain. There's nothing more personal you can give to another man than to allow him to penetrate you bare and take his seed. This is as good as it gets. It's submissive by nature. For that moment in time, I'm truly a bitch that only cares about pleasing the top. Instead of my normal hetero macho self, I'm actually being a submissive bitch to another man and the thought of it drives me insane. 

 

Anyone else feel the same? 

That's exactly why I want to take dick. It takes the power away from me, and forces me to be submissive, to accept what is happening to me and let it happen. It's a beautiful way for a budding fucktoy to accept himself and his nature